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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Usually when people bemoan their "luck" on here OP it's down to something they themselves can fix - could be anything from having unrealistic expectations of the site and not accepting/realising that as a single guy you're in the vast majority and need to make yourself stand out from the crowd, to a very generic and unappealing profile and pics, to approaching things the wrong way or simply not making an effort with messages or getting along to clubs and socials or even using the forums more.
Now I'm not saying any of those apply to you necessarily but it may provide some pointers as to things in your control that you can change  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."
Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos are OK, some you look moody as fuck in. They're pretty much all clothed so not much idea what your bod looks like.
Write up is short and pretty dull, with nothing that makes you stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it "
Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it
Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food? "
A man has to eat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."
They can't have verified you or you'd still have the green tick? The verification goes but the fact you were verified would still show.
Like Gemini man said the site is what you make it, you need more than luck around here especially as a single guy. A big part of swinging is the social side so getting yourself known is important, use the forums and chat and join in. Socials and clubs will get you out and about meeting people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.
Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search "
What thread title should men search for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it
Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food? "
thats the one |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."
The verification text disappears but the green tick and the fact you've been verified still appears in your verification summary - as neither appear in your profile I'm presuming they didn't verify you before leaving? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.
Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search
What thread title should men search for?"
Good question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bin the status. We wouldn’t give anyone with that a second chance.
Don’t talk about being shy. Sell yourself.
Spell check. You’re East going ?
None of these are silver bullets. But given the number of guys on here you really don’t want to give anyone a reason for saying pass. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.
Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search
What thread title should men search for?"
Well just typing ‘no luck’ produced 35 threads much the same as this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bin the status. We wouldn’t give anyone with that a second chance.
Don’t talk about being shy. Sell yourself.
Spell check. You’re East going ?
None of these are silver bullets. But given the number of guys on here you really don’t want to give anyone a reason for saying pass. "
He needs cock pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.
Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search
What thread title should men search for?
Well just typing ‘no luck’ produced 35 threads much the same as this "
Meh you're better at searching than I am.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You asked the same thing months ago and got some great advice - did you consider taking any of it onboard?
You mentioned that you were thinking of going to Chams - did you manage that?
These snippets of sense still stand.
Go out. Meet people (clubs and organised group socials). Talking in the real world is way easier than in the virtual one.
The world, as they say is yours to grab should you choose to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Negativity begets negativity....
It's a self fulfilling circle.
Most who post here will tell you what they repeat daily on multiple similar threads.
There in no magic formula. You can only be you. If you want things to change then start with changing you. |
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