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over a year ago
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with a bit of luck, yes
cos they nearly always show up, are infinately more grateful and they are more likely to keep their gobs shut
ok, so i don't believe that, but i felt like a bit of devilment for a monday afternoon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all why presume there are lots of reasons people don't accommodate. Kids, house share, still live with parents financial reasons or maybe just don't like strangers in there space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some are married some have flat mates some live at home .
I imagine most live at home........"
they all live at home..that's what where you live is called |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some are married some have flat mates some live at home .
I imagine most live at home........
they all live at home..that's what where you live is called"
Wherever I lay my head is home.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all why presume there are lots of reasons people don't accommodate. Kids, house share, still live with parents financial reasons or maybe just don't like strangers in there space."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im not banging anyone while my dads in the living room playing xbox, or having a 3some.And invites for him to join ...instant block thanks.
in fact...how do we know Ur married OP...and the female half isnt just hired out for nites?,pics of family and pets just downloaded of the internet and photoshopped.
On arrival i demand to see all ur relevant paperwork. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some may be married, some may be house sharing, some might be living with parents / family member.
And some might just not want strangers they've met off in the internet in their home.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not banging anyone while my dads in the living room playing xbox, or having a 3some.And invites for him to join ...instant block thanks.
in fact...how do we know Ur married OP...and the female half isnt just hired out for nites?,pics of family and pets just downloaded of the internet and photoshopped.
On arrival i demand to see all ur relevant paperwork."
Oi paddy stop banging on me cell wall I'm tryin ta sleep xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?"
No. For a first NSA Meet, I suspect that most single guys would suggest a mutually acceptable location (even if its just a discreet motel). I always do. And, if its a mutual "click", and Meets are going to be regular, thereafter, only then would accommodating become an option by mutual agreement. Surely?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not banging anyone while my dads in the living room playing xbox, or having a 3some.And invites for him to join ...instant block thanks.
in fact...how do we know Ur married OP...and the female half isnt just hired out for nites?,pics of family and pets just downloaded of the internet and photoshopped.
On arrival i demand to see all ur relevant paperwork.
Oi paddy stop banging on me cell wall I'm tryin ta sleep xx "
I thot u liked ur intro-cellular banging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some are married some have flat mates some live at home .
I imagine most live at home........ with mum and dad , lol"
dont laugh i met a guy who did
met him at a pub and went back to his place, just as we got to the house he said, i just thought id mention i still live with my mum and dad do you want to meet them
before i had chance to say anything we was in the house me being introduced to his parents
funny thing was he'd not asked me my name before hand so stood there in front of them and said....mum, dad this is....ermm what is your name lol
i could have died, wouldnt have minded so much but he was a good 15 years younger tha me i bet they thought, who the hells that old women with my lad lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or maybe they just dont want women they have met knowing where they live and stalking them 
Yeah naughty when is ya asbo up ? Xx "
tomorrow, have you moved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some are married some have flat mates some live at home .
I imagine most live at home........ with mum and dad , lol
dont laugh i met a guy who did
met him at a pub and went back to his place, just as we got to the house he said, i just thought id mention i still live with my mum and dad do you want to meet them
before i had chance to say anything we was in the house me being introduced to his parents
funny thing was he'd not asked me my name before hand so stood there in front of them and said....mum, dad this is....ermm what is your name lol
i could have died, wouldnt have minded so much but he was a good 15 years younger tha me i bet they thought, who the hells that old women with my lad lol"
oooooooooooooooooo my xxx i bet dad was there thinking go on my Son , lol mum there thinking i really do need to chat to him about the birds and Bees , lolol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or maybe they just dont want women they have met knowing where they live and stalking them
Yeah naughty when is ya asbo up ? Xx
tomorrow, have you moved? "
Xx
(yeah want me new adress ? Lol xx ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now why are you asking this on a forum when your profile already tells us you know the answer
"Also no married men playing away....and its easy to see who you are!"
Is this self doubt or just feeling like being prejudiced against the community of married blokes on here! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?"
People can't accomadate for different reasons like house sharing, kids, living with parents, nosey neighbours etc.
Yes some may be married but unfair to assume that is always the case. |
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we stopped meetin guys that cant accom as we found few that said they lived with mum dad gran friends where talkin shit, so we choose not to meet any that dont there will be a lot of singles but our choice, better out on ur own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont mind if guys dont accommodate, and the reason why is their business not mine
the only thing that does piss me off is guys who choose not to accommodate but then moan at me because i not let them here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or maybe they just dont want women they have met knowing where they live and stalking them
Yeah naughty when is ya asbo up ? Xx
tomorrow, have you moved? bldy ell the lazy one has moved? can't have moved much soap bubbles look the same
Xx
(yeah want me new adress ? Lol xx )"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we stopped meetin guys that cant accom as we found few that said they lived with mum dad gran friends where talkin shit, so we choose not to meet any that dont there will be a lot of singles but our choice, better out on ur own "
will send u my facebook, so u can see my father and i lol...dont want anyone assuming its my older gay partner lol |
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In this current financial climate it would be wrong to assume that all males who can't accommodate are married or living with a partner....they could just as easily be house sharing or back living with relatives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?
