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She's good enough to sh*g but not.....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was talking to a mate earlier who told me about a play meet he had at the weekend. He'd pursued her for a couple of weeks. his conclusion was, and I quote, she was - "Good enough to shag but not girlfriend material"

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I very much doubt that, I wouldn’t mind waking up next to you every day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I doubt it's anything to do with the internet. People have always had sex cause there physically attracted to one another, doesn't mean they want a relationship with them.

I think what makes people as you call fussy is previous relationships they make you realise what you don't want from a potential future relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep! "

Double yep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Come on... lets get married first...

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By *aturelover2016Man over a year ago

London

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!"

How did you get inside my head?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think there is definatley gf material and girls that only excite you sexually.... the best is when your gf excites you sexually!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's made sex more accessible. Not a bad thing but we still need to alter people's perceptions of women that like sex.

I've always been in the only a shag category.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always been like that, i think. The internet just highlights the mindest more. One persons shag, is another's girlfriend/boyfriend material, so it evens itself out over time

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Exactly this. An old ex of mine got in touch not so long ago moaning his new partner wouldn't give him sex and he hadn't had a bj since they first met. My reply was "Oh well should of realised the grass wasn't greener!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

I've had that too, a few times from the same guy.

I fell out with him so that he won't ask me anymore. Miss him as a friend though.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Shallow hal....springs to mind

xxxx Suzi

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By *ooby birdWoman over a year ago

North West

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

I've had exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I know how you feel

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By *ooby birdWoman over a year ago

North West

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!"

Yep from me too

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Then the good wholesome ones then into naughty women, just not with their boring husband!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

When I was in my teens and twenties some men had this attitude, so it isn't a new thing or an internet phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too"

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with. "

Is that why there are so many attached/married guys on here behind their wives backs lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with. "

Yeah I'd agree with that. I enjoyed many sexual partners as a single woman and quite a few became longer-term partners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I very much doubt that, I wouldn’t mind waking up next to you every day "

How can you say that if you dont know her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Not here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

Is that why there are so many attached/married guys on here behind their wives backs lol

Are you suggesting all the couples on here have crap sex? Get real, it's a myth some single women tell themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with. "

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's the same for both men and women.

There will always be people that fit in your life for different reasons.

Putting it as "good enough to shag but not good enough to have a relationship with" is harsh but true!

I find relationships difficult - and rarely think someone I'm having sex with is relationship material!

Especially men off of here as they're usually already attached

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Echoes of women prefer bad boys until the bad is on them.....

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I don't even make it to the shagging category.... I'm friend zoned almost instantly

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By *egs11ABCWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Was just away to post the same thing. There seems to be a stigma attached to women liking sex!! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship."

Some men *are* like that. Fair enough not all. Many.

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By *inkerbell67Woman over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!"
..yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

Is that why there are so many attached/married guys on here behind their wives backs lol

Are you suggesting all the couples on here have crap sex? Get real, it's a myth some single women tell themselves. "

Where did anyone suggest that ALL the couples on here have crap sex!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with. "

I’d say some are, some aren’t. I wouldn’t say “most”.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I don't even make it to the shagging category.... I'm friend zoned almost instantly "

surely not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some guys just look for it all in one package...

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Some guys just look for it all in one package..."

Yes, I think there's a bias here.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship."

Word. Basically single women have their pick on this site so 5's in the dating world hook up with male 8's and then wonder why those guys just want to keep it casual after. Rather than just get with a guy on their level, they tell themselves lies like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

what about women on here then- don't get me wrong I have met some really nice guys here- but in a way they are good enough to fuck but I wouldn't date them...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

You're probably right. Serves them right too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what about women on here then- don't get me wrong I have met some really nice guys here- but in a way they are good enough to fuck but I wouldn't date them..."

I wouldn't look on here for someone to date. I'm not looking for qualities in a fuck that I would in a date.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sexual attraction and long term compatability can be wildly different things.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?"

