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So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? |
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
I have met a few couples that met on fab, so it’s possible. I’m sure there are many that would happily escalate things! |
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
Some people have actually met here and got married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
Yes. Since joining Fab I've been in an almost exclusive relationship with my right hand  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious??
I have met a few couples that met on fab, so it’s possible. I’m sure there are many that would happily escalate things!"
Good to hear that it is a possibility so you never know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious??
Yes. Since joining Fab I've been in an almost exclusive relationship with my right hand "
Am pretty aquainted to my toy draw to be fair but much prefer the real thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say it's an excellent place if not the best place to meet someone if you want to have some kind of swinging relationship or relationship that still involves this kind of lifestyle.
If however you wanted an exclusive monogamous relationship then I wouldn't recommend this place.
From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
Occasionally yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say it's an excellent place if not the best place to meet someone if you want to have some kind of swinging relationship or relationship that still involves this kind of lifestyle.
If however you wanted an exclusive monogamous relationship then I wouldn't recommend this place.
From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience. "
Agree with all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
It happens... and there are some of us looking for exactly that with a special sexy woman in her 30s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience. "
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive  
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory  ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious?? "
US!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience.
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway? "
My friends boyfriends best friend (bit of a mouthful!) he's the most kindest most respectful person I've ever met, he's on here, super intelligent as well like has a masters degree in physics amongst others things. Even he said he would hate it if he found someone on here that was his perfect match, said that deep down he'd wish he never met her on here.
I think guys can dress it up however much they like and it is massive double standards as they're on here too but I genuinely don't think for an exclusive monogamous relationship a guy wouldn't want his future girlfriend to come from this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd say it's an excellent place if not the best place to meet someone if you want to have some kind of swinging relationship or relationship that still involves this kind of lifestyle.
If however you wanted an exclusive monogamous relationship then I wouldn't recommend this place.
From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience. "
Fair play i hear ya, everyone is entitled to their opinion and i guess these can be based on previous life experiences/beliefs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say it's an excellent place if not the best place to meet someone if you want to have some kind of swinging relationship or relationship that still involves this kind of lifestyle.
If however you wanted an exclusive monogamous relationship then I wouldn't recommend this place.
From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience. "
I’d agree with this. But then I’d quite like a relationship where we maybe played with more people together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience.
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway? "
Fair play to you.
Let's face it by my age range i very much doubt anyone is whiter than white.
We all have a past! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So are there people on fab who go on to be in a relationship with each other?
Only asking as my primary reason for joining was to meet others whom have a high sex drive and wondered if this ever leads to anything more than just sex?
Just to clarify this is not necessarily what I am looking for was just curious??
US!! X"
Great stuff x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Billy and i met on here 5 years ago, started out as FWB and soon realised we both wanted more. Now we live together, are very happy and arrange meets when we can.
Poppy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds 
Good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Billy and i met on here 5 years ago, started out as FWB and soon realised we both wanted more. Now we live together, are very happy and arrange meets when we can.
Poppy"
Pleased for you guys x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op "
I did quote ya but has continued from my original quote, still figuring all this out.
Appreciate your input honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op "
Umm she did quote you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op
I did quote ya but has continued from my original quote, still figuring all this out.
Appreciate your input honest "
Oops so you did  Now I look like a cry baby haha Just being silly. But yes... some of us are open to finding love on here xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op
Umm she did quote you. "
Ah so I am doing it right!
Thought i was going mad for a moment there.
Thanks for clarifying x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op
I did quote ya but has continued from my original quote, still figuring all this out.
Appreciate your input honest
Oops so you did Now I look like a cry baby haha Just being silly. But yes... some of us are open to finding love on here xx"
Glad you found it, hope you feel better now lol x |
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience.
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway?
My friends boyfriends best friend (bit of a mouthful!) he's the most kindest most respectful person I've ever met, he's on here, super intelligent as well like has a masters degree in physics amongst others things. Even he said he would hate it if he found someone on here that was his perfect match, said that deep down he'd wish he never met her on here.
I think guys can dress it up however much they like and it is massive double standards as they're on here too but I genuinely don't think for an exclusive monogamous relationship a guy wouldn't want his future girlfriend to come from this site. "
That's weird...I mean maybe not the monogamous relationship bit, because obviously you'd have to assume that if people are on here then they're not really into the whole monogamous relationship thing anyway - but if someone was your perfect match who cares where you met?
