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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course, especially women/couples on here it's a pretty common thing, some people pretend to be nice at the start of a convo and usually reveal themselves after a few messages. |
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I’ve initiated correspondence on many occasions even exchanged numbers ,,, but ,,, there has been times when real world takes preference . I think as you get older you become less tolerant to crap and more intuitive ... so yeh I’ve changed my mind on a number of occasions ... and I couldn’t care less as my ethos is you never miss what you’ve never had . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, twice, same local couple. All started off great, but each time she was at work and would join later....just struck me as s Guy on his own pretending to be a couple. |
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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago
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"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "
Yes a couple of times the last when the "Fake" lady kept asking Why ....I replied why don't you be a little dog and eat S**T
Funny how the profile disappeared really can't understand that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple
Yes a couple of times the last when the "Fake" lady kept asking Why ....I replied why don't you be a little dog and eat S**T
Funny how the profile disappeared really can't understand that "
You could just have easily blocked it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course, especially women/couples on here it's a pretty common thing, some people pretend to be nice at the start of a convo and usually reveal themselves after a few messages."
This.
We’re not desperate, so we will be as choosy as we like. As I would hope the other party would be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep...just because I like the look of someone doesn't mean I will like the whole package, which, even with nsa, I still need to like the person as a whole. So, whilst talking, they may well say or do something that makes me not fancy them enough to want to play with them any more.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once or twice, know its hard for couples only looking for fems
( the illusive unicorn)
But we have to have a connection for it all to work...
If after chatting we don't feel there is a mutual connection, we'll say no thanks..
Only had one that really took it bad, someone we helped and thought we became friends with, when it came to talking of a meet, we weren't keen, and she went bunny boiler on us...
Lol bullet dodged we think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. The two main reasons are 1) They're looking for long term and 2) they look nothing like their pics, using the from above trick or beatification filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes on several occasions, sometimes it can be the little things that make you decided not to meet. Something they said or even the way it was said can determine for me if I’ll meet
MrsK x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, when she messaged and said that she had a real hacking cough. Nice of her to warn me and all that, but just the thought of hacking put me off.
Most probably my loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet a lady gor coffee, there wasn't a spark, slow conversation, so I said no thanks politelty and left.
Unlike the meet where I ran back to my car and drove off like the devil wanted my arse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple
Nop never. "
Bless  I'm sure you'll get an offer soon _eeside. Surely someone from the forums is slowly but inexorably falling under your spell?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, my spidey senses where tingling and I thought I was a getting messages off a "fake/bloke" and when "she" wanted me to go round to hers without a social first, I refused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. If someone says something that puts me off we won't meet. Or if I have a social and they are not for me it will be no to a additional meet "
Me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never
Fancy a meet?
Yes
Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory
Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you
I would. "
Thanks it would boost my ego |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never
Fancy a meet?
Yes
Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory
Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you
I would.
Thanks it would boost my ego "
Anytime, I’m just having trouble with the ‘trust me’ post above. |
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"I’ve initiated correspondence on many occasions even exchanged numbers ,,, but ,,, there has been times when real world takes preference . I think as you get older you become less tolerant to crap and more intuitive ... so yeh I’ve changed my mind on a number of occasions ... and I couldn’t care less as my ethos is you never miss what you’ve never had . "
I’ll go with you on that one |
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Yes quite a few times!
I’m looking for regular friends rather than just one-off’s these days as I want to establish some friendships so I can spend a lot less time on fab but still have mind blowing sex regularly!
Therefore if they’re only capable of ‘sext’ type talk with no normal conversation, or there isn’t any chemistry at the social, i’ll Halt it there to avoid wasting both our time!
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"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "
I've said no more times than I've said yes.
I start chatting with people, and quickly realise after a few messages, there's nothing there, nothing catches my attention, no connection. Sadly, it's usually those that then get shitty when I explain I have no interest |
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Had a social where he said "that makes me cross" so many times that when I left I challenged him to list 5 things that made him happy. He managed "glowworms" and "aliens" then took back aliens because he wasn't sure of their existence. Considering the pleasure I take in pleasure, I knew we weren't going to get on well in bed together |
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