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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone? |
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over a year ago
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Very few of the.... "worth every second, let's do that again!"
Majority of the "so so, not bad may see again, may not"
Thankfully only two of the "that was awful, one off only!"
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
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"Very few of the.... "worth every second, let's do that again!"
Majority of the "so so, not bad may see again, may not"
Thankfully only two of the "that was awful, one off only!"
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did you wear those boots to most meets?x |
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"
All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol!   |
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?
All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol! "
can i try and help you gt a number 1 x |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?
All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol! "
Sounds like a delicious challenge |
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?
All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol!
Sounds like a delicious challenge "
Haha, that wasn't my intention, honestly!  |
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I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB
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And that is why I love fab!  |
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"I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB
And that is why I love fab! "
Yes! And he makes up for the headfuck meets that are hot/cold/hot/cold....  ! |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"For me, I’ve mostly had very positive experiences. Many have led to repeat meets, some have just been very nice one offs. "
Let's both start a "men satisfied with fab club!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single woman on here majority of my meets were just one offs, one guy I met twice and then I met Cute, he does it again and again and again, and it just gets better and better
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I’ve been pretty lucky I think and mostly had good or great meets. My one really disastrous one was only social with a couple, when it seemed like she just didn’t even want to be there and didn’t say a word for an hour.
Most of my meets have been up in Scotland, and despite the distance I keep in touch with most of them to a greater or lesser degree. One of them has become a really great pal, although annoyingly she is also the furthest away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years I've had a variety of different types of meet but once in a while you get a fantastic meet that reminds you of why your on Fab.
Every meet is different but those ones that leave you with a big smile on your face for days after make it all worth while.  |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Most of my meets have been up in Scotland, and despite the distance I keep in touch with most of them to a greater or lesser degree. One of them has become a really great pal, although annoyingly she is also the furthest away."
I've been fortunate as most of my meets have also resulted in great fab friendships that I still keep in touch with regularly despite my current self imposed exile in the channel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"
One or two #1 *blissfull sigh*
Some partly #1 - as in the “worth every second” bit ... totally fabulous fun at the time
Not had a #3 as in awful ... but have thought definitely just a one off ... probably when something really rude involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.
I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories. "
Ahh yes .... realising you’ve been thinking and smirking when someone says oh eye what are you thinking about ... delicious secrets |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.
I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories. "
Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x |
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"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.
I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.
Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x"
Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.
I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.
Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x
Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile."
Weekend meets with people you've really clicked with are amazing and for me are the pinnacle of an ideal fab meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.
Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x
Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile.
Weekend meets with people you've really clicked with are amazing and for me are the pinnacle of an ideal fab meet "
All of this! |
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#1 with an occasional #2
I don't do 'instant meets' always chat a while & have a social first.
I'd already know if there was chemistry, it wouldn't go any further than a social if something didn't click in my head. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"#1 with an occasional #2
I don't do 'instant meets' always chat a while & have a social first.
I'd already know if there was chemistry, it wouldn't go any further than a social if something didn't click in my head."
Precisely the way it should be |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I think i have been very lucky as the majority of my meets have been #1 with the odd #2 ..
Also i have never met anyone that didnt want a further meet "
If you take time chatting to someone and building up a good rapport / chemistry over some time and you both seem to be in the same wavelength I think its difficult to get any result different to #1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"
Most of our meets are the first example. A few are the second example. When swinging alone many years ago i had a couple of meets that were the last example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally have a completely different option of that was a fantastic one off. To me that's largely what swinging is about. I get bored easily and you can have too much of a good thing in this game. I'm not looking to develop a life partner maybe that's why meeting again is less favourable with many. It takes a certain person to cope with multiple meets without reading too much into it. Those are my meet agains. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"
Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?
Most of our meets are the first example. A few are the second example. When swinging alone many years ago i had a couple of meets that were the last example. "
Actually re thinking it most of our meets are the 1st example but we generally dont mind if we meet again or if they are one offs that have been great. |
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