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Pointless Question...I’m curious

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

I know the clit etc is as full of nerve endings as the cock etc and I’ve had some amazing.. intense orgasms not Just through my clit but pussy and anal..and have been lucky to experience amazing multiple orgasms... but I cant help but think the feeling to ejaculate as you cum must be really really good....

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm guessing you're not a squirter then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is wicked good feeling of it rushing up your shaft but id never say better infact the sexyest site during sex is watching a woman cumming for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then? "

I am yes.... do you think that feels the same??

I still think it maybe feels better though!? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just for a day i'd like to have a fanny just to see what a female orgasm is like. Plus i get to flick my bean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the reverse! I've never shaken or convulsed like a women!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't cum at all. I'd love to know what it feels like.

I think (on the average) it's easier for men to cum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the reverse! I've never shaken or convulsed like a women!"

You don't have epilepsy then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the reverse! I've never shaken or convulsed like a women!"

Interesting point...but that raises the issue If when men cum because they don’t shudder as much etc does that mean theu are not cumming as hard or on the whole Just women make more noise???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then?

I am yes.... do you think that feels the same??

I still think it maybe feels better though!? X"

I have no idea, but I think us women have better orgasms than men. However, I was wondering about a slightly different question. I am lucky enough to be able to cum multiple times, but was always wondering if that means my orgasms are not as strong as those women who can only cum once. I guess we'll never know

. I still feel very lucky I can cum more than once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A man can have just as intense an orgasm as a woman, a lot depends on position.

In the past, I have had more intense orgasms with the woman on top, less intense in missionary

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then?

I am yes.... do you think that feels the same??

I still think it maybe feels better though!? X

. I still feel very lucky I can cum more than once

The whole thing Im curious about and of course it is a pointless question as we will never know... I get that about multiple orgasms.. sometimes not as intense... although I have to say not too long ago when it happened mine seemed to get stronger and stronger!!!

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I'm of the opinion they are fairly similar. But that's just my opinion.

Think men orgasm more easily, just the sight, sound and feeling of a woman cumming while I'm with her can tip me over the edge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A man can have just as intense an orgasm as a woman, a lot depends on position.

In the past, I have had more intense orgasms with the woman on top, less intense in missionary"

That’s an interesting point so do men find any positions lead to a more intense orgasm or is it just the situation or circumstances etc??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's it. How am I going to concentrate on writing reports now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then?

I am yes.... do you think that feels the same??

I still think it maybe feels better though!? X

. I still feel very lucky I can cum more than once

For us blokes i guess it all depends on circumstance really. If it's a quickie then it's not exactly sparks. If however a long drawn out session with lots of build up then for me i can be left feeling a bit wobbly on my feet

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the female orgasm looked more intense, but maybe the grass is always greener...

And women get to have more than one at a time, which I'm always jealous of!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the female orgasm looked more intense, but maybe the grass is always greener...

And women get to have more than one at a time, which I'm always jealous of!

You see I think the male orgasm seems intense when you feel or see the cock throbbing and loads of cum...... oh god Im not trying to sound like a bloody porno hahahahaha

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know some ladies can have multiple orgasms in quick succession and seen the effect that has on them. I can orgasm and collapse in a heap or have a quick wank, wipe and walk.

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By *ocbigMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Intensity varies, the most intense of late was being fucked & he hit my prostate, each time was spine tingling & involuntary cumming was amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting point...but that raises the issue If when men cum because they don’t shudder as much etc does that mean theu are not cumming as hard or on the whole Just women make more noise???

My theory is women tend to have it with all their bodies and more often too. It's the sexiest thing in the world to watch and maybe I just like to think it's more intense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then? "

That feels nothing like an orgasm to me and the orgasm is a million times better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting point...but that raises the issue If when men cum because they don’t shudder as much etc does that mean theu are not cumming as hard or on the whole Just women make more noise???

My theory is women tend to have it with all their bodies and more often too. It's the sexiest thing in the world to watch and maybe I just like to think it's more intense.

Is it possible to explain how an orgasm feels to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm guessing you're not a squirter then?

That feels nothing like an orgasm to me and the orgasm is a million times better."

I agree... squirting for me isn’t the same as a really good intense orgasm however that it’s given!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it possible to explain how an orgasm feels to you?"

Like a sneeze but better.

Im not one for descriptive writing sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is it possible to explain how an orgasm feels to you?

Like a sneeze but better.

Im not one for descriptive writing sorry.

I bet you could if you tried!!

But we get that when you cum it’s like a sneeze but better...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't cum at all. I'd love to know what it feels like.

I think (on the average) it's easier for men to cum. "

You don’t Orgasm at all?? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women probably win this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Intensity varies, the most intense of late was being fucked & he hit my prostate, each time was spine tingling & involuntary cumming was amazing"

I’ve been told that prostrate orgasms are amazing... maybe similar to our ‘G’ spot?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it possible to explain how an orgasm feels to you?

