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I swear its hard being 20 yrs old here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha  "
why? im not sure why your age means you expect to be treated different to anyone else on here. Maybe look at the reasons you are finding it difficult and see if you can change them. |
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over a year ago
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha "
Most single males find it hard in here? It’s not a passport to free sex? And how ever mature you may think you are, you will lack a lot of “life experience” compared to others.
Also what age are you aiming at, as likely a lot will have kids not a million miles off your own age.
And please say your profile doesn’t say, “I love blowjobs”? ??????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And your profile needs a lot of work. I love blow jobs    haha. Good luck  "
Just read it! ???????????
How about telling ladies what you offer them? It’s just about you? No face pic, in fact they’re all the same and the “no BS” bit sounds a bit agro? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I said im being honest I like blowjobs, there's worse stuff here mate. So you dont see that most people have age preferences above 20 most of the time?"
Use the “reply + quote” it’s easier. Yes it’s the truth by your profile is just about what you want? And what guy doesn’t like s blowie? Bit like saying, “I like to breathe air”. As a woman, looking at your profile, why would you shag you?
And yes, maybe your age is against you but I stayed why, ESPECIALLY if your after the older ones. You have a lot of things in your favour in life, being young. This just might not be one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea just stick with it and you’ll come across someone eventually.
As the people above already said, have a look at other people’s profiles and fill your own out a little more, maybe some different photos instead of the same thing at different angles.
There are a lot of guys on this so it’s about being yourself whilst standing out.
Most people arent after a quickie. Taking part in forums helps, or at least it did for me anyway.
Hope that helps a little  |
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha
I wouldn't meet you because of your profile not your age. "
Same. Nothing there remotely interesting or informative. You have to try to sell yourself on here, remember you are massively outnumbered and your profile is supposed to make you stand out from the rest. If I wanted a 20 year old fuckboy I would just walk into any pub or bar in town. You may not see yourself as one but that is the impression your profile gives. Search out some of the really successful mens' profiles and see how they have presented themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile has to be better, or stand out better than the other million single male profiles, .
And to get honest you'd stand out more if you said you didn't like blow jobs, |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Im gonna be a mother now.
What on earth do you want on a site like this? Its just going to fuck with your self esteem and confidence not to mention the damage it will do to your perception of women, sex and relationships.
Hang on to your youth.... get out with your mates and find yourself a nice girl with a wild streak... learn and grow together.
Leave all this nonsense 'til you are older and pulling down the pub isnt so easy. 'Til you have lived a bit and need some kind of spark to ignite a tired life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha "
If a 20yr old needs a site to get laid there's something up |
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha "
You might have more luck if you tell people WHY they should give you a chance apart from your age, because, as you may have gathered, a young age isn’t a positive in Fab. The average age is much older.
Is there any other reason why you think people should meet you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as you have a taste for older ladies, you will only have a chance of finding that match with ladies who have a taste for very young men. You just have to accept that there aren’t many mature ladies who are looking for this.
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Focus on what you can get positively working for yourself. Target those who want someone like you, learn what they'd like and go to sell how you match their needs.
Be innovative - offer ironing services for a day, or something that would let you get to form a relationship of some kind. |
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Your profile isn't the best and you're right most do want guys wifh more experience.... Couples over 40/50 are likely to have children your age....
There are younger couple and females, keep looking but it won't be easy.
Nothing on this site is easy for single guys tbh. |
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Tbh OP, regardless of age there's nothing on your profile to inspire anyone to want to meet you.
If I received a message from someone actually in my age range with a display like that it woukd be a no.
You need to stand out, from the 1000s of others...
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Don't worry mate,I'd had my first 3sum by the time I was your age. There's no reason why you shouldn't enjoy this lifestyle at your age. Just don't treat it as if its life or death,chill and look for the right people.
The age gap won't be a problem later on in life,people hit a certain age when all of a sudden a 20 year age gap doesn't matter. They only want to meet people younger than themselves. It's a strange old world. |
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I think it seems to hit the younger harder, as in, they've pretty much had what they want at their fingertips all their lives (in so much as the technological age and been able to find what they want by a Google search)
Yes it's hard on here for young guys, especially those that describe themselves as a young boy 
That sounds simply peadophillic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im gonna be a mother now.
What on earth do you want on a site like this? Its just going to fuck with your self esteem and confidence not to mention the damage it will do to your perception of women, sex and relationships.
Hang on to your youth.... get out with your mates and find yourself a nice girl with a wild streak... learn and grow together.
Leave all this nonsense 'til you are older and pulling down the pub isnt so easy. 'Til you have lived a bit and need some kind of spark to ignite a tired life.
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you saved me from writing this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was 20 i was living away from home, working at Butlins and having a whale of a time...
20 yr olds these days may be computer savvy but they know f*ck all about getting out there and enjoying life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any 20 yr olds or younger feel the same. I know we're younger but give us a chance people haha "
Get out there and get some vanilla pussy mate you're only 20 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trouble is chaps swinging generally happens when couples have been together for a number of years thus some fall into it after discussing whether to try this kind of fun , not necessarily to spice things up but to enhance an already great sex life . When you’re in your late teens or early twenties you should be having one hell of a time being single bars clubs etc etc . A majority of people / couples on here have kids same age as yourself & that would be wrong to swing with, so yes you will find it difficult to get meets on Fab or other sites of this nature get a few more years of living under your belt & the world is your oyster buddy |
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