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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion." Looks like me and you are on the same hate list.  | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list. "No, no, I'm on my own list. People don't hate on here anyway, it's just dislike but nevertheless I like to be on my own list please. | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list. "You have your own  | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list. "Not even nearly! When you’ve been around for as long as this lady; then you can start being a bit bolshy. Plus she’s liked by plenty of people, myself included | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list.
No, no, I'm on my own list. People don't hate on here anyway, it's just dislike but nevertheless I like to be on my own list please. "I'm sure we can make that happen. | |||
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"Jeez you back for more, woman??? Yazooooooo!!!!!!" She can't be held down. Shes got the boxing gloves to prove it. | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list.
No, no, I'm on my own list. People don't hate on here anyway, it's just dislike but nevertheless I like to be on my own list please. "it bloody hard work making people dislike you, you have to make them see the losers they are. I find its a natural talent for me | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion." Don't change for anyone.. fuck what every one ealse thinks . Do what makes u happy and let the positive people stand with you as you get stronger . | |||
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"Jeez you back for more, woman??? Yazooooooo!!!!!! She can't be held down. Shes got the boxing gloves to prove it. " They're not boxing gloves. They're kickboxing gloves, open palm, open palm! | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. " Hmmmm.... Now why does that need to sound quite so callous toward them? If there are fuglies with low self-esteem shouldn't you try and find some compassion for them? Playing Devils advocate here...... if you wanted to increase your popularity you could find ways to express yourself more modestly, and with more kindness to those poor unfortunate lesser birds!! You don't wind me up, I like your openness and honesty. But to be blunt you do sometimes disappoint me, I do sometimes think 'Aww she didn't need to be so abrasive with that.' When people are modest it's easy to raise them up. Those who raise themselves up somehow demand people tear them down. FWIW  | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list. "This isn’t about you.  | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list.
This isn’t about you."When as a thread every stayed on the op or topic
But to be fair both have opinions and use a choice of words that for some reason gets under some peoples skin
But more people want to get in the op pants then the other so the "dislike" towards them is less obvious | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. Hmmmm.... Now why does that need to sound quite so callous toward them? If there are fuglies with low self-esteem shouldn't you try and find some compassion for them? Playing Devils advocate here...... if you wanted to increase your popularity you could find ways to express yourself more modestly, and with more kindness to those poor unfortunate lesser birds!! You don't wind me up, I like your openness and honesty. But to be blunt you do sometimes disappoint me, I do sometimes think 'Aww she didn't need to be so abrasive with that.' When people are modest it's easy to raise them up. Those who raise themselves up somehow demand people tear them down. FWIW "Yeah, I see your point. | |||
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"I haven't seen the other thread so only responding to your summary. The summary makes no mention of people who do like you and how you present yourself. I can't believe the whole thing was full of people setting out why you are not liked without some saying why you are liked. Why not reflect that in your summary? You are given more latitude than most. Even indulged in saying things that others would be condemned for. How is that indicative of being disliked? I find some of your treatment of others shocking at times. I find some of the things you describe about what you would do and have done to people shocking. I find it sad that you ask for the same advice many times and rarely take it, while professing to change. I will be disliked for stating this because I do not have the same level of popularity and leeway that you enjoy. None of that means that I dislike you. If you're happy with who you are, how you behave and the attitudes you hold then it doesn't matter whether people dislike you, let alone why. " Yeah the majority on the other thread was more like than dislike which was really nice. | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion." who cares what strangers think | |||
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"Jeez you back for more, woman??? Yazooooooo!!!!!! She can't be held down. Shes got the boxing gloves to prove it. They're not boxing gloves. They're kickboxing gloves, open palm, open palm!" Proves my point even more. You're a badass. | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity "I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty. Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that. | |||
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"I haven't seen the other thread so only responding to your summary. The summary makes no mention of people who do like you and how you present yourself. I can't believe the whole thing was full of people setting out why you are not liked without some saying why you are liked. Why not reflect that in your summary? You are given more latitude than most. Even indulged in saying things that others would be condemned for. How is that indicative of being disliked? I find some of your treatment of others shocking at times. I find some of the things you describe about what you would do and have done to people shocking. I find it sad that you ask for the same advice many times and rarely take it, while professing to change. I will be disliked for stating this because I do not have the same level of popularity and leeway that you enjoy. None of that means that I dislike you. If you're happy with who you are, how you behave and the attitudes you hold then it doesn't matter whether people dislike you, let alone why. " 
Nail on head here, the OP gets away with stuff that mere mortals would be absolutely SLAUGHTERED for!
So, rather than hate, enjoy the leeway and latitude others give you OP, compa_ed to the rest of us!
