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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Have any of you got a secret Fab crush that you either want to contact, or have contacted, but they don’t seem interested. Would you persist in messaging them, coming up with more creative ways to get their attention? Or do you just cut your losses?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, she blocked me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes, she blocked me! "

Noooo! That sucks man.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

They want unlos

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What would be the point of being on here just to keep it secret

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

One that I've been chasing for over a year but can't persuade him to meet me

Loads of others I've not contacted yet, and some i can't meet due to distance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes ... But I just move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends on what has been said. We tend to assume people are too busy to chat and the timing is wrong ... unless there are obvious signs of a no.

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By *ildflower.xWoman  over a year ago

Grimsby

The ones I really like the look of I wouldn’t dare message as they are well out of my league, happy to still watch them from afar though x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

Don't think it's secret, though. He knows.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a secret crush. Turns out he had one too. We finally aligned. It's awesome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All my crushes know about it....

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By *tudmcmuffinMan  over a year ago

Swindon

I’ve met a few people through finding creative ways to pique their interest after the initial messages.

So it does work sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not yet. Feel a bit left out haha

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By *ooby birdWoman  over a year ago

North West

Mines not so secret to be honest - he knows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, and he knows. Plans are afoot!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone on my friends list or hotlist iv told most

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By *ldguyMan  over a year ago

ongar


"Have any of you got a secret Fab crush that you either want to contact, or have contacted, but they don’t seem interested. Would you persist in messaging them, coming up with more creative ways to get their attention? Or do you just cut your losses?"

All depends..are they real..or fake???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tried messaging then cut my losses lol , be a bit weird to keep messaging !

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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I have a very secret crush. It’s all a question of timing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They all know, if they want to meet me great, if not no problem. I would think hound them with endless messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mines not so secret to be honest - he knows "

Everyone does BB

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By *ooby birdWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Mines not so secret to be honest - he knows

Everyone does BB "

Nooooooo I thought I'd been soooooo discrete too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I may have but a gentleman never tells

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not much of a secret. More than a crush. They know. But it will probably never change.

Who?

Did you really think I was going to tell you

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"They want unlos"

Went bloody new phone!

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have two, have had actually email chatted with both but distance is an issue so have never broached the subject of actually meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ones I really like the look of I wouldn’t dare message as they are well out of my league, happy to still watch them from afar though x "

Out of your league?!? I didn't even know there was a league higher than fucking hot. Is that like the illuminati of Fab, a hidden cabal which sits above the top of the sexiness pyramid? I'm going to have to demote myself down a grade because of that. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep and am a year too young for her ??. Her statuses are filled with guys standing her up as well. Week in week out

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By *bonynivoryCouple  over a year ago

market harborough


"The ones I really like the look of I wouldn’t dare message as they are well out of my league, happy to still watch them from afar though x "

Really! They must be pretty damned hot then or you hugely undervalue yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think in terms of leagues or crushes, I either like the look of someone or I don't (and thy reciprocate, or they don't). I will only very occasionally message first, if no response, I certainly wouldn't chase - far too proud! I will usually block too if they're obviously not interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't tend to have crushes on people I haven't met. I like some people's personalities on here and I think some are fucking hot (see above). But I only start to really get into someone once I'm with them and can feel that lovely chemistry bubbling up between us

Before that I tend to give most people the benefit of the doubt and am happy to meet them. Therein lies the reason for my dating clusterfuck

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By *MP3Man  over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I may have one but my silent fears have gripped me, long before I've reached the phone, long before my tongue has tripped me...

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan  over a year ago

buckinghamshire

One or two. Well moreso perving their pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One or two human nature

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, she blocked me!

Noooo! That sucks man."

Nah, it was never going to work. We share totally different views on mobility scooters!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, she blocked me!

Noooo! That sucks man.

Nah, it was never going to work. We share totally different views on mobility scooters!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes, she blocked me!

Noooo! That sucks man.

Nah, it was never going to work. We share totally different views on mobility scooters!"

That is a rather substantial dealbreaker.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ones I really like the look of I wouldn’t dare message as they are well out of my league, happy to still watch them from afar though x "
that's so sad

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’ve probably got a wee crush on most of my hotlist, that’s why they are on it!

Some know, some dont. There’s the odd mutual one, one that I thought was mutual but wasn’t, and a couple that are so far out of my league that they will never know for fear of humiliating myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No crushes.

Yet to find anyone that I could call a crush.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, and he knows. Plans are afoot! "

You coming to Devon ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do have a few but they live miles away so I just dream about being naked with them.

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By *hyguyready4funMan  over a year ago

milton keynes

No, not yet experienced that yet but I’m sure there will be someone that will definitely catch my eye.. only time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, and he knows. Plans are afoot!