Like a sneeze but better.

Im not one for descriptive writing sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it possible to explain how an orgasm feels to you?

Like a sneeze but better.

Im not one for descriptive writing sorry.

I get the gist.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

I've always thought the female orgasm looked more intense, but maybe the grass is always greener...

And women get to have more than one at a time, which I'm always jealous of!

You see I think the male orgasm seems intense when you feel or see the cock throbbing and loads of cum...... oh god Im not trying to sound like a bloody porno hahahahaha

LOL...porno voice over alert..."his throbbing cock shot powerful jets of cum in me..."

Guess we both have it pretty good, when done right! But how some women's whole bodies convulse like it's taken hold of their whole body...now THAT'S an orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've always thought the female orgasm looked more intense, but maybe the grass is always greener...

And women get to have more than one at a time, which I'm always jealous of!

You see I think the male orgasm seems intense when you feel or see the cock throbbing and loads of cum...... oh god Im not trying to sound like a bloody porno hahahahaha

LOL...porno voice over alert..."his throbbing cock shot powerful jets of cum in me..."

Guess we both have it pretty good, when done right! But how some women's whole bodies convulse like it's taken hold of their whole body...now THAT'S an orgasm!

I agree but is that because women are more vocal then men and let their bodies succumb more to the experience at that time??? Just because men’s bodies not always convulse does that mean it’s less intense??

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

Male orgasm = quality

Female orgasm = quantity

Though most women seem to enjoy themselves as much as men, and more often.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I think there’s a difference between levels of orgasm.

I’ve ejaculated 99% of the times I’ve had sex. It feels good, but that specific sensation is really localised.

I have maybe half a dozen times in my life experienced something that feels like a woman’s orgasm looks like it feels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Male orgasm = quality

Female orgasm = quantity

Though most women seem to enjoy themselves as much as men, and more often. "

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From my experience with men and women and discussing orgasms and various stimuli I do think that the female orgasm is stronger, certainly the ability to multiple orgasm is a huge plus.

Of course no one can ever really know but that’s the impression that I get

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think there’s a difference between levels of orgasm.

I’ve ejaculated 99% of the times I’ve had sex. It feels good, but that specific sensation is really localised.

I have maybe half a dozen times in my life experienced something that feels like a woman’s orgasm looks like it feels."

And was the circumstances extra special on those occasions? I agree I think there are orgasms and orgasms... I’ve been made to cum loads of times but sometimes very rarely someone can make you orgasm but it’s on a completely different level!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

Looking at how both bodies react I'd say they were similar, I take your point on the hot rush of liquid the male feels with the added anticipation and excitement of watching it adds to the experience however as has been mentioned female squirting only females can truly comment on. It's a good question OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I think it’s fascinating.. and the fact that men think because our whole bodies convulse makes men think its better interests me too!!

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

The women always look like they’re having a better time than me.

Whatever they are feeling, they seem to be able to feel it over and over.

I think the male orgasm is a bit of a let down. It’s really only a couple of seconds at best, after which it’s too sensitive to be actually able to do anything. And it just makes me want to doze for 20 mins until I can do it again.

Girls are lucky. Particularly younger ones that seem to be able to come from absolutely minimal stimulation. Since there is no stigma in girls admitting they masturbate now, and that so many watch porn and own toys, the fact that their greater awareness of their own bodies and what turns them on makes sex so much less stressful for guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

I've always thought the reverse! I've never shaken or convulsed like a women!"

Is that a challenge?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"And was the circumstances extra special on those occasions?"

Yes. Always in a relationship, once you were at the point of loving each other, always when the sex was accompanied by that intense sense of not being able to get enough of each other, while also being so in tune that everything either of you do feels great for both of you.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

And... all women can come. I’m amazed that a decreasingly small number seem to want to.

I think saying that you don’t come makes it a foregone conclusion.

If you can’t come when you’re playing with yourself, who else have you got to blame?!!

Most women (when they admit it) realise they fail to relax, even with themselves, or allow themselves to get distracted by something completely unrelated during the process.

Women understanding what really works for them, would make things way better for both men and women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is there anything for the men then that make your orgasms feel better? Or does it depend on the situation?

As already said I can cum.. on my own it’s not as good then been made to orgasm by someone else.... and also the intensity of the orgasms can vary... very very rarely the intensity has taken by breath away...so what about for you men... should we be taking more time on you??

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I think the male orgasm is a bit of a let down. It’s really only a couple of seconds at best, after which it’s too sensitive to be actually able to do anything."

That’s just ejaculating.

"Particularly younger ones that seem to be able to come from absolutely minimal stimulation."

Interesting. In my experience, I’ve generally found that the older women I’ve been with have orgasmed more freely and easily than the younger ones.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"Is there anything for the men then that make your orgasms feel better? Or does it depend on the situation?

The only thing that makes them better is not coming for a few weeks. Regretably, there is always temptation..