Hmmm tricky. Maybe take a sample of 50 guys on a serious dating site (e.g. not fab or tinder) and rate them ensuring you include guys from 5's all the way to 10's. Message all of them with a few pictures and see how many positive responses you get from each group. If you get a lot of 5's, 6's and 7's replying but not many 8's, 9's or 10's then the world is telling you something.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

I ain't that keen on knowing where I'm at.

I'm gonna guess at a 6

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

What utter bs.

Too many variables to put a number on just one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you"

If this is true, I'm throwing a fucking big party for every bloke I know to come and see if they want to marry me!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you"

If this is true, I'm throwing a fucking big party for every bloke I know to come and see if they want to marry me!!

It's just a song that sprung to mind... but let us know the outcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I've found my type, even more fun when they find me

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By *ilNdoCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Then the good wholesome ones then into naughty women, just not with their boring husband!"

Yep!!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

What utter bs.

Too many variables to put a number on just one of them."

We men manage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?"

TBH I think most people do but this site distorts it. No offence intended here but a woman could have a full beard & moustache, one tit twice the size of the other, no teeth, terrible hygiene yet still pull on here. The mere ratio of women to men means they can pick and choose and dismiss someone they might normally meet/pull in a pub straight away for a "hottie". I honestly believe some women on here use FAB as a yardstick for who they can date when it really shouldn't be.

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was talking to a mate earlier who told me about a play meet he had at the weekend. He'd pursued her for a couple of weeks. his conclusion was, and I quote, she was - "Good enough to shag but not girlfriend material"

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"

I think it’s always been like that. Internet just made it easier for certain people to act like that . It’s made access easier

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you"

If this is true, I'm throwing a fucking big party for every bloke I know to come and see if they want to marry me!!

It's just a song that sprung to mind... but let us know the outcome

Ahh dammit, if it's not scientifically proven I'm not wasting my money on a party

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Yep , absolutely right .

I got it right this time with S though , third time lucky .

I married the naughty woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice."

I had that conversation earlier, with a man. There are many men on here that I find attractive who wouldn't touch me with a barge pole.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice."

I think i could make a fake profile of a toothless, bearded granny with a fishy fanny and have an inbox full by the end of the day. They'd probably 'no show' the actual meet so i would take your point that the ratios are a bit misleading because a lot of the single guys here are morons who can't produce a sentence longer than "how r u?" But even so, the ratios play a big factor.

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By *enshermanMan over a year ago

Durham

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Micky flanagan, joke springs to mind here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

You would only be able to pick from those who messaged you, and half of them would probably just want a wank. You wouldn't have the pick of all the men on here.

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By *enshermanMan over a year ago

Durham

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

They do make a nice sandwich though,

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

You would only be able to pick from those who messaged you, and half of them would probably just want a wank. You wouldn't have the pick of all the men on here. "

No but I'd get an actual meet within a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

You would only be able to pick from those who messaged you, and half of them would probably just want a wank. You wouldn't have the pick of all the men on here.

No but I'd get an actual meet within a week"

Some men like a fishy fanny. Still doesn't mean I can fuck anyone I want on here. We have more opportunities than some men, but they doesn't mean they are all men we would fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Yes I completely understand where you're coming from I feel the exact same way x

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By *enshermanMan over a year ago

Durham

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

You would only be able to pick from those who messaged you, and half of them would probably just want a wank. You wouldn't have the pick of all the men on here.

No but I'd get an actual meet within a week

Some men like a fishy fanny. Still doesn't mean I can fuck anyone I want on here. We have more opportunities than some men, but they doesn't mean they are all men we would fuck."

Some men like a fishy fanny who ?

Sponge Bob

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

What about a girlfriend or wife who's the lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good enough to shag but not girlfriend material"

I remember this phrase or something very similar from 35+ years ago, so no I don't think that's an internet thing.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

In fact it's not just FAB.... all the other online dating sites are the same. I'm gonna stop now before I upset anyone but I think you get my gist!

I still don't think women can actually pick and choose the way men think they can.

I think some men like to use it as a crutch to fall back on coz they can't get a meet.

