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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Maybe they've just not got around to answering yet. If they don't reply, that's a clear message I'd say. Delete your sent items then you'll never need to think about it again unless you get a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they've just not got around to answering yet. If they don't reply, that's a clear message I'd say. Delete your sent items then you'll never need to think about it again unless you get a reply. "
For sure. It's the same out come |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender. "
Because we cant be arsed and bulk delete all read when it has build up! It's not that difficult to understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x"
Only indecent women reply? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x"
I know the chances are slim but I have to stay optimistic otherwise I might as well stop contacting people who picked my curiosity and leave the site altogether.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x
I know the chances are slim but I have to stay optimistic otherwise I might as well stop contacting people who picked my curiosity and leave the site altogether.
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Ask out your hairdresser  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete your messages once sent . That way you won't be worrying about it  "
If I delete a message I sent, isn’t it deleted from the recipient’s inbox too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x
I know the chances are slim but I have to stay optimistic otherwise I might as well stop contacting people who picked my curiosity and leave the site altogether.
Ask out your hairdresser x"
I have! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x
Only indecent women reply?"
that’s where it could get confusing: I expect a decent conversation hoping it may lead to indecent behaviour face to face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got messages from this week. I'll go through them this weekend if I have time
The chances of you getting a reply from a decent female is slim to none so just delete when sent and don't stress
Have a nice weekend x
I know the chances are slim but I have to stay optimistic otherwise I might as well stop contacting people who picked my curiosity and leave the site altogether.
Ask out your hairdresser x
I have!"
Oh what did she say x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes dude they don't answer the messages to make you send them another one or several ones.
You have to read under the lines brother from another mother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender. "
I wouldn't read anything into it - apart from the first bit.
Just move on and forget about it. There's plenty more to chat to. |
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"Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender. "
Yes if the answer is definitely no I delete straight away - I may not reply but I can at least give some clarity!
If I don't delete I'm thinking of replying or wanting to check the profile in more detail when I have time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes dude they don't answer the messages to make you send them another one or several ones.
You have to read under the lines brother from another mother."
Err no. If you do that then they're just going to see you as desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes dude they don't answer the messages to make you send them another one or several ones.
You have to read under the lines brother from another mother.
Err no. If you do that then they're just going to see you as desperate. "
Not if you send cock pics as well... From different angles of course.
Some guys just don't know how to flirt on here !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender.
Yes if the answer is definitely no I delete straight away - I may not reply but I can at least give some clarity!
If I don't delete I'm thinking of replying or wanting to check the profile in more detail when I have time. "
That sounds sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should I assume that a message read but unanswered means “not interested”?
I completely understand some people get too many messages to answer or even read them all. But why not delete the messages you read and are not interested in? at least your intentions are then clear to the sender. "
If the message is short or rude.. I'll assume that's the extent of the senders effort.
So I'll just delete the message.
But Im guilty of not even opening some, if there not verified. They got straight in the bin 
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"Yes to the first part "
No you are incorrect
You should not assume anything ?
You do NOT know
Some will most certainly be not interested
And SOME will simply have not read your message
The FACTS are that you do NOT KNOW
Assumptions are almost always foolish dispositions
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