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"it’s been that way for decades ![]() Doesn’t mean it’s correct ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go" I think you are missing the point.. | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... " No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women." Ermmm you can limit the numbers.. but charge same rate.. would women won’t attend if they had to pay the same rate? | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go I think you are missing the point.. " this question normally comes up every couple of months.... the answer is no!!! because there are exemptions in the SDA that allow for pricing to encourage under-represented groups of people...... | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go I think you are missing the point.. this question normally comes up every couple of months.... the answer is no!!! because there are exemptions in the SDA that allow for pricing to encourage under-represented groups of people......" Women/couples are under-represented group of people? Seriously? | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. Ermmm you can limit the numbers.. but charge same rate.. would women won’t attend if they had to pay the same rate? " Your barrister friend might also have something to say about limiting numbers based on gender and what are you going to do about transgenders in various stages of metamorphosis | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. Ermmm you can limit the numbers.. but charge same rate.. would women won’t attend if they had to pay the same rate? " I wouldn't pay the price men do. I have paid as a single and as part of a couple though. | |||
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"Single guys are required to pay more at clubs for entry compared to couples and single girls.. can this be potentially illegal as they use the same facilities? Where are all the swinger barristers or shall I call my friend who is a trainee lawyer I’m starting a petition too ![]() I do see ur point op in the world of equal this and that we live in now But doest effect me iv never been | |||
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"Never been to a club and unlikely to ever do and I am not a lawyer But - private club or not.. it has to operate within the guidelines set by law - and discriminated prices against gender is probably an area that needs looking at Not to sue but to advice clubs to revise their membership rules and pricing " I’ll start writing them emails first thing tomorrow morning ![]() | |||
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"it’s been that way for decades ![]() ![]() I believe it is to keep the number of desperados down. I personally dont mind the extra cost. As i only ever went as a couple ![]() | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women." I’d go to that party ![]() | |||
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"Single guys are required to pay more at clubs for entry compared to couples and single girls.. can this be potentially illegal as they use the same facilities? Where are all the swinger barristers or shall I call my friend who is a trainee lawyer I’m starting a petition too ![]() I have never been either but it hurts to see the prices on party profile ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go I think you are missing the point.. this question normally comes up every couple of months.... the answer is no!!! because there are exemptions in the SDA that allow for pricing to encourage under-represented groups of people...... Women/couples are under-represented group of people? Seriously? " to the amount of men that would go to a club based on the same night at the same potential price... yes!!! you make the mistake of thinking that single tier pricing would make it cheaper for men to go, where in effect what would more likely happen is the prices would be raised to be the same as men..... | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go" Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() | |||
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" I have never been either but it hurts to see the prices on party profile ![]() so then the issue isn't the fact you can't go, but the fact you can't go as often as you would like........ | |||
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"Where are those feminist... Don't they need equal treatment as men here... Why don't you pay same amount as single men ![]() I have no problem with the clubs reducing the price to £5 per head, as long as they ensure that the proportion of Males/ Couples/ Females remains roughly as it is now. | |||
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"It would lead to more couples only clubs which we would like x" To be fair, it would most probably lead to fewer clubs because "single" men make the swinging world go round | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() So how does that law work and why has in never been implemented in the case of the ops question? Got my attention now ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() if you took on the case you'd lose.... ![]() | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() I wouldn’t have gone to Kestrels and pay the same as a man. I would expect pensioner rates. ![]() | |||
