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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disagree with this, read a couples profile and message them politely  most people we have met have been people who have approached us with decent conversation, clear pictures and have had a good introduction, the lads who message saying 'I'll fuck her' or 'want some ' or 'want me come now' just get nowhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
your 100% right we should but most of us men are very pushy it the quiet ones who do not send lose out of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply. "
Saving the best till last  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply.
Saving the best till last "
That’s what I keep telling myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
I did suggest this in the fab survey but it didn't go down well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
Isnt this just you jumping on the bandwagon again..
You need an original idea..
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
To be fair, we've yet to progress any contact from somebody who's messaged us. All of our activity has been with men the women has found during her browsing (or online shopping as she calls it).
She knows what she likes and we've yet to receive a message from anyone who's tickled her fancy.
So your suggestion works for us if no one else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies "
i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end"
People might be here for “the same thing” but they don’t want to do that thing with everyone that messages, people really need to understand this  |
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?"
I think we should have a month where single men simply dont message anyone.
Kinda like dry january and movember haha
1 month where the "power" (i seen a few threads saying women have all the power on here) is stripped away from the ladies haha
Wont ever happen though...think less than 5% of the site is forum users plus lot of guys just to desperate to get laid.
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Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies
"i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end"
FAQs state it's not obligatory to reply and some who do get a reply will take it as an invitation to carrying on trying to have a conversation despite being told no thanks. And no we are not all here for the same things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?"
This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?
I think we should have a month where single men simply dont message anyone.
Kinda like dry january and movember haha
1 month where the "power" (i seen a few threads saying women have all the power on here) is stripped away from the ladies haha
Wont ever happen though...think less than 5% of the site is forum users plus lot of guys just to desperate to get laid.
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Its still the women choosing who and when they want to message for sex then?. Not much change
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?
This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind "
It happens to everyone one at some point, don't get discouraged just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?
This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind
It happens to everyone one at some point, don't get discouraged just move on "
Embrace the tumbles! i do! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind
Speaks volumes."
Kiss my hand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
Wrong wrong wrong!
If couples females whoever don’t want men contacting them they can block them or use their filters
If they haven’t set filters blocking them then they (shock..... horror......) probably are open to males contacting them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous 
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420 "
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me "
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?"
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles! "
And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!
And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab "
I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!
And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab
I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway "
Okay, reasonable friend from fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!
And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab
I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway
Okay, reasonable friend from fab "
Oi! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous
Have you tried cannabis?
Or it’s code which is 420
My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me
Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?
No idea now! i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!
And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab
I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway
Okay, reasonable friend from fab
Oi! "
Haha |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end"
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity "
Haha.. are you upto date with your donations? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?
Do you get to stand around a burning bin?"
Not really the weather to be stood around burning bins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity "
No I was only agreeing with the women who posted the comment that all it seem I the bad guy now just telling like it is for most of us on here. Even my real uk swinging couple friends who I meet 23 years ago in south Africa would agree everything has changed over the years sadly they pass away in a car crash before I could meet again them as they were ones who told me about uk swingers when I came back to the UK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
You calling a strike my friend?
Do you get to stand around a burning bin?"
Yes, with placards saying, "no more messages" and "just say no!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity "
no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here "
But then it wouldn't be charity |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end
Unfair?
Do you think this place is a charity no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here "
On so many occasions you do come across as bitter and self entitled, you do realise that don't you? |
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"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies "
Exactly this! Read the profile; do I tick all their boxes, do they tick all mine, no? Block. Next profile........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you "
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "
I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet!
I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well. "
Ohhhh fuck yeah! A women only day in the forum.
Carnage by brunch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "
See.. she gets it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think they need a basic IQ test.
We get so many straight guys that are miles away when the profile says local and bi.
It's gets so tiresome"
Would be easier if you find your self lol |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet!
I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well.
Ohhhh fuck yeah! A women only day in the forum.
Carnage by brunch. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh by the way for those who aren't aware, there is a dating app called bumble that if you match only the woman can message first.
Yeah turns out men and women aren't that different at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you
I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "
Wouldnt work for the women who message first though.. there are some that do |
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"Guys, can you handle fancy a fuck message from horny single girls and couples "
Crikey! As concepts go mate, this one is way out there!  But, ok then, I'm up for the challenge, I'll take one for the team.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.
All the best X
You post threads too. Anyone can. That's the whole point of the forum. "
Way to go lady it was a joke, me and the Op have light hearted digs at each other.
All the best to you and yours X
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"Guys, can you handle fancy a fuck message from horny single girls and couples
Crikey! As concepts go mate, this one is way out there! But, ok then, I'm up for the challenge, I'll take one for the team.......... "
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