I mean, I'd like to think the vast majority om here "pick n choose" people to spend time with that they do actually find attractive. Other than that, they're doing themselves a disjustice.

You would only be able to pick from those who messaged you, and half of them would probably just want a wank. You wouldn't have the pick of all the men on here.

No but I'd get an actual meet within a week

Some men like a fishy fanny. Still doesn't mean I can fuck anyone I want on here. We have more opportunities than some men, but they doesn't mean they are all men we would fuck.

Some men like a fishy fanny who ?

Sponge Bob "

Lot's of males, including Nemo, shrek and Sebastian from the little mermaid.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"

Not in my experience, none of the social groups I was ever part of behaved like this, sex was always part and parcel of a relationship, the two were synonymous.

I certainly think the internet has facilitated an expectation of casual sex.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

What about the ones who look innocent and act all wholesome but are avtually filthy naughty sluts?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

What about the ones who look innocent and act all wholesome but are avtually filthy naughty sluts?"

They are single.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!"

Stand by this and had the T-shirt etc lucky never married but tied in other ways

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Stand by this and had the T-shirt etc lucky never married but tied in other ways"

All you women are wrong....

Men marry the good girl and if she loves you. She will become naughty....

The no sex part comes in after children are born.... either the wife is too tired after a long day with the kids, hates her body after child birth, letting the kids sleep in the bed and finally going full mother mode with forgetting your husband has needs non sense...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that why there are so many attached/married guys on here behind their wives backs lol

Think there is the same percentage of married women on here behind their husbands backs.

Personally I love having sex with women who enjoy sex, just cant enjoy it unless my wife is also in the room, and usually has had sex with her first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"

I've given this quite a bit of thought really, that's what hapoens when you're an early riser who's off work at the moment!

I'd agree with you to an extent. What I believe the internet does a lot is take the normal human tendancies and increase them, so that they're an exaggerated version of themselves. With Fab and sites like it women are a lot more fussy about who they shag than they would have been in the old fashioned out on the pull scenario. As they can get the best specimens in terms of knowledge, desire to please, appearance (with regards to what they fantasise about) etc. And the membership of sites like Fab is growing massively, going on online users there's probably 4 or 5 times the amount of people on here there was say 7 years ago.

Likewise with relationships. On relationship sites it's a man's world. So men often want the very pretty lady with a nearer to supermodel body who is a supportive person and generally considerate as well as has her own resources, which would have been out of sight of them in the classic scenario of meeting your future spouse through work, friends of friends scenario?

Therefore it's natural that there's a clash for those who use online sources for both. Looking logically at it, it would suggest a trend that guys will lower their standards more markedly for sex and raise them ever higher for relationships, which will exacerbate the current issue of the two sexes being hardwired to look for different things? And aside from those few that flourish in either "online world" due to them having attributes that are highly sought after, a lot of either sex will end up hugely frustrated as a result at some point in the future at one or the other aspects of their life, largely dependant on gender.

And this problem can only grow until it is eradicated in one of two ways.

This will grow to a point with more users using online sources more than any other where the frustrations and demands are so well known as a result they're a lot more in the public eye and some bright spark will come up with a site that caters for both relationships and casual sex, with the two becoming blurred, like a more "real" extension of normal life before the internet moved the goalposts, where attitudes of either sex and traffic and messages mean that the ratio balances out. As an aside if this happens then the person who comes up with this site will make an absolute fortune as the respective niche sites will empty out rapidly as disgruntled members of either existing kinds of site jump ship.

OR there would be a change in attitude in society as a reault and women will ditch this trump card they play that they "aren't that bothered about sex really" or men will ditch theirs that they "aren't really fussed about being in a LTR". Which would need to happen for the ratios to evenly balance out more or less in either kind of existing site.

Bollocks, that's enough deep thought for this morning. Is there a thursday 'fab a pic' thread up yet?

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I married the naughty girl because the sex was so good, but she changed as she got older, wanted kids and all that malarky became boring stay at home etc etc, eventually we divorced amicably, and the cycle seems to be repeating itself, only this time its with a grandma.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Spot on, then they end up on here moaning about not getting sex too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Some guys just look for it all in one package..."