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"It would lead to more couples only clubs which we would like x" this is what would more likely happen.... and then singles, both men and women, would be frozen out of the scene..... | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() Yeah but the cash cows wouldn't come if it wasn't for the single females (who I have heard referred to somewhat charmingly as the club "fuckpigs")... One doesn't work without the other. | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() The Equality Act 2010 says you must not be discriminated against because: you are (or are not) a particular sex (gender)someone thinks you are the opposite sex (this is known as discrimination by perception)you are connected to someone of a particular sex (this is known as discrimination by association) In the Equality Act, sex can mean either male or female, or a group of people like men or boys, or women or girls. There are four main types of sex discrimination, the most comkon of which is "Direct discrimination" This happens when, because of your sex, someone treats you worse than someone of the opposite sex who is in a similar situation. For example: a nightclub offers free entry to women but charges men to get in | |||
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"If it was illegal someone would have sued by now. Women are free because they are bait. Men pay for the inference of sex being available. " Like brothel ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() There have already been test cases on exactly this, and they won..... | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go I think you are missing the point.. this question normally comes up every couple of months.... the answer is no!!! because there are exemptions in the SDA that allow for pricing to encourage under-represented groups of people...... Women/couples are under-represented group of people? Seriously? " Yup they are. Especially single females. As a single female i wouldnt feel comfy going to a club alone | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() Fuckpig would be such a good username | |||
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"There are multiple placed which charge different admission fees although all are using the same facilities. Look at your local cinema, there are a variety of prices all for watching the same film. Your local museum for seeing the same exhibits. Your local swimming pool for using the same water. Your football team for watching the same goals. " Yes but never based on gender. The OP has a valid point the females do only want money men there and that need is facilitated | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() Totally agree. Fun down on the farm ![]() | |||
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"Where are those feminist... Don't they need equal treatment as men here... Why don't you pay same amount as single men ![]() Reduce the price by £5 ...lol ![]() ![]() | |||
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"it’s been that way for decades ![]() ![]() The main issue I see soon is how do they distinguish between male and female as according to the general populous on the forums it's not a physical thing that distinguishes gender anymore, how one thinks mentally about who they are now. It might not be long before we need to give proof at entry... ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() OK I think I got it lol. But in the case of direct discrimination they club is not refusing entry its only charging a higher fee which at the time of entry most males accept and willing to pay. And in some cases single males need to pre book prior to entry thus accepting the terms and conditions of the club. Yes/No lol ![]() | |||
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"I don’t think the difference should be so big in entry. I almost feel like it contributes to some of the entitlement that men feel..." Agree. | |||
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"I don’t think the difference should be so big in entry. I almost feel like it contributes to some of the entitlement that men feel..." ![]() | |||
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"Where are those feminist... Don't they need equal treatment as men here... Why don't you pay same amount as single men ![]() Exactly. Which would mean that there are quotas/ratios for each party, therefore many single guys wouldn't be able to attend for any chosen party. Me thinks that they wouldn't like a closed door a lot more that they don't like the difference in price. | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes and No, because the second most common type of sexual discrimination is "Indirect Discrimination" Indirect discrimination happens when an organisation has a particular policy or way of working that applies in the same way to both sexes but which puts you at a disadvantage because of your sex. For example: an employer decides to change shift patterns for staff so that they finish at 5pm instead of 3pm. Female employees with caring responsibilities could be at a disadvantage if the new shift pattern means they cannot collect their children from school or childcare. Or men are charged more to enter a club purely because they're not female. | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() Dream on, it'll just be a cock fest if that was to happen. Clubs have to incentivise women (single or part of a couple) to attend their clubs. | |||
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"I've been to clubs as part of a couple and a single guy...all I can say to the guys who winge about the costs for single guys is man up and grow a pair...it's life its not always fair...how would you like then if they limited the number if single guys here to equal the number of single women...oops 90% get instant profile deletion.." On the flip side, as a woman, I’m actually not comfortable with men paying so much more. | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() ![]() OK I get you. Like someone said above it would push clubs in the direction of couples only eliminating the single male and female. | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() But treat all members the same (with a smile) once they've gained entry ![]() | |||
