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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?
These are hypothetical, worst case scenarios, so no naming and shaming please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they obviously lie, I’ve had a few recently that I’m happy to get to know and maybe become fwb with but they’ll say obvious lies like they want a relationship because I’m apparently so hot (seriously I have mirrors) ect when we’ve never met or spoken on the phone yet  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sadly the list of things I find offputting has gotten to the stage where I no longer meet anyone new. I'm turning into the female version of Victor Meldrew I fear...  "
I don’t believe it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When they obviously lie, I’ve had a few recently that I’m happy to get to know and maybe become fwb with but they’ll say obvious lies like they want a relationship because I’m apparently so hot (seriously I have mirrors) ect when we’ve never met or spoken on the phone yet "
Ok but they’re not lying, you’re smoking hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they were a shallow person with no personality . I've walked out of a meet because I met the most gorgeous woman who proceeded to tell me how lucky I was to meet her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When they obviously lie, I’ve had a few recently that I’m happy to get to know and maybe become fwb with but they’ll say obvious lies like they want a relationship because I’m apparently so hot (seriously I have mirrors) ect when we’ve never met or spoken on the phone yet
Ok but they’re not lying, you’re smoking hot"
Thanks and so are you but this amount of conversation is when they start asking me to move in  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When they obviously lie, I’ve had a few recently that I’m happy to get to know and maybe become fwb with but they’ll say obvious lies like they want a relationship because I’m apparently so hot (seriously I have mirrors) ect when we’ve never met or spoken on the phone yet
Ok but they’re not lying, you’re smoking hot
Thanks and so are you but this amount of conversation is when they start asking me to move in "
My poor dog was fast asleep on my knee before I read that and woke him up laughing! You’re not wrong!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they have nothing to say except "I'm horny". When they want bareback. When they assume sex will happen regardless. When they want a first meet in their car. When I send a pic and they don't reply with a compliment of some kind. When they say they don't want to be seen in public with a tgirl. When they brag about what amazing lovers they are. When they refuse to send a pic before meeting. When "can accommodate" turns out to mean a hotel or their workplace. When they are arrogant. And sometimes their political views.
I could write loads, it's no wonder I rarely meet anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly the list of things I find offputting has gotten to the stage where I no longer meet anyone new. I'm turning into the female version of Victor Meldrew I fear... "
Thats no bad thing  |
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"When they obviously lie, I’ve had a few recently that I’m happy to get to know and maybe become fwb with but they’ll say obvious lies like they want a relationship because I’m apparently so hot (seriously I have mirrors) ect when we’ve never met or spoken on the phone yet "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When a "So!!!" Pops up as a message after they've told me how marvellous they are/ are in their hotel now etc etc
I could happily chew their typing finger off and feed it to the pigs. (Followed by the rest of them)  |
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"If they were a shallow person with no personality . I've walked out of a meet because I met the most gorgeous woman who proceeded to tell me how lucky I was to meet her "
Us too, being asked a few time to meet this couple, against our better judgement we succumbed and agreed to meet.
The chap barely said a word, the woman wouldn't stop talking and it was all about her.
There was our lesson about following your own gut, we didn't and whilst no harm came from the meet as such, it did highlight that we had reasons that we ignored and that we'd never go down that route again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?
These are hypothetical, worst case scenarios, so no naming and shaming please "
If they look like my ex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad manners.
Telling me what they want me to wear. "
I had a man message me once to tell me “you will wear a basque and stockings”
It was the first message as well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?
These are hypothetical, worst case scenarios, so no naming and shaming please
If they look like my ex"
And mine. I must have been d*unk for our whole relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee. |
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"Racism, homophobia, arrogance, so many other things.
Filter threads are a godsend "
Well maybe they are for anyone who figures the forums are a good place to look for new meets .
For us the forums are the last place we would look for a meet .
Back on the thread , if we think the people we are going to meet are hot and our type , there’s not much that would put us off meeting them . Possibly if they asked us to play bareback .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad manners.
