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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers.  my face most of the weekend. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I would love to go for a drink with someone there and then.. if they were relaxed and fun, I would give them my number.
It would make my day if someone flirted with Me, complimented me and whisked me off for a quick glass of diet  |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I find it easier walking up to a random woman in the street or a coffee shop than I do on Fab
It's much easier to gauge their reactions in person than in a one dimensional message
Had quite a few knock backs but never a bad reaction
Try it you'll be surprised |
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? "
Nope. I'm not sure how I'd feel if someone just randomly approached me in the street. No-one ever has,although there was that guy in Wilkinsons once thinking about it. |
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This is what used to happen in my youth. A guy would approach you at the bus stop, in the street on a train. There is a very fine line between complimentary and creepy though. As long as you remember that most women are wearing summer clothes because they like them and they keep them cool rather than for the benefit of men you'll be fine.
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? "
in the olden days it was always women that made the first move. People used to do their courting by going for walks to parks and such. If a lady was interested in a guy she would drop her hankerchief when he walked by and he would pick it up for her.
My grandma waited for my grandad and one day pretended her bike had broke as he went by |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? in the olden days it was always women that made the first move. People used to do their courting by going for walks to parks and such. If a lady was interested in a guy she would drop her hankerchief when he walked by and he would pick it up for her.
My grandma waited for my grandad and one day pretended her bike had broke as he went by"
So not faf then |
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? in the olden days it was always women that made the first move. People used to do their courting by going for walks to parks and such. If a lady was interested in a guy she would drop her hankerchief when he walked by and he would pick it up for her.
My grandma waited for my grandad and one day pretended her bike had broke as he went by"
I've mentioned this before buty father's only romantic advice to me was to go swimming near an attractive life guard and pretend to get into difficulty. He passed this infallible advice to our daughter too |
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? in the olden days it was always women that made the first move. People used to do their courting by going for walks to parks and such. If a lady was interested in a guy she would drop her hankerchief when he walked by and he would pick it up for her.
My grandma waited for my grandad and one day pretended her bike had broke as he went by
I've mentioned this before buty father's only romantic advice to me was to go swimming near an attractive life guard and pretend to get into difficulty. He passed this infallible advice to our daughter too "
and did you marry a lifeguard |
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"Would the ladies ever do this to a guy? in the olden days it was always women that made the first move. People used to do their courting by going for walks to parks and such. If a lady was interested in a guy she would drop her hankerchief when he walked by and he would pick it up for her.
My grandma waited for my grandad and one day pretended her bike had broke as he went by
I've mentioned this before buty father's only romantic advice to me was to go swimming near an attractive life guard and pretend to get into difficulty. He passed this infallible advice to our daughter too and did you marry a lifeguard "
No. |
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"Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers. my face most of the weekend. "
Happened to me in Sainsbury’s two summers ago. He was very complimentary and gentlemanly so stupidly I gave contact details. Took me on a date with an horrendous ending then proceeded to hound me by phone every day. I blocked him and so he used a different phone withholding his number....very freaky! He still now and again leaves a voicemail saying ‘I’m still around’. Be careful guys of ‘nice men in the street’!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers. my face most of the weekend.
Happened to me in Sainsbury’s two summers ago. He was very complimentary and gentlemanly so stupidly I gave contact details. Took me on a date with an horrendous ending then proceeded to hound me by phone every day. I blocked him and so he used a different phone withholding his number....very freaky! He still now and again leaves a voicemail saying ‘I’m still around’. Be careful guys of ‘nice men in the street’!!!!!"
Sorry, you gave him your number and you meet him and then he still wanted to contact you, definitely scary! Care in the community has got a lot to answer for. |
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"Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers. my face most of the weekend.
Happened to me in Sainsbury’s two summers ago. He was very complimentary and gentlemanly so stupidly I gave contact details. Took me on a date with an horrendous ending then proceeded to hound me by phone every day. I blocked him and so he used a different phone withholding his number....very freaky! He still now and again leaves a voicemail saying ‘I’m still around’. Be careful guys of ‘nice men in the street’!!!!!
Sorry, you gave him your number and you meet him and then he still wanted to contact you, definitely scary! Care in the community has got a lot to answer for."
I don't get what you're saying she said it had an horrendous ending to the date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got stared at last Thursday by a younger male parent at my daughter's school fair. He saw that I had seen him and continued to stare. It creeped me out on that occasion. I didn't have any cleavage on display or anything. |
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"Im sure most of the younger generation would have no idea how to interact without the internet. Its nice to see a young lad taking the initiative"
Do you think so? I see the younger generation interacting every day. I don't know what percentage of romantic hook ups are arranged on line though. That might be where things are different |
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"Im sure most of the younger generation would have no idea how to interact without the internet. Its nice to see a young lad taking the initiative
Do you think so? I see the younger generation interacting every day. I don't know what percentage of romantic hook ups are arranged on line though. That might be where things are different "
i see them interacting everyday but "looking for a date wise" i think far to many really on the things such as dating apps. But then i think it could be said of a lot of people regardless of their age |
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"Im sure most of the younger generation would have no idea how to interact without the internet. Its nice to see a young lad taking the initiative
Do you think so? I see the younger generation interacting every day. I don't know what percentage of romantic hook ups are arranged on line though. That might be where things are different i see them interacting everyday but "looking for a date wise" i think far to many really on the things such as dating apps. But then i think it could be said of a lot of people regardless of their age"
Oh right. I understand. I agree I think the whole meeting with a view to dating has moved away from face to face. |
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"Im sure most of the younger generation would have no idea how to interact without the internet. Its nice to see a young lad taking the initiative
Do you think so? I see the younger generation interacting every day. I don't know what percentage of romantic hook ups are arranged on line though. That might be where things are different i see them interacting everyday but "looking for a date wise" i think far to many really on the things such as dating apps. But then i think it could be said of a lot of people regardless of their age
Oh right. I understand. I agree I think the whole meeting with a view to dating has moved away from face to face. "
think im just old fashioned in my views i think people should be out in the real world doing it. I think about when my grandson grows up and the world will be a different place to that i know |
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"Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers. my face most of the weekend.
Happened to me in Sainsbury’s two summers ago. He was very complimentary and gentlemanly so stupidly I gave contact details. Took me on a date with an horrendous ending then proceeded to hound me by phone every day. I blocked him and so he used a different phone withholding his number....very freaky! He still now and again leaves a voicemail saying ‘I’m still around’. Be careful guys of ‘nice men in the street’!!!!!
Sorry, you gave him your number and you meet him and then he still wanted to contact you, definitely scary! Care in the community has got a lot to answer for.
I don't get what you're saying she said it had an horrendous ending to the date."
Thank you honey.
The end of the date was, for me, horrendous and very embarrassing and awkward. If you want I’ll private message you about it. I had afterwards told him not to keep contacting me and he wasn’t for me but he persisted and ignored my request. Very freaky indeed. I’m wary of unknown men who strike up conversation in supermarkets now  |
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"Hey, with the hot weather obviously some incredible body's are on show.
Which got me thunking, and this is a question mainly for the women but how would it make you feel if a guy approached the in the street, complimented you and asked either for your phone number or to go for a drink?
Being British i don't know if it's acsepted, creepy or just pointless.
I know each woman will have different feelings in it but I'm going for a majority.
Let me know cheers. my face most of the weekend. "
If it was you I’d be happy  |
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