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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are with someone you have a real connection with, the sex is brilliant but the question is
Do you just fuck or do you make love, and yes there is a difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are with someone you have a real connection with, the sex is brilliant but the question is
Do you just fuck or do you make love, and yes there is a difference."
Not sure I'm a fan of the term "make love" but if there's no better term for it then that'll have to do! 
The best sex is always in a relationship with someone you have deep feelings for. Intense physical/animal attraction is one thing but throw in the 'L' word and it's pretty fucking special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think fab meets will always be fucking... even if they are passionate and intense...
I agree with the above comments when you have that deep deep connection the most amazing sex I have had is when absolutely madly in love... (only experienced the feelings of love making with one person ever) and it can be the filthiest raunchiest sex ever... or slow and sensual....I would still class it as making love.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP?  "
to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think fab meets will always be fucking... even if they are passionate and intense...
I agree with the above comments when you have that deep deep connection the most amazing sex I have had is when absolutely madly in love... (only experienced the feelings of love making with one person ever) and it can be the filthiest raunchiest sex ever... or slow and sensual....I would still class it as making love..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like fucking!
Sometimes I fuck people I have a real connection with, and sometimes I have more meaningful and sensual sex with them. Im flexible like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx"
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? "
it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love"
You can still fuck someone you have a connection with in my opinion |
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love
You can still fuck someone you have a connection with in my opinion"
Yes. Yes you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love
You can still fuck someone you have a connection with in my opinion
Yes. Yes you can "
Yes I agree... whether on fab or not you can still fuck someone if you love them..
I guess it also depends on what people class as ‘love making’ or ‘making love’... do people class the feelings involved ‘making love’ and therefore call it this or is it the act itself.. as in slow... deep... lots of eye contact... etc... but I have done this without being in love!!
Haha questions.. questions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love
You can still fuck someone you have a connection with in my opinion
Yes. Yes you can
Yes I agree... whether on fab or not you can still fuck someone if you love them..
I guess it also depends on what people class as ‘love making’ or ‘making love’... do people class the feelings involved ‘making love’ and therefore call it this or is it the act itself.. as in slow... deep... lots of eye contact... etc... but I have done this without being in love!!
Haha questions.. questions "
I guess we all have different definitions, to me a fuck is a soulless act of physical gratification all be it mutual, making love encompasses a whole range of passionate and tactile contact not just the act of copulating, both people giving in to each other. Maybe that's just me being an old romantic at heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That’s a good question!! What do you think OP? to be honest I don't fuck, not a fan of quickies, I don't really do club's as I find them meat markets, does that answer your question xx
Not really.... So are you asking this in respect to meeting someone from fab... can it be making love or in a relationship?? it can be either situation, it's been said hundreds of times on here that sex gets better with someone the more you get to know them, donation what point does that stop being a fuck and actually become making love
You can still fuck someone you have a connection with in my opinion
Yes. Yes you can
Yes I agree... whether on fab or not you can still fuck someone if you love them..
I guess it also depends on what people class as ‘love making’ or ‘making love’... do people class the feelings involved ‘making love’ and therefore call it this or is it the act itself.. as in slow... deep... lots of eye contact... etc... but I have done this without being in love!!
Haha questions.. questions I guess we all have different definitions, to me a fuck is a soulless act of physical gratification all be it mutual, making love encompasses a whole range of passionate and tactile contact not just the act of copulating, both people giving in to each other. Maybe that's just me being an old romantic at heart"
I agree that there are different ‘types’ of sex, as you describe above. But for me they aren’t necessarily linked to the depth of feeling that I have for the person I’m with. I’ve fucked someone that I was in love with, and I’ve also had very sensual and intense sex with people I’ve met in a club. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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We definitely have two styles making love is the tender connected way when we are together at home, fucking is what we do in front of others, especially when we are in a club or out in a carpark somewhere with a bunch of people stood round us wanking about what we are doing, we make a point of changing positions so everyone gets a perfect view of our bits sliding together.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are with someone you have a real connection with, the sex is brilliant but the question is
Do you just fuck or do you make love, and yes there is a difference."
Make love for the appertiser and main course.. fuck for the desert  |
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"We definitely have two styles making love is the tender connected way when we are together at home, fucking is what we do in front of others, especially when we are in a club or out in a carpark somewhere with a bunch of people stood round us wanking about what we are doing, we make a point of changing positions so everyone gets a perfect view of our bits sliding together. "
The love bit is when you want to share everything with, the crap, the joy and experiences things together without a second thought.
Fucking is with people we care about, but not wish to be more than friends with, that's our take.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I have never and will never 'make love' with anyone I meet through fab, makes me feel a bit  I'm not a fan of the term fucking either so I'll just stick to having blooming great sex with my friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are with someone you have a real connection with, the sex is brilliant but the question is
Do you just fuck or do you make love, and yes there is a difference."
Hmm now I was seeing a guy and would have loved after the lust to be making love but in hindsight it was definately fucking only, hence why we are no longer together!
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"I guess we all have different definitions, to me a fuck is a soulless act of physical gratification all be it mutual, making love encompasses a whole range of passionate and tactile contact not just the act of copulating, both people giving in to each other. Maybe that's just me being an old romantic at heart"
Again, though, this has nothing to do with your feelings for the person. We associate one more with the other, but I’ve had sensual sex, involving long, passionate kissing, intertwining fingers, holding each other’s gaze, sharing breath, all the things you might associate with ‘love making’, but with people I’ve only just met. Equally, I’ve had the raw, sweaty, animalistic sex designed to make you both cum, no more, no less, with partners I’ve been deeply in love with.
Both have their place in different situations. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"You are with someone you have a real connection with, the sex is brilliant but the question is
Do you just fuck or do you make love, and yes there is a difference."
It depends on the mood at the time a quick fuck can be excellent foreplay for a long sensuous love in.
Also an early fuck can act as a tease or taster to bring her frustrations into play before the main event.
Unpredictability is the name of the game to keep love from becoming boring.
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