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One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? "
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile  |
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I tend to chat about likes and dislikes beforehand.
I have a friend who met a girl who beforehand had gone on and on about her bj skills and how much she loves it but didn't actually prove it even with him kinda prompting her to go down. He was devastated, he felt cheated  |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? "
Does that mean not talking about sex? (oral) 
Seriously though your question has at least been useful as some of the replies on here have certainly provided a good filter i.e. add the poster to the "not worth chatting with" list.
What happened to respecting other people's limits?
Seems there's a fair few who believe once a meet is on then anything they want is compulsory. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile "
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all. |
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over a year ago
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"See me arse, push a plant pot over and storm out slammin the door behind me.
Same... Can't imagine not sucking a cock!  "
I could quite easily imagine you suckin mine like  |
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"See me arse, push a plant pot over and storm out slammin the door behind me.
Same... Can't imagine not sucking a cock!
I could quite easily imagine you suckin mine like "
imagining is one thing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
Does that mean not talking about sex? (oral)
Seriously though your question has at least been useful as some of the replies on here have certainly provided a good filter i.e. add the poster to the "not worth chatting with" list.
What happened to respecting other people's limits?
Seems there's a fair few who believe once a meet is on then anything they want is compulsory."
That's why it's important to talk about likes/dislikes. I wouldn't meet someone who doesn't want to receive oral. Also, I would only cum via oral so that would mean no chance of me having an orgasm with them. Why would I meet that person? Their thing, not mine. Don't want to waste people's time. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all. "
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See me arse, push a plant pot over and storm out slammin the door behind me.
Same... Can't imagine not sucking a cock!
I could quite easily imagine you suckin mine like
imagining is one thing..."
I might be readin this wrong, but is that an offer? |
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I could happily not receive oral on a meet but would try and find the reasons why he wouldn't want his dick sucked, if I wasn't able to suck him off I'd still be happy sticking my tongue up his arse. If he wouldn't let me lick or stick my tongue in his bum hole then I'd leave or just drink tea with him. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?"
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off. |
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"Do everything but oral
 it's not the be all and end all ...now kissing if they don't do that ...THEN we have a problem "
Agreed. It wouldn't go any further then. It would just be a social |
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My wife is soooo fed up of men turning up saying they love to please a woman then just sticking there cock in her mouth at every opportunity.. instead of using imagination and playing and touching in other ways..soon she will say no blow jobs unless she decides... she’s getting angry.. |
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"My wife is soooo fed up of men turning up saying they love to please a woman then just sticking there cock in her mouth at every opportunity.. instead of using imagination and playing and touching in other ways..soon she will say no blow jobs unless she decides... she’s getting angry.."
Note to men. Don't stick your dick in angry women's mouths. |
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"My wife is soooo fed up of men turning up saying they love to please a woman then just sticking there cock in her mouth at every opportunity.. instead of using imagination and playing and touching in other ways..soon she will say no blow jobs unless she decides... she’s getting angry..
Note to men. Don't stick your dick in angry women's mouths. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off. "
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off.
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case "
Well they have been having sex the last month and the oral thing just doesn't happen. She asked him the other day and he said it was just talk but oral isn't for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off.
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case
Well they have been having sex the last month and the oral thing just doesn't happen. She asked him the other day and he said it was just talk but oral isn't for him."
I would feel duped as that's what he's done to get her |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off.
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case
Well they have been having sex the last month and the oral thing just doesn't happen. She asked him the other day and he said it was just talk but oral isn't for him."
Just out of curiosity, is it oral both ways he's not interested in?
In all honesty, if her main source of orgasm is through oral and he teases her with dirty chat about performing it, but doesn't actually do it, that is a little unfair. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off.
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case
Well they have been having sex the last month and the oral thing just doesn't happen. She asked him the other day and he said it was just talk but oral isn't for him.
Just out of curiosity, is it oral both ways he's not interested in?