You’re mad as a box of frogs, and WAY too high maintenance for me to be even the slightest bit interested in, but you do make me smile at times so never stop being true to yourself and maintain your self confidence and esteem! | |||
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"I haven't seen the other thread so only responding to your summary. The summary makes no mention of people who do like you and how you present yourself. I can't believe the whole thing was full of people setting out why you are not liked without some saying why you are liked. Why not reflect that in your summary? You are given more latitude than most. Even indulged in saying things that others would be condemned for. How is that indicative of being disliked? I find some of your treatment of others shocking at times. I find some of the things you describe about what you would do and have done to people shocking. I find it sad that you ask for the same advice many times and rarely take it, while professing to change. I will be disliked for stating this because I do not have the same level of popularity and leeway that you enjoy. None of that means that I dislike you. If you're happy with who you are, how you behave and the attitudes you hold then it doesn't matter whether people dislike you, let alone why.
Nail on head here, the OP gets away with stuff that mere mortals would be absolutely SLAUGHTERED for!
So, rather than hate, enjoy the leeway and latitude others give you OP, compa_ed to the rest of us!
You’re mad as a box of frogs, and WAY too high maintenance for me to be even the slightest bit interested in, but you do make me smile at times so never stop being true to yourself and maintain your self confidence and esteem! "Examples? Trust and believe me I'm not exempt from telling offs. | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that. "It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you ned to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you ned to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion "and mine. | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you ned to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion "I can't feel feelings that don't come naturally to me. I'll always say when I think I've been a dick to someone and I always hold my hands up and apologise, that's good enough for me. | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you need to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion "And just to factor in some facts I am a good looking woman myself , but,I don't need to put others down to make myself feel better about myself (make up is needed lol) But to say I am better that some others is a bit rich and I still feel you need to learn what humility is, as I don't think you actually comprehend it! | |||
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"Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that. " Good to see you back op I don't know if you're referring to my posts here but I wasn't saying that. I said simply that you're that fatal combination of a woman who's super sexy and knows it. This alone is *likely* to make *some* people jealous of you. Whether or not that's happening here I can't say. Indeed I don't see any real evidence of haters.
But add your abrasive outspokeness to this and it's likely to set a fair few people on edge. We prefer those higher up the pecking order than us to exhibit humility about their good fortune. And are usually excessively critical of those who don't. That's not aimed at you personally. That's just a general point.
In short ugly, poor, dumb people can rip the shit out of other ugly, poor, dumb people all they like. They're down in the mud with us. So they're allowed to. But beautiful, rich, clever people aren't allowed to rip the shit out of ugly, poor, dumb people. That's just fucking vile.
If you don't see that then you're either dumb or... well vile. If you do see it but can't be bothe_ed to change or tame down your language because it doesn't matter how you act, guys will always pick you and women will always want to be seen with you, then that's pretty dumb too. Why? Because it means you're pushing away the nice people (who don't like vile people) and leaving yourself surrounded by only idiots, desperates, and similarly vile people.
If any of this resonates with you don't change to appease other people... change to make your own situation *even* better (unbelievable I know but improvement is *always* possible) | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you ned to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion
I can't feel feelings that don't come naturally to me. I'll always say when I think I've been a dick to someone and I always hold my hands up and apologise, that's good enough for me. Don't worry plenty lads still shag you
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion. Looks like me and you are on the same hate list. "You have to start your own darn list.. No sharing here!! BTW I dont hate you  young guy 95 | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you need to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion
And just to factor in some facts I am a good looking woman myself , but,I don't need to put others down to make myself feel better about myself (make up is needed lol) But to say I am better that some others is a bit rich and I still feel you need to learn what humility is, as I don't think you actually comprehend it!"Humility is the quality of being humble. Dictionary definitions accentuate humility as a low self-regard and sense of unworthiness ~ I don't have low self regard or a sense of unworthiness. I don't put others down to make myself feel better about myself, that's your opinion, I just say shit that makes me laugh. I don't say I'm better than others either. | |||
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"Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that. Good to see you back op I don't know if you're referring to my posts here but I wasn't saying that. I said simply that you're that fatal combination of a woman who's super sexy and knows it. This alone is *likely* to make *some* people jealous of you. Whether or not that's happening here I can't say. Indeed I don't see any real evidence of haters.
But add your abrasive outspokeness to this and it's likely to set a fair few people on edge. We prefer those higher up the pecking order than us to exhibit humility about their good fortune. And are usually excessively critical of those who don't. That's not aimed at you personally. That's just a general point.
In short ugly, poor, dumb people can rip the shit out of other ugly, poor, dumb people all they like. They're down in the mud with us. So they're allowed to. But beautiful, rich, clever people aren't allowed to rip the shit out of ugly, poor, dumb people. That's just fucking vile.
If you don't see that then you're either dumb or... well vile. If you do see it but can't be bothe_ed to change or tame down your language because it doesn't matter how you act, guys will always pick you and women will always want to be seen with you, then that's pretty dumb too. Why? Because it means you're pushing away the nice people (who don't like vile people) and leaving yourself surrounded by only idiots, desperates, and similarly vile people.
