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Really !! You sure it's men ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Honestly I can not believe that us guys are always getting told to put more effort into theses messages. The last 3 women I have got intouch with I'd get more conversation out of a brick 1 or 2 word answers. Come on lady's start putting the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said buddy ! Well said !

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If they're replying to your message (is that what you mean?) I'd say they're being polite but aren't interested perhaps?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They're probably men

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not just boring or stuck up like I've found at parties just recently

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Yes

Maybe

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honestly I can not believe that us guys are always getting told to put more effort into theses messages. The last 3 women I have got intouch with I'd get more conversation out of a brick 1 or 2 word answers. Come on lady's start putting the effort in "

Funny you should say that. I got chatting to a female yesterday and it was painful. Tried my hardest to make conversation, but her replies were one word answers. Painful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There will always be someone making excuses for women not putting any effort in. It will always be the man's fault.

We have the power you know; we can do no wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

It helps with the conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

"
booom there women can't do nothing wrong I've put the effot in to chat must of been a good effort to get a reply. So why message me back if you can't be arsed to talk.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Meh. When it feels right, effort doesn't seem like effort. When it doesn't it becomes a chore. The equation goes both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

LOL and the chances of you getting any replies have dropped to 0.000009% after this post

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some people you just "click" with and conversation flows easily, others there's no spark and things either fizzle out or don't get started, it's just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"LOL and the chances of you getting any replies have dropped to 0.000009% after this post

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to be honest I couldn't give a shit. I attend parties and get enough there. But it's becoming a joke always the man's fault because for some reason only on here women are the chief judge and executioner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op if you get a reply you luckier than some there plenty of threads about messages being deleted without being read

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How does the saying go... if you have to force it it’s probably shit? Keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There will always be someone making excuses for women not putting any effort in. It will always be the man's fault.

We have the power you know; we can do no wrong. "

This...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least a response!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

They're bthe cheapest creatures around, expecting you to pay for everything yet in the same always going on about how they don't need a man, independent and got their money but at the dinner table, their socialists.

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think, OP, they were being polite at answering but were giving you the hint that they weren’t interested.

I find myself in similar situations with men on occasion but an easy to understand “GET LOST” usually works.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"LOL and the chances of you getting any replies have dropped to 0.000009% after this post

to be honest I couldn't give a shit. I attend parties and get enough there. But it's becoming a joke always the man's fault because for some reason only on here women are the chief judge and executioner "

But you just said a few posts ago the women at parties recently are boring and stuck up

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

booom there women can't do nothing wrong I've put the effot in to chat must of been a good effort to get a reply. So why message me back if you can't be arsed to talk. "

They would put the effort in if they were interested in meeting you ~ I'm pretty sure of that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump."

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But if not interested why not just say be honest. And why say they like your pics if they can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

Are you being serious?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you "

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump."

You've pretty much described me.

I'm getting plenty of sex despite all that though.

Pussy power!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

It helps with the conversation"

But if the conversation is hard work at hello surely you just move on, it's one of the very first filters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people you just "click" with and conversation flows easily, others there's no spark and things either fizzle out or don't get started, it's just the way it is

A meeting of minds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

The mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those that are effort ain't worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meh. When it feels right, effort doesn't seem like effort. When it doesn't it becomes a chore. The equation goes both ways."

Just this

Perhaps the other person is too busy to give a conversation their full attention right at that moment, but in that case I'd hope they have the manners to say so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

The mind boggles"

Go for it.

Refute my claims and don't use emotion

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump."

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

The mind boggles

Go for it.

Refute my claims and don't use emotion"

I don't feed trolls. Back under the bridge with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Politeness is free if you can't be arsed just say don't say mmm nice after I've sent a pic then proceed to be the most boring effortless person since David Cameron. Then blame the man for everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Politeness is free if you can't be arsed just say don't say mmm nice after I've sent a pic then proceed to be the most boring effortless person since David Cameron. Then blame the man for everything. "

I don't get what the issue is. If you aren't happy end the conversation. It's not really a big deal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women are terrible conversation starters. All the ones who have messaged me first usually just say “face pic?” Or some variation of that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

The mind boggles

Go for it.

