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Who pays for the hotel??

By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

When ive met ladies at hotels i have paid, also got a bottle of wine or 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time i had a hotel meet I paid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dating is different I think...(would still offer)

But for a meet off fab my experience has been a mixture... I always offer to go halves... I have had the hotel paid for before but I would never expect that!!

Same for drinks and food!!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

All comes down to individual circunstance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and I have paid before as well!!

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I would offer to share costs.

I don't expect anyone to pay for me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Whoever is punching above their weight. After all it is they that are getting the favour. I assume hotels are still paid by cash or cheque? Its been a while since I've had to pay....

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By *t my DesiresWoman over a year ago

Bitchville

I'd like them to book, but I always split the costs, only fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always split the costs x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Half it.

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By *hyandtwistedCouple over a year ago

loughborough

Whoever is going to sleep overnight there seems a simple rule. We had one hotel meet and we paid as the guy didn't stay and we had the rest of the nights fun together

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

How do couples decide who pays?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I always offer and will pay half unless they say it's on them.

I have paid as well before now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can very easily be out of pocket if someone cancels last minute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always book and pay. I stay overnight, the guy leaves...it's my room, not 'ours'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whoever is going to sleep overnight there seems a simple rule. We had one hotel meet and we paid as the guy didn't stay and we had the rest of the nights fun together"

What if it’s a day room?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How do couples decide who pays?"

It’s already decided. Men pay

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By *sagent81Man over a year ago

Leeds

I miss a good hotel meet. Man pays or cost is shared in my experience.

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By *lay-full-funCouple over a year ago

stockport

We have always paid for the hotel room

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

When ive met ladies at hotels i have paid, also got a bottle of wine or 2"

Now on the last couple of hotel meets the guy has paid (as I’m skint) but I’ve provided the wine! I’d never expect a chap to provide both - and when finances allow I’m more than happy to split the hotel bill! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Whoever is punching above their weight. After all it is they that are getting the favour. I assume hotels are still paid by cash or cheque? Its been a while since I've had to pay...."

Subtle!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"How do couples decide who pays?

It’s already decided. Men pay

So both of the men pay?

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By *ady Penny Morgan SpiceCouple over a year ago

a place near you........

"How do couples decide who pays?"

We always pay for the room as it leaves us always in control not interested in taking payment from anyone, yes it is expensive but gives us more freedom.. We also have had meets where they have taken a room also which is really good....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Toss a coin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

When ive met ladies at hotels i have paid, also got a bottle of wine or 2

Sounds like a good deal, when shall i book

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Always split the bill!

I normally do the booking online and then the guy pays his half when we meet... but this has lead to a couple of funny moments... A couple of years back one friend thought it hilarious to stuff his half of the cash into my cleavage as we walked to our suite after checking in

and most recently a friend decided to give me his half of the bill in cash while still in the hotel car park before even checking in.... when I realised we were being watched I waved the cash and loudly said "Its ok. He's bought me for the entire weekend!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Split the bill.

To be honest the meets I’ve had have always insisted we split.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Generally when I’ve had hotel meets I’ve been away for something anyway so I have always paid.

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By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

"Always split the bill!

That's hilarious!!!

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By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks everyone, feeling more comfortable now. Haven't had this experience yet but will nxt weekend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

And when I had a day/night away with someone he paid the accommodation, I paid the dinner in the evening

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By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

"And when I had a day/night away with someone he paid the accommodation, I paid the dinner in the evening "

Good point..I hadn't thought any food n drinks! Eeeek

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All comes down to individual circunstance."

EGGSactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

So if i pay you coming and cumming lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Whoever is punching above their weight. After all it is they that are getting the favour. I assume hotels are still paid by cash or cheque? Its been a while since I've had to pay...."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Always split the bill!

Brilliant

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

Typically we pay for hotel meets when we're meeting a 'special friend'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

So if i pay you coming and cumming lol"

Depends if i bring my wand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

So if i pay you coming and cumming lol

Depends if i bring my wand

Bring whatever you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sharings caring

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By *s_bettyboopWoman over a year ago

-3

I pay for the room as I like to stay over and like being in control.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"I pay for the room as I like to stay over and like being in control."

I think like this too. Have also split the bill

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm a little anachronistic when it comes to these sorts of things, so I'd pick it up

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Traditionally ? Wasn't that before women had paid jobs ?

I don't think there should be any onus on the man to pay for everything HOWEVER - if he wanted a hotel and I couldn't afford it i'd be happy to let him pay. Equally if I wanted the hotel and he was skint , i'd pay.

Best scenario is sharing costs.

I'm not too happy EVER with women expecting men to pay for meals, drinks, hotels etc..... ( I don't mean the O.P. I mean in general ) it stinks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just say you had a sleepless night at premier inn and no one pays

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there. "

What's a premium carton ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?"

A carton with the word premium written on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it "

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it "

I'd managed that much you sarky git. How big are they ?