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"Yet another butt hurt single guy post. Once in, all single guys have to wear is a skanky pair of boxers - £4.99 from M&S or a towel provided by the club. Some conventional clubs prevent entry of single males let alone charge extra. Women are expected to wear sexy underwear and heels. How much? £60-£70? " Not sure what clubs you go to | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() Do men pay less or women and couples pay more? Or both and meet in the middle? | |||
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"Yet another butt hurt single guy post. Once in, all single guys have to wear is a skanky pair of boxers - £4.99 from M&S or a towel provided by the club. Some conventional clubs prevent entry of single males let alone charge extra. Women are expected to wear sexy underwear and heels. How much? £60-£70? " If a requisite to entry for a club was heels and lingerie I would not be able to ever attend. | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() ![]() What the fucks a fuck pig hahahahaha i have definatly had a sheltered life lol | |||
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"Yet another butt hurt single guy post. Once in, all single guys have to wear is a skanky pair of boxers - £4.99 from M&S or a towel provided by the club. Some conventional clubs prevent entry of single males let alone charge extra. Women are expected to wear sexy underwear and heels. How much? £60-£70? " Discrimination right there ?? | |||
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"Yet another butt hurt single guy post. Once in, all single guys have to wear is a skanky pair of boxers - £4.99 from M&S or a towel provided by the club. Some conventional clubs prevent entry of single males let alone charge extra. Women are expected to wear sexy underwear and heels. How much? £60-£70? Discrimination right there ?? " ?? = ![]() | |||
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"I'm gender fluid, I'll pay the females price" You’d look terrible in a dress. | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. I’d go to that party ![]() Trust me, you wouldn't like it. I've been to one where there were about 30 men and 3 women and had to leave after half an hour because it was non-stop guys trying to "talk" to me and it became literally overwhelming. Hated it and always try to go to parties that I know have an almost equal ratio. | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. I’d go to that party ![]() No I’d love that ![]() | |||
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"The Equality Act has an exemption, though; "a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.” It is a legitimate aim of sex clubs to have the right mix of people. I don’t imagine a club would have too much difficulty arguing that single men are more expensive to host, so you’ve covered the price difference, too." How are they more expensive to host? | |||
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"The Equality Act has an exemption, though; "a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.” It is a legitimate aim of sex clubs to have the right mix of people. I don’t imagine a club would have too much difficulty arguing that single men are more expensive to host, so you’ve covered the price difference, too." I'm a lawyer. I have argued this many times on here, but basically arguing that gender based pricing is lawful is always going to be very difficult. If a man brought a county court equality act claim against a club I think he would probably win. | |||
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"How are they more expensive to host?" I haven’t been, but from the descriptions I’ve read on here of the conduct of some single men in clubs, staffing and general maintenance. | |||
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"How are they more expensive to host? I haven’t been, but from the descriptions I’ve read on here of the conduct of some single men in clubs, staffing and general maintenance." I think that would be pretty difficult to prove to be honest. Single guys won’t cost any more to clubs than anyone else. | |||
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"Where are those feminist... Don't they need equal treatment as men here... Why don't you pay same amount as single men ![]() ![]() ![]() I said "to" £5. As in for everyone. And yes. I do realise. As a poster above said though- maybe it would stop the desperate sense of entitlement "some" single men demonstrate in clubs. | |||
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"How are they more expensive to host? I haven’t been, but from the descriptions I’ve read on here of the conduct of some single men in clubs, staffing and general maintenance. I think that would be pretty difficult to prove to be honest. Single guys won’t cost any more to clubs than anyone else. " A club would be likely to argue that they need to attract women and the only way to do this is to limit men by price. The problem with that argument is that. (a) facilitating casual sex may not be seen as a "legitimate aim" and. (b) even if it was, rationing by price is unlikely to be seen as a "proportionate means". | |||
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"How are they more expensive to host? I haven’t been, but from the descriptions I’ve read on here of the conduct of some single men in clubs, staffing and general maintenance. I think that would be pretty difficult to prove to be honest. Single guys won’t cost any more to clubs than anyone else. A club would be likely to argue that they need to attract women and the only way to do this is to limit men by price. The problem with that argument is that. (a) facilitating casual sex may not be seen as a "legitimate aim" and. (b) even if it was, rationing by price is unlikely to be seen as a "proportionate means". " Totally agree. My question to the poster though was about why he thought single men were more expensive to host, as in an actual cost to the club. I don’t see how that could be the case. | |||