You coming to Devon ? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, and he knows. Plans are afoot!

You coming to Devon ?

Nope "

Brutal!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I do have a few but they live miles away so I just dream about being naked with them. "

Pretty much hits the nail on the head

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes my secret Fab crush is Seeside xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now."

I could do you a potion for that

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that "

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A couple (as in a man and wife) surprisingly for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated."

Why wouldnt u have confidence u have a lovelly figure looking at the avatar?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a huge secret, so I cannot tell.

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By *azza80Woman  over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

Ther are a few that hav caught my eye xx

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated."

I can whittle up a quick time machine too,no worries xx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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I did

I made him my boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated."

Football kit ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Crush I liked felt the same way. Situation a bit difficult but we made it work. Still seeing each other now and have had "the chat" about where we want things to go. Xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated.

Why wouldnt u have confidence u have a lovelly figure looking at the avatar?"

Middle aged spread and all that sh*te you know. The ageing process is a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did

I made him my boyfriend "

Aww x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated.

I can whittle up a quick time machine too,no worries xx"

Phew thanks I thought you were going to say you're not a miracle worker. I'm so happy right now.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x"

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated. Football kit ? "

Yeah do you have a couple of ball's I can kick around?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet "

Who I want to know?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated. Football kit ?

Yeah do you have a couple of ball's I can kick around?"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?"

Nosey devil.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated.

Why wouldnt u have confidence u have a lovelly figure looking at the avatar?

Middle aged spread and all that sh*te you know. The ageing process is a bitch.

"

Im sure u will find your spark again only take 1 good moment of magic for it to grow to a flame again

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?

Nosey devil. "

I just like a love story that's all,it proves to myself I'm not old and 'completely' bitter.

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes my secret Fab crush is Seeside xxx"

He will be pleased to hear that.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Looking at my original post I told a porky, there is one lady on fab I quite fancy and she doesn't know, she maybe on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?

Nosey devil.

I just like a love story that's all,it proves to myself I'm not old and 'completely' bitter."

Me too. I like a good love story (for others)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ther are a few that hav caught my eye xx"

You’ve caught mine

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?

Nosey devil.

I just like a love story that's all,it proves to myself I'm not old and 'completely' bitter.

Me too. I like a good love story (for others) "

I don't think I'll ever be in love again,can you do a potion for some hunk to fall in love with me as well please. Being a bit greedy aren't I.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

never had a crush on anyone i haven’t been able to have the problem is I’m the kind of girl likes the chase but then gets bored once I’ve gotten them, usually because the reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Will have to give this some consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As for messaging someone who’s not interested at minute my profile is private but before that I had zero pics and I refuse to send any sorry but if you don’t respect my idea of discretion you don’t deserve the opportunity to view me in the flesh and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss xx lots of people on here don’t have a lot of self esteem I’ve noticed including some of the really hot ones, I had been seeing two guys regularly who really don’t have a clue how incredibly hot they are !!! And I’m talking walk into a room and capture the entire room type looks and the best part they have amazing personalities, the only downside to that is their incredible neediness to be reassured all the time and it can become draining

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone i hotlist goes unlos

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No secret crushes, I think they know. X

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

No crushes off Fab but there a couple of special folk that we have met at the clubs

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss"

That’s confident.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident."

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?

Nosey devil.

I just like a love story that's all,it proves to myself I'm not old and 'completely' bitter.

Me too. I like a good love story (for others)

I don't think I'll ever be in love again,can you do a potion for some hunk to fall in love with me as well please. Being a bit greedy aren't I. "

I may have to test them all out on me first mind

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

Re-think, there may be the odd one or two after all

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I did

I made him my boyfriend

Aww x

Fab love. Might be a wedding yet

Who I want to know?

Nosey devil.

I just like a love story that's all,it proves to myself I'm not old and 'completely' bitter.

Me too. I like a good love story (for others)

I don't think I'll ever be in love again,can you do a potion for some hunk to fall in love with me as well please. Being a bit greedy aren't I.

I may have to test them all out on me first mind "

Yeah go on then,make them double strength for me though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh jeez, where would I start. I have quite a few crushes on some very sexy ladies and wants, some I've told, some I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh jeez, where would I start. I have quite a few crushes on some very sexy ladies and wants, some I've told, some I haven't."

*and gents... suppose wants was right too...as I want them...badly

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I used to have a to do list lol

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

I just don’t bother telling them ... guess it’s my age that stops me ... I’m far older than them

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By *itvclaireTV/TS  over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes and they have no idea. Don’t thing I’d stand a chance anyway.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to have a to do list lol "

I have a 'bucket list' for real life and a 'fuck it' list for swinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't tell them ...they might block me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ones I really like the look of I wouldn’t dare message as they are well out of my league, happy to still watch them from afar though x "

I don’t see how any man could be out of your league

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By *hatYorkLadMan  over a year ago

York


"One that I've been chasing for over a year but can't persuade him to meet me

Loads of others I've not contacted yet, and some i can't meet due to distance "

Whaaaaatt is he mad?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I have a few.