poppycock
glad u spelled poppy correctly"
i was gonan do floppycock but decided i would get groans  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's almost defend the indefensible commenting as a married man who cannot accommodate. Just ask the question. If you're interested and he's not married then bingo. If he's lying you'll soon have your suspicions. If he is married move on if that's your choice. There are many questions asked before people meet, make the marriage one of them. |
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"In this current financial climate it would be wrong to assume that all males who can't accommodate are married or living with a partner....they could just as easily be house sharing or back living with relatives."
really why??? surely we can assume what we like as a matter of choice, if we dont want to take a chance then it is right for us, others can excuse and cover what they want so not to see the truth that is their choice, and every1 is in the same finacial state lots make it on their own and yes loads of guys still life at home or share, but i will not meet them just in case thats right for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every time I see a thread like this I always think the same thing , how many people think the same thing when they see cant accommodate on either a single fems or couples profile . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My situation is a litte complex. My flatmate does not mind me bringing women back, but objects to couples.
What category does that put me into?"
Can accommodate on occasions? You can then elaborate when you are asked  |
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"we stopped meetin guys that cant accom as we found few that said they lived with mum dad gran friends where talkin shit, so we choose not to meet any that dont there will be a lot of singles but our choice, better out on ur own
will send u my facebook, so u can see my father and i lol...dont want anyone assuming its my older gay partner lol"
ah no we'll pass on that 1 and take ur word lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we stopped meetin guys that cant accom as we found few that said they lived with mum dad gran friends where talkin shit, so we choose not to meet any that dont there will be a lot of singles but our choice, better out on ur own
will send u my facebook, so u can see my father and i lol...dont want anyone assuming its my older gay partner lolah no we'll pass on that 1 and take ur word lol"
phewwww...so ur still up for getting glasgagangbanged then lol xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?
No!!
Are single women who dont accom always married?"
this one isnt
ok technically i am but only because my divorce hasnt come thro yet
Am i ok to still meet under my circumstances? dont want to be upsetting anyone because the guy im still married to but left me for another woman dont know im swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont mind if guys dont accommodate, and the reason why is their business not mine
the only thing that does piss me off is guys who choose not to accommodate but then moan at me because i not let them here "
That's why I don't meet men that can't accommodate, no matter what their reason is as they often want to take up residence in your house.
I don't do hotels, clubs or dogging sites, state it on my profile but some honestly think I'll invite them to my home.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont mind if guys dont accommodate, and the reason why is their business not mine
the only thing that does piss me off is guys who choose not to accommodate but then moan at me because i not let them here
That's why I don't meet men that can't accommodate, no matter what their reason is as they often want to take up residence in your house.
I don't do hotels, clubs or dogging sites, state it on my profile but some honestly think I'll invite them to my home.
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u have a profile???- im yet to wank at ur pics FFS! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?"
There's many reasons why some people don't accomodate and they're not always negative.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont mind if guys dont accommodate, and the reason why is their business not mine
the only thing that does piss me off is guys who choose not to accommodate but then moan at me because i not let them here
That's why I don't meet men that can't accommodate, no matter what their reason is as they often want to take up residence in your house.
I don't do hotels, clubs or dogging sites, state it on my profile but some honestly think I'll invite them to my home.
u have a profile???- im yet to wank at ur pics FFS!"
You are too much! |
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By *U1966Man
over a year ago
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I am single but dont accomodate for many reasons the main one my daughter lives here from friday till sunday but also i share steps down to my house with my next door neighbour who is friend of ex as i kept the house after divorce and dont to do anything to jepardise me seeing my daughter
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?
No
Copycat! "
lol I did write a big long sentance out then thought bugger it, will go with the least I can write |
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" I think I need to invest in a motorhome!
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Get a tent instead, cheaper! "
I thought of you the other night pearl,
I was watching carry on camping.
I say, can I have some milk, last time I came here the young lady gave me a bit!
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am single but can't accomadate think it is a sterotype that has been built on the site to be fair. I have met single men that for whatever reason do not have a place of their own or have young kids at home...yes just like women some men are single parents.
So usually best to just ask.....or if you feel they can't be trusted don't meet up with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what you are basically saying, is that it's couples that cheat?
So the most untrustworthy people on fab are not single males but couples, do you see the irony? Do you?
Single male, of Devon
P xxxx |
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"or maybe they just dont want women they have met knowing where they live and stalking them
Yeah naughty when is ya asbo up ? Xx
tomorrow, have you moved? "
Stalk away!......... pleeeeaaaaassssseeee or am I being too easy? |
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?"
My profile says I'm a single male and that I don't accommodate... so by your logic that automatically means that I'm married, right?
Oh, hang on... technically speaking - I am still married. Bugger. You got me. Well done. 10 Internet Points to you.
Mrs Carambar, however, doesn't live here any more but Carambar Jr does every other week.