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" I have never been either but it hurts to see the prices on party profile ![]() I don’t think it’s the issue because if I want to go I can go regardless of price.. like a night out.. can you think of something else it could be about Fabio? ![]() | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... " Or not F#@ked As the case may be ! ![]() | |||
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"Single guys are required to pay more at clubs for entry compared to couples and single girls.. can this be potentially illegal as they use the same facilities? Where are all the swinger barristers or shall I call my friend who is a trainee lawyer I’m starting a petition too ![]() Another politically correct 'equality' thread. Zzzzzzzz! | |||
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"If it was illegal someone would have sued by now. Women are free because they are bait. Men pay for the inference of sex being available. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I guess that the problem would be that they tend to be members clubs so members have agreed to the entrance policy when joining" Yeah like men only golf clubs....that doesn't work anymore does it. | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go I think you are missing the point.. this question normally comes up every couple of months.... the answer is no!!! because there are exemptions in the SDA that allow for pricing to encourage under-represented groups of people...... Women/couples are under-represented group of people? Seriously? Yup they are. Especially single females. As a single female i wouldnt feel comfy going to a club alone" But you would feel comfortable if it was cheaper for you than your male counterparts? ![]() | |||
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"Why not just start a boycott? If all single men refused to go to a club, they would be forced to change the pricing..." Are you Jeremy Corbyn? ![]() | |||
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"There is some interesting information around this area on the Government website about how the Equality Act regulates the way in which private clubs and other types of associations treat their members. Regarding the definition of a Private Club or Association, it is not "a club which is open to members of the public simply on payment of an entry fee, such as a night club or a gym – these are covered by different provisions which apply to service providers." but rather somewhere that "has rules (not necessarily formal or written) regulating who can be a member and there is a genuine selection process for members." It goes on to say that "It is unlawful for a private club or other association to discriminate against, harass or victimise an existing or potential member or an associate. (An associate is someone who is not a member but who has some or all of the rights of a member because they are a member of an affiliated private club.) A club cannot refuse membership, or grant membership on less favourable terms (such as by applying different conditions or fees) because the person has a protected characteristic - disability, gender reassignment, pregnancy and maternity, race, religion or belief, sex or sexual orientation." Regarding Positive Action it says "Some people with protected characteristics are disadvantaged or under-represented, or have particular needs linked to their characteristic. Positive Action provisions in the Act enable private clubs and other associations to take proportionate steps to encourage membership among under-represented groups, or to help people overcome their disadvantages, or to meet their needs." So, I guess the club's argument would be they are allowed to charge differently based on sex under Positive Action provisions. " Who would like to take a pro bono case? ![]() | |||
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"Why not just start a boycott? If all single men refused to go to a club, they would be forced to change the pricing..." If I was a single guy, I would see a boycott and think, great less competition and be in like a shot... If you applied full equality, you would end up with clubs full of guys for a couple of months, then empty clubs, then no clubs... | |||
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"Regardless of the ins and outs of it the ops original point is valid in that,if this were women that had to pay more there would be hell to pay and army's of skinheaded shouty women in combat jackets would be picketing a place they wouldn't be seen dead in. " ![]() | |||
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"Women want equal etc an equal opportunities but men have to pay more to enter a building... Mmmm let me think. That's really eual opportunities ![]() But the women don't set the entry prices at the clubs ![]() | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. Ermmm you can limit the numbers.. but charge same rate.. would women won’t attend if they had to pay the same rate? " You limit the number by turning single males away each time they turn up, because the club as it's quota of guys ..the problem with that is, the males would not bother going at all because of the fear of being turned away and the wasted time on their part ..like getting ready for the club. The traveling to the club and so on. It would end up with a club with no males in it | |||