In all honesty, if her main source of orgasm is through oral and he teases her with dirty chat about performing it, but doesn't actually do it, that is a little unfair. "
Yes oral both ways |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
I’ve dated men like this. Just did everything else instead. I thought it odd at the time. As didn’t come up until in bed. If it’s essential to you, maybe state on profile
It's not everything for me. I do enjoy oral a lot though. Both giving and receiving. I've played b4 without any oral. It's a conversation I had with a friend who recently started dating a guy who won't do oral at all.
I’ve found it’s a mind set. I didn’t do oral for years. Love it now. Don’t mind when it doesn’t happen. But do like a warning. How does she feel about it?
She said when they stated messaging he takes about going down on her and how he wanted her to suck his cock. They have been dating 3 months now and no oral. She is really dissaointed as oral is what gets her off.
When dating 2-3 months is about right to wait for sex. If he’s stated all that in messages, you would hope it will happen soon. Maybe she should bring in up in conversation away from the bedroom. Something could be on his mind. An as that’s her thing too.
Wish her all the best. Dating sucks , or doesn’t in this case
Well they have been having sex the last month and the oral thing just doesn't happen. She asked him the other day and he said it was just talk but oral isn't for him.
Just out of curiosity, is it oral both ways he's not interested in?
In all honesty, if her main source of orgasm is through oral and he teases her with dirty chat about performing it, but doesn't actually do it, that is a little unfair.
Yes oral both ways "
It seems as though they may not be sexually compatible in the long run. It's difficult to force the issue, if he clearly doesn't like oral at all. I know i wouldn't want to force my partner into doing something that turned him off, as i would take no pleasure from it myself, if i know he's not having fun. It's a difficult one for her, bless. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? "
Not have oral |
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I love to give and receive but at the end of the day it's all about respecting the other person's preference and boundaries.
I have over the years met a couple of ladies who are not into it.
The sex was still great, but it wasn't a deal breaker |
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For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing? |
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?"
It's hard to concentrate àlright |
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?
It's hard to concentrate àlright"
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?"
It's the movement. You just use tongue action. We have to go up and down, use tongue action and sometimes gag intermittently. All the while, making sure we don't smother you to the point that you can't breathe, based on the position... Definitely hard to concentrate and not my favourite thing to do. |
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?
It's the movement. You just use tongue action. We have to go up and down, use tongue action and sometimes gag intermittently. All the while, making sure we don't smother you to the point that you can't breathe, based on the position... Definitely hard to concentrate and not my favourite thing to do."
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? "
tie her up! Tell her who’s in charge and lick her so good she will love oral!  |
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?
It's the movement. You just use tongue action. We have to go up and down, use tongue action and sometimes gag intermittently. All the while, making sure we don't smother you to the point that you can't breathe, based on the position... Definitely hard to concentrate and not my favourite thing to do."
So despite years of me being told differently women can't multitask then... |
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"I could happily not receive oral on a meet but would try and find the reasons why he wouldn't want his dick sucked, if I wasn't able to suck him off I'd still be happy sticking my tongue up his arse. If he wouldn't let me lick or stick my tongue in his bum hole then I'd leave or just drink tea with him.
An this ladies, is exactly what a man wants!!
What you want you mean. My ex hated rimming "
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?"
Not for me |
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"For me, sex isn't sex without oral or plenty of kissing/foreplay.
As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?
It's the movement. You just use tongue action. We have to go up and down, use tongue action and sometimes gag intermittently. All the while, making sure we don't smother you to the point that you can't breathe, based on the position... Definitely hard to concentrate and not my favourite thing to do.
So despite years of me being told differently women can't multitask then... "
They can, but they don't always enjoy it |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ? "
Play Scrabble. |
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"One for the ladies and the guys. If you showed up to a meet and the person you were meeting didn't have an interest in oral. Giving or reciving. What would you do ?
Play Scrabble."
And spell out oral |
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As an aside..... do any women really struggle with a 69? Got to admit it's a massive turn on for me giving pleasure mutually but I've met a few women now that hate it as they struggle to concentrate on giving & receiving at the same time. Is this a common thing?"
It’s hard to concerntrate on the cock when I’m close to orgasm, always fear of nearly crushing a mans head like a watermelon with these thighs ha ha |
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