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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here  "
Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope |
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "
Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different 
But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain |
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here
Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different
But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain "
have had to do that sometimes as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind.. |
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here
Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different
But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain
have had to do that sometimes as well "
actually having just read what i put that doesnt make sense , what I meant was when I see a thread that goes that way I step away  |
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"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind.. "
That could be part of it, but also some people arnt good at expressing themselves over a keyboard, some things that might have been said in jest or banter may not come acroos like it was meant x |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"I need advice 
that thread is next door 
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down "
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems? |
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here
Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different
But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain
have had to do that sometimes as well
actually having just read what i put that doesnt make sense , what I meant was when I see a thread that goes that way I step away "
lol i actually understood what you meant  |
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"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems? "
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do "
why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met? |
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"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do
why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met? "
Cos you keep going to Sharm lol |
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"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do
why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met? "
well play your cards right and you never know what will happen |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do
why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met?
Cos you keep going to Sharm lol"
Thats not advice thats an observation! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I need advice
that thread is next door
I tried it but I didn't like it
did you try the one further on down
look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?
ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do
why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met?
well play your cards right and you never know what will happen "
snap, bragg or poker? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
because some didn't really want advice/help, they wanted:
POSTER:
female.... 'oh honey, it's their loss to have missed a hottie like you' from 100 sycophants
male... a sympathy shag from anyone who feels their pain.
others genuinely do and often get great advice and then totally ignore
just another day in the forums... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can work the other way though. I've seen threads where the OP has asked advice on a profile and people have answered saying, take that bit out, change the profile pic, and when the OP hasn't, they've re-posted saying why haven't you done what I've said. And I do agree its how the advice is delivered at times, which can be quite rude.
Its great to ask advice but its not obligatory to abide by the advice given.
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"It can work the other way though. I've seen threads where the OP has asked advice on a profile and people have answered saying, take that bit out, change the profile pic, and when the OP hasn't, they've re-posted saying why haven't you done what I've said. And I do agree its how the advice is delivered at times, which can be quite rude.
Its great to ask advice but its not obligatory to abide by the advice given.
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I do agree that people's profils should be there own, about them and what is right for them. Not what others think it should contain. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"bending over as we speak..... I have a bad back mind so go easy on me.
ok will be gentle (evil laugh) "
...... you don't have to take a run up!!!!!!! *gulp* |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind.. "
well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...
some people only want to hear what they want to hear..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "
You make me look sane xx |
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here
You make me look sane xx "
oi you where's me voddy |
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"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind..
well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...
some people only want to hear what they want to hear....."
and then some people don't half rant at what they do hear/read |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind..
well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...
some people only want to hear what they want to hear....."
yes i get where you coming from,however you also find that some believe their advise is the be all and end all,and when the op begs to differ and have their own opinion,they then throw their dummies from the pram ....so am guessing its swings and roundabouts really.. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"I need advice
that thread is next door
is this the right room for an argument?"
no, it's the I'm not going to give you the advice you want room - the argument room might be somewhere else but we can't give you any advice on where |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of people ask advice about their personal circumstances so that they will have people confirm that what they are doing is the right thing....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here
Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.
I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "
nah its like when you go in the chat room and guys ask you to look at their cam and ask if you like them
if you say no they spit their dummy out
dont ask if you dont want the truth |
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