If any of this resonates with you don't change to appease other people... change to make your own situation *even* better (unbelievable I know but improvement is *always* possible) "You're still on that white horse I see | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you ned to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion "I kind of share that opinion. Don't get me wrong, your posts are entertaining, sometimes thoughtful, some just make me go WTF?... I do often find myself having to remind myself how old you are. You often come across as very emotionally immature but again that just my opinion. You do definitely struggle with humility though and I would think that would be where most dislike you. Other than that, crack on, you are amazeballs, don't let anyone tell you different. | |||
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"Personally OP, I still don't understand why it bothers you so much. I reiterate what others have said: some people will like you and some won't. So fucking what?!?!?! "Shes so self obsessed Im sure the fact no one really cares gos straight over her pretty little head | |||
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"Personally OP, I still don't understand why it bothers you so much. I reiterate what others have said: some people will like you and some won't. So fucking what?!?!?!
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"But add your abrasive outspokeness to this and it's likely to set a fair few people on edge. We prefer those higher up the pecking order than us to exhibit humility about their good fortune. And are usually excessively critical of those who don't. That's not aimed at you personally. That's just a general point." btw you may or may not be higher up the pecking order than me. I don't know. I haven't met you and I don't know your whole story. I'm merely being humble in my language here | |||
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"Am sure I'll get blocked or reportedfor this but hey... OP you seem thoroughly narcissistic - there are much worse things going on in the world than people not liking you. " Oh don't you know, it's Thursdays that I do my humanitarian work. | |||
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"Am sure I'll get blocked or reportedfor this but hey... OP you seem thoroughly narcissistic - there are much worse things going on in the world than people not liking you. Oh don't you know, it's Thursdays that I do my humanitarian work. " You should make friends with Donald Trump ... you'd have so much in common | |||
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"So now that you have igno_ed what people have actually said and come to your own conclusions, are you going to change your behaviours or just think as usual 'fuck it, I'm perfect the way I am' and just continue to post the usual look at me threads? I'm interested, if you really think people are jealous of you as to be honest I'd hate to be living in your bubble and have no humanity
I'm going to and I have changed some of my behaviours already but that's more on a personal level and how I react to certain situations when men are involved. As to whether I'm going to be more modest and act with humility then no probably not. I'm already open and honest with the faults that I have. I'm not going to start writing about how I'm not happy with the way I look or feel that I'm too fat or anything like that because that would be trying to fish for compliments. I won't do false modesty.
Also I didn't say people were jealous of me, other people said that.
It's good that you are working on yourself, but a shame that you are ignoring the humility aspect as I think that is the main point that you need to take a look at, but as usual just my opinion
And just to factor in some facts I am a good looking woman myself , but,I don't need to put others down to make myself feel better about myself (make up is needed lol) But to say I am better that some others is a bit rich and I still feel you need to learn what humility is, as I don't think you actually comprehend it!
Humility is the quality of being humble. Dictionary definitions accentuate humility as a low self-regard and sense of unworthiness ~ I don't have low self regard or a sense of unworthiness.
I don't put others down to make myself feel better about myself, that's your opinion, I just say shit that makes me laugh. I don't say I'm better than others either.
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"I would like to tongue your butthole Nose in the gooch?" I don't know what a gooch is,so I'm going to sayyyyyyyyyyy Yes | |||
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"Beautiful, rich, clever people aren't allowed to rip the shit out of ugly, poor, dumb people. That's just fucking vile. If you don't see that then you're either dumb or... well vile. If you do see it but can't be bothe_ed to change or tame down your language because it doesn't matter how you act, guys will always pick you and women will always want to be seen with you, then that's pretty dumb too. Why? Because it means you're pushing away the nice people (who don't like vile people) and leaving yourself surrounded by only idiots, desperates, and similarly vile people. If any of this resonates with you don't change to appease other people... change to make your own situation *even* better (unbelievable I know but improvement is *always* possible)
You're still on that white horse I see " If that's your idea of white horsing... I don't really know where to start. I've been pretty fucking brutally close to the bone and direct here. Are you looking for me to stop treating her as a human being or something?  | |||
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"Beautiful, rich, clever people aren't allowed to rip the shit out of ugly, poor, dumb people. That's just fucking vile. If you don't see that then you're either dumb or... well vile. If you do see it but can't be bothe_ed to change or tame down your language because it doesn't matter how you act, guys will always pick you and women will always want to be seen with you, then that's pretty dumb too. Why? Because it means you're pushing away the nice people (who don't like vile people) and leaving yourself surrounded by only idiots, desperates, and similarly vile people. If any of this resonates with you don't change to appease other people... change to make your own situation *even* better (unbelievable I know but improvement is *always* possible)
You're still on that white horse I see
If that's your idea of white horsing... I don't really know where to start. I've been pretty fucking brutally close to the bone and direct here. Are you looking for me to stop treating her as a human being or something? "No. But you could do with straw to aid your breathing. | |||
