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By *orny indian 69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering

I have heard this several times:

Wife: how could xxx have an affair with xxx his wife is much better looking then her

Ladies men dont care about that. It was the fact she was just different , someone else. She smelled, kissed, moved differently.

Most married men would cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught

Who agrees?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd like to think the majority of people stay faithful.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nothing is ever just black and white

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By *orny indian 69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"nothing is ever just black and white "

Exactly. It's an understanding some couples have

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have heard this several times:

Wife: how could xxx have an affair with xxx his wife is much better looking then her

Ladies men dont care about that. It was the fact she was just different , someone else. She smelled, kissed, moved differently.

Most married men would cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught

Who agrees?

"

Bullshit mate, I’d never cheat on my wife. It’s decietful and says a lot about a persons integrity if they think it’s ok to do things, as long as they don’t get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Without doing a survey it's all guesswork.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"nothing is ever just black and white

Exactly. It's an understanding some couples have"

Your post wasn't about an understanding though. It was about cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never cheated when married and if I am ever in a relationship again I wouldn't.

It simply isn't cricket

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By *orny indian 69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat "

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

We are married, and don’t cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are lots of reasons why someone would cheat, until you’ve lived their lives and been through what they’ve been through then don’t be so quick to judge.

As for ‘would all guys cheat if they wouldn’t get caught?’ Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

I was married and we ended it because there was no intimacy anymore. Neither of us would have ever cheated as we respected each other too much. It was sad to part as he was my best friend but it was the sensible thing to do.

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By *orny indian 69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"There are lots of reasons why someone would cheat, until you’ve lived their lives and been through what they’ve been through then don’t be so quick to judge.

As for ‘would all guys cheat if they wouldn’t get caught?’ Probably not"

Yeah fair enough. Bit of a general quote.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

We are married, and don’t cheat."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I hope you're wrong,I like to think there's decent men out there.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London

It's difficult to know how many people cheat as those who aren't found out may not be willing to admit it. Statistics I have seen give wildly varying figures from 20% to 70%.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suppose there are many reasons why men cheat. And none of them stop it being painful beyond words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

Classic quote for someone who cheats on his partner?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think most would. Some.

If he has a hot sexy wife that doesn't like sex, the not-so-hot woman that fucks like mad will be very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never cheated nor intend to.

Is having a wank thinking of your wife’s friends cheating?

Not if you are doing it over your her and telling her....as if

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By *orny indian 69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

Classic quote for someone who cheats on his partner? "

Catch 22 situation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

You're wrong btw

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never cheated when married and if I am ever in a relationship again I wouldn't.

It simply isn't cricket "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

A good assumption there about my own personal circumstances

Nope it's not a classic quote. I don't personally believe in monogamy BUT I believe that if you are happy in a relationship and everything is being fulfilled and you are open and honest with each other then you have no reason to cheat. If your fulfilled you have no reason to do so if not you may as well be single

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I cheat at solitaire

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have heard this several times:

Wife: how could xxx have an affair with xxx his wife is much better looking then her

Ladies men dont care about that. It was the fact she was just different , someone else. She smelled, kissed, moved differently.

Most married men would cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught

Who agrees?

"

No not my man

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

A good assumption there about my own personal circumstances

Nope it's not a classic quote. I don't personally believe in monogamy BUT I believe that if you are happy in a relationship and everything is being fulfilled and you are open and honest with each other then you have no reason to cheat. If your fulfilled you have no reason to do so if not you may as well be single "

Circular argument alert

People who fulfilled don't cheat. How do you know? Because if you cheat you're not fulfilled...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

A good assumption there about my own personal circumstances

Nope it's not a classic quote. I don't personally believe in monogamy BUT I believe that if you are happy in a relationship and everything is being fulfilled and you are open and honest with each other then you have no reason to cheat. If your fulfilled you have no reason to do so if not you may as well be single "

This is to black and white. And totally unrealistic.

No relationship can be happy all the time. We all have down times, hard times. And they can last and last before getting better. It's easy for some people to forget that nothing is permanent and easy for them to expect and think they deserve to be happy all the time.

They don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time

A good assumption there about my own personal circumstances

Nope it's not a classic quote. I don't personally believe in monogamy BUT I believe that if you are happy in a relationship and everything is being fulfilled and you are open and honest with each other then you have no reason to cheat. If your fulfilled you have no reason to do so if not you may as well be single

This is to black and white. And totally unrealistic.

No relationship can be happy all the time. We all have down times, hard times. And they can last and last before getting better. It's easy for some people to forget that nothing is permanent and easy for them to expect and think they deserve to be happy all the time.

They don't."

I agree^^^^^

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple  over a year ago

Bedworth


"A load of bull. If someone is truly happy and fulfilled at home they won't cheat

Classic quote for someone who ain't married x

Heard it loads of time"

It might sound like a cliche but it is actually true!

I was married when Shaggy and I met, not a happy and fulfilling marriage. We had an affair for 6 months before I left my ex husband.

Fast forward nearly 5 years and Shaggy and I are happily married. If we desire an extra zing in our sex life we will seek it together, on here or at a swingers club. Neither of us has any desire to meet and have sex with anyone without the other half present. We discuss EVERYTHING not just sex. Any decisions about any aspect of our lives are made as a couple. We believe in 100% honesty with each other.

If you are truely happy and fulfilled in a relationship then cheating will not be something that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have heard this several times:

Wife: how could xxx have an affair with xxx his wife is much better looking then her

Ladies men dont care about that. It was the fact she was just different , someone else. She smelled, kissed, moved differently.

Most married men would cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught

Who agrees?

"

My ex had an affair. I was expecting someone really nice looking....No....she was not what I expected at all. Bit mumsy. She was however a corporate manager and career focused and from what I made of her ambitious. Total opposite of me. It was in the back of my mind why the hell would he pick someone like that but you just never know what makes people tick x

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