Refute my claims and don't use emotion

I don't feed trolls. Back under the bridge with you

I’m quite busy getting ready for a meet

What’s the point anyway when your narrow little mind is made up? I’m not going to change it nor waste my time and energy trying when both are going to be better spent tonight if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single females are able to be fussier and don't need to put any effort in.. ( well at least they feel they don't need to )

They can easily move onto the next message and arrange a meet, unfortunately for single guys ( and couples looking for that unicorn ) you/we have to stand out and show we are worth their time... Fir us it easily could be weeks or months before. We get chatting properly again... Fir her.. a matter of mins if not seconds...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are terrible conversation starters. All the ones who have messaged me first usually just say “face pic?” Or some variation of that"

Send them a message back saying yes please, I'd like to see if I fancy you before I spend any energy talking to you.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"Women are terrible conversation starters. All the ones who have messaged me first usually just say “face pic?” Or some variation of that"

Or FAF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm just putting my point across that it's not always us men that's at fault for not making the effort you women need to look at yourself and stop been so stuck up thinking everybody owes you something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single females are able to be fussier and don't need to put any effort in.. ( well at least they feel they don't need to )

Not true for all. But thanks for the generalisation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny you should say that. I got chatting to a female yesterday and it was painful. Tried my hardest to make conversation, but her replies were one word answers. Painful.

She wasn’t interested then, I make an effort with guys I’m interested in x

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just putting my point across that it's not always us men that's at fault for not making the effort you women need to look at yourself and stop been so stuck up thinking everybody owes you something "

I'll definitely do that now you've said. If you could just change your ways to please me then we'll all be happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny you should say that. I got chatting to a female yesterday and it was painful. Tried my hardest to make conversation, but her replies were one word answers. Painful.

She wasn’t interested then, I make an effort with guys I’m interested in x"

Oh, so that’s why you only send one word replies....hint taken

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you

Mr fantastic wonder living up to his username

The mind boggles

Go for it.

Refute my claims and don't use emotion"

My pussy is like a fine wine...or cheese

It gets better with age

And no...you can't pay the cheese and wine bill

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By *edgehogMan over a year ago

Swansea

Sounds like women aren't for you. Maybe consider your options.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I quite fancy a nibble of cheese and a sipple of wine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump."

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By *edgehogMan over a year ago

Swansea

I'll definitely do that now you've said. If you could just change your ways to please me then we'll all be happy

Haha!

Perfect response!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they just aren't interested or they dont like your line in banter

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"How does the saying go... if you have to force it it’s probably shit? Keep that in mind"

That works for anal sex as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I quite fancy a nibble of cheese and a sipple of wine "

How big is your....wallet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[CBA poster at 16/05/18 21:38:57]"

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

If ladies want to be chased by desperate sycophantic men who perform more like a circus animal than a sentient interesting man, then indeed they will find a fist full however many ladies from the forum seem greatly more discerning and rarely appreciate a pretty performing seal?

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By *mmabluTV/TS over a year ago

upton wirral

"How does the saying go... if you have to force it it’s probably shit? Keep that in mind"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As soon as it’s an effort move on, she’s not interested. Don’t jump through hoops for them.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman over a year ago

sw London

It depends on what the message says, sometimes you can only answer with a one or two word answer. Others you can put more into.

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

some people are hard work.

I have had fantasy conversations where the other person would only give very passive answers, such as "that's nice" "what then?"

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"some people are hard work.

I have had fantasy conversations where the other person would only give very passive answers, such as "that's nice" "what then?"

Or the classic "mmmmmmmm"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They spoil it for us decent women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are lazy anyway.

They wait for you.to make the first move even when they like you

I don't care if you say my chances of getting a meet go down. Only proves my point, your only selling point is your pussy, one that depreciates with age and every pump.

Oh wow I don’t even know where to start with you "

Not even worthy of an response

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meh. When it feels right, effort doesn't seem like effort. When it doesn't it becomes a chore. The equation goes both ways."

Here here.. I bet that pic of you tied up was no effort at all

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By *ilNdoCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

Some couples are the same & they make the initial contact and no pics seen, still it's painful!!!

Ive concluded some people are just dull!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some couples are the same & they make the initial contact and no pics seen, still it's painful!!!

Ive concluded some people are just dull!!

Oh fuck me yeah, the ones that think you should bow down before them cause they sent you a wink!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some couples are the same & they make the initial contact and no pics seen, still it's painful!!!

Ive concluded some people are just dull!!

Not some. I'd argue quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A pp would help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They spoil it for us decent women. "

Genuine women.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site "

Who the fuck cares? These endless topics about how Fabs isn't fair are just sad to read.

