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Girls what’s your view on bi guys should they tell you before you fuck them?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed that it happens allot but some girls would prefer not to know and some defo need to know. Where do you sit?
Ps I am not bi. I am straight but it would be interesting to know and I am sure some bi guys would like to know so tell us girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
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You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs?"
Yeah but I also take responsibility for my own sexual health so would be taking adequate precautions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd rather know but people lie so ....
I think that’s a scary lie don’t you?"
Not really. Swingers fuck around and could be riddled with sti's just the same as bi men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs?
Yeah but I also take responsibility for my own sexual health so would be taking adequate precautions. "
But a lot of girls have unprotected sex with men don’t you think that should be aired before unprotected sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd rather know but people lie so ....
I think that’s a scary lie don’t you?
Not really. Swingers fuck around and could be riddled with sti's just the same as bi men. "
Yeah but not antibiotic resistant surely. |
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs?"
That may be a factor but it’s not the whole reason. |
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"I'd rather know but people lie so ....
I think that’s a scary lie don’t you?
Not really. Swingers fuck around and could be riddled with sti's just the same as bi men. "
I agree with the last sentence  . Risk is on a par |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd rather know but people lie so ....
I think that’s a scary lie don’t you?
Not really. Swingers fuck around and could be riddled with sti's just the same as bi men.
Yeah but not antibiotic resistant surely. "
Of course they could be infected. Do you think straight people are immune to sti's? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs?
Yeah but I also take responsibility for my own sexual health so would be taking adequate precautions.
But a lot of girls have unprotected sex with men don’t you think that should be aired before unprotected sex?"
Why? The risk is still the same if she fucks a straight guy. He could be a frequent visitor to brothels in countries with high rates of STI. You don't know a persons history, you can only look after yourself in the here and now. If you choose to risk unprotected sex then the sexuality or your partner isn't really the main concern. |
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"If I ask I'd expect an honest answer. I'm not sure why I'd ask though. I don't judge people on their past conquests just how they are when they are with me.
You do know the NHS see bi men as high risk though? Due to the fact the can get antibiotic resistant STIs?
Yeah but I also take responsibility for my own sexual health so would be taking adequate precautions.
But a lot of girls have unprotected sex with men don’t you think that should be aired before unprotected sex?
Why? The risk is still the same if she fucks a straight guy. He could be a frequent visitor to brothels in countries with high rates of STI. You don't know a persons history, you can only look after yourself in the here and now. If you choose to risk unprotected sex then the sexuality or your partner isn't really the main concern. "
I see your point in part, but overall I’d have to disagree. Having an ex bi partner that cheated on me and seeing when I found out, how quick and casual some bi and gay encounters can happen was an eye opener.
I would say 100% that the quickest arranged meets on here would be guy with guy, because more men aren’t so fussy or choosy.
Also being part of a bi couple (ex and current partner) gives a big insight to guys wanting bi sex, which I’m aftaid is mostly not what I’d prefer. Eg. Honest, single etc |
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We’ve met plenty of bi guys who state they are bi . We’ve met plenty of straight guys who are actually bi .
Some tell the truth , some don’t , and we always assume the responsibility of being as safe as possible within the realm of it still being fun .
What’s worrying is the rise in throat related sti’s , as we play bare for oral , like most swingers .
I don’t think the antibiotic resistant sti’s are spread any more by bi guys than anyone else though are they ?
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I don’t think the antibiotic resistant sti’s are spread any more by bi guys than anyone else though are they ?
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Well - The guy who made the news recently for his antibiotic resistant galloping knob rot was straight, and had been sticking his cock bare in to Asian women...
So... .... ...
https://www.livescience.com/62372-worst-ever-resistant-gonorrhea-cured.html
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As an aside...
Is no one addressing the fact that its also black men who are likely to have HIV / AIDS? (Regardless of sexuality)
https://www.avert.org/professionals/hiv-around-world/western-central-europe-north-america/uk
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"I have noticed that it happens allot but some girls would prefer not to know and some defo need to know. Where do you sit?
