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How to turn up on your first ever meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pull up your big boy socks and get on with it....I've entered a party alone full of couple's with no issues...great evening
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try sweating profusely and work in some long awkward pauses. Then just blurt something controversial about a recent trial or how you hate all women or Brexit that really shuts down the conversation.
If you can also fart loudly that would be gold.
All the best,
Every first date ever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try sweating profusely and work in some long awkward pauses. Then just blurt something controversial about a recent trial or how you hate all women or Brexit that really shuts down the conversation.
If you can also fart loudly that would be gold.
All the best,
Every first date ever. "
You wouldn't know, You not had any, well unless you count..... ummmmm really pmsl!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always prefer to do a social first. Far less pressure. All going well, I end up back at thiers, or they at mine. Mind you, even meeting guys I know is nerve wracking. I tend to prefer last minute meets so I have less time to stress xx |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I don't get nervous but real excited 
Be sure to show up first, look good, smell good, and have a welcoming smile on your face when you see the person. They may be nervous and a warm smile puts people at ease. |
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Do some exercise, such as walking, in advance, so that your body uses up some of your adrenaline/cortisol. Prepare and plan in advance, so that there are no surprises, including the clothes you'll wear, ensuring they're clean and work well together. Ensure that you have plenty of time to arrive promptly.
Let yourself think of only good things, so that you stay upbeat. If you start to worry, stop it immediately.
At the meet, ensure you're ready to listen and get to know the others, rather than bore someone about yourself. Make lots of eye contact and smile. Keep things light and breezy, so avoid any heavy topics.
If you're going to talk about sex, ensure they're comfortable and that others around you can't really hear or be upset.
Be honest.
Be yourself - but this can include acting your confident self, whilst you settle into that self that's perhaps nervous and in retreat: this is different to pretending to be someone else. Your posture will help you to feel psychologically strong - don't slouch, stay upright, keep your body open, rather than closed.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dont over think it
If you have been chatting a while first then its like going to see a friend if not then its no different than chatting with someone at the train or bus station only difference you may be nude not long after |
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