So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss. |
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss. "
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A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’"
That's epic. I'm going to start saying that. I want to attract narcissistic idiots! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I only tend to read them once I've met someone if they've asked me to leave them one so mine blends in tonally - or if I haven't met them and I'm not interested but just fancy being nosey. I don't want to read veris before I choose to meet someone since it might colour my perception of them and I would rather make up my own mind. I know that people reading mine wouldn't learn anything a couple of conversations and some face pics wouldn't already tell them so I assume the same holds true in reverse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like the "you make my girlfriend look like shit" guys. So not appealing 
I look at veris but unless they are really graphic it doesn't really affect if/how I speak to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes veris often put me off.
If someone was slagging off people I'd met trying to make themselves sound better, that would really piss me off and I wouldn't meet them. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I don't read them. I like to form my own opinion of people
I don't honestly see what all the fuss is about them. They all say the same thing in one way or another and you will rarely see a bad one
Actually I did have one published only profile from an arse of a woman who said I was the rudest man she had ever met. Some on here would see that as a compliment.
I got up and left her at the table because she savaged a poor waiter for topping up her wine glass without asking. I gave him £20 and said ignor her she's a tit |
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"I don't read them. I like to form my own opinion of people
I don't honestly see what all the fuss is about them. They all say the same thing in one way or another and you will rarely see a bad one
Actually I did have one published only profile from an arse of a woman who said I was the rudest man she had ever met. Some on here would see that as a compliment.
I got up and left her at the table because she savaged a poor waiter for topping up her wine glass without asking. I gave him £20 and said ignor her she's a tit"
 She sounds lovely. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't let who someone has met before sway me either way - if I've engaged with someone enough to want to meet them then that's the key.
The only thing that may sway me would be if most of the veris (both left and received) were mostly of an overly graphic and/or possessive nature but then I'd usually have decided about that before getting too involved in conversation with them  |
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss. "
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss.
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
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Yes. |
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss.
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
Yes."
I'm a tad worried that things I'm saying are making sense.... |
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over a year ago
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss. "
dunno,,but yer profile pic ,avatar is fabulous love it,,proper good piccie |
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Befoe I meet anyone I read their profile check the veris and take a nosey at who they have previously played with.
I'm a nosey bugger I also like to see what that person has written in return.
I suppose I want as much info as I can before deciding on a chat and a social. |
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Funnily enough had recently displayed a status because fab has shown me I'm more judgemental than I thought. have been attracted to guys and yes their veris have put me off. I would happily meet them for a social but to bump pelvis with them? Unlikely. Sometimes ignorance is bliss  |
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss.
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
Yes."
Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley? |
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss.
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley?"
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"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.
A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’
This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.
My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?
Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?
Discuss.
Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.
I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".
The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.
On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.
If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.
Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley?"
Because they have a comment to input.
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"Funnily enough had recently displayed a status because fab has shown me I'm more judgemental than I thought. have been attracted to guys and yes their veris have put me off. I would happily meet them for a social but to bump pelvis with them? Unlikely. Sometimes ignorance is bliss "
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