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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.
Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.
Anyone else found this ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.
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 I get a feeling whether it's the man or woman mailing. Or if it's just a man.
OP yes we've found this. From couples mailing us on the couple profile they can still be incredibly rude. Single men get a bad reputation but they definitely aren't the only rude ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.
Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.
Anyone else found this ?
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yes...there are a few rude couples on here...I've blocked them from messaging now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's definitely a people thing rather than category thing. Manners cost nothing though, so I don't see the need to be rude. I've encountered lots of nice couples who will usually tell me who's messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's definitely a people thing rather than category thing. Manners cost nothing though, so I don't see the need to be rude. I've encountered lots of nice couples who will usually tell me who's messaging. "
Oh, there’s plenty of lovely couples I’ve spoke to. Just a minority that are rude I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a message reads like one from a single male then I just assume that it is, even he is supposedly a couple. "
No, I can spot single blokes pretending to be a couple a mile of. These are genuine couples. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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If a couple writes a message, it's generally from them both. By signing off individually it generally encourages singles guys (not yet encountered this from mf or f) you address that individual. Generally speaking.
As for rude, yep some people are. Some people also choose the wrong profile type 
Some people have to deal with stupid. A lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.
Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.
Anyone else found this ?
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I got a message other day, just saying ' hey' I replied back ' hey' and that's the end of the conversation ...lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Us single blokes do get some crap from couples but these couples seriously need too get their heads from out off each others arse before criticising others cause some look a right state |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I have had far more trouble with cpls and men whom are allowed to 'play alone' then from single guys.
More jealousy, more fibbing, more drama...and yes more demanding messages and expectations.
I usually give cpls a wide bearth but every now and then really have an urge for a threesome!! |
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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago
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I have found that couples have given me more hassle then single guys. More pushy more likely to respond aggressively to a no thanks and don’t seem to think my preferences matter at all. And let’s not talk about male half of well verified couples asking you to meet them in secret |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found that couples have given me more hassle then single guys. More pushy more likely to respond aggressively to a no thanks and don’t seem to think my preferences matter at all. And let’s not talk about male half of well verified couples asking you to meet them in secret "
We.must get messaged by the same.people!! |
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