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"Single guys are required to pay more at clubs for entry compared to couples and single girls.. can this be potentially illegal as they use the same facilities? Where are all the swinger barristers or shall I call my friend who is a trainee lawyer I’m starting a petition too ![]() It's a filter Sorts the wheat from the Chaff. There are millions of single guys so the "if you wanna play you gotta pay" more brigade want to use it to their advantage then so be it. ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege " The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege " Privilege of what? I do get what the op is saying. There is no right answer really. Charge the women the same and its likely they won't go. Reduce the cist for guys then the flood gates open and you are more likely to get chances or groups of guys going in and it will be like the stag party scene. Currently SOME men have the attitude that as they've paid more to get in they have a right to sex when they are there. It's a ruddy mine field! | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege Privilege of what? I do get what the op is saying. There is no right answer really. Charge the women the same and its likely they won't go. Reduce the cist for guys then the flood gates open and you are more likely to get chances or groups of guys going in and it will be like the stag party scene. Currently SOME men have the attitude that as they've paid more to get in they have a right to sex when they are there. It's a ruddy mine field! " I’ve paid to go into clubs, been a guest and also worked as a butler etc. NEVER Have had any expectations ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience." The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege Privilege of what? I do get what the op is saying. There is no right answer really. Charge the women the same and its likely they won't go. Reduce the cist for guys then the flood gates open and you are more likely to get chances or groups of guys going in and it will be like the stag party scene. Currently SOME men have the attitude that as they've paid more to get in they have a right to sex when they are there. It's a ruddy mine field! I’ve paid to go into clubs, been a guest and also worked as a butler etc. NEVER Have had any expectations ![]() That's why I said SOME and not YOU ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there." ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege Privilege of what? I do get what the op is saying. There is no right answer really. Charge the women the same and its likely they won't go. Reduce the cist for guys then the flood gates open and you are more likely to get chances or groups of guys going in and it will be like the stag party scene. Currently SOME men have the attitude that as they've paid more to get in they have a right to sex when they are there. It's a ruddy mine field! I’ve paid to go into clubs, been a guest and also worked as a butler etc. NEVER Have had any expectations ![]() ![]() Just saying my dear ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience." ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there." Thats utter bollox and you know it | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. Thats utter bollox and you know it" Nope just the sort of answer we have come to expect. ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. Thats utter bollox and you know it Nope just the sort of answer we have come to expect. ![]() Ive never been to a club, never have, just not my scene. But it was only though this thread did i realise that women and couples get in free whilst men have to pay over inflated prices. Sorry but thats not right. You mention free loaders...well the biggest culprit of that is.....well lets just say it isnt men. Saying "the privilage of showing your not a tight arse" is a patbetic response. Why dont the couples and women show they are not tight arses and offer to pay the an amount that will bring down the guys cost of entry to they are equal. As far as im aware single guys are just as important part for the whole scene to work. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. Thats utter bollox and you know it Nope just the sort of answer we have come to expect. ![]() Women and couples don't get in free at a lot of places but the cost is less that single guys. | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() Have you been to a club where you over heard people saying " I wish there were more single blokes here tonight" | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Most clubs if not all charge couples somee let single ladies in for free The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. Thats utter bollox and you know it Nope just the sort of answer we have come to expect. ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. The privilege of showing that you aren't a tight arse....simple. So many freeloaders out there. Thats utter bollox and you know it Nope just the sort of answer we have come to expect. ![]() Ah ok i stand corrected. Thought it was everyone but single guys getting in free. Still doesn't seem right though :p | |||
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"For anyone complaining about not getting the female discount, how would you incentivise women to attend your club? " So do women only attend because its free entry? Or do tbey attend because of the experience, the socialising and if they choose so the sex they may be a part off? Would women no longer go if entry fee was a tenner or 20 quid? | |||
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"It is not that much expensive on entry fee if you are a member. So the answer is join a club!!" So.... Case in point in support of the guys.... At one club I know it used to be entry for guys that are members is £33, on a guys first visit he has to pay membership fees of £70 on top of the entry fee meaning that in just one night he's paid out a ton just to get in. Women and couples pay much less. Whilst it's not right I can totally see where SOME (again, mrinstatiable!) guys go in with an expectation of sex. They soon get told though lol | |||
