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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha today is my record.
5 messages in I got called a cunt.
Then dissolved to dickhead, turd, disrespectful and a fat skank.
 
Not had anyone that sore in quite some time. "
I was called sick and twisted yesterday because I refused to meet somebody random at 2am lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s almost as if they think they’ll change your mind...........
“Ah well piss off then, you loss”
“Actually, no wait...seeing as you took it so well I’ve changed my mind!”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've heard it all. One minute i'm the most beautiful woman he's seen. I say 'No thank you'
Next I'm told that 'hope you die a slow death in a fiat'
I replied the F, in fiat needs to be capital, 'F' - Fiat.
I thought after, why say a Fiat? What was the thought, did he own a Fiat! A Fiat what I wondered??? Not a Panda surely! A 500 Abarth at least!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages."
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. "
And some send vile and rude messages because they feel they're entitled to sex just for signing up to the site and can't deal with a simple rejection (whether that be a polite reply or no reply). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Yeah me too! "
Yes, you always let me down gently
Thanks in advance X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. "
You know that comment’s going to annoy people.
I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Yeah me too!
Yes, you always let me down gently
Thanks in advance X"
Apologies,
Fondest regards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful.
You know that comment’s going to annoy people.
I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though. "
There's always examples of women being rude in their replies- they are the ones I'm referring to. A blunt "no" will likely get a rude reaction.
I do also agree - as Gemini Man said - that some people will be vile and rude anyway.
Men, women and couples. It's not just men that are rude. Women often gleefully post about how rude they are in replies but then whine when men are rude to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful.
You know that comment’s going to annoy people.
I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though.
There's always examples of women being rude in their replies- they are the ones I'm referring to. A blunt "no" will likely get a rude reaction.
I do also agree - as Gemini Man said - that some people will be vile and rude anyway.
Men, women and couples. It's not just men that are rude. Women often gleefully post about how rude they are in replies but then whine when men are rude to them.
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Oh, I agree with the “No” thing. Personally, I think it’s better not to reply at all if that’s all you’re going to say. |
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. "
Some blokes are nasty regardless. Admittedly it's rare but I do get the occasional less than savoury reply usually, yeah well you're a fat cunt, you're ugly and fat or some other charming responses! I always reply with thank you for pointing out I'm fat ,I may never have noticed had you not done so, happy fabbing!! block. Cockwombles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages.
Same.
I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful.
Some blokes are nasty regardless. Admittedly it's rare but I do get the occasional less than savoury reply usually, yeah well you're a fat cunt, you're ugly and fat or some other charming responses! I always reply with thank you for pointing out I'm fat ,I may never have noticed had you not done so, happy fabbing!! block. Cockwombles. "
If you weren't rude to him, take it as a compliment. I see it as the worse the abuse the more they really wanted to fuck you. If he wasn't that bothered he wouldn't have said anything and just moved on. |
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Generally they are sweet and accepting but I'm usually slow to do most things here, so just a delete and block is fine - they may hardly remember messaging in the first place and it stops a recurrence.
I've had some still ask for more pics after rejection - a consolation wank help, I guess. |
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Sender; my God, you're the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, so pretty, you have a stunning figure. I would love to spend time with you. Could we meet up, have coffee and a chat and see where the journey takes us?
Recipient; thanks for the message, very kind of you. I'm afraid I'm not *insert polite let down.
Sender; what????? You fat ugly cunt, I wouldn't fuck you if my life depended on it. You've probably got crabs..... |
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I’ve never had any that have been abusive. The worst I’ve had is a guy making a new profile (when I had blocked him after saying no thanks) to tell me I was childish for blocking him, then he later apologised ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got told to "clear off" by a couple - not sure why.
Made me chuckle though as it reminded me of my youth, running through someones garden and standing on their daffodils.  |
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Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?!
Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here.
If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message.
A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?!
Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here.
If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message.
A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots "
my mrs seemed to get that “small percentage” all the time cause she’s always get abusive messages when she politely says no thanks. |
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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?!
Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here.
If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message.
A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots "
Well I've been here for a good few years so a run of idiots isn't going to put me off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the time I get thanks for replying anyway, but I had one young guy who got quite butt hurt and accused me of being fake despite my numerous veris. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?!
Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here.
If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message.
A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots
my mrs seemed to get that “small percentage” all the time cause she’s always get abusive messages when she politely says no thanks."
What exactly does she say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few people send me a second message,complaining about how rude I am for deleting their first message,unread.
I usually read these messages out loud in a whiny,nasal voice which I imagine is quite accurate. I'm kind of glad that I deleted the original message,then and that I never got into anything with someone who would even think of doing that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last year I met a guy for a social, well was actually just to watch episode 2 of game of thrones season 7, but overall plan was a social. He came over and as expected I didn't fancy him in the flesh, was one of those ones where they have pictures where they don't look that handsome but one picture could be a certain angle or black and white and you think oh hang on he's looks alright there, but anyway in the flesh was not my type but we still got munch together and watched the programme, I declined a kiss and gave a friendly hug when he left and that was that.