I suppose edging yourself is no bad thing either, but waiting until you have sufficient ‘build up’ really is the only thing that changes it..

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"The only thing that makes them better is not coming for a few weeks. Regretably, there is always temptation.."

Again, that’s just the specific feeling of ejaculating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The only thing that makes them better is not coming for a few weeks. Regretably, there is always temptation..

Again, that’s just the specific feeling of ejaculating."

So the feeling you have when you ejaculate is different to the one when you orgasm! I have read men can learn to cum without ejaculating and if so I wonder how that feels in comparison??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only thing that makes them better is not coming for a few weeks. Regretably, there is always temptation..

Again, that’s just the specific feeling of ejaculating.

So the feeling you have when you ejaculate is different to the one when you orgasm! I have read men can learn to cum without ejaculating and if so I wonder how that feels in comparison?? "

I’ve been in situations where I’ve orgasmed and not ejaculated. I’ve also had a multiple orgasm a couple of times, very very intense and a totally different sensation.

I likened that to a female orgasm as my body reacted in the same way

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"So the feeling you have when you ejaculate is different to the one when you orgasm! I have read men can learn to cum without ejaculating and if so I wonder how that feels in comparison?? "

For the most part they are part of the same thing, and happen at the same time. I have never orgasmed without ejaculating, but I gather it is possible. If the feeling of ejaculating improves (because you haven’t for a while) then it’s a general overall improvement, but it doesn’t improve the full-body rush that is possible.

This is probably a shit analogy, but think of a sandwich. If you buy better quality bread, then it tastes nicer overall, and you probably enjoy it more than the sandwich in crap bread, but it doesn’t change the quality of the filling.

Women are eating multiple portions of tuna mayonnaise, or coronation chicken, or maybe it’s just ham and cheese, but sometimes it’s bacon, lettuce and tomato. Some of them have the occasional slice of bread with it.

Men are mostly eating bread and butter.

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"And... all women can come. I’m amazed that a decreasingly small number seem to want to.

I think saying that you don’t come makes it a foregone conclusion.

If you can’t come when you’re playing with yourself, who else have you got to blame?!!

Most women (when they admit it) realise they fail to relax, even with themselves, or allow themselves to get distracted by something completely unrelated during the process.

Women understanding what really works for them, would make things way better for both men and women.

Actually, not all women can cum. It is not about practice and experience and understanding. Some women physically cannot cum.

I know this for a fact as I'm one of them.

I enjoy sex, I get very wet (gush) and I apparently squirt. But, I do not orgasm.

And yes, I mean with a partner or on my own!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Diagnosed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

Personally I think that the visual aspect of ejaculation is what intensifies it. Men are visual creatures as you know.

However the most intense orgasmic feeling is when I've edged for hours and I eventually Cum, but without the ejaculation. It is a different feeling that is so much more intense

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And... all women can come. I’m amazed that a decreasingly small number seem to want to.

I think saying that you don’t come makes it a foregone conclusion.

If you can’t come when you’re playing with yourself, who else have you got to blame?!!

Most women (when they admit it) realise they fail to relax, even with themselves, or allow themselves to get distracted by something completely unrelated during the process.

Women understanding what really works for them, would make things way better for both men and women.

Actually, not all women can cum. It is not about practice and experience and understanding. Some women physically cannot cum.

I know this for a fact as I'm one of them.

I enjoy sex, I get very wet (gush) and I apparently squirt. But, I do not orgasm.

And yes, I mean with a partner or on my own!"

I have heard of women that can’t! Even if you stimulate your clit you can’t orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For both sexes... do you think the male orgasm probably feels better..? Obviously I’ll never know and can’t switch bodies..

This isn’t a battle of the sexes question just things pop into my mind sometimes...

Personally I think that the visual aspect of ejaculation is what intensifies it. Men are visual creatures as you know.

However the most intense orgasmic feeling is when I've edged for hours and I eventually Cum, but without the ejaculation. It is a different feeling that is so much more intense "

I still find it hard to believe that women’s orgasms are better though!! Even though we can have multiple etc!! Hmmm interesting

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I still find it hard to believe that women’s orgasms are better though!!"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I still find it hard to believe that women’s orgasms are better though!!

Why?"

I agree that we can multiple orgasms and so if we’re having more then one then of course that is good... and yes some of these orgasams can be very very intense... but I still can’t help but think that having that build up and the combination of ejaculation and orgasm must feel really good!!!!! If not better then when I make myself cum wankin! But alas we will never know for sure!!!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

No doubt in my mind that women's orgasms are better. As a man, ask a woman to describe her orgasms and see if it's even remotely close to yours, it's not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think men’s are better, but only because the grass is greener and all that

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"...but I still can’t help but think that having that build up and the combination of ejaculation and orgasm must feel really good!!!!!"

I’m pretty confident that you’re massively overestimating how good the sensation of ejaculating is. And the physiological effect of the ‘build up’.

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