Oh good, do you know anyone looking then

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"

No not everyone is like that.

I'm not looking for just good enough for a shag.

And never have.

I'm looking for girlfriend material. Then hopefully ill shag her on a regular basis.

Ladies if your looking to settle

Come my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"
heard a quote on here used which went I’ll shag her on pof but wouldn’t date her off pof! So make of that how you will

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

No not everyone is like that.

I'm not looking for just good enough for a shag.

And never have.

I'm looking for girlfriend material. Then hopefully ill shag her on a regular basis.

Ladies if your looking to settle

Come my way

Are there any women who are just good enough to shag Seeside? Surely all women who want a relationship are girlfriend material to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this? heard a quote on here used which went I’ll shag her on *fab but wouldn’t date her off pof! So make of that how you will

"
*corrected

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

No not everyone is like that.

I'm not looking for just good enough for a shag.

And never have.

I'm looking for girlfriend material. Then hopefully ill shag her on a regular basis.

Ladies if your looking to settle

Come my way

Surely all women who want a relationship are girlfriend material to someone.

Are there any women who are just good enough to shag Seeside? "

Depends on wot you call girlfriend material.

And Honestly. For me no. I've allways gon on personality not looks so as a side effect I don't see (o she's hot so good enough for just a shag like most guys think.) I like to get to no people so its kind of black and white with me.

I like you or i don't like you. Its as Simple as that.

And if i don't like sumones personality i definitely woodount want to shag them No matter how thay looked.

Don't get me rong i appreciate good looks but i don't Juge or act on looks alown as most of the time NOT ALL THE TIME BUT MOST the hot 1s tend to be the shallow minded 1s with a crap personality.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

No not everyone is like that.

I'm not looking for just good enough for a shag.

And never have.

I'm looking for girlfriend material. Then hopefully ill shag her on a regular basis.

Ladies if your looking to settle

Come my way

Surely all women who want a relationship are girlfriend material to someone.

Are there any women who are just good enough to shag Seeside?

Depends on wot you call girlfriend material.

I like you or i don't like you. Its as Simple as that.

And if i don't like sumones personality i definitely woodount want to shag them No matter how thay looked.

Don't get me rong i appreciate good looks but i don't Juge or act on looks alown as most of the time NOT ALL THE TIME BUT MOST the hot 1s tend to be the shallow minded 1s with a crap personality.

Also 1 problem i also have witch is y i think im still single is wot sumone els has also sed.

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

The fue ladies i have had a date with don't seem to fancy me back Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't imagine many things worse than ending up in a vanilla relationship with a woman. I've been there before, and it's not nice being made to feel weird because of having things I'm into

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

This!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

This!"

Yup.... So much this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These types of threads always turn into some sort of stupid gender war

Men puffing out their chest and masking the pain of rejection by telling the fat old slags on here that are only a 5 - that they are only good enough to fuck

And wonder why they don't get laid

Certain couples with superiority complexes who's "relationships" are laughable - but choose to shout at the top of their lungs about what All men are thinking ... the female half never uttering a word

I wonder why ...

It's not just men that wouldn't want a relationship with anyone on here.

Given the sheer amount of liars and cheats on sites like this - I doubt most women would want to date any of you.

So don't worry all you "single" men that are fighting off us fat old slags that want to get married- we just want a fuck - you're safe ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So how does one become good enough to fuck AND be girlfriend material?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the same about the men I fuck. None of them are suitable as a husband for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These types of threads always turn into some sort of stupid gender war

Men puffing out their chest and masking the pain of rejection by telling the fat old slags on here that are only a 5 - that they are only good enough to fuck

And wonder why they don't get laid

I wonder why ...

It's not just men that wouldn't want a relationship with anyone on here.

Given the sheer amount of liars and cheats on sites like this - I doubt most women would want to date any of you.

So don't worry all you "single" men that are fighting off us fat old slags that want to get married- we just want a fuck - you're safe ...

