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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested"
then she should report and block...  |
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"People do get reported but can easly make another account.. plus i have heard of people getting reported but there accounts not gone.. Is this cos there a paying member"
No it isn't. I'll post the way admin deal with reports in my next post |
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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.****** |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
Somebody doing a decent thread yay
And in our favour
Been on here five years had alot of abuse and yes before any comments I do report and block but it still makes me feel like crap and hits my anxiety and often leads me to feeling crap about myself and not wanting to give others a chance on here for fear of more abuse..it's just how humans are programmed
But yes agreed don't know why rather than be rude people don't just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested"
Gotta love a white knight  |
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"Agreed ! This is y we dnt reply to pms ... "
Same. Bit I don't think we can win. If i reply no thanks ( i sually say sorry not meeting anyone new at the moment) i get abuse and if i dont reply I get abuse. I'm afraid as in real life we are going to come up against ignorant people. X |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
If i get a reply saying sorry not meeting or not my type. I generally say no worries thank you for getting back to me and I hope you have a lovely week.. Manners and respect don't cost anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i get a reply saying sorry not meeting or not my type. I generally say no worries thank you for getting back to me and I hope you have a lovely week.. Manners and respect don't cost anything"
Manners and respect work both ways.
I've had mostly nice replies from men when I've said no thanks. They aren't all horrible. |
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"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested"
You tell 'em! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i get a reply saying sorry not meeting or not my type. I generally say no worries thank you for getting back to me and I hope you have a lovely week.. Manners and respect don't cost anything"
Yawn...it costs me even less to not bother replying at all  |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"Thanks .. are you a admin
No, a forum mod.
What's a forum mod
A forum moderator. We try to make sure the rules don't get broken. "
Ohh are you the one that's banned me before  is lovely too meet you . I'm actually a decent bloke just a bit of a moody brat |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"If i get a reply saying sorry not meeting or not my type. I generally say no worries thank you for getting back to me and I hope you have a lovely week.. Manners and respect don't cost anything
Yawn...it costs me even less to not bother replying at all "
Good for you .. enjoy ya weekend |
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"Thanks .. are you a admin
No, a forum mod.
What's a forum mod
A forum moderator. We try to make sure the rules don't get broken.
Ohh are you the one that's banned me before is lovely too meet you . I'm actually a decent bloke just a bit of a moody brat"
It's nice to meet you too but it's not a good idea to discuss bans. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i get a reply saying sorry not meeting or not my type. I generally say no worries thank you for getting back to me and I hope you have a lovely week.. Manners and respect don't cost anything
Yawn...it costs me even less to not bother replying at all
Good for you .. enjoy ya weekend "
I will. Thanks. It's great not having pointless chats and having no abuse |
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I think the abuse thing is luck of the draw. I've had a lot, especially when my profile was "not meeting due to injury". Some were abusive right from the word go, others when I said "sorry, I'm in hospital", more when I hid my profile, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So it definitely does sound like luck of the draw . So strange how some people do and others don't "
I don't think it's luck of the draw. It is down to how you present yourself and your profile. Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had fewer than five abusive messages in all our time on here. We find single men to be very pleasant on the whole."
Some (most) are lovely,some (a very few), less so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed ! This is y we dnt reply to pms ...
Same. Bit I don't think we can win. If i reply no thanks ( i sually say sorry not meeting anyone new at the moment) i get abuse and if i dont reply I get abuse. I'm afraid as in real life we are going to come up against ignorant people. X"
It's not just women who get this though and in our experience it's not always a male only account tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldnt be here if i got the amount of abuse some say they get"
Its why we killed our last account...had a instant block list when we rejoined this time though |
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"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested"
Ah, well, I’m sure they’ll all stop now, eh. |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested
Ah, well, I’m sure they’ll all stop now, eh."
Thanks for your comments have a lovely weekend |
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"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested"
How dare you!! I'm not human. I'm from the planet Zarquon IV. |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"Yes we are on a sex site but we are all human at the end of the day. We should all respect others and be kind and caring. Saying this because I'm fed up with so called men being rude and aggressive. Just because a lady has said no or that they are not interested
How dare you!! I'm not human. I'm from the planet Zarquon IV."
And you just made me spit my drink all over the dog |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it definitely does sound like luck of the draw . So strange how some people do and others don't
I don't think it's luck of the draw. It is down to how you present yourself and your profile. Simple. "
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