One I've met and in the process of arranging to meet another one

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"One that I've been chasing for over a year but can't persuade him to meet me

Loads of others I've not contacted yet, and some i can't meet due to distance

Whaaaaatt is he mad? "

I think he's scared of me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I have a few.

One I've met and in the process of arranging to meet another one "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to have a to do list lol

I have a 'bucket list' for real life and a 'fuck it' list for swinging "

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By *egs11ABCWoman  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ye someone I see constantly on forum but 1. Hes out of my league amd 2. Too far away x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had more than a few over the years. Never got anywhere with any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The ones I crush on know .

There are lots of hot forumites though. My mission is to meet a few this year

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s a few for us but we would never divulge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I have a few.

One I've met and in the process of arranging to meet another one

"

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Have any of you got a secret Fab crush that you either want to contact, or have contacted, but they don’t seem interested. Would you persist in messaging them, coming up with more creative ways to get their attention? Or do you just cut your losses?

All depends..are they real..or fake???"

...or they are significantly different than their profile..their age, for example..

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yup, I'm crushing.. never spoken to him and probably won't either.. unless he messaged me

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island

Got a few crushes not told them yet will just keep them on my hotlist. Probably never meet them with distance excuse and all that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Got a few crushes not told them yet will just keep them on my hotlist. Probably never meet them with distance excuse and all that "

Oh you should message them.. why let them miss out? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alas she doesn't travel or accommodate and won't meet in an hotel, apart from that I'm in with a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yup, I'm crushing.. never spoken to him and probably won't either.. unless he messaged me "

How would he know though

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By *ooby birdWoman  over a year ago

North West

Mine are aware but not interested, out of my league it I'm brutally honest

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Got a few crushes not told them yet will just keep them on my hotlist. Probably never meet them with distance excuse and all that "

Go for it. You never know...

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By *abmummy27Woman  over a year ago

up north

Big crush not his type

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"Have any of you got a secret Fab crush that you either want to contact, or have contacted, but they don’t seem interested. Would you persist in messaging them, coming up with more creative ways to get their attention? Or do you jucut your losses?"

Even if I had one I’d not have the nerve to message first. Unless it was a forumite and we were playing a game like face pic Friday or something. If they made it obvious they weren’t interested though, I’d certainly not try to persuade them to change their mind. I’d die of embarrassment and hate to pester. I don’t even like to ‘bother’ actual friends.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine are aware but not interested, out of my league it I'm brutally honest"

There’s no such thing as out of your league, people just like what they like that’s all.

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester


"Mine are aware but not interested, out of my league it I'm brutally honest

There’s no such thing as out of your league, people just like what they like that’s all. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident."

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female "

And it keeps going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female "

We will have to take your word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it."

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Fitness fan and Gent on the street

there you go I said it out loud

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not so much a secret crush as I’ve told him lol. I’ve only seen 1 pic of his face and his eyes are amazing. His thicc cock I’ve actually masturbated over

I’ve given him my number. Still waiting for a message haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head "

Put kettle on lover

(Shit... did I think that out loud ! )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head "

Where they can never leave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There needs to be a Facebook style like tab for forum comments. So much easier than having to write a response to all the comments you like. Some great comments in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head

Where they can never leave "

And you can do "things" to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head

Put kettle on lover

(Shit... did I think that out loud ! )"

Nice cuppa tea for you love?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him

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By *eplicant JoWoman  over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I have a few they will stay secret

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated."

God I feel your pain! I would want to go back 1 year, my pot belly has just appeared

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him "

If I was him I would travel to the end of the world for you

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him

If I was him I would travel to the end of the world for you "

Fucking hell.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him

If I was him I would travel to the end of the world for you

Fucking hell."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It seems we all have a few and most we keep to ourselves .

We need a Tardis

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are few things in life quite as depressing as liking someone who isn’t interested, so I find it best to not think about it.

Or, you can have a fantasy relationship with them, in your head

Put kettle on lover

(Shit... did I think that out loud ! )

Nice cuppa tea for you love? "

Ooh baby, that’s sooo hot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him

If I was him I would travel to the end of the world for you "

Would you really though

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I do have a few but they live miles away so I just dream about being naked with them. "

We do travel

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female

And it keeps going."

