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Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect. |
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I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too  .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
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I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention x |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention x"
That's why i said some |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
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hi no its just what somebody said one .day about if u weren't in here nobody would look twice lol |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention x"
ha ha yea this kind of thing. Talk here but not when out and about |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
hi no its just what somebody said one .day about if u weren't in here nobody would look twice lol "
not at me in general just as in people on here if u get me |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention xha ha yea this kind of thing. Talk here but not when out and about"
Would you want to tho  x |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
hi no its just what somebody said one .day about if u weren't in here nobody would look twice lol "
Ahhhh.... Now i get you. I'm glad it's not how you feel about yourself |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention xha ha yea this kind of thing. Talk here but not when out and about
Would you want to tho x"
. Im not sure lol .would be weird .  |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect."
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle...  |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
I get messages from 24 year olds with 6 packs on here and although I'm confident in myself....no way on earth would they approach me in a pub or get the same attention xha ha yea this kind of thing. Talk here but not when out and about
Would you want to tho x. Im not sure lol .would be weird . "
It would be borderline peodo for me lol x |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle... "
I can see you now. Running down all the little grannies. Was getting that sugar, worth all that carnage? |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle...
I can see you now. Running down all the little grannies. Was getting that sugar, worth all that carnage? "
It was their own fault, they could have climbed the shelving to escape  |
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I'm shy as fuck in the outside world when it comes to sex. Chatting, flirting, paying someone a compliment, that's all fine. But the thought of actually turning the conversation around to having sex together makes me shy as anything.
It's difficult enough here, 100x worse in the outside world  |
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"How do you know they wouldn't?
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Just cause some guys that have sent a pic iv knew who they were outside of fab and they don't even say hi or that in the passing ...but talk away to a body pic lmao |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle... "
ha ha |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect."
Relative female scarcity on Fab.
It's not women's fault that guys who wouldn't normally be interested are queuing up.
Take advantage of it I say. You can be sure that guys would if it was the other way around! |
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"I'm shy as fuck in the outside world when it comes to sex. Chatting, flirting, paying someone a compliment, that's all fine. But the thought of actually turning the conversation around to having sex together makes me shy as anything.
It's difficult enough here, 100x worse in the outside world "
and on here I think it's only about sex and nobody's intrested in you .urself |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
hi no its just what somebody said one .day about if u weren't in here nobody would look twice lol "
That may or may not be true, but SOME guys think ladies are easy game if you are on this site |
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Somone here may have already mention confidence ?
Also behind a screen they can type like a big man ... But in person they become little boys and run away and hide when a pretty lady comes along 
... I guess these guys are the no shows ? |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle...
I can see you now. Running down all the little grannies. Was getting that sugar, worth all that carnage?
It was their own fault, they could have climbed the shelving to escape "
You could have at least shouted a warning and slowed down a little. They need time to scatter.... A lot of time |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
Relative female scarcity on Fab.
It's not women's fault that guys who wouldn't normally be interested are queuing up.
Take advantage of it I say. You can be sure that guys would if it was the other way around! "
Love this answer |
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It's actually very scary approaching someone to chat them up, for a start they are usually in a group, you have no idea if they are single, or interested in being chatted up.
In here the door is open. And an ignored message is much more pleasant than a knee in the balls...
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Some people lose some inhibitions because of different things - one of them being less embarrassed to say something when not face to face with another person. Millions of people regularly would love to share their attraction to others who they see in public but don't do it. Some people will say things in fab to others that they don't offsite.
Others aren't particularly accomplished at communicating with others - they may often learn by doing things in ways that are poorer - great, let them learn and refine their skills.
Fab also has a lot of people who will say lots of stuff that's not particularly true, trying to get a shag.
Use the feedback you get from others to help you improve your own selection. Not much else matters too much, if people are respectful. |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect."
Probably because you don't go down the shops with your boobs out? If you did, I reckon you might get approached....  |
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I give women compliments all the time in real life or ask for a wiggle if im in a cheeky mood gets at least a thanks and a blush
So its rare op but yes some of us still do do it |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
I don't get any messages saying beautiful body like to meet etc. But I do get chatted up by women in pubs, never shops cos I race through shops not seeing anyone except as an annoying obstacle...
I can see you now. Running down all the little grannies. Was getting that sugar, worth all that carnage?
It was their own fault, they could have climbed the shelving to escape "
Impossible. I'm a little old granny with very short legs!!
Jinty |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
Relative female scarcity on Fab.
It's not women's fault that guys who wouldn't normally be interested are queuing up.
Take advantage of it I say. You can be sure that guys would if it was the other way around!
Love this answer "
Very true too. You wouldn't have a guy hooking up with an extremely hot, model type, then ponder about whether she wouldn't bat an eyelid at him in the street. He'd just be thinking 'get in!!' |
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"I'm shy as fuck in the outside world when it comes to sex. Chatting, flirting, paying someone a compliment, that's all fine. But the thought of actually turning the conversation around to having sex together makes me shy as anything.
It's difficult enough here, 100x worse in the outside world and on here I think it's only about sex and nobody's intrested in you .urself"
There are exceptions but yes, that seems to be pretty much the rule here. Often true off the site as well though.
Then again I've found that sometimes people think you're weird here, if you're interested in people and not just sex. |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
Probably because you don't go down the shops with your boobs out? If you did, I reckon you might get approached.... "
A valid point, so very well made |
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"You could have at least shouted a warning and slowed down a little. They need time to scatter.... A lot of time "
They had warning... there is the manic look in my eyes, and the screams from the previous aisles...