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"Lord, it's hard to be humble. When you're perfect in every way. I try not to look in the mirror. But I get better looking each day. To know me is to love me. I must be one hell of a gal! Oh Lord , it's hard to be humble. But i'm doing the best that I can." Arghhhhhh thanks for that ear worm as I am getting into bed | |||
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"No. But you could do with straw to aid your breathing. If you mean by this that I'm coming off overly keen and writing long rambling overly intellectualised replies you clearly haven't read much of the utter crap I plonk on the forums haha "Haha but your crap is much better than my crap | |||
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"I think you need to put little stock in other's opinions of you. If you are happy with the way you are, then embrace it. If you're not, try and change it. In all honesty i don't think many people think too hard on those they don't like. They tend to focus on those they do. You have said some things on here that make me face palm. But I've always deemed you to be a very caring and nurturing person. You just sometimes forget to engage your brain, before you say things sometimes. I think you also know that you have certain issues. Yes you come across as arrogant, but i do wonder if it's a front sometimes, to cover up certain insecurities you have deep down. I could be wrong. Just realise that some things you say for 'laughs', could offend some, or hurt their feelings. If you are fine with that, you need to accept that there are some who won't warm to you. Not everybody can like you. It's about being true to yourself, changing the things you want to change and accepting the things you can't or don't want to change. Oh and i like you OP "I like you too . You always make.me.smile buddy . Can we all agree on one thing before this all gets out of hand please Nesquick pink or brown flavour or a mix of the both that tastes like Neapolitan ice cream . Ps OP . Cariad in life we all have people who do or dont like us . It's a fact so there are two choices you have Spend time trying to make those who don't like you , like you a lot of work for little result Or embrace those who do and share their fun and care for them I think your swell and fun but I am not fond of nutella I like treacle mmm yum Taff | |||
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"I do find the whole situation odd, because what you post and what I post, aren't a million miles away. I post threads all the time asking for meets with none ugly people, or I've made threads about how women won't meet me and it's their loss because I'm amazing and everyone takes it for the joke it is. But I've seen you ask for opinions and post jokes and get jumped on for it. And I can't recall a time I've seen you attack someone personally for it. Let the haters hate I suppose. I know we've only met once but I don't see you as a bad person, if people who have never met you at all see as one then leave them be" I know. I say I look amazing when I am actually joking. If people take offence at that or say I'm blowing smoke up my arse then it's actually them thinking I look amazing not me! Like if I said look at my Ferrari it's so lush and fast (in reality it's a fiesta) people would laugh. If I actually did have a Ferrari people would think hmm you cunt! Anyhow, when we going to break bread again, specifics, the bread rolls in harvester? | |||
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"I do find the whole situation odd, because what you post and what I post, aren't a million miles away. I post threads all the time asking for meets with none ugly people, or I've made threads about how women won't meet me and it's their loss because I'm amazing and everyone takes it for the joke it is. But I've seen you ask for opinions and post jokes and get jumped on for it. And I can't recall a time I've seen you attack someone personally for it. Let the haters hate I suppose. I know we've only met once but I don't see you as a bad person, if people who have never met you at all see as one then leave them be I know. I say I look amazing when I am actually joking. If people take offence at that or say I'm blowing smoke up my arse then it's actually them thinking I look amazing not me! Like if I said look at my Ferrari it's so lush and fast (in reality it's a fiesta) people would laugh. If I actually did have a Ferrari people would think hmm you cunt! Anyhow, when we going to break bread again, specifics, the bread rolls in harvester?" Nah man, we're going for the rib platter this time. I'm already starving myself ready for it. I'm down south next week so I'll see what story is and maybe call in on way. Anyway, back to subject. Bitches love cake  | |||
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" Actually humility is not thinking less of yourself its thinking of yourself less." I like that. I rather like this passage about what it means: ".....humility or humbleness is a quality of being courteously respectful of others. It is the opposite of aggressiveness, arrogance, boastfulness, and vanity. Rather than, "Me first," humility allows us to say, "No, you first, my friend." Humility is the quality that lets us go more than halfway to meet the needs and demands of others..... Humility dissipates anger and heals old wounds. Humility allows us to see the dignity and worth of all..people. Acting with humility does not in any way deny our own self worth. Rather, it affirms the inherent worth of all persons." That's the bit that gets people's backs up I think - the moment I declare I am worth more than you I become worth less. If you think badly of others compa_ed to yourself, it's not always a good idea to say so. What's good for the ego is bad for the soul - you cannot feed both. I saw a film today which humbled me. Totally disconnected to this thread, but it just popped into my head as I was writing. It was about people's value and worth I believe, and it melted my heart. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrZXz10FcVM | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. " Follow the system love | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. " I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it "How’s the weather in Scotland tonight? | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight? "Take an educated guess | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
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Has storm Heather arrived yet?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
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Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then? "That doesn't even make sense
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
That doesn't even make sense
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
That doesn't even make sense
Night
It’s morning
It was a polite way of saying goodbye
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
That doesn't even make sense
Night
It’s morning
It was a polite way of saying goodbye
Why not just say goodbye then?