Kinda cutting your nose off to spite your face, no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op
I did quote ya but has continued from my original quote, still figuring all this out.
Appreciate your input honest
Oops so you did Now I look like a cry baby haha Just being silly. But yes... some of us are open to finding love on here xx
Glad you found it, hope you feel better now lol x"
The . wound . is . Still . quite . deep. Maybe you could undress me and gently bathe it with a sponge under the romantic glow of candlelight? Cue obligatory cheesy woman-tends-to-man's-wounds scene |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm crushed. I go in for the big play and everyone gets quoted by the op but me. I shall retire into the darkness to sob into my open wounds
Good luck op
I did quote ya but has continued from my original quote, still figuring all this out.
Appreciate your input honest
Oops so you did Now I look like a cry baby haha Just being silly. But yes... some of us are open to finding love on here xx
Glad you found it, hope you feel better now lol x
The . wound . is . Still . quite . deep. Maybe you could undress me and gently bathe it with a sponge under the romantic glow of candlelight? Cue obligatory cheesy woman-tends-to-man's-wounds scene "
Drinks and dinner included then count me in.... x |
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience.
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway?
My friends boyfriends best friend (bit of a mouthful!) he's the most kindest most respectful person I've ever met, he's on here, super intelligent as well like has a masters degree in physics amongst others things. Even he said he would hate it if he found someone on here that was his perfect match, said that deep down he'd wish he never met her on here.
I think guys can dress it up however much they like and it is massive double standards as they're on here too but I genuinely don't think for an exclusive monogamous relationship a guy wouldn't want his future girlfriend to come from this site. "
I disagree, that would imply that a woman had loose morals (most polite phrase I could think of). Which is unfair.
If someone immersed themself into the swinging lifestyle they should accept the broader definition. It’s more than just a sex site.
A lot of people on here aren’t ‘swingers’ per se. Those who are would embrace that they have found someone who is sexually liberal (once again, for want of a better term) whom they can explore with sexually.
Me personally, I would fucking relish the opportunity to find someone on here because I’m a dirty bastard. And I would very much like a dirty bastard to go out to dinner with too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From my experience, single guys will use this place as a stop gap in between seeking a relationship outside of fab. My experience is that the single guys on here would view you as someone good enough to fuck but for a relationship they would prefer someone who they perceive as more pure because they haven't been on what is essentially to some, a fuck site. Doesn't matter if the woman they meet in the real world has fucked thousands of guys and would regularly have gang bangs every night, doesn't matter, cos they weren't on a sex site.
That's just my opinion and experience.
I personally disagree. For me the only problem with meeting on Fab is that it isn't the ideal way I'd meet a woman. I wouldn't want her thinking me a sleaze bag. I'd rather show how wonderful and beautiful I am as a soul first by vanilla dating and charming her... before I revealed I was a kinky fucker with a high sex drive
I meet women on here for sex (or at least I would in theory ). If we hit it off and fall madly and deeply in love I'm cool with that. I don't harbor any of this bullshit about needing a wife who's whiter than the driven snow. Who the fuck wants that anyway?
My friends boyfriends best friend (bit of a mouthful!) he's the most kindest most respectful person I've ever met, he's on here, super intelligent as well like has a masters degree in physics amongst others things. Even he said he would hate it if he found someone on here that was his perfect match, said that deep down he'd wish he never met her on here.
I think guys can dress it up however much they like and it is massive double standards as they're on here too but I genuinely don't think for an exclusive monogamous relationship a guy wouldn't want his future girlfriend to come from this site.
I disagree, that would imply that a woman had loose morals (most polite phrase I could think of). Which is unfair.
If someone immersed themself into the swinging lifestyle they should accept the broader definition. It’s more than just a sex site.
A lot of people on here aren’t ‘swingers’ per se. Those who are would embrace that they have found someone who is sexually liberal (once again, for want of a better term) whom they can explore with sexually.
Me personally, I would fucking relish the opportunity to find someone on here because I’m a dirty bastard. And I would very much like a dirty bastard to go out to dinner with too."
Couldn't have said it better myself, i don't swing. Am here for an exclusive fb however if that leads to more at least i know there's more chance of them being sexually compatible (well my theory anyway).
I think the days of fab being a swinging site only are long gone.
P. S nothing wrong with being a 'dirty bastard', rather like them myself |
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"Drinks and dinner included then count me in.... x"
But of course! I've pm'd you. Just letting you know so you can find it in your undoubtedly huge pile of mail if you wish to xxx |
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