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By *r_Pink OP   Man  over a year ago

london stratford

I wish there was a button on this to say I have read your email but not interested, as when I write a message you never know if its just been deleted without reading it.

I hardily ever send messages due to this fact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As long as it stops the person from replying then yes otherwise women/couples/men not interested in being sucked by other men would then get ‘why?’ constantly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What difference does it make whether your message is deleted without being read, or read and then deleted? Either way the response is pretty unambiguous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What difference does it make whether your message is deleted without being read, or read and then deleted? Either way the response is pretty unambiguous. "

The outcome may be the same but in my opinion at least if the message is read and then deleted the recipiant has thought more about deleting. Where as a straight delete is based purely on profile pic, subject line.

Thats how i look at it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What difference does it make whether your message is deleted without being read, or read and then deleted? Either way the response is pretty unambiguous.

The outcome may be the same but in my opinion at least if the message is read and then deleted the recipiant has thought more about deleting. Where as a straight delete is based purely on profile pic, subject line.

Thats how i look at it anyway "

Profile and subject line can tell you everything you need to know.

If someone obviously hasn't had the manners to read my profile and consider whether they are the type I'm looking for, then I usually don't bother to read their message.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man  over a year ago

london stratford


"What difference does it make whether your message is deleted without being read, or read and then deleted? Either way the response is pretty unambiguous.

The outcome may be the same but in my opinion at least if the message is read and then deleted the recipiant has thought more about deleting. Where as a straight delete is based purely on profile pic, subject line.

Thats how i look at it anyway

Profile and subject line can tell you everything you need to know.

If someone obviously hasn't had the manners to read my profile and consider whether they are the type I'm looking for, then I usually don't bother to read their message. "

That's the thing, I always try and write things relevant to that person/persons profile, then to see a thought out message just deleted , not knowing id they even bothered to read is frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wish I was a punk rocker with flowers in my hair

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple  over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I wish I was a punk rocker with flowers in my hair "

I wish there was a "been blocked" counter that doesn't affect the blockee's account functionality, but shows that the user is prone to being a dick.

The counter to be used for contact by them content and not a block on a whim type reason. So it would need a Veri type form to tick before sending. Maybe even sending a copy of the contact for moderation.

We've blocked for both, those that we don't like don't deserve highlighting, it just not a compatible thing. Those nasty or gross contacts that have you reaching for the block button because of their inability to be respectful, just need to highlighted for what they have done.

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By *ankie303Woman  over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

You do know if its been deleted without being read by goin on your sent messages! If its got a line thru the subject its deleted, if its still yellow with a line thru the subject then taadaa deleted unread

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I wish there was a button on this to say I have read your email but not interested, as when I write a message you never know if its just been deleted without reading it.

I hardily ever send messages due to this fact."

“Sorry Mr Pink, your profile is lousy and your cock too small - we go for REAL men”

you’d be happy to receive something like that? I’d rather not get a reply at all.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales

Why do so many people think this is all about 'taking the time to get to know somebody'?

It's a common whinge in these threads... "Why do they delete / block without taking the time to get to know me? I could be just what they're looking for."

The harsh reality is that this is all about attraction. If there's no instant attraction there's no point investigating further.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do so many people think this is all about 'taking the time to get to know somebody'?

It's a common whinge in these threads... "Why do they delete / block without taking the time to get to know me? I could be just what they're looking for."

The harsh reality is that this is all about attraction. If there's no instant attraction there's no point investigating further."

It doesn't have to be visual attraction either. So many profiles on here do nothing for me on a mental level.

If I don't feel a spark of interest from someone's profile then I won't feel like getting to know them.

No doubt that makes me sound totally up myself but hey ho.

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