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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry to ask what is probably a well troden path but I get lots of READ messages and then nothing. I get the read and delete, im not the right type thats cool. But read and then nothing ???? Please
Can someone explain. If it’s a not interested that fine just say. Sorry it’s really frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes saying 'not interested' opens one up to a volley of abuse by return, so saying nothing is sometimes the better option. "
I never delete my messages, doesn’t mean it’s ‘open ended’ or giving ‘mixed signals’ (I’ve bad both of these said to me), it just means I’m lazy. If someone’s interested in ya, they’ll reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah ok. Just didn’t know what the best thing was to do. "
The best thing you can do is to delete the contents of your sent messages box and ignore it. If you get a reply, it's a nice surprise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes saying 'not interested' opens one up to a volley of abuse by return, so saying nothing is sometimes the better option.
I never delete my messages, doesn’t mean it’s ‘open ended’ or giving ‘mixed signals’ (I’ve bad both of these said to me), it just means I’m lazy. If someone’s interested in ya, they’ll reply "
Oi lazy bugger, message me now..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s a shame there are idiots that ruin things I’ve genuinely been waiting for reply’s but now I know people are worried they will get abuse if they say no I’m so gutted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes saying 'not interested' opens one up to a volley of abuse by return, so saying nothing is sometimes the better option.
I never delete my messages, doesn’t mean it’s ‘open ended’ or giving ‘mixed signals’ (I’ve bad both of these said to me), it just means I’m lazy. If someone’s interested in ya, they’ll reply
Oi lazy bugger, message me now.. "
No thank you  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"It’s a shame there are idiots that ruin things I’ve genuinely been waiting for reply’s but now I know people are worried they will get abuse if they say no I’m so gutted. "
The reason some folk don't reply isnt always they're worried about abuse.. it can be loads of different reasons ..
Concentrate on your inbox your outbox might as well be the deleted items folder you find in other applications |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers for the response.. Because this site is aimed at couples and single ladies it’s just soul destroying.. I get I’m not a good looking guy bit I’m not the elephant man. This site would make me think I am but is so addictive and I’ve met a very special person so all good. |
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