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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent. "
Oh I hate it when that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent. "
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking. "
I'm not really it's other thing's in my life. |
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"Just thought I would share that bit of utterly useless information."
Why shouldn't you , plenty of others are happy to share their far more useless information if our local updates are anything to go by .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking.
I'm not really it's other thing's in my life."
You need a drinking buddy. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking.
I'm not really it's other thing's in my life.
You need a drinking buddy."
Yeah I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking.
I'm not really it's other thing's in my life.
You need a drinking buddy.
Yeah I do."
Trouble is you're a million miles away from everyone.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking.
I'm not really it's other thing's in my life.
You need a drinking buddy.
Yeah I do.
Trouble is you're a million miles away from everyone.."
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Think of 3 positive things you have in your life, regardless of how insignificant you think they may be. Then think of one thing you can do to get one more positive. Little steps, is what you need to take, I think.
Keep your chin up, you’ve got a pretty face x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
I could drink half a bottle of wine and send you the rest?....
What is it?"
Picky aren't we? I'm no expert, vino collapso, but it will be white...... |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?"
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
More to the point, I'm taking it the OP needs a replacement "hot guy"  "
No I'm giving that a miss for a while,if another person lets me down I'll go into meltdown at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking."
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have these awful feelings of insecurities and wondering why etc... I’m dreadful for over thinking and getting disappointed about different things... but it is the same for men and women etc... even if you really like someone and they end up disappearing or going quiet etc then you have to keep looking.....
It’s so easy to get bogged down.. try not too! Your pics are gorgeous so just remember his loss... don’t pine for someone who doesn’t want you...just think I want to find someone who wants me.... that’s what I try to do!!
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking."
Not good feeling like that. I've had a few days like that (obviously not relating to periods) but I try and find the slightest positive thing and focus on that.
Hope you feel better soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help. "
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help. "
Yes it probably doesn't help amongst other thing's,I'm never confident that vitamins actually work to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes it probably doesn't help amongst other thing's,I'm never confident that vitamins actually work to be honest."
What about acupuncture? I read that can help. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x"
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed."
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
More to the point, I'm taking it the OP needs a replacement "hot guy"
No I'm giving that a miss for a while,if another person lets me down I'll go into meltdown at the moment."
Ah, withdraws application and goes about menial house duties......  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed.
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
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Yeah I will do. |
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed.
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
Yeah I will do."
Menopace are a vitamin/herbal combo that might just smooth things out for you. There are several herbs that are fairly potent when it comes to female endocrinology, and phyto-oestrogens do help.  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed.
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
Yeah I will do.
Menopace are a vitamin/herbal combo that might just smooth things out for you. There are several herbs that are fairly potent when it comes to female endocrinology, and phyto-oestrogens do help. "
I'll look into them thankyou. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened about the hot guy?
He's gone silent which is annoying,especially as he contacted me to arrange something.
I just don't get why he did that now he's gone silent.
Cos he's a cunting man. Stop dwelling on it and go drinking. "
Or find another man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes it probably doesn't help amongst other thing's,I'm never confident that vitamins actually work to be honest."
Positive thinking can help. Hope you snap out of it as it’s not nice to feel like that. Shame you don’t live closer as meeting up with a lovely girl from this thread soon, would have been nice to have a little social. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest."
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed.
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
Yeah I will do.
Menopace are a vitamin/herbal combo that might just smooth things out for you. There are several herbs that are fairly potent when it comes to female endocrinology, and phyto-oestrogens do help. "
I'm with you re: Menopace. Also, certain foods help lift your mood and help to make you feel more positive. OP I hope you will soon be feeling much better x |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I think she’s married
The title was flat not suicidal.
Are you feeling any better today?
I've just woke up to be honest,stupid dreams. I've been so tired these last few weeks,I have no energy the slightest thing wears me out,grumpy,no period since March,no enthusiasm. I'm just wasting my time.
Thankyou for asking.
Do you think your mood is hormone related? Have you gone to the health shop, maybe they have some good vitamins that might help.
Yes this OP. Or try the doctor. x
Our doctors is now for some reason an absolute ballache to get an appointment with so I'm trying to stay away from them.
The last time I mentioned in passing to a doctor about the fact it looks like I'm appproaching the menopause he said junior doctors are just told to advise women to just 'go with it',I laughed.
Make an appointment with a female Dr.
Yeah I will do.
Menopace are a vitamin/herbal combo that might just smooth things out for you. There are several herbs that are fairly potent when it comes to female endocrinology, and phyto-oestrogens do help.