I looked them up ( cos im on the net ) and they looked big enough for a video tape.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Half each is the only fare way .

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips."

Explains the jingle when you walk..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard "

Oui mon cher x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x "

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même? "

Google translate dit que vous êtes trop sexy pour être contrarié. Ne t'inquiètes pas.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même? "

Wei?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First playtime....guy pays. Second and subsequent playtime....shared.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who ever makes the hotel proposition. If it was my idea I would never dream of saying let's go halves! As a woman it's nice to be treated nicely yeah but guys deserve that to and if I am really wanting to spend time with someone I pay. If he has paid this time and the meet went well then I offer to pay next time. It's nice to be nice and it's fair xxx

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By *hunderstruckMan over a year ago

Northampton

I always offer

She usually pays for a few drinks

We need a bit of refreshment

It can be exhausting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

So if i pay you coming and cumming lol

Depends if i bring my wand

Bring whatever you like

You have potential sir

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même? "

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther"

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips.

Explains the jingle when you walk..

No that would be the ball and chain Miss.Red has on me

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

" Whoever is punching above their weight. After all it is they that are getting the favour. I assume hotels are still paid by cash or cheque? Its been a while since I've had to pay...."

It made us smile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi.... "

Brexit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please

The one who has the money

I have zero income ( nope, no benefits) - so rules me out.

So if i pay you coming and cumming lol

Depends if i bring my wand

Bring whatever you like

You have potential sir

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours "

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

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By *entish79Man over a year ago

Glasgow

When I’ve met people in hotels I tend to be away on trips, usually to Scotland, and had them booked anyway. So I wouldn’t really expect a contribution.

I guess it depends on circumstances though - if it was a hotel arranged by both specifically for a meet, it might be more likely to be split.

It’s usually better if it comes out in the wash though, so rather than split the hotel, I maybe wouldn’t expect it to be my round as well!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?"

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

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By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

Big bulbous cock? Not that I've perved

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By *urpledelight OP Woman over a year ago

Manchester

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi.... "

Sorry french is lost on me.. spanish or chinese please!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses.. "

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct "

Haha still not there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

Haha still not there

D'oh big banana cock.

Had to state it... Don't want him going to the unripe green cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

Haha still not there

D'oh big banana cock.

Had to state it... Don't want him going to the unripe green cock

I was close then

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By *kin BohnerMan over a year ago

derby

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

Not only are we now in the 21st century and women have (rightfully) equal rights as men (even if there are some issues) this site is about mutual enjoyment.

I'd expect any hotel bill to be split equally between those taking part. Maybe that's why I don't get the invites lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

Haha still not there

D'oh big banana cock.

Had to state it... Don't want him going to the unripe green cock

Haha let me help you guys, don’t like the big label. It is what it is.. i didn’t make it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

Haha still not there

D'oh big banana cock.

Had to state it... Don't want him going to the unripe green cock

Haha let me help you guys, don’t like the big label. It is what it is.. i didn’t make it.

Too late in my mind you'll stay Peter the bbc from London

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for it when I have money otherwise I'll put a premium carton behind tesco with some candles and we will do it there.

What's a premium carton ?

A carton with the word premium written on it

Fucking lost in translation ! Thought the french word would do !! I meant a cardboard

Oui mon cher x

Puis-je te baiser quand même?

Si nous le faisons de style barbarella et juste toucher les paumes dans l'éther

Bien sûr... Même si j'ai pas compris... Pour un flirt avec toi je ferais n'importe quoi...

Pour un flirt....

Avec toi....

Brexit

I hope I'd still be in your mind once it is done

Yes my French pencil friend, don’t forget your English and foreign neighbours

How could I forget the best bbc I have never met ?

Ermmm are you not wearing your glasses?

I meant big brown cock

Still not wearing your glasses..

I meant big yellow cock sorry bloody auto correct

Haha still not there

D'oh big banana cock.

Had to state it... Don't want him going to the unripe green cock

Haha let me help you guys, don’t like the big label. It is what it is.. i didn’t make it.

Too late in my mind you'll stay Peter the bbc from London "

So you want to remember me as peter the bbc from London and no mention of my witty personality

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips.

Explains the jingle when you walk..

No that would be the ball and chain Miss.Red has on me

Do cuck cages make that much noise?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always book and pay. I stay overnight, the guy leaves...it's my room, not 'ours'"

This is us as it suits how we play, and allows Mr E to join later

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips.

Explains the jingle when you walk..

No that would be the ball and chain Miss.Red has on me

That's no ball and chain

.. that's a badge of honour!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

me. especially if i can arrange a MF couple to join me?

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By *oneyBear100Couple over a year ago

Gatwick area

With a single or couple we'd expect to split if just using a hotel for a meet. Maybe if it was someone we'd met before and they had a tight month we'd pay and vice versa. However if we're staying away anyway, then the room is booked and paid for by us.