37 minutes full shop in Tesco, 15 minutes in Lidl cos it has less to buy... clothes shopping is more of a pain but once I have size sorted I buy 10 of everything so I don't need to go often.
Tool shops however I can spend all day in and come away with a stick of wax |
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Someone summed it up in another thread - being prepared to have sex with strangers without demanding ANY kind of commitment in return simply gives women on here higher market value.
Some men struggle to adjust!  |
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I'd like to think that the knowledge that we are all looking for broadly the same things emboldens us on fab to talk frankly about who we find attractive. In much the same way as if we were at a swingers club, a layer of sociatal reserve is brushed away, people talk open and freely. Had some amazing conversations  |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
Relative female scarcity on Fab.
It's not women's fault that guys who wouldn't normally be interested are queuing up.
Take advantage of it I say. You can be sure that guys would if it was the other way around!
Love this answer
Very true too. You wouldn't have a guy hooking up with an extremely hot, model type, then ponder about whether she wouldn't bat an eyelid at him in the street. He'd just be thinking 'get in!!' "
And he'd do his bloody best to stay in! |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect.
Relative female scarcity on Fab.
It's not women's fault that guys who wouldn't normally be interested are queuing up.
Take advantage of it I say. You can be sure that guys would if it was the other way around!
Love this answer
Very true too. You wouldn't have a guy hooking up with an extremely hot, model type, then ponder about whether she wouldn't bat an eyelid at him in the street. He'd just be thinking 'get in!!'
And he'd do his bloody best to stay in!"
Viagara anyone? |
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"I think some would though. I don't need fab to get male attention. I get it in real life too .
Why don't you think you would OP? They may like the look of you in a shop for example. But not came to tell you. Just admired from afar. Surely you've been out and about, found a guy hot, but not approached him to tell him so....
hi no its just what somebody said one .day about if u weren't in here nobody would look twice lol "
all I am seen as in the real world by those who don't really know me is the bloke who runs the local boozer, at least they took the time to find out that much about me |
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"Hi all why is it in here you get loads of messages saying ,beautiful body like to meet ect. But people that message you ,you know wouldn't approach or chat you up in normal places... like pubs .shops ect."
Men on Fab..... View this site as a place to have no strings attached sex.
Women on Fab...... View this site as a place to have some connection and then have sex...
Moral of the story......... Don’t think about the world outside of Fab... Just enjoy the great sex
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"Don't need it.
I do, I am old now... while women in their 20's may be nice and springy. Those under 35 just wear me out too quickly....  "
We'll I look under 35, but am a knackered wreck. Will i do? |
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"Don't need it.
I do, I am old now... while women in their 20's may be nice and springy. Those under 35 just wear me out too quickly....
We'll I look under 35, but am a knackered wreck. Will i do? "
I look under 50 so I am told (though I think they are after my bus pass)...
For you I would go into training and make the effort xx |
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"Don't need it.
I do, I am old now... while women in their 20's may be nice and springy. Those under 35 just wear me out too quickly....
We'll I look under 35, but am a knackered wreck. Will i do?
I look under 50 so I am told (though I think they are after my bus pass)...
For you I would go into training and make the effort xx"
Anyway you would be easy, My wife thinks you are seriously hot too, so she would go in first and Tag me in when you are worn out |
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"Don't need it.
I do, I am old now... while women in their 20's may be nice and springy. Those under 35 just wear me out too quickly....
We'll I look under 35, but am a knackered wreck. Will i do?
I look under 50 so I am told (though I think they are after my bus pass)...
For you I would go into training and make the effort xx
Anyway you would be easy, My wife thinks you are seriously hot too, so she would go in first and Tag me in when you are worn out "
Oooh two for one! I'm truly blessed  |
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"Don't need it.
I do, I am old now... while women in their 20's may be nice and springy. Those under 35 just wear me out too quickly....
We'll I look under 35, but am a knackered wreck. Will i do?
I look under 50 so I am told (though I think they are after my bus pass)...
For you I would go into training and make the effort xx
Anyway you would be easy, My wife thinks you are seriously hot too, so she would go in first and Tag me in when you are worn out
Oooh two for one! I'm truly blessed "
No point getting older if you don't get wiser |
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Because when men talk to women 'in real life' the woman might be married or with a partner. They might be rude to the man or take the piss.
It's easier to do it online. There's still the chance of rejection but at least it's anonymous. |
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"Because as soon as you signed up for this sort of website, in the eyes of some, you sort of became a sexual commodity, as disposable as a rubber.
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Nice body though |
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"Because as soon as you signed up for this sort of website, in the eyes of some, you sort of became a sexual commodity, as disposable as a rubber. "
There's a lot of merit in that, there's an elephant removed from the room, that exists in the real world.
That's not to say, you don't have to work for it here, indeed for us that's something we love doing, and nothing is a given. As a couple, we wouldn't chat up other people in the real world either, so to that end, would others look twice at us, not so sure they wouldn't as we are quite chatty and have been known to be a little risque and drop in the odd innuendo.
There also isn't the appetite in the real world either to reveal our fab tendencies so can't say for sure if we could be successful in forming a sexual relationship with others in the real world, although I don't think Mrs FGoS would struggle to find suitors... |
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