I'm with you re: Menopace. Also, certain foods help lift your mood and help to make you feel more positive. OP I hope you will soon be feeling much better x"
Thankyou. I have ordered some even though it says they're for during and after menopause,I've not hit it yet still in the perimenopausal stage I just can't shake it at the moment. I feel like I'm constantly due on,but not had a period since March.
I wish they would just sod off altogether and get my health and sanity bad. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon."
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon.
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom."
You got any plans this weekend? |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon.
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom.
You got any plans this weekend? "
I'm off to spend a couple of day's with my mum tomorrow,do a bit of retail therapy with her. She drives me nuts,but she's my mum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon.
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom.
You got any plans this weekend?
I'm off to spend a couple of day's with my mum tomorrow,do a bit of retail therapy with her. She drives me nuts,but she's my mum."
Hopefully that will be fun and shopping is good for a pick me up. I tend to pick up more than my mood. Spend way too much on stuff I don’t need. Hope you have a lovely time x |
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"We all have these awful feelings of insecurities and wondering why etc... I’m dreadful for over thinking and getting disappointed about different things... but it is the same for men and women etc... even if you really like someone and they end up disappearing or going quiet etc then you have to keep looking.....
It’s so easy to get bogged down.. try not too! Your pics are gorgeous so just remember his loss... don’t pine for someone who doesn’t want you...just think I want to find someone who wants me.... that’s what I try to do!!
Big hugs "
This is very true. I’ve been in this situation recently and it’s not a nice way to feel, but I’m starting to appreciate that if someone is going to be like that, then maybe it’s not someone i would want to play more with after all (well that’s what I’m convincing myself anyway, whether I believe it or not is another matter!) |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon.
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom.
You got any plans this weekend?
I'm off to spend a couple of day's with my mum tomorrow,do a bit of retail therapy with her. She drives me nuts,but she's my mum.
Hopefully that will be fun and shopping is good for a pick me up. I tend to pick up more than my mood. Spend way too much on stuff I don’t need. Hope you have a lovely time x"
Thankyou I've saving for my holiday with my daughter so I can't go to mad,my mum is 82 anyway so she can't be out for hours as she gets too tired after a while x |
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"And OP, sending you good thoughts, and hope that you are feeling better soon
I will thankyou when I get these bloody hormones sorted and other thing's in my life. "
Have you tried reflexology? I have some problems with my endocrine system and I find it really helps me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you feeling flat like a or Pepsi?
That didn't make sense,oh that's weird it shows the word when I hit reply.
Yeah not really feeling the daft remarks to be honest.
You should try to see the humour, as laugher truly is the best tonic in life.
Hope you're feeling brighter soon.
Yeah I'll try and 'cheer up',thanks for that bit of wisdom."
Sorry, just trying to help, as feeling sorry for oneself never does anyone any good. I'll leave you be.  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And OP, sending you good thoughts, and hope that you are feeling better soon
I will thankyou when I get these bloody hormones sorted and other thing's in my life.
Have you tried reflexology? I have some problems with my endocrine system and I find it really helps me "
No I haven't but I'll look into it thankyou. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seeds, is a natural way of increasing oestrogen in your body.
Seeds,any particular one's?"
Have a mixture.
I used to take menopace then went onto oestrogen only HRT. It helped reduce my hot flushes and night sweats. It can help with moods also. A word of warning, too much oestrogen in relation to progesterone is not a good thing. You can choose oestrogen and progesterone as combined HRT (Progesterone to protect the uterus) or have oestrogen hrt and mirena coil to provide the local progesterone.
If you want to know what the NHS should be doing for women approaching the menopause - read NICE guidelines on it.
Doctors can offer anti-depressants to help with the mood swings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seeds, is a natural way of increasing oestrogen in your body.
You need to join my useless information department!  "
This was a doctor's advice to me several years ago. Nerr  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Seeds, is a natural way of increasing oestrogen in your body.
Seeds,any particular one's?
Have a mixture.
I used to take menopace then went onto oestrogen only HRT. It helped reduce my hot flushes and night sweats. It can help with moods also. A word of warning, too much oestrogen in relation to progesterone is not a good thing. You can choose oestrogen and progesterone as combined HRT (Progesterone to protect the uterus) or have oestrogen hrt and mirena coil to provide the local progesterone.
If you want to know what the NHS should be doing for women approaching the menopause - read NICE guidelines on it.
Doctors can offer anti-depressants to help with the mood swings."
Ok thankyou I appreciate that info. |
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