Whatsapp'd followed asking to meet again I said I didn't want to, more messages and I explained that he wasn't my type, then he started telling me about episode 3 which he'd downloaded early and gave spoilers away so I blocked him. Since then I have random messages from new accounts telling me I'm an ugly cunt and look nothing like my pictures and I'm weird and he's glad he didn't do anything with me and so on and so forth. I only blocked him cos he kept writing stuff in the first line of the message about what was going to happen in the show. |
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"I've had a few people send me a second message,complaining about how rude I am for deleting their first message,unread.
I usually read these messages out loud in a whiny,nasal voice which I imagine is quite accurate. I'm kind of glad that I deleted the original message,then and that I never got into anything with someone who would even think of doing that"
That made me chuckle! I shall try it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've previously had a few couples and ladies accuse me of not really being interested or timewasting because I didn't reply soon enough. Pesky work and having to earn some money to live getting in the way of fab time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've heard it all. One minute i'm the most beautiful woman he's seen. I say 'No thank you'
Next I'm told that 'hope you die a slow death in a fiat'
I replied the F, in fiat needs to be capital, 'F' - Fiat.
I thought after, why say a Fiat? What was the thought, did he own a Fiat! A Fiat what I wondered??? Not a Panda surely! A 500 Abarth at least!
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That's rather specific
Have the feeling they had been working on that reply for some time and were looking for the slightest opportunity to use it.
Insulting but at least a little creative ha ha |
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I've been lucky last few days. Last butthurt message was after I was polite I thought and said thank you for your message but sorry not my type. He replied "oh sorry didn't realise you were a TV ewwww, you really should say you are one! Nasty!"
I laughed my ass off as I have pics of my boobs and at the time my lady garden in public pics.
I was blocked before I could reply. He wouldn't of liked the response anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might start sending a few myself. After all,if I can go to the considerable trouble and effort of telling someone 'thanks but,no thanks'. Then the least they could do is write back to thank me for at least letting them know. But do they do that? rarely. Mostly they just delete the 'no thanks' message.How rude and ignorant,so I think in future I will be sending a follow up message'
''Err excuse me but,I think you'll find it's only polite and decent manners to say thank you for telling you you're not my type''.
And if they block me ,I will set up a new profile with stolen pictures and I will hound them.
Seems reasonable to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm getting off far too lightly on here it would appear. Had some stalkers but no real abusive messages.
(Awaits influx of "you're a fucking boot" type PM's) |
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Being a single bloke I don't get messages, but having seen the rakes of them my female friends get I'm not only unsurprised they can't get back to everyone, but embarrassed and horrified at the nastiness from some guys when the girls do take the trouble to send a polite "no thanks" type reply.
To be fair a no reply is better than the one i received the other week after sending what I thought was a carefully constructed message (with face photos), only to get "Are you having a laugh? You're not even in my league!" as a response.
A no reply - while frustrating on a regular basis - isn't personal or offensive fellas. The single e women really are bombarded day in and day out. |
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One guy had sent me a few messages that I hadn't responded to as there was no interest on my part and I steer away from sending no thanks messages to first contact as I've had a fair few guys get arsey with me. I sent a polite message saying along the lines of I hadn't responded previously due to him not being my type and happy fabbing etc and he replied with you are a fat fucker anyway and that he was glad he had dodged that bullet
I told him the sentiment was mutual after I had finished laughing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a single bloke I don't get messages, but having seen the rakes of them my female friends get I'm not only unsurprised they can't get back to everyone, but embarrassed and horrified at the nastiness from some guys when the girls do take the trouble to send a polite "no thanks" type reply.
To be fair a no reply is better than the one i received the other week after sending what I thought was a carefully constructed message (with face photos), only to get "Are you having a laugh? You're not even in my league!" as a response.
A no reply - while frustrating on a regular basis - isn't personal or offensive fellas. The single e women really are bombarded day in and day out. "
Why would anyone be so needlessly rude!
And aside from that she has no idea what she’s missed out on !! Xx |
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"Being a single bloke I don't get messages, but having seen the rakes of them my female friends get I'm not only unsurprised they can't get back to everyone, but embarrassed and horrified at the nastiness from some guys when the girls do take the trouble to send a polite "no thanks" type reply.
To be fair a no reply is better than the one i received the other week after sending what I thought was a carefully constructed message (with face photos), only to get "Are you having a laugh? You're not even in my league!" as a response.
A no reply - while frustrating on a regular basis - isn't personal or offensive fellas. The single e women really are bombarded day in and day out.
Why would anyone be so needlessly rude!
