This stems from a comment I have seen on another thread.
A fella said he just CANNOT leave the scene and you know what... I agree with him.
My mate made me laugh the other night. We were watching ‘Homeland’ and (for those that haven’t seen it) the main character (a Muslim American soldier) was being held captive in a tower block in South America and spotted his salvation... a mosque.. and ran to it. My mate piped up ‘that’d be you if you spotted a swingers club’ lol
She’s right though... I’m working away soon and I thought... I won’t be alone in the strange city... some fellow swingers will look after me and meet me for drinks (as if they were jehovahs witnesses or something. Lol... but I appreciate Maybe it’s easier meeting with being a woman)
Anyway. Question is... anyone else feel ‘addicted’ like the lifestyle is ‘exactly for them’... I can’t imagine life without it |
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Bollox, I'll confess I am! I'm not really that active in the "scene" but this fills gaps and ticks boxes and somehow keeps a little thrill and spice in my life. |
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Definitely know what you mean OP.. i love the lifestyle and the people and everything that goes with it. Can’t imagine walking away from the scene now after so long.. it might not be for everyone but it’s definitely my cup of latte  |
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I've met some amazing people, had a laugh. Made connections with people who I wouldn't of necessarily met in a vanilla world.
For me it's another way to socialise, if it leads to fwb situation great, if not then I get to meet new people
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"This stems from a comment I have seen on another thread.
A fella said he just CANNOT leave the scene and you know what... I agree with him.
My mate made me laugh the other night. We were watching ‘Homeland’ and (for those that haven’t seen it) the main character (a Muslim American soldier) was being held captive in a tower block in South America and spotted his salvation... a mosque.. and ran to it. My mate piped up ‘that’d be you if you spotted a swingers club’ lol
She’s right though... I’m working away soon and I thought... I won’t be alone in the strange city... some fellow swingers will look after me and meet me for drinks (as if they were jehovahs witnesses or something. Lol... but I appreciate Maybe it’s easier meeting with being a woman)
Anyway. Question is... anyone else feel ‘addicted’ like the lifestyle is ‘exactly for them’... I can’t imagine life without it "
These things work two ways though Goodnight, you could help others in need too!
Yet when I told you I was feeling suicidal and asked you to fuck me to death, you just laughed.pmsl  |
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"This stems from a comment I have seen on another thread.
A fella said he just CANNOT leave the scene and you know what... I agree with him.
My mate made me laugh the other night. We were watching ‘Homeland’ and (for those that haven’t seen it) the main character (a Muslim American soldier) was being held captive in a tower block in South America and spotted his salvation... a mosque.. and ran to it. My mate piped up ‘that’d be you if you spotted a swingers club’ lol
She’s right though... I’m working away soon and I thought... I won’t be alone in the strange city... some fellow swingers will look after me and meet me for drinks (as if they were jehovahs witnesses or something. Lol... but I appreciate Maybe it’s easier meeting with being a woman)
Anyway. Question is... anyone else feel ‘addicted’ like the lifestyle is ‘exactly for them’... I can’t imagine life without it
These things work two ways though Goodnight, you could help others in need too!
Yet when I told you I was feeling suicidal and asked you to fuck me to death, you just laughed.pmsl "
I still LOL every time I think of that. Def best message ever |
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Addicted to the forums possibly as I do spend a lot of time reading and commenting. I'm not really in this lifestyle to start with though so I could easily leave tomorrow if I found a nice gentleman. |
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"Addicted to the forums possibly as I do spend a lot of time reading and commenting. I'm not really in this lifestyle to start with though so I could easily leave tomorrow if I found a nice gentleman. "
My feelings exactly
(Woman though, not gentleman) |
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" Bollox, I'll confess I am! I'm not really that active in the "scene" but this fills gaps and ticks boxes and somehow keeps a little thrill and spice in my life."
I am not addicted yet but this those fill current gaps. Which will get filled if am still on here as much then. Then i'll raise my hand and say 'yeah I grab my dick and swing it around'  |
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"Addicted to the forums possibly as I do spend a lot of time reading and commenting. I'm not really in this lifestyle to start with though so I could easily leave tomorrow if I found a nice gentleman. "
Ditto. I just want a cock to call my own 
And to call it home. |
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For us it’s more just something extra that we do and enjoy rather than something that defines us or we’re addicted to.
Maybe we’re not proper swingers as we mostly only like to play with single ladies. I’m not sure we’d even describe ourselves as swingers as much as an adventurous couple. If that definition even makes sense?
We like a high end club or private party for a classy night out but there aren’t any around by us so it’s more something we’ll occasionally do when travelling, but again it’s only when the mood takes and not something we will specifically look for week in week out. |
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Well half the forum weren't swingers to start with, so obviously they aren't addicted. I do think for actual swingers, swinging pushes your excitement threshold past a level that monogamy can fulfil (in most cases). |
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I've tried giving this lifestyle up, I lasted 25 months then just had to come back. I think if it's truly 'in you' then you can't give it up. I love Dec far too much. |
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"Well half the forum weren't swingers to start with, so obviously they aren't addicted. I do think for actual swingers, swinging pushes your excitement threshold past a level that monogamy can fulfil (in most cases). "
Swinging has made us appreciate good monogamy |
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"I'm not addicted no. I don't think. denial is one of the first signs of addiction
Give me a good man to love then I'll know for sure."
Awwwwwww I've got something in my eye |
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I think it can become addictive, you send out a couple of messages to peoples whose profile takes your fancy and then spend the rest of the day looking at your phone every 15 minutes to see if you've had a reply.
I even put the phone down then picked it up 1 minute later !
So I changed and don't let it rule my life now |
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"I think it can become addictive, you send out a couple of messages to peoples whose profile takes your fancy and then spend the rest of the day looking at your phone every 15 minutes to see if you've had a reply.
I even put the phone down then picked it up 1 minute later !
So I changed and don't let it rule my life now "
Good for you  . I wish I could |
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"I've tried giving this lifestyle up, I lasted 25 months then just had to come back. I think if it's truly 'in you' then you can't give it up. I love Dec far too much."
*love sex |
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" Bollox, I'll confess I am! I'm not really that active in the "scene" but this fills gaps and ticks boxes and somehow keeps a little thrill and spice in my life."
This for me too.
I need a little thrill sometimes to take me away from the mundane.
And I'm not sure I want to be monogamous with anyone.
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I’m not addicted but I enjoy the social aspect as much as the sex, and yes I’d probably be thinking the same thing that as a swinger you are never alone x |
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Awwww my wee ickle pocket perv! The true swinging lifestyle is just amazing! Where else in life can you feel truly yourself? From this lifestyle I have made some amazing friends whom I hold close to my DD's  |
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As somebody said above, this is just an occasional added extra to our marriage. If we have a bad experience, or either of us get bored or lose interest, we'll easily knock it on the head and say "Remember when we used to..."
It would be wierd if either of us were 'addicted'. |
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"Awwww my wee ickle pocket perv! The true swinging lifestyle is just amazing! Where else in life can you feel truly yourself? From this lifestyle I have made some amazing friends whom I hold close to my DD's "
I’m motorboating them DD’s tonight! You Mark my words. |
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I'm not addicted to the lifestyle however at the moment there is a risk I could be getting addicted to my fwb ... But in a "want more fun" way and not a "I want a relationship" way  |
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"Awwww my wee ickle pocket perv! The true swinging lifestyle is just amazing! Where else in life can you feel truly yourself? From this lifestyle I have made some amazing friends whom I hold close to my DD's
I’m motorboating them DD’s tonight! You Mark my words. "
Big time phwoar  |
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