I thought it was atropos at first

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep

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By *ooby birdWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Mine are aware but not interested, out of my league it I'm brutally honest

There’s no such thing as out of your league, people just like what they like that’s all. "

True, very true, no harm in looking though

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool

We have a few cushes on some couples and some single ladies but we seems to have more luck in clubs than on fab

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not at the moment no,I'm not feeling this sex thing greatly just now.

I could do you a potion for that

Ooh if you could Witch Autumn I would appreciate that. Can you also take me back to when I was 47 I was more confident with getting my kit of then. Much appreciated.

God I feel your pain! I would want to go back 1 year, my pot belly has just appeared "

It doesn't help that I spent the winter pigging out my appetite was big,I'm paying for it now along with the middle aged spread. I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can we stop.this out of our league nonsense.

Your all splendid friends and please never sell yourselves short

Taff and Pooch xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we stop.this out of our league nonsense.

Your all splendid friends and please never sell yourselves short

Taff and Pooch xx "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we stop.this out of our league nonsense.

Your all splendid friends and please never sell yourselves short

Taff and Pooch xx "

It would be a lit easier to stop if it wasn't true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we stop.this out of our league nonsense.

Your all splendid friends and please never sell yourselves short

Taff and Pooch xx

It would be a lit easier to stop if it wasn't true."

It's not true buddy be as compassionate with yourself as you are with others

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female

And it keeps going."

Yup lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female

We will have to take your word for it."

Or any of the regulars from cjs who I’m sure will sing ma praises my beau personality just adds to the experience

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s a particular couple I’ve barely even spoke to who I have very bad dreams about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and without blowing my trumpet too much it’s most definitely their loss

That’s confident.

Yup I know how sexy I am and in terms of looks I’m always told I’m good looking I’d say above average but never short of attention make and female

We will have to take your word for it.

Or any of the regulars from cjs who I’m sure will sing ma praises my beau personality just adds to the experience "

Ok, But no photos and hiding your profile we have nothing to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bold ass brat. Gorrrrrgeous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s one but I wouldn’t think I’m their type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My crush wasn’t secret enough - it was eventually a squished mess

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"There’s one but I wouldn’t think I’m their type. "

How do you know?. Ive met someone that in the real world wouldnt have been my type so never say never

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, but due to distance, nothing can come of it, even if I told him

If I was him I would travel to the end of the world for you "

Aww, thank you

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By *erseus1968Man  over a year ago

Rochdale

Oh I have a crush on here.

She's lovely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Let's just say there is a few on here that would get it

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He knows

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

I’ve met mine a few times but he doesn’t know, I’d rather continue to have what we have rather than ruin it.

Maybe one day...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve met mine a few times but he doesn’t know, I’d rather continue to have what we have rather than ruin it.

Maybe one day..."

I've met mine a few times too but he knows I'm also married so nothing will come of it x

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I’ve met mine a few times but he doesn’t know, I’d rather continue to have what we have rather than ruin it.

Maybe one day... I've met mine a few times too but he knows I'm also married so nothing will come of it x"

I found it difficult for a while, no doubt I will again.

Are you ok with it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve met mine a few times but he doesn’t know, I’d rather continue to have what we have rather than ruin it.

Maybe one day... I've met mine a few times too but he knows I'm also married so nothing will come of it x

I found it difficult for a while, no doubt I will again.

Are you ok with it?"

pm you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have any of you got a secret Fab crush that you either want to contact, or have contacted, but they don’t seem interested. Would you persist in messaging them, coming up with more creative ways to get their attention? Or do you just cut your losses?"

I'm three years outside my crushes preference so I just suffer in silence

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Many on my hit list.... most require a month of road trips...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mine is on this thread, but I think she thinks im a twat at best

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loads of them around

Spiderwoman has a nice bum

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By *appy squirrelWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

got 2. one knows but doesn't want to and one doesn't meet...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are two women on fab who please all my senses but they don't drive a ford fiesta

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

...


"There’s one but I wouldn’t think I’m their type. "

Never try you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No secret crushes here, I just ask if they wanna play the pink oboe, and love me long time fucky fucky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No secret crushes here, I just ask if they wanna play the pink oboe, and love me long time fucky fucky. "

We have a total player in our midst, Sir I salute you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No secret crushes here, I just ask if they wanna play the pink oboe, and love me long time fucky fucky. "

And then dont turn up right

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There’s a lady I really fancy but I’ll never meet her. I look at her profile only occasionally just in case she thinks I’m stalking and blocks me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yup, I'm crushing.. never spoken to him and probably won't either.. unless he messaged me

How would he know though"

I guess I just hope to be one he messages one day lol

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I strongly suggest that if you fancy someone in Fabland - just let them know. It makes it much easier for everyone.

Signed

Mr Hypocrite

And on that lonesome, winsome post, the end of the thread is now announced

Thank you for reading and joining in.

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