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Talking to 5 guys and non are gonna meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been let down at short notice 3 times in 2 days. I wouldnt mind but tonight Im all dressed up and ready to go out, with an hour to go before we meet, I find out he's not coming by his status post! He couldnt even be bothered to message me. Grrrrr
Oops I guess I'll get blasted for moaning now but I feel better for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can feel it, a bit pissed off but used to it, anyone else feel the same?"
We've had about 20 or so messages today from couples, males and females.
Not one will result in a meet 
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can feel it, a bit pissed off but used to it, anyone else feel the same?"
Have any said they would meet you and then gone quiet or not turned up? Some people are happy to chat to anybody but not necessarily want to meet them. There’s nothing wrong with a bit of conversation. If they’re leading you on and then making excuses then that’s different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m chatting to ten beautiful fit insatiable women who are all desperate to meet me .... really don’t know where I’m going to find the time "
I don’t mind taking one off you, as a favour mind, you’d owe me one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I talk to new men I assume they don't really want to meet.
If they try to steer the conversation towards sex talk I close them down. If that's all they want they go away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can feel it, a bit pissed off but used to it, anyone else feel the same?"
No and tbh im surprised you are...
Ditch em and move on...
Or accept it and dont start a post about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I talk to new men I assume they don't really want to meet.
If they try to steer the conversation towards sex talk I close them down. If that's all they want they go away."
Yep. It takes me ages to sort out anything even close to a meet... which means I know they're serious about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can feel it, a bit pissed off but used to it, anyone else feel the same?"
Your profile and status puts men down before they even try. I cant say im surprised.
Try being a bit more positive.
As a man, i wouldnt meet a woman who is just going to complain about men. Or at least 99.9% of them anyway |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
If you get the feeling they're never going to meet , shut the conversation down and move on to someone that will. You're wasting your own time by entertaining conversation with them . |
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I've not had a lot of meets....mainly due to the fact that I have to arrange in advance and can't do last minute/short notice. ..but the couples/single blokes I have arranged have always turned up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I talk to new men I assume they don't really want to meet.
If they try to steer the conversation towards sex talk I close them down. If that's all they want they go away.
Yep. It takes me ages to sort out anything even close to a meet... which means I know they're serious about it"
The wankers and pic hunters fall at the first hurdle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's something in the water at the moment. Just talking about it with some Fab friends. Lots of people being met down, loads of noobs on the site and general rudeness going on.
Is it cos the summer's coming?? Who fucking knows, but it's a shit storm. Pissing me off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m chatting to ten beautiful fit insatiable women who are all desperate to meet me .... really don’t know where I’m going to find the time "
Then after you have met them you could think about meeting me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there's something in the water at the moment. Just talking about it with some Fab friends. Lots of people being met down, loads of noobs on the site and general rudeness going on.
Is it cos the summer's coming?? Who fucking knows, but it's a shit storm. Pissing me off!"
Exactly this, I’ve been here 7 months, no let downs or timewasters. The last couple of weeks have been full of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to.."
I don't want a chat relationship. I joined up for sex, not to find people to natter to. I'm a bit unsociable in that respect
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"The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to..
I don't want a chat relationship. I joined up for sex, not to find people to natter to. I'm a bit unsociable in that respect
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Couldn’t agree more! As the manager of Won-Keys in China Town says ‘you want menu? You wanna read, you go library!’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to..
I don't want a chat relationship. I joined up for sex, not to find people to natter to. I'm a bit unsociable in that respect
Couldn’t agree more! As the manager of Won-Keys in China Town says ‘you want menu? You wanna read, you go library!’"
You have to have some dialogue to find out where to find them to shag them  |
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"The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to..
I don't want a chat relationship. I joined up for sex, not to find people to natter to. I'm a bit unsociable in that respect
Couldn’t agree more! As the manager of Won-Keys in China Town says ‘you want menu? You wanna read, you go library!’