Ps I am not bi. I am straight but it would be interesting to know and I am sure some bi guys would like to know so tell us girls."
Firstly I find use of the word ‘girls’ on here uncomfortable. There are women here!
Secondly as long as someone is healthy with no sti’s then why do they need to divulge their conquests.
Your question seems bizarre! Are you sure that you are not bi OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed that it happens allot but some girls would prefer not to know and some defo need to know. Where do you sit?
Ps I am not bi. I am straight but it would be interesting to know and I am sure some bi guys would like to know so tell us girls.
Firstly I find use of the word ‘girls’ on here uncomfortable. There are women here!
Secondly as long as someone is healthy with no sti’s then why do they need to divulge their conquests.
Your question seems bizarre! Are you sure that you are not bi OP? "
I wondered this too. Not that it’s terribly important one way of the other. |
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I’m bisexual and not ashamed of it. It’s on my profile. I would expect any potential sexual partner to have read that. I always use condoms and get tested regularly. The suggestion that it is easy to find a male partner is true but it doesn’t follow that me personally would meet them. The more that are available, the more choosy I am. In fact, I hardly ever meet men for sex unless their wife or gf is with them. So, do I tell people I’m bi? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing less than a full list of all sexual partners, including times and dates, with clinic check up visits and results. All of course verified and counter-signed by a notary puplic. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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We would not ask or expect to be told, provided he doesn't make a move on Cheffy... then things would really become uncomfortable.
It's really none of our business. We have played with openly bi men who have respected Cheffys choice.
We always play completely safe (oral too) so the 'risk' of STIs is no greater than that with a straight swinger.
I do wonder if those choosing to perform oral or fuck bareback with bi or straight men are fully aware of all the risks but frankly thats their business. As is their choice to be tested regularly or not. You would no doubt be stunned by the number of people, bi or straight, who 'claim' to be clean and tested yet don't even know where their nearest GUM clinic is let alone have visited it!
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"I'd rather know but people lie so ....
I think that’s a scary lie don’t you?
Not really. Swingers fuck around and could be riddled with sti's just the same as bi men.
Yeah but not antibiotic resistant surely. "
Not really sure how bi ment differ genetically to others. Please do enlighten me. If you have the links to the medical papers on this I would be very interested to read them.
Sti's can and will get you regardless where and who you stick it in. If you put it in a dirty hole, you'd gonna bring some muck back with you.
I'm not bi.. but this site gives you no other options for Me sexuality is a fluid thing. Whichever gender you choose to identify as is of no consequence.
If your attractive, available and consenting.. I will make a pass.
That's me done
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do wonder if those choosing to perform oral or fuck bareback with bi or straight men are fully aware of all the risks but frankly thats their business. As is their choice to be tested regularly or not. You would no doubt be stunned by the number of people, bi or straight, who 'claim' to be clean and tested yet don't even know where their nearest GUM clinic is let alone have visited it!
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They think they don't need to get tested. 'Swinging couples don't catch stuff. Only singles fucking around catch stuff.' |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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I see your point in part, but overall I’d have to disagree. Having an ex bi partner that cheated on me and seeing when I found out, how quick and casual some bi and gay encounters can happen was an eye opener.
I would say 100% that the quickest arranged meets on here would be guy with guy, because more men aren’t so fussy or choosy.
Also being part of a bi couple (ex and current partner) gives a big insight to guys wanting bi sex, which I’m aftaid is mostly not what I’d prefer. Eg. Honest, single etc "
Valid point: I don't meet single guys but do get approached as I've ticked bi on my profile. A lot just want an instant meet and don't care with whom, plus some of the things they're willing to do makes me question why they even bothered to tick safe sex on their own profile.
I've also chatted to women who are more turned off with the idea of two guys together than the possible risks. It's personal preference at the end of the day
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