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Is being on here unbeknown to your partner acceptable?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you can decide that. Everyone has their own moral compass, some take it on a case by case basis, some refuse completely, some only meet married people. |
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"Don't need anyone's advise on doing anything but we are trying to solicit opinion before making a judgement. "
Doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks or says.
You’re the ones who have to live with whatever decision you make. |
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Oh god no, in no way is it acceptable to us. The number of messages we get like this is rising all the time.
If you want to cheat, then cheat with some fluzie in a bar. Don’t bring me into it, ugh...
Some people don’t see how bad it really is! We have had a couple of messages where people are separated. That’s ok, you won’t be getting back together and your body is your own. But if you’re with somebody... you’re with somebody. Either involve them in it, or leave them. C x |
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"Getting a fair few messages from people who have partners but are looking to meet alone, we have always said no but should we maybe consider it? "
If you find you have a good connection with someone, a mutual attraction and respect, then it’s just a question of weighing up your moral compass, I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say that you are lucky that they are being open about it to allow you to make an informed decision rather than lying about it.
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Always welcome honesty, then we can make our mind up with the full story. |
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