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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we feel the need for it to be said - the front door will be shown on the spot."
It's often put in verifications and I dunno, I just think it's totally unnecessary ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it drives me up the wall. I left it on a female friends profile to take the Mickey but was a personal joke between us 
It's the same as the line this ones not to be missed, don't pass her by, don't mess her around. They all create eye rolls   |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
Yet some people don't treat people with respect so clearly they do need telling. |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
You are absolutely right, we have put it before because we assumed it was a way of saying this couple/person made us feel special as we had seen it so many times before.
Once you read it back in isolation it is a ridiculous thing to put.
We shall amend our ways. |
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To be honest we can’t stand it. We also hate the verifications that describes in detail the sexual encounters, how much she squirted, how much cum he produced. Really!! Just say you met and enjoyed yourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
I can respect this opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it makes me chuckle when I read a review that goes a little something like..
'I fucked her in the ass then came all over her face' and then ends with 'treat her with respect' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah it drives me up the wall. I left it on a female friends profile to take the Mickey but was a personal joke between us
It's the same as the line this ones not to be missed, don't pass her by, don't mess her around. They all create eye rolls "
Absolutely right  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
Yet some people don't treat people with respect so clearly they do need telling. "
If someone needs telling I wouldn't entertain them |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
Yet some people don't treat people with respect so clearly they do need telling.
If someone needs telling I wouldn't entertain them"
How would you know? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
You are absolutely right, we have put it before because we assumed it was a way of saying this couple/person made us feel special as we had seen it so many times before.
Once you read it back in isolation it is a ridiculous thing to put.
We shall amend our ways."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest we can’t stand it. We also hate the verifications that describes in detail the sexual encounters, how much she squirted, how much cum he produced. Really!! Just say you met and enjoyed yourselves "
If I write a veri I tend to make them amusing. I am not one for gushing endorsements, and I'm with you, it's not necessary! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
I can respect this opinion "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
Yet some people don't treat people with respect so clearly they do need telling.
If someone needs telling I wouldn't entertain them
How would you know? "
Because disrespectful men are usually pretty transparent IMHO |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
Yet some people don't treat people with respect so clearly they do need telling.
If someone needs telling I wouldn't entertain them
How would you know?
Because disrespectful men are usually pretty transparent IMHO"
Oh.... I see. |
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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago
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Everyone should be treated with respect....in life, on here.
Some of the more lurid verification are nothing more than men boosting their own egos. To my mind, a verification should be nothing more than "good communication, turned up as promised and true to profile".
Others may disagree. |
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"It doesn't bother me. I've read a lot more offensive things on here. "
Yup! Getting all worked up about something innocuous like this on the verification of a meet someone se had is pretty silly in my eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone should be treated with respect....in life, on here.
Some of the more lurid verification are nothing more than men boosting their own egos. To my mind, a verification should be nothing more than "good communication, turned up as promised and true to profile".
Others may disagree."
I'm with ya!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It doesn't bother me. I've read a lot more offensive things on here.
Yup! Getting all worked up about something innocuous like this on the verification of a meet someone se had is pretty silly in my eyes. "
I'm fucking stupid, so I'll take "pretty silly" |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing "
It shood be but for sum its not as for sum common courtesy don't exzist in the 1st place. Its Sad realey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing
It shood be but for sum its not as for sum common courtesy don't exzist in the 1st place. Its Sad realey"
Agreed Seeside |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
You would think wouldn't you? But life experiance has taught me this value is most certainly not as universal as you'd hope. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
You would think wouldn't you? But life experiance has taught me this value is most certainly not as universal as you'd hope. "
You're not wrong ... It's a shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications are just a form os notches on a bedpost..
I don't particularly care if I have any or see any... let alone read the content of them..
Mistress Amelia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
I agree. But it's unusual when people treat others with respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
I agree. But it's unusual when people treat others with respect."
That's a sad observation...respect is the minimum people deserve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a sad reflection of the idea that some men still have that: women who actively seek and enjoy sexual encounters are still seen as having less respect for themselves than those who don't.
I think it's often done without realising |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
I agree. But it's unusual when people treat others with respect.