You have to have some dialogue to find out where to find them to shag them "
Yes, I agree. But there’s chatting in general and then extended chatting about daily stuff that you’d talk to anyone about...I’m here to meet so if it isn’t apparent after a couple of weeks chatting then what’s the point?! Not for everyone obviously and if people want to meet people to chat to, fair play to them. |
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By *n it 86Man
over a year ago
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I meet a lovely couple today I believe that this site is for getting to know like minded people arrange to meet and then getting to know them as well as the fun
Theres know need to spend 3 weeks txting wen you can meet on a social |
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I’ve meet for coffee once and arranging the second soon I hope. That’s it since I have been on here I’m not bothered as enjoying the chats and banter.
P.S who am I kidding I’m I’d love to meet up with someone but that’s life.
Best of luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m very reliable for meets but because I’ve never met anyone on here it’s difficult to get meets. Only have cam verification currently and that doesn’t help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet a lovely couple today I believe that this site is for getting to know like minded people arrange to meet and then getting to know them as well as the fun
Theres know need to spend 3 weeks txting wen you can meet on a social "
I need to know I want to sit in a pub/cafe with them before agreeing to a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Galling as a Male to discover that men arrange meets and then don’t turn up - it’s hard enough as it is to get a meet, without idiots spoiling it for the rest of us.
I want a meet. I will turn up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We reckon on 100 guys to chat to for one meeting on fab. With AFF about 10guys for one meet, but that is a pay site. Now in the old days with contact magazines like Experience and Vibrations just about every contact resulted in a meet. Are there any contact magazines still around? |
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"We reckon on 100 guys to chat to for one meeting on fab. With AFF about 10guys for one meet, but that is a pay site. Now in the old days with contact magazines like Experience and Vibrations just about every contact resulted in a meet. Are there any contact magazines still around?"
Contacts mags were like going into a club, everyone in there has already made an investment of time and money... Much more likely to play.
The good old days, I don't think any contact mags still exist?
Sx |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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All 5 guys aren't going to meet, and you're used to it so this is a common thing for you? Maybe look into the type of guys you choose to talk to and change it up a bit. Or maybe they can tell they're being juggled with 4 others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We reckon on 100 guys to chat to for one meeting on fab. With AFF about 10guys for one meet, but that is a pay site. Now in the old days with contact magazines like Experience and Vibrations just about every contact resulted in a meet. Are there any contact magazines still around?
Contacts mags were like going into a club, everyone in there has already made an investment of time and money... Much more likely to play.
The good old days, I don't think any contact mags still exist?
Sx "
Remember the days of ´matchmaker ´ - international contact mag, had everything from bdsm to life sentence blokes in American jails haha
It was free for women to advertise..but men couples etc cost a fiver for 3 month advert. It was 1996 I met first woman from the mag ha then met another 4 before it started becoming scams.
Say scams because would write a female and get some sob story back about needing money and can I help her out etc
Also used to use ´scottish swing contacts´ meet quite few embra swingers back then, mainly couples.
Actually went first swinging club but was more like a private bdsm club in Edinburgh at 21 been in out if scene since ha
So yeah I experience mag contacts way before fab was even a concept on paper |
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I had a meet once...
I know the dissapointed feeling though. This one time I went to ASDA and they had no burgers in because the weather was hot and everyone had gone BBQ mad.
T'was a sad day in my world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve meet for coffee once and arranging the second soon I hope. That’s it since I have been on here I’m not bothered as enjoying the chats and banter.
P.S who am I kidding I’m I’d love to meet up with someone but that’s life.
Best of luck x"
I'm still waiting for you to keep your word |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"All 5 guys aren't going to meet, and you're used to it so this is a common thing for you? Maybe look into the type of guys you choose to talk to and change it up a bit. Or maybe they can tell they're being juggled with 4 others. "
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ladies I chat to are all too far away or don't show any interest in meeting. I still enjoy chatting though. I don't seek to fuck everyone I chat to..
I don't want a chat relationship. I joined up for sex, not to find people to natter to. I'm a bit unsociable in that respect
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Well fuck off then! Just kidding. That's fine. I find that some ladies like to chat about things related to sex, and even other stuff, but like a break from the pressure of messaging just to arrange a fuck. Each to their own. |
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