Be a bit versatile but don't take the piss is the rule!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Split.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Half each is fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite like men with an old-fashioned sense of manners, so it's nice when they offer to pay as far as that goes.

In the event though I'll always insist on paying my own way to preempt any feelings of obligation/expectation.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"With a single or couple we'd expect to split if just using a hotel for a meet. Maybe if it was someone we'd met before and they had a tight month we'd pay and vice versa. However if we're staying away anyway, then the room is booked and paid for by us.

Be a bit versatile but don't take the piss is the rule!"

In a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

We say whos ever it was first to mention hotel should pay like we do, that's our cost for not playing at home

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

"50/50 for the room but I usually make my money back in tips.

Explains the jingle when you walk..

No that would be the ball and chain Miss.Red has on me

That's no ball and chain

.. that's a badge of honour!

Haha exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whoever is going to sleep overnight there seems a simple rule. We had one hotel meet and we paid as the guy didn't stay and we had the rest of the nights fun together

What if it’s a day room?

Don't sleep in

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

The Cuckold

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I quite like men with an old-fashioned sense of manners, so it's nice when they offer to pay as far as that goes.

In the event though I'll always insist on paying my own way to preempt any feelings of obligation/expectation. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't do hotel meets as I can't afford it- and wouldn't feel right not at least offering to split the bill.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pay half. If he paid I'd feel like a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would offer to share costs.

I don't expect anyone to pay for me."
same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd pay if wanted, but would also respect anyone who wanted to pay there half.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The woman pays.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"The woman pays."

Bugger. Off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've paid for them and been offered nothing towards them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I go halves.....I would never stay all night so the room is only used for a few hours but I always pay my share

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't do a hotel meet as I can't afford to contribute. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do hotel meets as I can't afford it- and wouldn't feel right not at least offering to split the bill.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I can accommodate so usually will

If he invites he pays

If I invite I pay - he can pick up the dinner tab

Always happy to split if it’s a nice hotel

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I think you split it 50/50 unless one party is going to stay in the room. In which case they pay.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Sometimes I have paid, sometimes I have split, sometimes I have paid one time them the next time. I have always slept in the room and so have they (well you both may as well get the very best of it). The key is do what you and your wallet is happy with. It's perfectly fine to say if we are both saying over to split the bill. I find that most women on here actively push to pay their fair share which is IMO common human decency. Don't be shy to bring it up. The more administrations worries you get out the way before hand the more better care free time you'll have.

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By *ongstripeMan over a year ago

Swadlincote

I prefer to split the bill especially on the 1st couple of meets. Not because I am not happy to pay. But even that level of obligation can add a small twist to consent. I prefer everyone to be on an equal footing until we have felt out each other. Same with alcohol I prefer to not drink on meets and if a partner drank to excess I would leave politely.

Might have a few personal hang ups over consent. ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs. "

Lightish red

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs.

Lightish red

Dude you're killing me, is it at least a red shirt so they'll match.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve paid, gone halves and someone else has got the bill

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I uselly meet and take a drive in the country side with them in their car much more fun I think tbh summer time always in the car I don’t do hotel tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs.

Lightish red

Dude you're killing me, is it at least a red shirt so they'll match. "

It's in my pics, the 1000yard stare pic

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"So traditionally dating, the man would pay for everything. But I do offer to split a bill etc even though they always decline

In the world of fab, who would pay for the hotel if both were unable to accommodate.. the one who suggests the hotel meet or the man?

Opinions and experiences please "

Both. You're both using the room. Pretty simple i'd say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs.

Lightish red

Dude you're killing me, is it at least a red shirt so they'll match.

It's in my pics, the 1000yard stare pic

I see no crocs, no shirt and no 1000 yard stare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I pay for my own hotel. That way if we don't click face to face the only thing the guy has lost then is a few hours at most.

I also don't usually like meets staying over the night, so if I've paid for it there's no reason for them to have to stay once the meet is finished.

Luckily hasn't happened yet that we haven't got on in person and the room has always been made full use of

Hasn't happened yet...

I'm also not expecting it to happen anytime soon either

unless he actually wears the crocs as threatened, then there could be an issue

Yeah but jeans and a flannel shirt to go with the crocs

What colour crocs.

Lightish red

Dude you're killing me, is it at least a red shirt so they'll match.

It's in my pics, the 1000yard stare pic

Erm I’ve met you in a hotel and you had neither

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any meets I’ve had the hotels either been halted or one persons paid for the hotel whilst the other covers food and drinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually end up booking (don't ask my why) but I do expect the man to pay half of the cost. I think it's only fair to both of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best way can be when the man is staying at the hotel through business and his employer is paying the bill

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By *ucy83SOWoman over a year ago

Southampton

As I stay away with work a lot I tend to pick up bill (expenses) but if its me paying I tend yo expect to split the cost x

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