Exactly what I was thinking.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

The lads called them “mopeds” back in the day.

Fun to ride but don’t let your mates see you.

Most of these “lads” are still single and living with their parents so I think it works out.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Yes I completely understand where you're coming from I feel the exact same way x"

I do think that a large part of this is down to social attitudes towards ladies who enjoy sex or are sexually promiscuous.

A guy who is wanting sex often wants an ‘easy’ target and so aims for someone who likes it too, but socially a lady who enjoys sex is valued less than someone who doesn’t and is reserved.

Perhaps it’s because people value things more that they’ve worked harder for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone! "

There's ways around this whole stupid difference between the sexes though? Just join a relationship site and market yourself and put the required tactics and effort in the way you would if you were your male equivalent (ie; same age, personality, looks, attributes, body type etc etc) wanting to appeal to as many on here?

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

And if you have with exactly the same results, then what? A pof guy runs a mile after finding out you are even slightly kinky (eg leaving the light on!)

After being in this lifestyle who would want to go back to vanilla missionary once a week in the dark and pull my nighty down when your done sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

With that hint of red hair, smile and potential Scottish accent I find that hard to believe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting thread.

The gender wars are rife in here.

Bookmarking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I doubt it's anything to do with the internet. People have always had sex cause there physically attracted to one another, doesn't mean they want a relationship with them.

I think what makes people as you call fussy is previous relationships they make you realise what you don't want from a potential future relationship. "

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"So how does one become good enough to fuck AND be girlfriend material?"

Easy.

Just Be girlfriend material and the good enough to fuck will come with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So how does one become good enough to fuck AND be girlfriend material?"

You don't become. It's not a process or something that we can ever control.

But if someone wakes up every morning and their first thought is you....

Then you are.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"So how does one become good enough to fuck AND be girlfriend material?

You don't become. It's not a process or something that we can ever control.

But if someone wakes up every morning and their first thought is you....

Then you are.

As i sed just be girlfriend material.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

In some ways it's a tiny bit similar to those who are bi-curious, or bi playful, or just consider that they would have a sexual relationship with somebody, but they wouldn't have a life partner of the same gender. It's sexual fun, and not something further.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's a load of bull. I'm on here purely for fun. However I only play with people that I connect with as friends first. If they don't want to social with me they won't get in my knickers. I'm not going to be a hidden secret. Because of that and getting to a higher mindset I do find that guys usually see me as more than a fuck. I have long term friends from fab that came from being fuck buddies. I met my ex bf on fab- I didn't want a relationship but it happened. I married a man I only intended to be fuck buddies with but he wouldn't let me go.

I have someone now I class as my partner on fab we're not "together" due to our own circumstances but we probably would be if things were different.

Some men want a lady in the streets and a slut in the sheets.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan over a year ago

buckinghamshire

im in the 'looking for the best of both worlds' category.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's a load of bull. I'm on here purely for fun. However I only play with people that I connect with as friends first. If they don't want to social with me they won't get in my knickers. I'm not going to be a hidden secret. Because of that and getting to a higher mindset I do find that guys usually see me as more than a fuck. I have long term friends from fab that came from being fuck buddies. I met my ex bf on fab- I didn't want a relationship but it happened. I married a man I only intended to be fuck buddies with but he wouldn't let me go.

I have someone now I class as my partner on fab we're not "together" due to our own circumstances but we probably would be if things were different.

Some men want a lady in the streets and a slut in the sheets. "

This is pretty much what I was saying about value. The guys have put more effort in and so value you more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My parents always told me a perfect wife is a chef in the kitchen, a lady in the lounge, and a whore in the bedroom.

So I learned to cook, and settled for 2 out of 3 ain't bad

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's not just men that wouldn't want a relationship with anyone on here.

Given the sheer amount of liars and cheats on sites like this - I doubt most women would want to date any of you.

You know I am coming to the conclusion that it's simply down to the misogyny of the men who say this - the same is true for the women they just wouldn’t dream of saying it! None of the men I have had casual sex with are what I would call 'good boyfriend material'. So what, it's casual sex, there's no need to fucking say it!

