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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just asking for advice now; if am so fucked up in this town and can't be my self, do I move (thinking of Southampton / Brighton or Worthing), or move somewhere else, or stay in this God forsaken town. Any ideas? |
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"Just asking for advice now; if am so fucked up in this town and can't be my self, do I move (thinking of Southampton / Brighton or Worthing), or move somewhere else, or stay in this God forsaken town. Any ideas?"
Why are you fucked up in Leigh? What are the issues you are trying to escape? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live in Southampton now, great city and was born near Worthing. Both nice places. Both near good countryside (South downs or new forest). Good choices in my book!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Moving town city or country you just relocate whatever is wrong with your life to new surroundings.
Change your life not your geography.
You'll not find the answers to your life problems in the forums. How can you....It's your life.
We only get one. |
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"Another one down, another one down, another one bites the dust.block list gets longer and longer."
People are giving you advise and asking you things...and all you csn respond with (now for the second time) that they are added to your block list.
What a strange human you are. |
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"Live in Southampton now, great city and was born near Worthing. Both nice places. Both near good countryside (South downs or new forest). Good choices in my book! "
I only see Southampton on the drive out of the port so guess that’s the only impression I get to be honest. Love the New Forest though and being by the sea. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Leigh is so homophobic. It's an old mining town, with all bigoted people in it. Brighton/ Southampton are better, as there's a big gay scene there. Not sure of Worthing though, but it's not far down the road to Brighton. |
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"Another one down, another one down, another one bites the dust.block list gets longer and longer."
I feel like I'm missing out here,
Why do you think moving will improve your situation and why block when its simpler just to ignore a comment that you don't like |
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"Leigh is so homophobic. It's an old mining town, with all bigoted people in it. Brighton/ Southampton are better, as there's a big gay scene there. Not sure of Worthing though, but it's not far down the road to Brighton."
Ok that answered my first question  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Try to get your head around this:if you life in a town like this, and your lgbt, you get a load of shit at you, and no matter how much you try to ignore it, it sticks. |
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"Try to get your head around this:if you life in a town like this, and your lgbt, you get a load of shit at you, and no matter how much you try to ignore it, it sticks. "
Well if you had explained that properly in the beginning people would understand. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Life is way too short, do whatever you need to make yourself happy.
I often find know the perceived problems come from within a person, which means that if you do move, and that is your situation you will be just taking your problems to another place where maybe you have less support.
Only you know the details of where you feel uncomfortable in your location.
You deserve to be happy so find a way to work towards that, in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Moving town city or country you just relocate whatever is wrong with your life to new surroundings.
Change your life not your geography.
You'll not find the answers to your life problems in the forums. How can you....It's your life.
We only get one."
Seconded.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Move to brighton but be warned its not quite as tolerant as people make out and I hope youve got deep pockets as its rather expensive to live well."
It's a lovely place though, and I only saw it in winter. |
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"Move to brighton but be warned its not quite as tolerant as people make out and I hope youve got deep pockets as its rather expensive to live well.
It's a lovely place though, and I only saw it in winter."
It is a lovely place in the right parts, there are some not very nice parts of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well speaking from someone that moved from Kent to Essex two years ago next month I can honestly say it was tbr best move I had ever made, apart from my kids staying with their dad I don’t miss anything (well actually I do but that’s a different story). My life wasn’t going anywhere in Kent, I was in a bad place and everyone knew my business.
I took the plunge and moved in with ads and I have a brilliant job etc over here now (just wish I had friends) but honestly it was the best thing for me and my relationship with my kids had improved so much. (Just to clarify here 2 of my boys are autistic and their dad was always a stay as home dad so when we split it was best they stayed with him to keep it as normal and rountine as possible).
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