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"For anyone complaining about not getting the female discount, how would you incentivise women to attend your club? So do women only attend because its free entry? Or do tbey attend because of the experience, the socialising and if they choose so the sex they may be a part off? Would women no longer go if entry fee was a tenner or 20 quid?" I’m my experience single women are rare in clubs as it is. I’m sure those that do don’t attend solely because it’s cheap, but I’m quite sure that paying full price would be a deterrent. So how do we encourage single women to attend, if not with a discount? | |||
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"For anyone complaining about not getting the female discount, how would you incentivise women to attend your club? So do women only attend because its free entry? Or do tbey attend because of the experience, the socialising and if they choose so the sex they may be a part off? Would women no longer go if entry fee was a tenner or 20 quid? I’m my experience single women are rare in clubs as it is. I’m sure those that do don’t attend solely because it’s cheap, but I’m quite sure that paying full price would be a deterrent. So how do we encourage single women to attend, if not with a discount?" Maybe they should pay the same as couples then..its not full price and then guys can get a discount. Would be a good start. | |||
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"It is not that much expensive on entry fee if you are a member. So the answer is join a club!! So.... Case in point in support of the guys.... At one club I know it used to be entry for guys that are members is £33, on a guys first visit he has to pay membership fees of £70 on top of the entry fee meaning that in just one night he's paid out a ton just to get in. Women and couples pay much less. Whilst it's not right I can totally see where SOME (again, mrinstatiable!) guys go in with an expectation of sex. They soon get told though lol " Yes first time would be expensive but you have to think long term in this game, I'm def a stayer lol ![]() | |||
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"Regardless of the ins and outs of it the ops original point is valid in that,if this were women that had to pay more there would be hell to pay and army's of skinheaded shouty women in combat jackets would be picketing a place they wouldn't be seen dead in. " They’d be invisible though, surely. | |||
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"Why do men pay £50+ to walk around getting ignored or sneered at by snooty women and couples?" Ive seen the men in clubs revered too as a zombie hoard from walking dead at clubs. ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience." Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual." Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more. | |||
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"For anyone complaining about not getting the female discount, how would you incentivise women to attend your club? So do women only attend because its free entry? Or do tbey attend because of the experience, the socialising and if they choose so the sex they may be a part off? Would women no longer go if entry fee was a tenner or 20 quid? I’m my experience single women are rare in clubs as it is. I’m sure those that do don’t attend solely because it’s cheap, but I’m quite sure that paying full price would be a deterrent. So how do we encourage single women to attend, if not with a discount? Maybe they should pay the same as couples then..its not full price and then guys can get a discount. Would be a good start." So you think increasing the price women pay will encourage more of them to attend? I’m not convinced that would work. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual." Totally agree and I would suspect it is a pretty poor experience for most single guys. | |||
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"Single guys are cash cows for clubs. There. I said it ![]() Yes. In fact I’ve even made a similar statement myself more than once. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more." You cannot debate my point with somebody else's when they are not associated. ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more. You cannot debate my point with somebody else's when they are not associated. ![]() The lady that replied to your post makes a good point. Most single guys experience at a club will be a poor one. | |||
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"For anyone complaining about not getting the female discount, how would you incentivise women to attend your club? So do women only attend because its free entry? Or do tbey attend because of the experience, the socialising and if they choose so the sex they may be a part off? Would women no longer go if entry fee was a tenner or 20 quid?" I would still go. I’ve paid a £20 entry fee on a couple of occasions and it didn’t bother me. Not sure how much the guys were paying but I think it was £50 ![]() | |||
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"To us swinging is with couples hence we prefer couples only nights. We've been put off going on a mixed night as far too many single men flowing trying to push in playroom. Maybe we were unlucky but they will get nowhere with us with this behaviour. Trying another club see what dynamics are but it's the desperate males that spoil it for the genuine social ones. We wouldn't attend a club swarming with single males outnumbering couples, but some might everyone is looking for different things ![]() Exactly. Desires and expectations are different for all. For me (and i am not assuming a gender trait but possible), i meet guys one-to-one and desire a good holistic experience - this has nothing to do with an orgasm. If it did I'd stick with my wand - cheaper experience and almost guaranteed. Clubs and meets - orgasms are once in a blue moon. I imagine for the majority of single