Ooh they're winding me up this morning! !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

What would you rate yourself as? Like someone said in another thread. It’d be exactly the same if men had more of the favour. I highly doubt you’d be going for 5s or staying within your station.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

That can't really be argued with in the main on here but it's not the fault of the women. It's all down to the numbers. Men would behave in a similar way if the numbers had them in a huge minority.

It does though explain the second part of my opening post that seems to be ignored on this thread but was written and backed by a few women on another thread -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want it all.

And I want it bad enough to take my time and find it.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I want it all.

And I want it bad enough to take my time and find it. "

Bingo

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone! "

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I very much doubt that, I wouldn’t mind waking up next to you every day

How can you say that if you dont know her?"

Haha, exactly. White Knight comment, if ever there was one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice."

No, but one can go off a person one finds attractive, after they open their mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want it all.

And I want it bad enough to take my time and find it.

Bingo "

This!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice."

I disagree, I’ve met people that I didn’t find attractive on first impressions but after getting to know them and knowing the person that they are I found myself increasingly attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

There will still be people on there who just want the sex.

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

I very much doubt that, I wouldn’t mind waking up next to you every day

How can you say that if you dont know her?"

Typical smoke blower ... it’s called lip service

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice.

I disagree, I’ve met people that I didn’t find attractive on first impressions but after getting to know them and knowing the person that they are I found myself increasingly attracted to them"

Did you actually read what I wrote?

What part do you disagree with?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I doubt it's anything to do with the internet. People have always had sex cause there physically attracted to one another, doesn't mean they want a relationship with them.

I think what makes people as you call fussy is previous relationships they make you realise what you don't want from a potential future relationship. "

Completly agree with this

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I want it all.

And I want it bad enough to take my time and find it. "

Good for you!

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

Totally agree with this .... me being in the not marrying group ... but a good shag though apparently

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Love it

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice."

That does not negate whet the post said at all - which is that people who are ugly inside are ugly through and through, whatever they look like, beauty may only be superficial.

People's value has nothing to do with their physical attractiveness, and the older you get, the more you realise that is so.

I may have been way, way hotter in my youth than I am now - but know what? I'm a much better person inside now than I was back then, and I have learned in life that character is more important than looks, even though I can still 'pull' a young hottie on fab any time I like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice.

I disagree, I’ve met people that I didn’t find attractive on first impressions but after getting to know them and knowing the person that they are I found myself increasingly attracted to them

Did you actually read what I wrote?

What part do you disagree with?"

I was disagreeing with the comment about attraction not being linked to a person being nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah im one of the good enough to shag but not date gals despite being fucking awesome in and out of the bedroom.

If i had a pound for every fab guy whos messaged me loves their wife but is shagging about then id be super rich and and to buy myself a nice mail order husband

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s...beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the bone!

This is another saying that less attractive people tell themselves. (I make no reflection on you in any way).

It's complete nonsense. Levels of physical attractiveness are not linked to whether someone is nice.

No, but one can go off a person one finds attractive, after they open their mouth. "

Or write a post!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Physical attractiveness is no indication as to whether someone's character is nice or not nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

To the conceited folk above who think they can catagorise themselves as 10s and us at 5s... "

People who categorise themselves as 10s are usually wrong...in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?"

I think it's the internet making people disposable. Chuck that one because another will be along in a minute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. I find the internet makes it easy to move on so I'm less likely to put up with any issues that come up in a relationship? The days before the internet your choices were mostly people living in your area? With limited dating options your maybe gonna settle for what you can get???

With the internet I can message 100 women if I want to so why should I just settle for what I can get

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

My favourite comment was the one where someone said a "fat old slag" would still be a 5!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My favourite comment was the one where someone said a "fat old slag" would still be a 5!!!"

That's a perfect definition of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

I think it's the internet making people disposable. Chuck that one because another will be along in a minute. "

I agree. More choice and increasingly a disposable mentality.