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
How’s the weather in Scotland tonight?
Take an educated guess
Has storm Heather arrived yet?
No but her Brother Hector has
But they said to expect Heather not Hector
Fuck knows I don't work for the met office
What office do you work for then?
That doesn't even make sense
Night
It’s morning
It was a polite way of saying goodbye
Why not just say goodbye then?
Because that would sound abrupt. I can't exactly do that when I said the OP was abrupt with me
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"We are all just strangers on the internet. Why do you care? Here we go "Ultimately we are all here for our own reasons and we do our own thing. The community is a nice idea but we all know how quickly it can go from supportive to a lynch mob. Of course we all want to be liked and accepted but that doesn't always happen. Like yourself, be true to yourself and always remember that ' those who matter won't mind and those who mind won't matter.' | |||
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"Listen lady, you're an excellent source of amusement on this forum but the perpetual attention seeking is starting to grate. Do you, crack on but c'mooooon!" | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it "Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend. "You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama. " It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments? It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt" | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
"She was describing her friend not you. She said she's new and doesn't know you. She was saying what happened to her friend as food for thought about what could happen in that situation. You ask for help on here because people won't sugar coat it like real life friends might. I understand why you were abrupt. But also I'd think about what she said in her example. | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
She was describing her friend not you. She said she's new and doesn't know you. She was saying what happened to her friend as food for thought about what could happen in that situation.
You ask for help on here because people won't sugar coat it like real life friends might. I understand why you were abrupt. But also I'd think about what she said in her example. "I know she wasn't directly saying those things to me but when you say oh you're like this person who's also x,y,z you are indirectly saying I'm those things. | |||
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"Why start multiple threads when you aren't able to deal with inevitable negative feedback? This is the Internet, worse of all this is the fab forums on the Internet, and you know that people are more likely to be negative than positive. Wording your question 'why do people dislike me' will generally leaf to those who dislike you taking the opportunity to tell you what they think. If you weren't prepa_ed to take that on the chin, go aqay and do some reflection etc which is the point of 360 feedback then why ask it? All it seems to have done is wound you up and cemented your behaviours even more. " I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. | |||
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"Why start multiple threads when you aren't able to deal with inevitable negative feedback? This is the Internet, worse of all this is the fab forums on the Internet, and you know that people are more likely to be negative than positive. Wording your question 'why do people dislike me' will generally leaf to those who dislike you taking the opportunity to tell you what they think. If you weren't prepa_ed to take that on the chin, go aqay and do some reflection etc which is the point of 360 feedback then why ask it? All it seems to have done is wound you up and cemented your behaviours even more. I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. " Not saying you have to accept it. Just take it away and reflect on it. Saying your piece back just turns it into an argument and makes them look right in their assumptions of you. That's all i am trying to say. Personal growth is a good thing when done right and I do believe that you have changed from some of your previous profiles on here (not saying that you had to, that's your choice of course). | |||
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" I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. " To be fair though, as was said above, your last thread asked why people disliked you. By its very definition that’s asking for people to give reasons why you might be disliked (by those that do dislike you, I’m totally ambivalent either way as I don’t know you from Adam). Had you asked ‘why do people LIKE me’ you would have had lots of positive feedback (actually you also had a lot of positive feedback on the last thread too!) So by asking for reasons why you’re disliked, then responding to the negative feedback (that you asked for!) with your forthright views in return, aren’t you just hankering for a fight? Or attention. Or both? | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
She was describing her friend not you. She said she's new and doesn't know you. She was saying what happened to her friend as food for thought about what could happen in that situation.
You ask for help on here because people won't sugar coat it like real life friends might. I understand why you were abrupt. But also I'd think about what she said in her example.