men it's about getting their rocks off. | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more. You cannot debate my point with somebody else's when they are not associated. ![]() I'm sure repeat single male visitors to those clubs agree ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more. You cannot debate my point with somebody else's when they are not associated. ![]() ![]() Hence why i said most single guys and not all. | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() Yes, they would out all entry fees up to the single guy rate, and if that happened chances are most couples and single girls would stop going. Enjoy the sausagefest ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be cheap. You’re paying for the privilege The privilege of what? What exactly does a guy get in a club thats more of a privilage than women? Far as i know they both get the same experience. Poor argument as experience is unique to the individual. Not a poor agument at all. Saying a guy has to pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse...is the poor argument as to why guys have to pay more. You cannot debate my point with somebody else's when they are not associated. ![]() ![]() You cannot say most, you can only say some. If it was most, clubs would be closing down faster than new ones opening. | |||
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"To the guy that said men are free loaders and that they should pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse... Answer me this.. You think if women and couples had to pay a bit more and that a guys costs was reduced to be a little bit more balanced..do you believe the clubs would then become empty and soon close as some has suggested? Surely that doesn't make men the tight arses then it makes the females and couples the tight arses for not wanting or willing to pay a lil bit more seeing as they get the most from these clubs as single guys arnt gaurenteed any "fun" they are at the whim of the females and couples if they get fun." By your own admission, you haven't been to a club. I have seen application for a guestlist (for a club that works with quotas) and for every 20 guys, there's 1 woman that applies, even with the prices being uneven. If you charged a flat rate, you'd get 100 guys to 1 woman, not only because women wouldn't get an incentive to attend if the price was higher but because the guys' numbers would massively increase if the price was lower, resulting to masses of them being turned away and ultimately get fed up of being turned away. Have you read ALL the responses in this thread? A LOT of good points were made as to why the pricing tier works this way. | |||
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"To us swinging is with couples hence we prefer couples only nights. We've been put off going on a mixed night as far too many single men flowing trying to push in playroom. Maybe we were unlucky but they will get nowhere with us with this behaviour. Trying another club see what dynamics are but it's the desperate males that spoil it for the genuine social ones. We wouldn't attend a club swarming with single males outnumbering couples, but some might everyone is looking for different things ![]() It's Social night out for us, meeting friendly people, having a laugh going with the flow fun following. Too many single men don't get this & try to jump in. I'm sure they aren't all like this but to not have some vetting/filtering system by club would result in men only in clubs surely ![]() | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() ![]() So basically your saying if women and couples had to pay same price as a guy you would all stop attending?? What makes your 30-50 pound more valuable and important than a single guys 30-50 pound. So basically 30-50 pound is too much for single women and couples but its not too much for a guy? | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() ![]() Vaginas ![]() | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() ![]() I'd need a student discount ![]() | |||
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"Probably!! Then they close.... Then your F#@ked.... No, then they start charging same rate to everyone ![]() ![]() ![]() Choose clubs wisely, different nights for different people. The reason certain nights are more expensive for males is they don't want them nights overrun by them. Hotwife nights they want loads. Organised events with guest list the organiser balances out singles to couples ratio. We go to some events and its £60 per couple others £20. | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women." We are here aren't we? Compared to fab, 9-1 against sounds like pretty good odds... ![]() | |||
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"To the guy that said men are free loaders and that they should pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse... Answer me this.. You think if women and couples had to pay a bit more and that a guys costs was reduced to be a little bit more balanced..do you believe the clubs would then become empty and soon close as some has suggested? Surely that doesn't make men the tight arses then it makes the females and couples the tight arses for not wanting or willing to pay a lil bit more seeing as they get the most from these clubs as single guys arnt gaurenteed any "fun" they are at the whim of the females and couples if they get fun." If that’s directed at me I said cheap. I don’t really care mate, do you need a hug ![]() | |||
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"Never been to a club and unlikely to ever do and I am not a lawyer But - private club or not.. it has to operate within the guidelines set by law - and discriminated prices against gender is probably an area that needs looking at Not to sue but to advice clubs to revise their membership rules and pricing " If you were to find a lawyer, hope you have deep pockets! it's totally with in the clubs descretion to charge what they will, with in reason. I doubt any club charges twice as much for single guys, But, all the major sports gets away with it for every game. | |||
