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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Not sure how I would react... beyond being very upset at the dishonesty. But then he was married and cheating when we met so perhaps some would call it Karma. I will not cheat. We are lucky to have what we have and I wouldn't ever risk that. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"Fairly sure my ex did. Saw messages years ago from the guy she's now with.
As long as he keeps her off my back it's all good. "
See, with the benefit of time I can see now that my ex husband more than likely cheated on me.
He was forever accusing me but I never did, never would have and never will cheat... seeing how he now conducts his life as an ex of 16 years and understanding that people tend to project their guilt onto others I am fairly certain he played away on more than one occassion. Doesnt matter now but I suspect I would have made his life less than easy had I known at the time. |
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over a year ago
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"Fairly sure my ex did. Saw messages years ago from the guy she's now with.
As long as he keeps her off my back it's all good.
See, with the benefit of time I can see now that my ex husband more than likely cheated on me.
He was forever accusing me but I never did, never would have and never will cheat... seeing how he now conducts his life as an ex of 16 years and understanding that people tend to project their guilt onto others I am fairly certain he played away on more than one occassion. Doesnt matter now but I suspect I would have made his life less than easy had I known at the time."
I am very trusting but I always go by the saying, people that can't trust can't be trusted! My ex cheated on me before we were married, we sorted thongs out and I trusted him when he said it would never happen again (it didn't..unless you class a love affair with beer) but he always treated my like I would do the same, I never did! He blamed his ex that cheated on him...I think that is a shitty excuse, if someone still affects the way you behave towards other people then you have no business getting into another relationship just to treat them like crap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine did, wasn't bothered as long as she played safe, then she got pregnant, I had the snip few years before, so got re tested found out that I couldn't possibly be the dad so she was let go, she still calls me today just wish she would do one its been 13 years now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had that issue with my ex.
Did however have a girl cheat on me when I was younger, but it was my own fault for thinking me and the town tart could go steady |
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"As some of my favourite clothing states, " it's not cheating if my husband watches". So we always follow that rule.
This! It’s the secrecy that I hate"
Totally agree. My cuck gets more pleasure watching me being fucked than actually fucking me so who am I to deny that pleasure and no way would I do anything behind his back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes my ex GF did, had my suspicions, and they all came true. Within a few weeks she was seeing someone else. Leaving me to pick up the pieces.
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Did that lead to you dressing up as a woman or was it prior to this terrible incident? |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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I've never even had a girlfriend yet but if i did and i found out thay wos cheating than that wood be it.
I'd tell them to just go with them and not bother comeing back.
Any girlfriend / wife i ever get id be giving 100% loyalty to. As it shood be. And id expect the same in return.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never even had a girlfriend yet but if i did and i found out thay wos cheating than that wood be it.
I'd tell them to just go with them and not bother comeing back.
Any girlfriend / wife i ever get id be giving 100% loyalty to. As it shood be. And id expect the same in return.
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Easy said than done Seeside |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"I've never even had a girlfriend yet but if i did and i found out thay wos cheating than that wood be it.
I'd tell them to just go with them and not bother comeing back.
Any girlfriend / wife i ever get id be giving 100% loyalty to. As it shood be. And id expect the same in return.
Easy said than done Seeside "
No 100% loyalty is easy to do.
As thay say... For better or for worse.
Anyone Hoo cheets clearly lakes any loyalty or respect for thar partner.
And to me its a 1 strike system. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fairly sure my ex did. Saw messages years ago from the guy she's now with.
As long as he keeps her off my back it's all good.
See, with the benefit of time I can see now that my ex husband more than likely cheated on me.
He was forever accusing me but I never did, never would have and never will cheat... seeing how he now conducts his life as an ex of 16 years and understanding that people tend to project their guilt onto others I am fairly certain he played away on more than one occassion. Doesnt matter now but I suspect I would have made his life less than easy had I known at the time.
I am very trusting but I always go by the saying, people that can't trust can't be trusted! My ex cheated on me before we were married, we sorted thongs out and I trusted him when he said it would never happen again (it didn't..unless you class a love affair with beer) but he always treated my like I would do the same, I never did! He blamed his ex that cheated on him...I think that is a shitty excuse, if someone still affects the way you behave towards other people then you have no business getting into another relationship just to treat them like crap!"
So glad you sorted out your thongs |
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"Yes my ex GF did, had my suspicions, and they all came true. Within a few weeks she was seeing someone else. Leaving me to pick up the pieces.
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Did that lead to you dressing up as a woman or was it prior to this terrible incident? "
No I’ve been dressing for years before that. Something she knew all about.
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