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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see many woman on here and other sites commonly have on there profiles boring messages with hello hi and hey will be deleted.
I was wondering how else do you introduce yourself to complete strangers without that 1st part of general politeness?
We all know appearance is the main connecter on these dating sites as shallow as it is, you could type the most normal or heartfelt message to someone only to be asked to send a picture and then be pied off because the person doesn't like your face.
When did we all become so cold and shallow? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Haha it's hard graft this online business miss the days of meeting in public everyone wants to send a million text before they'll even have a drink with you thesedays  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see many woman on here and other sites commonly have on there profiles boring messages with hello hi and hey will be deleted.
I was wondering how else do you introduce yourself to complete strangers without that 1st part of general politeness?
We all know appearance is the main connecter on these dating sites as shallow as it is, you could type the most normal or heartfelt message to someone only to be asked to send a picture and then be pied off because the person doesn't like your face.
When did we all become so cold and shallow?"
I would appreciate something along the lines of.....
Long ago in a distant land, I,*insert name here*, the shape-shifting Master of Darkness, unleashed an unspeakable evil! But a foolish Samurai warrior wielding a magic sword stepped forth to oppose me. Before the final blow was struck, I tore open a portal in time and flung him into the future, where my evil is law! Now the fool seeks to return to the past, and undo the future that is *insert name here*!
Either that or just a normal hey 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha it's hard graft this online business miss the days of meeting in public everyone wants to send a million text before they'll even have a drink with you thesedays "
You can still meet people in public. Pubs, clubs etc. I'm sure people still go out and socialise haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see many woman on here and other sites commonly have on there profiles boring messages with hello hi and hey will be deleted.
I was wondering how else do you introduce yourself to complete strangers without that 1st part of general politeness?
We all know appearance is the main connecter on these dating sites as shallow as it is, you could type the most normal or heartfelt message to someone only to be asked to send a picture and then be pied off because the person doesn't like your face.
When did we all become so cold and shallow?"
In regards to your comments, I think it would be a little different if someone was looking to date. But this is a swinging site. People use it for that reason. There are exceptions of course, but it's predominantly a site for NSA sex, so i would think that people would see physical attraction as the main pre cursor to a meet... Though again, there are exceptions  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I always look at the profile 1st
If it's a hi how are you? From a good profile ,I reply.
If I dislike the profile or its just dick pics/other women,I delete whatever the message really.
So for me ,it's all about the profile tbh. |
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"I see many woman on here and other sites commonly have on there profiles boring messages with hello hi and hey will be deleted.
I was wondering how else do you introduce yourself to complete strangers without that 1st part of general politeness?
Loving your profile pic. Sorry off topic but had to be said
We all know appearance is the main connecter on these dating sites as shallow as it is, you could type the most normal or heartfelt message to someone only to be asked to send a picture and then be pied off because the person doesn't like your face.
When did we all become so cold and shallow?
I would appreciate something along the lines of.....
Long ago in a distant land, I,*insert name here*, the shape-shifting Master of Darkness, unleashed an unspeakable evil! But a foolish Samurai warrior wielding a magic sword stepped forth to oppose me. Before the final blow was struck, I tore open a portal in time and flung him into the future, where my evil is law! Now the fool seeks to return to the past, and undo the future that is *insert name here*!
Either that or just a normal hey
xGx"
Loving your profile pic. Sorry I know off topic but had to be said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see many woman on here and other sites commonly have on there profiles boring messages with hello hi and hey will be deleted.
I was wondering how else do you introduce yourself to complete strangers without that 1st part of general politeness?
Loving your profile pic. Sorry off topic but had to be said
We all know appearance is the main connecter on these dating sites as shallow as it is, you could type the most normal or heartfelt message to someone only to be asked to send a picture and then be pied off because the person doesn't like your face.
When did we all become so cold and shallow?
I would appreciate something along the lines of.....
Long ago in a distant land, I,*insert name here*, the shape-shifting Master of Darkness, unleashed an unspeakable evil! But a foolish Samurai warrior wielding a magic sword stepped forth to oppose me. Before the final blow was struck, I tore open a portal in time and flung him into the future, where my evil is law! Now the fool seeks to return to the past, and undo the future that is *insert name here*!
Either that or just a normal hey
xGx
Loving your profile pic. Sorry I know off topic but had to be said "
Aww thank you! I love a nice pair of lips ???? xGx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because NSA sex *is* cold and shallow. It's just using people as a fuck, then on to the next one. People say it all the time- if one meet doesn't work out just move onto the next one. Using people like a living wank sock.
Yet if other people use them in that way they get upset. They can't comprehend the hypocrisy.
A simple "hi" message works fine for some. The larger the request for tailored messages and jumping through hoops, the larger the ego that needs to be tended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I send mails out to men I’m interested in chatting to I say, “Hey I was browsing and came across your profile, would love to chat more to see if there is mutual attraction. Here are a few photos of me (including a face pic). No offence taken if I’m not your type”.
I don’t answer mails back if it just says hi, hru, hey looking good, up to much?, having much luck on here? Etc, I also will not answer back mail that have no photos attached or photos on the profile.
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