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"To the guy that said men are free loaders and that they should pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse... Answer me this.. You think if women and couples had to pay a bit more and that a guys costs was reduced to be a little bit more balanced..do you believe the clubs would then become empty and soon close as some has suggested? Surely that doesn't make men the tight arses then it makes the females and couples the tight arses for not wanting or willing to pay a lil bit more seeing as they get the most from these clubs as single guys arnt gaurenteed any "fun" they are at the whim of the females and couples if they get fun. If that’s directed at me I said cheap. I don’t really care mate, do you need a hug ![]() No buddy it wasnt..it was someone else that said guys should pay for the privilage not to be a tight arse. Ill take that hug though... thsnks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Never been to a club and unlikely to ever do and I am not a lawyer But - private club or not.. it has to operate within the guidelines set by law - and discriminated prices against gender is probably an area that needs looking at Not to sue but to advice clubs to revise their membership rules and pricing If you were to find a lawyer, hope you have deep pockets! it's totally with in the clubs descretion to charge what they will, with in reason. I doubt any club charges twice as much for single guys, But, all the major sports gets away with it for every game." You say clubs dont charge more than twice as much for single guys. Now i dont know the pricing for clubs but just seeing the numbers thrown out here its free for single women, couples pay a smaller figure and guys pay upto 50 pounds? That seems like more than double to me. | |||
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"Never been to a club and unlikely to ever do and I am not a lawyer But - private club or not.. it has to operate within the guidelines set by law - and discriminated prices against gender is probably an area that needs looking at Not to sue but to advice clubs to revise their membership rules and pricing If you were to find a lawyer, hope you have deep pockets! it's totally with in the clubs descretion to charge what they will, with in reason. I doubt any club charges twice as much for single guys, But, all the major sports gets away with it for every game." Many clubs charge more than twice as much for single guys | |||
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"To the guy that said men are free loaders and that they should pay for the privilage of not being a tight arse... Answer me this.. You think if women and couples had to pay a bit more and that a guys costs was reduced to be a little bit more balanced..do you believe the clubs would then become empty and soon close as some has suggested? Surely that doesn't make men the tight arses then it makes the females and couples the tight arses for not wanting or willing to pay a lil bit more seeing as they get the most from these clubs as single guys arnt gaurenteed any "fun" they are at the whim of the females and couples if they get fun. If that’s directed at me I said cheap. I don’t really care mate, do you need a hug ![]() ![]() ![]() Hugs all round. Have a good weekend ![]() | |||
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"Never been to a club and unlikely to ever do and I am not a lawyer But - private club or not.. it has to operate within the guidelines set by law - and discriminated prices against gender is probably an area that needs looking at Not to sue but to advice clubs to revise their membership rules and pricing If you were to find a lawyer, hope you have deep pockets! it's totally with in the clubs descretion to charge what they will, with in reason. I doubt any club charges twice as much for single guys, But, all the major sports gets away with it for every game. Many clubs charge more than twice as much for single guys " If a girl gets in free then basicaly no matter what they charge a guy...a guy will always be paying 100% more than a women. If a club charged a women a quid and a guy 50pound hes paying 50 times the cost of a woman. Not sure why he thought men wasnt getting charged more than twice. Lol | |||
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"It is this way in order to entice more women to attend. If it was the same price for everyone, it'd be a sausage fest. Maybe good for gay/bi events but I very much doubt that you or any other guy would go or want to go again to a party where there's 90 men and 10 women. I’d go to that party ![]() ![]() Kitty..... I went to one in Manchester a little like this.....it’s still up there as one of THE best party nights I have attended - n I been the odd few!!! Couples nights are ok now n then but are t really for me!!! ![]() | |||
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"Which law are they breaking? It's a private club it's their rules don't like it don't go Technically it is actually a breach of The Equality Act 2010. Did someone say they wanted a lawyer....? ![]() ![]() But there are exceptions for private members clubs - like gentlemen only clubs for example. Swingers clubs are all licenced as private members clubs, which gives them different standards to follow & they are not breaking the law by charging a different pricing structure for men, women & couples. It’s also how some clubs can legally exclude T-Girls and how they can exclude people based on gender or sexuality from certain events (men only, women only, bi nights etc) | |||
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