As a result I do think things have got more about the superficial.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

On another thread earlier one of the female participants wrote -

"I don't fancy the ones that want me. The ones I fancy only want a fuck"

My question is, has the internet increased people's expectations and made them more fussy or has it always been like this?

I think it's the internet making people disposable. Chuck that one because another will be along in a minute.

I agree. More choice and increasingly a disposable mentality.

As a result I do think things have got more about the superficial. "

Is there more choice? I see a lot of threads from men complaining that they have no choice at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"My favourite comment was the one where someone said a "fat old slag" would still be a 5!!!

That's a perfect definition of me

The slag bit is good. My worst nightmare would be to marry a prude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!"

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My favourite comment was the one where someone said a "fat old slag" would still be a 5!!!

That's a perfect definition of me

The slag bit is good. My worst nightmare would be to marry a prude. "

So, I should diet then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in."

They could be fucked up in the head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

They could be fucked up in the head. "

All of them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as I'm getting a shag, it's all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

never make a pretty woman your wife

So for my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you"

How do you figure that????

You have to fancy and love the person your gonna marry!

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By *parkle13Woman over a year ago

Dundee

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!"
No then they come on here looking for fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im here in hopes of finding gf material so i can finally be on here for whats this site is intended for

Any takers? Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

They could be fucked up in the head.

All of them?"

Some might be annoying to live with

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By *egs11ABCWoman over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

What utter bs.

Too many variables to put a number on just one of them."

And who says whether ur a 5 or a 10. I mite b a 5 to one guy and a 10 to someone else. Out at night outs my mate might omg he's hot and I think eh he ok, we have completely different tastes and him amd his mate cd be saying the same. Theres a guy here puts up personal pops at women on his statuses . He's hot got a nice body but for me he's nowhere near a 10 cos he's an arrogant up his own arse prick. Its not all about looks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't matter if you're a woman or man. Relationship material is higher than casual sex material.

Looks might capture interest but personality keeps it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

We naturally have different matches with others dependent upon context. LTR, random shag, fb etc. The greater anonymity and reduced potential for future contact influences who we will and won't get together with. These aren't internet exclusives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always been that way really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest, I've felt this about myself a lot recently

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with.

This 100%.

It's bullshit that the best sex is with filthy girls that aren't settling down material. If you believe that then (IMO) you shouldn't go near a relationship.

No-one's bitten yet?!?!

Never a truer word said tho.

What if you don't know your level?

What utter bs.

Too many variables to put a number on just one of them.

Exceptions don't prove the rule

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By *untimes6969Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"It doesn't matter if you're a woman or man. Relationship material is higher than casual sex material.

Looks might capture interest but personality keeps it. "

Great quote and sums up the situation!

With regard to your own or someone else ‘number’ - it’s so subjective and totally bias as ‘beauty is in the eye of the behilder’. Therefore most people rate themselves just a tad higher than maybe they should or could - those animal instincts are in us all somewhere after we remonve the day to day bullshit layers.

When I first came across these types of sites I was told the following: it’s a bit like normal dating but without all the layers of bullshit! So having thought about it, I summised the following - quicker, easier, discrete, like minded people looking for similar things all in one pot! Does it work for everyone, try it and find out - enjoy

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By *iss-louWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

This...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It doesn't matter if you're a woman or man. Relationship material is higher than casual sex material.

Looks might capture interest but personality keeps it.

Great quote and sums up the situation!

It's really not veey subjective at all. That's why everyone understands the film 'shallow hal' without needing it explained to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in."

I think we all do this to an extent. I’d say men do it more. I don’t really see it as being an issue though and I don’t think you can look at someone and know they’re a 5 or a 10 without knowing everything about them. From the way they carry themselves, to their personality, to their looks.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

This. The internet has bred a culture of shallow decision making. Tinder for one is bloody awful.

Getting to know someone can make them infinitely more attractive.

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for. "

You mean I'm not really Cinderella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for. "

Who do you play in your delusional fantasy?

Prince Charming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for.

You mean I'm not really Cinderella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for.

