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over a year ago
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No . I actually enjoy been single. There are some things I miss. like snuggling up on the couch whilst watching tv . but I don't miss all the shut that goes with a relationship |
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over a year ago
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"No . I actually enjoy been single. There are some things I miss. like snuggling up on the couch whilst watching tv . but I don't miss all the shut that goes with a relationship "
shit not shut  |
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I'm glad of almost enough personal time that I have and am comfortable single or in a relationship. It's easy enough to spend time with friends doing most things that I'd do with partners - partners aren't any special, exclusive sources of companionship, just sometimes different. |
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"How many single people are lonely?
No idea but I'm not why reply to the thread then?"
Its not much of a thread if its all one sided..
All im saying is not all single people are lonely thats all  |
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It does feels shit sometimes OP especially when all you want is some company and a snog but plenty of downsides to relationships.
My neighbours row pretty much constantly, she's always screeching. Really no idea why they're together. Would rather be alone than deal with unnecessary drama |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does feels shit sometimes OP especially when all you want is some company and a snog but plenty of downsides to relationships.
My neighbours row pretty much constantly, she's always screeching. Really no idea why they're together. Would rather be alone than deal with unnecessary drama"
totally agree with you.just feeling lonely tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many single people are lonely?
No idea but I'm not why reply to the thread then?
Its not much of a thread if its all one sided..
All im saying is not all single people are lonely thats all "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm lonely but was more lonely in my abusive relationship that I put up with for 18 months "
know how that feels my first relationship was physically abusive try telling people that your female partner knocks shit out of you
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over a year ago
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"When I feel a bit lonely, I think about the possibility of having a family and not even getting a minute to pee, and so I’m savouring my alone time! "
Ive had a child or dog accompany me to the loo pretty much the last 12 yrs . Oh to pee in peace  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I feel a bit lonely, I think about the possibility of having a family and not even getting a minute to pee, and so I’m savouring my alone time!
Ive had a child or dog accompany me to the loo pretty much the last 12 yrs . Oh to pee in peace "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I imagine a lot of people are, but I also know some people who are in long term relationships/marriages yet feel incredibly lonely....and that can be the worst type of loneliness by far. |
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"I imagine a lot of people are, but I also know some people who are in long term relationships/marriages yet feel incredibly lonely....and that can be the worst type of loneliness by far."
I was very lonely for the last year of my marriage
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over a year ago
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry"
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others. |
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Im never lonely. I must be weird. I love spending time with family and friends but I'm also always itching to go home again. I have kids so by the time I get them all to bed I am just dying to be on my own. Couldnt imagine having to make time for someone else. |
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over a year ago
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others."
Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up |
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others. Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up"
There's nothing wrong with not being ok!! |
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others. Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up
There's nothing wrong with not being ok!! "
Exactly, happens to us all at times. |
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others."
I completely agree!! A few years ago I used fab to try and find what I was missing in my life which was a big mistake!! I have since made massive changes to my life and it’s not always easy and yes sometimes I do get lonely... but on the whole now I am happy.... it is true happiness comes from within... as corny as it sounds... fab can make you feel even worse sometimes!! Fab now is here to just compliment my own life and is no longer a substitute!!
The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!
Sending big squishy huggles!!! |
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.
I completely agree!! A few years ago I used fab to try and find what I was missing in my life which was a big mistake!! I have since made massive changes to my life and it’s not always easy and yes sometimes I do get lonely... but on the whole now I am happy.... it is true happiness comes from within... as corny as it sounds... fab can make you feel even worse sometimes!! Fab now is here to just compliment my own life and is no longer a substitute!!
The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!
Sending big squishy huggles!!! "
I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends |
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"I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends "
I have met loads of people off here, and can totally get where the OP is coming from though. I have vanilla friends, although they seem to be dropping like flies in the past few years due to cancer...  |
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.
I completely agree!! A few years ago I used fab to try and find what I was missing in my life which was a big mistake!! I have since made massive changes to my life and it’s not always easy and yes sometimes I do get lonely... but on the whole now I am happy.... it is true happiness comes from within... as corny as it sounds... fab can make you feel even worse sometimes!! Fab now is here to just compliment my own life and is no longer a substitute!!
The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!
Sending big squishy huggles!!! I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends "
That’s good! I think fab affects people in different ways... it can be a great place to meet people... or on nights when you feel naff you can post on the forums etc... but sometimes if your not careful i have found it can make you feel worse but that’s just me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry
No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.
Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.
I completely agree!! A few years ago I used fab to try and find what I was missing in my life which was a big mistake!! I have since made massive changes to my life and it’s not always easy and yes sometimes I do get lonely... but on the whole now I am happy.... it is true happiness comes from within... as corny as it sounds... fab can make you feel even worse sometimes!! Fab now is here to just compliment my own life and is no longer a substitute!!
The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!
Sending big squishy huggles!!! I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends
That’s good! I think fab affects people in different ways... it can be a great place to meet people... or on nights when you feel naff you can post on the forums etc... but sometimes if your not careful i have found it can make you feel worse but that’s just me!! "
No . I know exactly where you are coming from ..it can knock you down as quickly as it picks you up if you let it get too you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loneliness can be a good thing gives you time to reflect "
It can also be a very dangerous thing,depending what you are reflecting upon.
I miss my single times of quiet nights of planning World domination and the perfect murder..... my partner just doesn't understand!  lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In seriousness though,I always found being single lonely. I think that no matter how fulfilled someone's life is generally,some people just function better in a relationship x |
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"In seriousness though,I always found being single lonely. I think that no matter how fulfilled someone's life is generally,some people just function better in a relationship x"
Ah, stick the kettle on then mi duck  |
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over a year ago
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Hey OP, been lonely in the past, it's kind of like depression, spirals in on you and makes you more lonely / depressed.
The worst thing you can say to someone in that spiral is "pull yourself together, and find a solution" but ironically the only thing that will stop the problem is to pull yourself together , and find a solution.
Fight the loneliness, get out with people and get involved, something physical is always good. But it's the conversation no matter how limited that makes you better. Which sometimes takes a false bravado to get the party started.
Hope you find your surface soon. Loneliness can be a bitch.
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I get the occasional twinge of loneliness,usually on nights when I can't sleep.
I just cuddle my teddy bear,have a little cry,remind myself how suffocating relationships can be and I feel much better.
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