That's a sad observation...respect is the minimum people deserve. "
I agree but people are always saying they don't automatically respect people. They have to 'earn it'.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's a sad reflection of the idea that some men still have that: women who actively seek and enjoy sexual encounters are still seen as having less respect for themselves than those who don't.
I think it's often done without realising "
I think it's exactly this.
Their opinion seems to be that women on sites like this shouldn't be respected because they are slutty. Their issue not mine. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this?
I agree. But it's unusual when people treat others with respect.
That's a sad observation...respect is the minimum people deserve.
I agree but people are always saying they don't automatically respect people. They have to 'earn it'. "
I think that depends on the context, in a work or sports environment that may be true but at a human level everyone deserves to be viewed as an equal....until they prove differently. You can lose respect for people by their actions and behaviours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's a sad reflection of the idea that some men still have that: women who actively seek and enjoy sexual encounters are still seen as having less respect for themselves than those who don't.
I think it's often done without realising "
A fair point, although I’ve seen it on men’s verifications too.
I think it’s one of those stock phrases that people use when they’re trying to be nice but don’t really know what else to say. At the end of the day, it is what it is, when all’s said and done... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
Bloody Veri’s grate me too they’re all the same shit written I think by the same patronising dick head lol  |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
Yep. Normally written by a bloke. At best it implies that they think some men as a matter of course may not, in various ways, be respectful, at worst, it presents showing this 'respect' thing as a choice which maybe they do or don't normally do. It also has a slightly threatening air.
On a sexist note, it also impies that the woman in question needs 'protecting' by them in some way(hardly progressive, and I would hope unsolicited from the woman), as it comes across as a warning, and carries the air of a threat, which makes them come across as a bit Neanderthal, aggro orientated, and you could argue some sense of 'ownership' of the lady by the man writing the comments. Very primitive and more than a bit insulting.
I'd like to think that it is done with the best of intention, but ends up coming across all wrong. Not to mention thoughtless.
Of course everyone should show respect. But if I was a woman and read that kind of stuff my view of men, and especially of the intelligence and emotional men on this site, would plummet.
Sorry. Winds me up too how some just don't engage their brains. Language is soo important, and it's a bout time people began to realise how it can have an affect, and started to think a bit more before coming out with stuff. |
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"Anyone else find this statement grinds their gears a little bit?
No-one should be told to treat someone with respect, it should be a given, common courtesy type of thing ... Anyone with me on this? "
No.
While I agree that treating someone with respect shouldn't have to be asked for, sadly it seems that many don't treat the people they meet respectfully... you only have to see the amount of ghosting threads on here to know that. So if someone likes you enough to want to remind others to be respectful and give you the treatment you deserve... Is that really such a bad thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to me that the kind of person who doesn't treat people with respect is hardly going to take much notice of such a suggestion.
I think I'd find it somewhat patronising too if someone wrote that about me. |
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"I think it's a sad reflection of the idea that some men still have that: women who actively seek and enjoy sexual encounters are still seen as having less respect for themselves than those who don't.
I think it's often done without realising "
I hear ya.
I also think it's another way of saying "this person is 'one of the good uns' if you're respectful you'll get the best of them, if not, you're fucking things up for yourself" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Veris left often tell you more about a person than their profile ever does, I guess we kind of use the content as a filter. Treat him/her with respect, sucks like a dyson, squirts loads, heavy cummer, he/shes mine, want to keep this person to myself - are all giant swerves for us.
Same can be said for statuses, we tend to swerve the call 07******** for phone sex, need my balls draining, want to lick pussy now, why can't I get a meet, leaving now, waste of time, I really want the new converse trainers, if you want to chat/meet I need my gas/electric/phone bill paying, want to be treated like a princess, female at work only male available need entertaining, I really want pics of you shagging my hubby while I work, so horny I'd pay £££, so skint any ideas how I can make money?? and so on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The dyson thing for me i had a chat with a lass who had a veri with that on and asked her does it not make you wonder what kind of a guy he is if hes spends much of his time getting sucked off by vacuum cleaners as he enjoyed it so much otherwise how can he compare
Ps iv never fucked a hoover
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