I know she wasn't directly saying those things to me but when you say oh you're like this person who's also x,y,z you are indirectly saying I'm those things. "You indirectly say that people have saggy tits and are hanging buzzards. But you say they shouldn't take personal offence. Why are you taking personal offence when the comments were indirect? | |||
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" I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. To be fair though, as was said above, your last thread asked why people disliked you. By its very definition that’s asking for people to give reasons why you might be disliked (by those that do dislike you, I’m totally ambivalent either way as I don’t know you from Adam). Had you asked ‘why do people LIKE me’ you would have had lots of positive feedback (actually you also had a lot of positive feedback on the last thread too!) So by asking for reasons why you’re disliked, then responding to the negative feedback (that you asked for!) with your forthright views in return, aren’t you just hankering for a fight? Or attention. Or both? "If it's something as simple as saying I'm disliked because I'm blunt and opinionated or offensive then I'll take that on the chin, like I did in the opening post. I accept those reasons and I'm not seeking to change that aspect of me or that persons opinion because it is correct. If it's something that I don't believe I am or something where I've justifiably reacted in a certain way then I'll explain why I did it. Some will see that as arguing when all I'm doing is trying to explain why I may have reacted in a certain way. | |||
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"Why start multiple threads when you aren't able to deal with inevitable negative feedback? This is the Internet, worse of all this is the fab forums on the Internet, and you know that people are more likely to be negative than positive. Wording your question 'why do people dislike me' will generally leaf to those who dislike you taking the opportunity to tell you what they think. If you weren't prepa_ed to take that on the chin, go aqay and do some reflection etc which is the point of 360 feedback then why ask it? All it seems to have done is wound you up and cemented your behaviours even more. I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. " Exactly, you should just sit up and shut up OP
Folk can be fickle, and if people take things to heart that total strangers on an internet site say well to me that's them that have issues.
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
She was describing her friend not you. She said she's new and doesn't know you. She was saying what happened to her friend as food for thought about what could happen in that situation.
You ask for help on here because people won't sugar coat it like real life friends might. I understand why you were abrupt. But also I'd think about what she said in her example.
I know she wasn't directly saying those things to me but when you say oh you're like this person who's also x,y,z you are indirectly saying I'm those things.
You indirectly say that people have saggy tits and are hanging buzzards. But you say they shouldn't take personal offence. Why are you taking personal offence when the comments were indirect?
"No lets get things clear here if you're going to bring that up. I said that the majority of people that flash their genitals to members of the public have droopy boobs and saggy arses. I said that they are buzzards (disgusting) because I have a strong belief in not involving innocent people in your sexual acts. I wouldn't want to be somewhere with my child and then have someone flashing, I'd say they were disgusting to their face and I'd think they were disgusting. Now the only people I'm indirectly being offensive to are the people that do that, I was making a factual observation that the people who do it have the features I described. It's quite a blanket statement. Now if I'd said you're just like those hanging buzzards with saggy tits then I'm basically saying you are those things. That's a shit example, I'm disappointed. | |||
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"So as my thread filled and closed in my absence I've now read and collated the information and these are my findings. Reasons why I'm disliked by some members on here. At 1) Because I'm attractive and have a high opinion of myself- well I can't do anything to help less attractive people feel better about themselves so that's a problem I can't fix. At 2) Because I'm opinionated and can sometimes say things that are offensive- again if I think something's funny I'm gonna say it, or if something is factual then I'll point it out. At 3) I apparently say things to make myself feel better by putting other people down- I don't actually do that, my opinion of myself is already way up high in the clouds, I don't need to put others down to make myself look better, whatever I say is comedy value or just my opinions. They were the 3 main ones and unfortunately I like this place too much to leave so I'm not going anywhere. But I think a forum needs someone like me, you'll know that I'll always give my true honest opinion, won't tolerate bullying, never afraid to go against the masses and my door is always open for those who want advice. Thank you, thank you, no, the applause is too much, I'm overwhelmed with emotion." Keep it up xx | |||
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"You told me they were buzzards because they were buzzing around you when I said you were using the term buzzard as a derogatory one.... Make your mind up! "No Evie you're just making things up now. You said you took me saying buzzards as being old like an old buzzard, that's what you said. Those were your words, I said no I use the term buzzard to describe something disgusting. Why the hell would I say buzzard as in buzzing around me, that doesn't even make sense. A buzzard is a bird, a bird would fly and flap. | |||
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"Why start multiple threads when you aren't able to deal with inevitable negative feedback? This is the Internet, worse of all this is the fab forums on the Internet, and you know that people are more likely to be negative than positive. Wording your question 'why do people dislike me' will generally leaf to those who dislike you taking the opportunity to tell you what they think. If you weren't prepa_ed to take that on the chin, go aqay and do some reflection etc which is the point of 360 feedback then why ask it? All it seems to have done is wound you up and cemented your behaviours even more. I started this thread as I was unable to comment on the original one as it was full and closed by the time I was back. I am dealing with the negative feedback, people say their piece and I say mine back, what's the proper way to do it then, have people say whatever they want and I say nothing in return, just accept it, nah fuck that. " Not actually true as there were several comments removed and it was several hours passed by . You chose not to post or reply to my question at any rate. | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
"I was actually talking about my friend, not you. I wholeheartedly apologise if you took offence to that. I'm not used to these forums but you seemed really cool and you said somewhere you were upfront and straight talking or something. I got that impression of you anyway, and I saw a lot in my friend with the things you were saying so commenting was in as much my interest as yours. Again I'm sorry  | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
I was actually talking about my friend, not you. I wholeheartedly apologise if you took offence to that. I'm not used to these forums but you seemed really cool and you said somewhere you were upfront and straight talking or something. I got that impression of you anyway, and I saw a lot in my friend with the things you were saying so commenting was in as much my interest as yours. Again I'm sorry "Honestly no need to apologise. | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
I was actually talking about my friend, not you. I wholeheartedly apologise if you took offence to that. I'm not used to these forums but you seemed really cool and you said somewhere you were upfront and straight talking or something. I got that impression of you anyway, and I saw a lot in my friend with the things you were saying so commenting was in as much my interest as yours. Again I'm sorry
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"You told me they were buzzards because they were buzzing around you when I said you were using the term buzzard as a derogatory one.... Make your mind up!
