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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just basically been accessed of being hung up on my ex and blocked.
So to set the record straight.
You don't just write off 7 years with someone, I have to maintain a relationship with here as she is still my business partner at the end of the day.
But could I go back if she asked, no, the trust is gone both ways.
So am I still hung up ony ex.
Simple answer NO
Do I want to go back NO
Do I want her back. NO
I was out in a position where I have had to move on and move on quickly for the sake of the business, if that makes me sound hard, TOUGH
I have invested nearly 5 years in the business to let it go tits up, again if that makes me sound hard and uncaring, TOUGH
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"Just basically been accessed of being hung up on my ex and blocked.
So to set the record straight.
You don't just write off 7 years with someone, I have to maintain a relationship with here as she is still my business partner at the end of the day.
But could I go back if she asked, no, the trust is gone both ways.
So am I still hung up ony ex.
Simple answer NO
Do I want to go back NO
Do I want her back. NO
I was out in a position where I have had to move on and move on quickly for the sake of the business, if that makes me sound hard, TOUGH
I have invested nearly 5 years in the business to let it go tits up, again if that makes me sound hard and uncaring, TOUGH
The end"
Thanks for sharing. Stay strong OP. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I seem to remember you saying she was on here. Do you mean she has blocked you if that's the case? no someone I had arranged to meet next Saturday"
Ahhh...Well maybe she feels threatened that you still have a lot of contact with your ex. She probably would of been a nightmare if that's how she's reacted already! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to remember you saying she was on here. Do you mean she has blocked you if that's the case? no someone I had arranged to meet next Saturday
Ahhh...Well maybe she feels threatened that you still have a lot of contact with your ex. She probably would of been a nightmare if that's how she's reacted already!"
Chin up OP. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Anyone with kids usually has to have contacted with their ex. It isn’t easy and can be difficult to understand.
Lots of people have to keep in touch with their ex it’s how you communicate that and handle it that makes an impact on who you are meeting. If it’s just a Fab meet why would they care? |
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"I seem to remember you saying she was on here. Do you mean she has blocked you if that's the case? no someone I had arranged to meet next Saturday"
what gave her that impression? Was you talking about your ex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request"
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum... |
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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago
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"Just basically been accessed of being hung up on my ex and blocked.
So to set the record straight.
You don't just write off 7 years with someone, I have to maintain a relationship with here as she is still my business partner at the end of the day.
But could I go back if she asked, no, the trust is gone both ways.
So am I still hung up ony ex.
Simple answer NO
Do I want to go back NO
Do I want her back. NO
I was out in a position where I have had to move on and move on quickly for the sake of the business, if that makes me sound hard, TOUGH
I have invested nearly 5 years in the business to let it go tits up, again if that makes me sound hard and uncaring, TOUGH
The end"
This belongs on Facebook  |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
"Just basically been accessed of being hung up on my ex and blocked.
So to set the record straight.
You don't just write off 7 years with someone, I have to maintain a relationship with here as she is still my business partner at the end of the day.
But could I go back if she asked, no, the trust is gone both ways.
So am I still hung up ony ex.
Simple answer NO
Do I want to go back NO
Do I want her back. NO
I was out in a position where I have had to move on and move on quickly for the sake of the business, if that makes me sound hard, TOUGH
I have invested nearly 5 years in the business to let it go tits up, again if that makes me sound hard and uncaring, TOUGH
The end"
Dude get over her, this is a swinging site, time to climb out of that black hole and stop posting about her, it must be getting in the way of getting laid.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum..."
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. "
there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having"
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn  |
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having"
Confusing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn "
excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
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oh well. Maybe you will learn to keep your private life off your status |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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I had the same thing when chatting to someone on a dating site. Been single 3yr and the ex has a new boyfriend. Yet I was told I'm to close to my ex still.... um we were together 14yrs and have 3 kids together. But like I say that was a dating site not on a swingers site. Past history shouldn't come into it on a swingers site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I've learnt on fab is that a lot of people are weird here. A lot of angry, frustrated people. At least you've found that out now and not after a meet so less time wasted.
You might find that she'll try to come back to chat to you after a while. Seems to happen a lot here.
Regarding the ex, I know it's hard because you can't change the past but now you have a choice: you can focus on what's important now. Karma is a bitch, she'll have to live with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
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Hey! We all know about the ex and your dad but the actual post was about someone blocking you because they questioned your status, so maybe next time you will think twice before putting up such a status  |
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
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does not sound like you are over her! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
does not sound like you are over her!"
oh believe I am, the person who has blocked me reads the forums, so the original post was directed at her, and not an open invitation to formulate an opinion as to whether or not I was still hung up on my previous partner. However, I will respond to direct questions, I have fuck all to hide, the forumites ask and answered.
I apologise if some of my comments were taken as offensive, and I let my anger dictate what I said instead of my usual measured thought out comments |
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"No about something always comes along to fuck up a good day, I had already posted on the forum that I couldn't believe how my ex could send me a friend request
Those statuses always come back to bite you on the bum...
This, putting a status up that was to do with a ex is not a good move.
At the end of the day your business is yours and no one elses. So don't put anything up that could be considered that way.
The person you were going to meet sounds a little highly strung if I'm honest so you may have had a lucky escape but your best bet is to keep it stum about your ex. there was no mention of my ex in the status, just what a shit day I was having
But your ex was why you put the status up... some folk never learn excuse me for being fucked off at finding out she had been back in fab for a year before we split, or the fact that she actually thought it would be ok to send me a friend request, despite the fact that we had split months before,
Oh sorry I forgot every one is perfect on fab, and the majority of people where you live know you are on here and you talk to everyone about what you get up to.
I have had some fantastic support from some people on here, over my dad's illness and I am terrified about loosing him, I didn't need that shit from my ex at the same time.
does not sound like you are over her! oh believe I am, the person who has blocked me reads the forums, so the original post was directed at her, and not an open invitation to formulate an opinion as to whether or not I was still hung up on my previous partner. However, I will respond to direct questions, I have fuck all to hide, the forumites ask and answered.
I apologise if some of my comments were taken as offensive, and I let my anger dictate what I said instead of my usual measured thought out comments"
you shouldnt use the forums to get round blocks |
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