Telling me what they want me to wear. "
What is it about guys in scabby old briefs and chinos demanding that women wear gorgeous lingerie for them! |
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"What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?"
If they’re a bit dim, if they voted for Brexit, if they have a private reg, if they’re dripping in jewellery, if they look like the smell, if they use ‘lol’ or too many emojis, if they like soaps, if they like mushrooms or celery, if they want to touch my pee-pee, if they have a perm, if they have Marilyn Monroe ‘quotes’ on their facebook page, if they send me photoshopped pics of how the imagine our wedding day and joint funeral, if they ask if their husband / dog / cat / kids can listen / watch / join in, if they ask to put things up my bum or if their real name is the same as any pets I’ve had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?
These are hypothetical, worst case scenarios, so no naming and shaming please "
Telling me they were over 6ft when in reality I can see over their head..
Not good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! "
noo ends are boring it's never-ending |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! noo ends are boring it's never-ending "
You won! May I fuck your shit hole? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! noo ends are boring it's never-ending
You won! May I fuck your shit hole? "
il need to have a look to see if that's on my list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! noo ends are boring it's never-ending
You won! May I fuck your shit hole? il need to have a look to see if that's on my list "
Go in front of your mirror bend over, spread your ass and have a look if it needs to be fucked |
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee."
Whats wrong with coffee?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee? "
I love the smell of coffee, hate the taste though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! noo ends are boring it's never-ending
You won! May I fuck your shit hole? il need to have a look to see if that's on my list
Go in front of your mirror bend over, spread your ass and have a look if it needs to be fucked"
nah...looks ok..ish
For now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee?
I love the smell of coffee, hate the taste though"
snap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg
The list is endless
This ! Ppl with endless list !! lol this! People with no lists!
Haha I have but it has a bloody end ! noo ends are boring it's never-ending
You won! May I fuck your shit hole? il need to have a look to see if that's on my list
Go in front of your mirror bend over, spread your ass and have a look if it needs to be fuckednah...looks ok..ish
For now "
Another time then xx |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Christ so many things. If they use 'Mmmmmmm' or 'cum' a lot in messages. If they ask me what I'm going to wear, if they tell me what they're going to do to me, if they make assumptions, if they xome across as needy or desperate in their status updates/messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee?
I love the smell of coffee, hate the taste thoughsnap!"
I live on the stuff, but then I am at work 14-16 hour a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee? "
Nothing wrong with coffee.... Well the instant is quite carsinogenic.
There are a few ladies who just seem to meet for coffee. Guess maybe looking for that elusive perfect guy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee?
Nothing wrong with coffee.... Well the instant is quite carsinogenic.
There are a few ladies who just seem to meet for coffee. Guess maybe looking for that elusive perfect guy. "
Or maybe they just like free coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. Attitude.
2. Cannot accommodate.
3. Someone who doesn't repeat meet.
4. One who comes across Needy look at me regularly in their stutuses.
5. Someone who's working their way through the site.
6. Someone who seems to enjoy too much coffee.
Whats wrong with coffee?
Nothing wrong with coffee.... Well the instant is quite carsinogenic.
There are a few ladies who just seem to meet for coffee. Guess maybe looking for that elusive perfect guy.
Or maybe they just like free coffee"
Could be. Just not my cuppa tea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When they upload a pic in the bath and all the silicone is mouldy and black"
I saw a picture floating around the internet once that looked like she was sitting in the bath from Saw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they upload a pic in the bath and all the silicone is mouldy and black
I saw a picture floating around the internet once that looked like she was sitting in the bath from Saw "
There is some terrible ones floating on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would put you off meeting somebody, regardless of how attractive they were?
These are hypothetical, worst case scenarios, so no naming and shaming please
Telling me they were over 6ft when in reality I can see over their head..
Not good "
Also this! And it happens. A lot!!!
Mrs x |
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