You mean I'm not really Cinderella

I’ve been waiting by the Biffa bin for days hoping it’ll turn into a carriage!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been waiting by the Biffa bin for days hoping it’ll turn into a carriage! "

Maybe you can organise a meet ...

A blowie by the bins - as women on Fab should know our place after all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex."

I married a naughty woman

And i still got no sex she however got plenty

Oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't matter if you're a woman or man. Relationship material is higher than casual sex material.

Looks might capture interest but personality keeps it.

Great quote and sums up the situation!

It's really not veey subjective at all. That's why everyone understands the film 'shallow hal' without needing it explained to them"

Shag a fat lass because she's actually slim and hot?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It doesn't matter if you're a woman or man. Relationship material is higher than casual sex material.

Looks might capture interest but personality keeps it.

Great quote and sums up the situation!

It's really not veey subjective at all. That's why everyone understands the film 'shallow hal' without needing it explained to them

Shag a fat lass because she's actually slim and hot?"

That when hal is deluded and points at his huge girlfriend and boasts "she's with me", the other guys laugh at him.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"This thread is like an encyclopedia of female defence mechanisms!! The stuff people tell themselves to preserve their delusions! Disney has a lot to answer for.

Who do you play in your delusional fantasy?

Prince Charming

Good question. I do tend to root for the bad guy in films...

I'm more like Cal from Titanic. Rose was ungrateful brat and Jack got what was coming to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

The 5 or 10 thing is based solely on physical attraction, so of course you can tell by just looking, that's the point!

Yes, once you get to know someone you can be attracted or put off by different character traits, but most don't take time to get to know someone they initially find ugly or less attractive.

As a single woman on here of course you think "Men do it more" when it comes to pitching too high. Your in box is probably full of men that you deem to be beneath you or you'd probably be meeting all the time. Your actions speak louder than your words.

If you weren't judging initially on looks then you'd meet many more of them even if it was just for a social to see if their personalities could win you over.

You'd have a desire to see if a 3 in looks could become your elusive 10 with personality.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

The 5 or 10 thing is based solely on physical attraction, so of course you can tell by just looking, that's the point!

Yes, once you get to know someone you can be attracted or put off by different character traits, but most don't take time to get to know someone they initially find ugly or less attractive.

If you weren't judging initially on looks then you'd meet many more of them even if it was just for a social to see if their personalities could win you over.

You'd have a desire to see if a 3 in looks could become your elusive 10 with personality.

Women do only have a limited amount of time you know...

I do think in general women are less bothered about looks than men. . On a site like this, I think women are far less likely to shag a physically stunning bloke who is a complete arse or who has no personality, than a bloke is to shag an equivalent woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men want to fuck naughty women. They marry the good wholesome ones then whine they're getting crap- or no- sex.

Yep!

Double yep!

Yep from me too

That's a myth.

Most guys are sexually happy with the women they fall in love with. "

23 yrs together and we can have lovey dovey stuff or "rip my knickers off in the kitchen and pound me over the worktop shagging"

Nice girls can do naughty too if he knows what buttons to press.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's always been a thing.

Sadly I seem to remain in the only worth shagging category.

Hahahaha! Me too!!!

As Broken brilliance has suggested earlier in the thread, are you pitching too high?

I'm not suggesting you are, but it's an interesting observation because there's lots of guys on here who appear to be looking for a relationship who can't get a look in.

The 5 or 10 thing is based solely on physical attraction, so of course you can tell by just looking, that's the point!

Yes, once you get to know someone you can be attracted or put off by different character traits, but most don't take time to get to know someone they initially find ugly or less attractive.

If you weren't judging initially on looks then you'd meet many more of them even if it was just for a social to see if their personalities could win you over.

You'd have a desire to see if a 3 in looks could become your elusive 10 with personality.

Women do only have a limited amount of time you know...

I agree with you. Most men are more likely to compromise on who they have casual sex with.

I guess that that willingness to compromise for sex is not carried through to long term relationships.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe I'm the odd one out here...

If she's good enough to shag she must have got inside my head...

That's where the rest may follow from

If it's ever given chance too

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