No Evie you're just making things up now. You said you took me saying buzzards as being old like an old buzzard, that's what you said. Those were your words, I said no I use the term buzzard to describe something disgusting.
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"You told me they were buzzards because they were buzzing around you when I said you were using the term buzzard as a derogatory one.... Make your mind up!
No Evie you're just making things up now. You said you took me saying buzzards as being old like an old buzzard, that's what you said. Those were your words, I said no I use the term buzzard to describe something disgusting.
Why the hell would I say buzzard as in buzzing around me, that doesn't even make sense. A buzzard is a bird, a bird would fly and flap.
I wish I could find the thread now because that is my recognition of what was said.
"It was said in a part 2 version of my "I'm not happy" thread that tame impala started but was deleted. I can tell you verbatim what was said. You brought up me using the word buzzard. I said yes because that's what I say when something is hanging or disgusting, it was in reference to people flashing members of the public and specifically to the people that were doing it in a McDonald's car park in the day, a place frequented by children. You said now I've explained it you understand and that you originally took at as me using the term buzzard to describe someone old to quote you, "you know like calling someone an old buzzard" I said no, it's just a word I use to describe something disgusting. Why would I say I mean it like someone buzzing around me? I've only ever used that word in a derogatory way, old profiles of mine have stated don't send me pictures of you with your cock hanging out of some buzzard, why would I say don't send me pictures of you with your cock buzzing around me!? It doesn't make sense and I have never used that word other than the way I'm saying I use it, which is to mean something disgusting. | |||
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"You told me they were buzzards because they were buzzing around you when I said you were using the term buzzard as a derogatory one.... Make your mind up!
No Evie you're just making things up now. You said you took me saying buzzards as being old like an old buzzard, that's what you said. Those were your words, I said no I use the term buzzard to describe something disgusting.
Why the hell would I say buzzard as in buzzing around me, that doesn't even make sense. A buzzard is a bird, a bird would fly and flap.
I wish I could find the thread now because that is my recognition of what was said.
It was said in a part 2 version of my "I'm not happy" thread that tame impala started but was deleted.
I can tell you verbatim what was said.
You brought up me using the word buzzard. I said yes because that's what I say when something is hanging or disgusting, it was in reference to people flashing members of the public and specifically to the people that were doing it in a McDonald's car park in the day, a place frequented by children.
You said now I've explained it you understand and that you originally took at as me using the term buzzard to describe someone old to quote you, "you know like calling someone an old buzzard" I said no, it's just a word I use to describe something disgusting.
Why would I say I mean it like someone buzzing around me?
I've only ever used that word in a derogatory way, old profiles of mine have stated don't send me pictures of you with your cock hanging out of some buzzard, why would I say don't send me pictures of you with your cock buzzing around me!? It doesn't make sense and I have never used that word other than the way I'm saying I use it, which is to mean something disgusting. "It's all academic now if we can't find what was really said. | |||
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" No lets get things clear here if you're going to bring that up. I said that the majority of people that flash their genitals to members of the public have droopy boobs and saggy arses. I said that they are buzzards (disgusting) because I have a strong belief in not involving innocent people in your sexual acts. " Right. But it actually sounded like you were saying they were disgusting because they had droopy boobs and saggy arses, so it sounded like a really arrogant, spiteful remark. Maybe you just need to be a bit more careful in your wording of something that could sound like you were insulting lots of other people on the forum? As a couple of people have said, on that thread you did ask for negative feedback, basically say 'Ok, what's the worst things about me?'. Very brave - but it kind of backfires if you let some of the answers get you into kneejerk defensive mode, which they do seem to have done!! It doesn't bother me, I'm primal, I'm very at home with raw emotion lol, but the only diplomatic way is to say something like 'Thank you for your feedback' through gritted teeth and go away and think about it. That's not your style though, so there we go - raw emotion it is!! | |||
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"Talk about me having no humility, at least when I've done or said something wrong I hold my hands up and say I was wrong or apologise. I have done that on many threads, including some of yours. " Yes and you done it on that one but now saying that I said something completely false all because you can't remember it. The evidence is there, people remember my old profiles and what I've written in the past. Which sentence sounds more factually correct, me saying don't send me pictures of you with your dick hanging out of a buzzard (meaning someone disgusting) OR how you are claiming how I use the term which would make the sentence like this; don't send me pictures of you with your cock buzzing around me. | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. " I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. " Are you happier now you know those that like you v those that dont? | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. " Fair enough, I don't get it but if it works for you. | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. Are you happier now you know those that like you v those that dont?" I already knew who didn't like me. I wanted their reasons why they didn't. Also I didn't choose not to respond to my thread, I was unable to. | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. Are you happier now you know those that like you v those that dont? I already knew who didn't like me. I wanted their reasons why they didn't. Also I didn't choose not to respond to my thread, I was unable to. " ["Why do so many people dislike me, male and female?]quote] " Are there people YOU like or dislike here ?? male or female. ok I will ask it here. | |||
