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Can’t accommodate can’t travel?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else seeing this a lot on profiles lately?
Does it mean they expect to be picked up and taken to your place or is it a way of saying car/outdoor fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else seeing this a lot on profiles lately?
Does it mean they expect to be picked up and taken to your place or is it a way of saying car/outdoor fun?"
Some people only meet at clubs. Some use hotels. |
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"Anyone else seeing this a lot on profiles lately?
Does it mean they expect to be picked up and taken to your place or is it a way of saying car/outdoor fun?"
Asking the individual may get you your answer. |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it means can't accommodate and don't want to travel far from home. "
Agreed, I would take it that they don't want to go far from home, so if you are more than half-an-hour from them they are probably not interested. |
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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago
Sussex |
For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached. I fail to see why people can’t tell the truth, we all use this site for the same reason and that’s to have good sex with like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There can be many reasons. The best way is to start chatting to them and ask them."
Easier said than done if you're a single man like the OP is..
Hence why he's asking on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There can be many reasons. The best way is to start chatting to them and ask them.
Easier said than done if you're a single man like the OP is..
Hence why he's asking on here "
But if those people arent going to reply to OP in the first place, his question is rather academic anyway.
If they do reply, he can ask them himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed, I would take it that they don't want to go far from home, so if you are more than half-an-hour from them they are probably not interested."
Exactly this for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed, I would take it that they don't want to go far from home, so if you are more than half-an-hour from them they are probably not interested.
Exactly this for me "
Same.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached"
Or perhaps they’re in a similar position to you and are a single father. |
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"There can be many reasons. The best way is to start chatting to them and ask them.
Easier said than done if you're a single man like the OP is..
Hence why he's asking on here
But if those people arent going to reply to OP in the first place, his question is rather academic anyway.
If they do reply, he can ask them himself"
Och ! Little harsh there  |
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If they will take a walk, jog, cycle, or more then they are travelling to meet you.
Putting no travel, no accom is often someone who hasn't thought much or put that when they joined and never thought of updating it.
It's not particularly clear or helpful to others and so doesn't help a user much imo
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached. I fail to see why people can’t tell the truth, we all use this site for the same reason and that’s to have good sex with like minded people. "
That's a big assumption! Might be true for some (including ladies) but not all. Just best to ask if you're interested as not everyone wants to put all the details of their life in their profile. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached
Or perhaps they’re in a similar position to you and are a single father."
Stop dazzling us with logic and common sense  |
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"For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached
Or perhaps they’re in a similar position to you and are a single father.
Stop dazzling us with logic and common sense "
Men have there moments!  |
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"For me I can’t accommodate because of my children but as a single woman looking I tend to find it screams married or attached. I fail to see why people can’t tell the truth, we all use this site for the same reason and that’s to have good sex with like minded people. "
So, you dont accommodate for your very reasonable reasons, but if a single man cant accommodate, he's a cheat?
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"Anyone else seeing this a lot on profiles lately?
Does it mean they expect to be picked up and taken to your place or is it a way of saying car/outdoor fun?"
And some just don't bother ticking off the "Can Accommodate, Can Travel" boxes.
Not that big a deal, is it? |
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I only play in clubs & don’t pre-arrange meets. So no, I don’t invite people to my home & no, I don’t travel to them.
I do visit my local club regularly & if I meet someone there & hit it off, then I might play. If I visit another club with friends, it’s the same story
It’s not that I’m married, or hiding something, or too lazy to bother noting it down. It’s deliberate & the commentary on my profile supports that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t accommodate because I’m a mother, I’m not going to allow anyone I’m not 100% comfortable with into my home like that, I don’t drive so I can’t travel, there are plenty of other ways around this, generally I meet within walking distance, otherwise I’ll get to know someone enough to feel secure being taken to their place, I rarely do that though |
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