And aside from that she has no idea what she’s missed out on !! Xx"
Awwwwwwww - thank you gorgeous! xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 3 messages in when asking for face photos, having already send them mine. A couple called me something along the lines of a "pretentious cunt" then blocked me.
Further typically charming people on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested.
I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. "
did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had two first messages that were abusive.
Going by the content and then looking at the profiles that sent them I drew the conclusion that they were sent by jealous females.
Reported and blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a ‘fat cunt’ one shortly after I came back with this profile but that has been the only one on this profile. I delete any introductory message under two sentences unanswered. Anyone who has bothered to write more than that gets a polite rejection if they aren’t what I’m looking for. That seems to keep down the crappy rejection responses. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested.
I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it"
Any Dingle male? Hope it’s Cain and not Marlon or Sam |
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As a single male .. it is frustrating not to get the "dear john" message but I do understand that you can't reply to a very message.
If someone takes the time to say no thanks, I always reply with "Thank you for replying, good luck x"
There are a lot of oxygen thiefs out there ... just use it as a fuckwit filter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one last night..
Nice long message and face pic but had clearly not read the profile so i ignored it (as per profile)
10 mins later another message asking why i hadnt responded to the first message as i was perfect for him..
3rd message.. 'well if you are that stuck up you cba responding to such a catch (!) you're not for me'..
He blocked me, so i blocked him back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis.
Can't bloody get rid of her now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis.
Can't bloody get rid of her now."
Oh sweet jesus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis.
Can't bloody get rid of her now."
Run run now, head for the hills my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis.
Can't bloody get rid of her now."
Soz  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First message "Hi guys"
Second message (we deleted the first without a reply as it didn't merit one in our opinion) "Fucking cunt"
It's always satisfying when your gut is spot on |
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"As a single male .. it is frustrating not to get the "dear john" message but I do understand that you can't reply to a very message.
If someone takes the time to say no thanks, I always reply with "Thank you for replying, good luck x"
There are a lot of oxygen thiefs out there ... just use it as a fuckwit filter "
Right on the money!  |
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I messaged hello
She messaged asking for a face pic
I sent face pic
After a couple of days, saw she was online so said, obvs i'm not your cup of tea, good luck
She messaged "no, your to ugly" (her spelling, not mine)
An hour later got a message saying she'd fuck me for £80, I should tske it as it is the best offer I will get
I asked if she would send me the £80 then I'd call round
She told me to "fuck off cunt"
She's probably right though |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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An hour later got a message saying she'd fuck me for £80, I should tske it as it is the best offer I will get
I asked if she would send me the £80 then I'd call round
She told me to "fuck off cunt"
She's probably right though"
I have pulled this one when I have been approached on nights out by working girls.. the look of confusion as you tell them that your rates are higher so you will split the difference and they will only owe you £40.
I have had one memorable shitty message on here, a lady said hi and sent pictures of her vajayjay straight after a cream pie. I was very polite in my refusal to meet at which point she sent me a message saying how dare I refuse her, she could have 10 guys up there any day of the week.
Funnily enough that only solidified my position further.. |
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I had one this morning - been pursuing me for months, but 'cos I had had a couple of socials this week and still said no I was suddenly some kind of dodgy raging nympho clocking up notches on her bedpost.........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An hour later got a message saying she'd fuck me for £80, I should tske it as it is the best offer I will get
I asked if she would send me the £80 then I'd call round
She told me to "fuck off cunt"
She's probably right though
I have pulled this one when I have been approached on nights out by working girls.. the look of confusion as you tell them that your rates are higher so you will split the difference and they will only owe you £40.
I have had one memorable shitty message on here, a lady said hi and sent pictures of her vajayjay straight after a cream pie. I was very polite in my refusal to meet at which point she sent me a message saying how dare I refuse her, she could have 10 guys up there any day of the week.
Funnily enough that only solidified my position further.."
I would of replied it looks like you've already had them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested.
I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it
Any Dingle male? Hope it’s Cain and not Marlon or Sam "
I really need to start proof reading before i hit send
Damn my fat finger syndrome its crap for typing on a small keyboard but good for certain other things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got called a timewaster and knobhead because I wouldn't drive for about 6 hours to meet a couple for a 30 minute social. If the social went ok we may meet up at a future date. |
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"I got called a timewaster and knobhead because I wouldn't drive for about 6 hours to meet a couple for a 30 minute social. If the social went ok we may meet up at a future date. "
Sounds like a job interview, what crap. |
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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I had someone who messaged me and then within a minute sent me abuse because I hadn’t replied - I hadn’t even opened it! "
Oh I've had that, i read a message but I was at work so didn't have time to reply. I got several more messages asking why I hadn't replied, was I not interested etc etc.
Was very very of putting. |
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Manners cost nothing..
On occasions I have not been someone's cup of tea.. Have apologised for intrusion...
There'd be no night clubs left open if the abuse given on here happened in them due to rejection as police wouldn't put up with the on going fights.. |
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