Message who you want, chat to who you want, enjoy the meets you get. Don't get bitter about the way other people behave.

And don't make Fabs the sole focus of your sex life.

Worrying about who has the power and what that says about men and women is completely pointless and self defeating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site "

Only if the men let them.

If the men all stopped mailing them ... carnage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site

Who the fuck cares? These endless topics about how Fabs isn't fair are just sad to read.

Message who you want, chat to who you want, enjoy the meets you get. Don't get bitter about the way other people behave.

And don't make Fabs the sole focus of your sex life.

Worrying about who has the power and what that says about men and women is completely pointless and self defeating."

You're quite interesting to read...for a stove.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site

Only if the men let them.

If the men all stopped mailing them ... carnage. "

They wouldn't be able to start threads moaning about all the mail they have to delete unread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site

Only if the men let them.

If the men all stopped mailing them ... carnage.

They wouldn't be able to start threads moaning about all the mail they have to delete unread. "

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If you started the conversation why do they need to make the effort?

That is a stupid comment !

I'm a reasonably intelligent , reasonably articulate , reasonably attractive , reasonably attentive and competent at engaging in pleasurable sexual encounters

Read reasonable as being modest

And my standards will not lower to a woman expecting a performing dog

Now general rule of fab is women oddly think they need not message as out of the 300 messages they receive there will be occasionally a man they find attractive and would WANT to become intimate with

At that point the power switches from the woman to an equal status

Even if messaged by the man first IF the man is desirable with desirable human attributes , physical and personality , he deserves and is worthy of mutual respect and mutual seduction

I send a first message to give a lady an opportunity to discover more and if she is tempted by my profile an opportunity to persuade me that I want to meet her too

It is beyond me why so many seem to think that their ideal match would be sycophantic with so little self respect that if would tolerate a one sided chase ?

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site "

That's daft too ?

My post illustrate that they do not !!

They only have power over the weak minded and performing seals! If YOU think they have the power then .... logically

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to add that I agree to some point.

I've had several messages that simply say "Face and cock pic.." or some variant.

When you check their profile they are the same women that request, nay, DEMAND, that a guys opening message is original and interesting.

There is double standards at work, this point cannot be refuted in any way.

But it's not all women. Same as not all men are cock wombles.

The sheer fact that the supply and demand regarding women and males on here means that women can afford to be this brutal.

We either suck it up, don't take it personally or we're in the wrong place.

And P.S. The women who have messaged me with one word messages and requests have politely been told that we will not be compatible.

I may be one guy in a tiny pond of eligible women, but I know my worth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well said buddy ! Well said ! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I've been lucky enough to have a 2 hour conversation... Lol lucky me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to add that I agree to some point.

I've had several messages that simply say "Face and cock pic.." or some variant.

When you check their profile they are the same women that request, nay, DEMAND, that a guys opening message is original and interesting.

There is double standards at work, this point cannot be refuted in any way.

But it's not all women. Same as not all men are cock wombles.

The sheer fact that the supply and demand regarding women and males on here means that women can afford to be this brutal.

We either suck it up, don't take it personally or we're in the wrong place.

And P.S. The women who have messaged me with one word messages and requests have politely been told that we will not be compatible.

I may be one guy in a tiny pond of eligible women, but I know my worth. "

Good for you!

Do you ever ask them to go read their own profile and explain their hypocrisy?

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

And that takes us back to my original post a few days ago that women have all the power on this site

Who the fuck cares? These endless topics about how Fabs isn't fair are just sad to read.

Message who you want, chat to who you want, enjoy the meets you get. Don't get bitter about the way other people behave.

And don't make Fabs the sole focus of your sex life.

Worrying about who has the power and what that says about men and women is completely pointless and self defeating."

Couldn't agree more

Unfortunately there are those that will always look to blame others or find reasons (where none are needed) for all manner of things not going their way on here.

To the OPs point, why does it matter if someone isn't answering the way he wants? It's got nothing to do with lack of effort or anything other than that person just not being a match, simple as!!

If someone's "perception" is that someone else is expecting them to jump through hoops, then don't fucking jump through them and accept that person is not for you - don't bleat about it or look to blame them!!

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By *ilNdoCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

"Well I've been lucky enough to have a 2 hour conversation... Lol lucky me "

Show off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol its a first in 6 months