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"Call me simple, but I'm genuinely curious why you need to know why people dislike you? Are you hoping to persuade them to liking you? Ultimately, they're strangers you'll never meet, why care about their opinion? It all appears to be a self destructive exercise. I don't actually know, why does anyone want to know anything? It's curiousity and interest. Are you happier now you know those that like you v those that dont? I already knew who didn't like me. I wanted their reasons why they didn't. Also I didn't choose not to respond to my thread, I was unable to. ["Why do so many people dislike me, male and female?]quote] " Are there people YOU like or dislike here ?? male or female. ok I will ask it here. " Ahh right yeah. there's people I like massively on these here forums and there's people that annoy me and if asked why they do I'd tell them. | |||
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"Id fuck you OP - I just wouldnt cuddle you afterwards. "Haha, harsh!! | |||
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"A lot of chat about how the op puts others down but all I've seen is you lot doing what you are accusing her of doing. I'll be honest I don't know her from Adam and only read one of her threads that I commented on, but I thought she was very abrupt with me and I felt quite uncomfortable and I wouldn't comment on another one because of it
Yet you're commenting now, could my abruptness possibly have been a reaction to what you said to me? Your first interaction with me was to make judgement and compare me negatively to your friend.
You sound just like my friend, she was stunning but bat shit crazy. She had a dummy out the pram mentality also. It's torture having a friend like that, you just want to knock some sense into them. It ends up people getting pissed off and they don't want to know them anymore cos they want to avoid the drama.
It's things like being called bat shit crazy, or saying I have a throwing my toys out the pram mentality, or referring to me as drama. Did you expect me to react warmly to those comments?
It's fine though and don't feel like you can't comment. I'm just explaining why I may have been, as you put it, "abrupt"
She was describing her friend not you. She said she's new and doesn't know you. She was saying what happened to her friend as food for thought about what could happen in that situation.
You ask for help on here because people won't sugar coat it like real life friends might. I understand why you were abrupt. But also I'd think about what she said in her example.
I know she wasn't directly saying those things to me but when you say oh you're like this person who's also x,y,z you are indirectly saying I'm those things.
You indirectly say that people have saggy tits and are hanging buzzards. But you say they shouldn't take personal offence. Why are you taking personal offence when the comments were indirect?
No lets get things clear here if you're going to bring that up. I said that the majority of people that flash their genitals to members of the public have droopy boobs and saggy arses. I said that they are buzzards (disgusting) because I have a strong belief in not involving innocent people in your sexual acts. I wouldn't want to be somewhere with my child and then have someone flashing, I'd say they were disgusting to their face and I'd think they were disgusting. Now the only people I'm indirectly being offensive to are the people that do that, I was making a factual observation that the people who do it have the features I described. It's quite a blanket statement.
Now if I'd said you're just like those hanging buzzards with saggy tits then I'm basically saying you are those things.
That's a shit example, I'm disappointed. "Apologies, I hadn't seen your explanation before. I took it as meaning something entirely different. Like buzzards meaning they are mingers, not buzzards in that it's a disgusting thing to flash at people. Fair comment, my example was indeed shit! | |||
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"Did anyone watch Kerri Katona on loose women yesterday?" I did, why do you ask? | |||
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"I just saw a pretty big pigeon. " Sure it wasn't a buzzard? | |||
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"Did anyone watch Kerri Katona on loose women yesterday? I did, why do you ask?" Wasnt she great..So helpful and kind to Daniella.. | |||
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"Did anyone watch Kerri Katona on loose women yesterday? I did, why do you ask? Wasnt she great..So helpful and kind to Daniella.. "So why is that relevant to this thread? | |||
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"I'd be interested in whether the op feels she gets treated any differently on here than she does in real life " I can tell this thread is going to be filled up with chaff in no time so maybe pm me op if you feel like answering my query. I'm curious | |||
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"Did anyone watch Kerri Katona on loose women yesterday? I did, why do you ask? Wasnt she great..So helpful and kind to Daniella..
So why is that relevant to this thread?"PS...I had to turn it over as the two of them were talking over each other and it annoys the hell out of me, so I didn't see all of it but if they don't listen to each other I am not sure how that is helpful | |||
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