I choose not to accommodate for various reasons, but having a wife slaving away in the kitchen whilst I'm out living it up ain't one of them.
You're more than welcome to pop round for a cuppa if you want to check whether I've got a wife hidden away in the cupboard under the stairs. But it will only be a cuppa tea, nothing else, mmmkay.
Maybe I should post some pictures of the insides of my cupboards and fridge - that way you could be sure that there's not secretly a woman living here by the amount of beer and chocolate biscuits I own - and lack of any. female hygiene products or Marigolds.
I was gonna suggest I take a photo of my bathroom with the toilet seat up and skid marks in the toilet to show that there's no wifey in my house but then I remembered I've got a cleaner so my house is actually tidy and clean so that wouldn't work very well.
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?
My profile says I'm a single male and that I don't accommodate... so by your logic that automatically means that I'm married, right?
Oh, hang on... technically speaking - I am still married. Bugger. You got me. Well done. 10 Internet Points to you.
Mrs Carambar, however, doesn't live here any more but Carambar Jr does every other week.
I choose not to accommodate for various reasons, but having a wife slaving away in the kitchen whilst I'm out living it up ain't one of them.
You're more than welcome to pop round for a cuppa if you want to check whether I've got a wife hidden away in the cupboard under the stairs. But it will only be a cuppa tea, nothing else, mmmkay.
Maybe I should post some pictures of the insides of my cupboards and fridge - that way you could be sure that there's not secretly a woman living here by the amount of beer and chocolate biscuits I own - and lack of any. female hygiene products or Marigolds.
I was gonna suggest I take a photo of my bathroom with the toilet seat up and skid marks in the toilet to show that there's no wifey in my house but then I remembered I've got a cleaner so my house is actually tidy and clean so that wouldn't work very well.
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You have a cleaner??  |
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"You have a cleaner?? "
Oh yes... I hate cleaning. And tidying, but she doesn't tidy up... she just cleans.
But I hate paying for a cleaner who can't clean cause it's untidy more than I hate tidying up, so this forces me to keep my place tidy so she can clean.
See, it makes perfect sense when you look at it like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some are married some have flat mates some live at home .
I imagine most live at home........ with mum and dad , lol
dont laugh i met a guy who did
met him at a pub and went back to his place, just as we got to the house he said, i just thought id mention i still live with my mum and dad do you want to meet them
before i had chance to say anything we was in the house me being introduced to his parents
funny thing was he'd not asked me my name before hand so stood there in front of them and said....mum, dad this is....ermm what is your name lol
i could have died, wouldnt have minded so much but he was a good 15 years younger tha me i bet they thought, who the hells that old women with my lad lol"
I been seeing a married guy who does accom with me and his inlaws turned up as I was upstairs giving him a bj! He introduced me to em as a work mate! I was just a tad embarrassed but chatted for 5 mins and mad my excuses to leave! Pmsl when I got in the car and drove away! Def on for the story books! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I am single and I def can't accom. My 'home' is a caravan at the back of a farm in Lincolnshire.
But I work away a lot and stay sometimes in other peoples flats I am working on, sometimes in rooms over pubs and very often in good weather I sleep in the back of my LWB van.
So you see, until the site allows multiple changes for each time people travel, you might as well go round with the notion that I am married.
Hey, it your cloud your head is in it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I happily accommodate, but would not do so until I got to know you.
Strangely I don't just invite people to my home without a second thought for my own safety
If someone wants to think that's because I'm hiding something then I suggest they get their head out of their ass and get over themselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I happily accommodate, but would not do so until I got to know you.
Strangely I don't just invite people to my home without a second thought for my own safety
If someone wants to think that's because I'm hiding something then I suggest they get their head out of their ass and get over themselves.
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I think few people would invite total strangers into their homes!
After one man letting slip he'd never allow anyone into his home, after stepping out of my shower, drying himself with my towels I decided never to meet anyone that didn't accommodate: don't care for whatever reason as I think what's going through their mind is "my house is sacroscant, but don't mind turning yours into a knocking shop!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I correct in assuming that 'single ' men who cannot accomadate are very probably married?"
No to assume anything in swinging is foolish. The sensible thing to do is ask but there and again they may lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sigh... people who make these assumptions are not people i would want to entertain anyway.. ok maybe a little harsh, but sometimes a straight question, why don't you accommodate is all that is needed, if the story sounds suspect or weak fine, but don't just assume. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with a bit of luck, yes
cos they nearly always show up, are infinately more grateful and they are more likely to keep their gobs shut
ok, so i don't believe that, but i felt like a bit of devilment for a monday afternoon "
haha, love that quote x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with a bit of luck, yes
cos they nearly always show up, are infinately more grateful and they are more likely to keep their gobs shut
ok, so i don't believe that, but i felt like a bit of devilment for a monday afternoon "
That made me chuckle!!
Although I have to say we wouldn't meet with a married guy, it could all go horribly wrong and then we'd have a screamer at our door and no-one needs that!
As far as the accom thing goes I wouldn't necessarily link the 2. But we would ask questions about it! |
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