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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?
As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design "
. Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
They have a house????
Marry them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?
They have a house????
Marry them. "
No i do, but I haven't had the time or the money to decorate it to how i like it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As long as they don't have the Television mounted above the fire place I'll let anything else slide."
I have a coal fire so that's never going to happen.
Well, I could mount the tv above the fire, but probably not for long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Style I’m not fussy about.
Cleanliness I am.
Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless!  "
*writes down, "hide Nazi shrine"*
That makes sense |
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?
As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design . Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. "
To be fair I think we would be a bit wary if someone offered to accommodate and then went on to say they didn’t have a sink .
Renovation is fine , but it may be wise to not to offer to accommodate till it’s finished .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you accommodate too? I’ve stopped meeting because often guys can’t accommodate whoever hosts had to make sure house always immaculate, provide drinks etc the guy turns up, possibly judges and sods off
I haven’t decorated recently because I want some building work done so dining room, kitchen and bathroom aren’t the way I’d like to present them to people |
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
What a wierd question... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?
As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design . Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. "
Good job she asked though if it was important. I would never have thought to ask if you had a sink or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw a beautiful picture of a lady in a foam bath, you know the pic boobs bobbing in the bubbles etc, then I noticed black mildew on her tile grouting and couldn't take my eyes off it, was even going to message her to see if she'd like me to sort it out!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went to a house and there was mould covering the kitchen wall, Soaking towels on the floor and there dog had pooed in the room.
Hasty excuses made and away we sped.  |
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"Kinell u ain't asking her to wed u. If it's clean then that's good enough. She may not like ur taste
Wo calm down, you almost overreacted there"
hahaaa I did didn't i... I shall go for a walk and calm down mr fickle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If their garden looks shit I won't go inside
Keep your lawn tidy!"
My lawn is beautifully mowed it’s the rest that looks like a Country garden from Gardener’s World that I hate. What’s wrong with a few tidy bushes? Eh!! ? |
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"Kinell u ain't asking her to wed u. If it's clean then that's good enough. She may not like ur taste
Wo calm down, you almost overreacted there"
just seen ur wet shirt pic.. put what u want on ur walls  |
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
Cleanliness is important. Bad taste in wallpaper isn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a bit fussy with areas.
Went to meet a guy in Glasgow.
Then followed him to one of the worst streets in Glasgow.
I must admit I was scared.
But yeah I do like a clean house.
Don't mind old fashioned
Xx |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
Clean and tidy is fine.
Met a fella who was having work done on his place and he had no carpets or floorboards. Had to step across the joists. He had Acro Props holding up the ceilings downstairs too... Apart from looking a bit like a building site it was mostly clean though
Nice fella, I wonder if he is still on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Style I’m not fussy about.
Cleanliness I am.
Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! "
I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Style I’m not fussy about.
Cleanliness I am.
Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless!
I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x"
*Whistles as she removes the Live Laugh and Love sign from the hallway*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Style I’m not fussy about.
Cleanliness I am.
Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless!
I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x
*Whistles as she removes the Live Laugh and Love sign from the hallway*
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LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saw a beautiful picture of a lady in a foam bath, you know the pic boobs bobbing in the bubbles etc, then I noticed black mildew on her tile grouting and couldn't take my eyes off it, was even going to message her to see if she'd like me to sort it out! "
I would have been the same it has to be clean or i cant go i look at some pics and think good god clean up before taking the pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
It all depends on the choice of decour. If they have hanging skeletons on the wall, i dont think il be staying for even a cuppa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be clean. Other people’s taste in decor I can deal with. I’m not prepared to deal with other people’s grime "
I'm not a big fan of that genre of music myself, Steve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time
Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?"
I can honestly say no sane man cares about decor when meeting for sex.....
When do men even talk about decorating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to someone’s house after chatting for a while and all was going well,it was a complete utter hellhole  wasn’t expecting it at all! Walked in walked out....sorry but no way  |
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice. "
I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time.
But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens.
- we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs
- give out our address for no shows
So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah).
Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice.
Have to agree there alway try to make sure it’s clean an tidy.
I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time.
But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens.
- we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs
- give out our address for no shows
So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah).
Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. "
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice.
I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time.
But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens.
- we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs
- give out our address for no shows
So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah).
Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. "
Damm right it is and should be treated as such.  |
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Clean and tidy is what we all expect
No kids upstairs asleep
This happened to us a while ago.....really
No damp dog smells....instant turn off
I would never invite someone to ours without giving it all the once over
Bad surroundings can certainly put people off wanting fun
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me.
Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire? 
You get little pockets of cleanliness in amongst the shite."
Good job you've got a sense of humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly meets are at mine and my house is always very clean and tidy as am I.
If I turned up at a house, no matter how much I wanted the meet to go ahead, if the house was dirty, I would leave. The decor would not affect my decision to stay; it's their home, not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the people who accommodate are the type of people that take pride in their home and wouldn’t invite folks over if it was a mess. That has been my experience."
Not mine, I have to say : / |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t care about their decorating style although if it were full of Taxidermy, photos, pictures/art i’d probably be more interested in that than anything else.
But cleanliness is important.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Has to be clean.
I went to a guys house, on the way out he had loads of different old weapons on a wall. Mainly those ball things with the spikes on and swords it freaked me out a little but it was ok because he'd toilet ducked the loos and put fluffy towels out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly meets are at mine and my house is always very clean and tidy as am I.
If I turned up at a house, no matter how much I wanted the meet to go ahead, if the house was dirty, I would leave. The decor would not affect my decision to stay; it's their home, not mine. "
can I inspect?   |
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My house is various shades of beige and light brown and oak floors. Even my cat is beige and brown, so I'm no Ann Maurice...but a clean environment is important. I met someone who lived in a hmo bedsit in a converted hotel. The occupants were mainly single men and there was only two bathrooms a floor...I asked him to drive me home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saw a beautiful picture of a lady in a foam bath, you know the pic boobs bobbing in the bubbles etc, then I noticed black mildew on her tile grouting and couldn't take my eyes off it, was even going to message her to see if she'd like me to sort it out! "
Your mirror needs a clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has to be clean.
I went to a guys house, on the way out he had loads of different old weapons on a wall. Mainly those ball things with the spikes on and swords it freaked me out a little but it was ok because he'd toilet ducked the loos and put fluffy towels out "
The weapon is called a Mace... |
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"Has to be clean.
I went to a guys house, on the way out he had loads of different old weapons on a wall. Mainly those ball things with the spikes on and swords it freaked me out a little but it was ok because he'd toilet ducked the loos and put fluffy towels out
The weapon is called a Mace..."
Ah handy to know when it's hanging out the back of your head |
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me.
Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire?
You get little pockets of cleanliness in amongst the shite.
Good job you've got a sense of humour "
I know right or else you'd be in for it! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"On the other hand, I really enjoy meeting in a nice home with tasteful decor - I am sensual in all ways and the effect their home has on every one of my senses really matters to me. "
One man I used to see had a bedroom like a really good hotel. His ensuite was substantial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the other hand, I really enjoy meeting in a nice home with tasteful decor - I am sensual in all ways and the effect their home has on every one of my senses really matters to me. "
If it's too tidy I feel scared to move, in case I mess something up.
I've met a few men who must have OCD. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got the piss taken out of me for not having much furniture. And the piss taken out of a poster in my bedroom.
It irritated me. And played on my mind.
I do occasionally have shavings on the floor from the rabbits, daughter doesn't wipe her feet and neither do they. But they aren't knee deep, I hoover nearly every day and the rabbits are kept clean. |
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