Chemistry and a connection is great. I won’t play with someone if there isn’t a connection.
Feelings are not always so great, and mostly end in tears. Usually mine. I think I invest in people a bit too much sometimes and am a bit too trusting, especially if it’s people I’ve been very open with. And then when it goes pear shaped it doesn’t feel so good and can be a bit of a confidence kicker. |
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Chemistry, connection, trust ... depends if it’s a repeat. I’m not looking for a relationship but with a select few I see no harm in become friends too - after all it does get personal with repeats |
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Depends what mood I'm in.
I've had mental sex, with men I barely know and no feelings involved all.
I've seen men for years or months and not kissed them. The sex was still great. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes. |
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"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes."
Great way to define it  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes.
Great way to define it "
It's the only way I know how |
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"To quote outcast , sex is always better when there's feeling involved...
Discuss "
I agree. I consider myself primal:
"Primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks civilization can fall away and to allow acting on urges and impulses more directly.
These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.
“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are."
So yes, for me the best sex is not only high on chemistry but intense in free flowing emotion too.  |
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"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes.
Great way to define it "
Indeed it is  |
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