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What is missing in your life?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck? |
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You trying to cause trouble lady. I don't meet men just for sex anymore I want some kind of relationship now,but I enjoyed it when I did. It did leave me feeling pretty empty towards the end though,hence that's why I don't do it anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only possible answer is that something is missing ? "
I agree, I don't think anything is missing from my life. I just enjoy my variety, and I know that one partner would not be able to provide me with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
Variety is the spice of life, remember! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never met anyone for just sex and don't intend to. Now it's summer I would like to meet someone to have days out with and just enjoy each other's company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried monogamy it doesn't work for me. I don't see my partner as much as I would like. We have a open relationship. The people I play with are not just random fucks but people I create a friendship with first. I've tried the whole full on relationships thing last year and it didn't work. It was repressive. This is natural for me. |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
Nothing is missing from our relationship. We can leave the swinging lifestyle anytime and not miss it. It's only a horny bonus to us.  |
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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago
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Absolutely nothing missing from our relationship. Swinging just adds a new dimension to both our social life and sex life. It's not about random fucking of others, it's enhancing what we already enjoy and fulfilling a few fantasies |
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Nothing missing at all from our relationship. In fact, the past two years have been the most fun, the most loving and the most passionate in over 25 years of marriage.
This swinging malarky is just a bit of added erotic fun. We don't need to do it, and to be honest, unless we meet exactly the right candidates we might never get it going with anyone else again, which certainly won't be an issue if that's the case.
We could only do this if we were 100% secure and committed to each other. Anything less would be a gamble.
So actually our venture into swinging is exactly because there's nothing missing.
Now I gotta go and make breakfast in bed for my beautiful partner. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Nothing is missing from our relationship. We can leave the swinging lifestyle anytime and not miss it. It's only a horny bonus to us. "
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
Are you actually being serious...... I don’t think you fully grasp the concept of swinging!
We swing because we enjoy being watched and enjoy watching each other.... it’s not because we have too or feel the need to because something is missing. Purely for our enjoyment, Which we would stop if one of us didn’t enjoy it anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not looking to sleep around but don't want a full traditional relationship, had that most of my adult life and no longer want the expectations or demands that go with them, suppose looking for fwb so can enjoy best of both situations, good sex; friendship but not the burden of commitment.
Hopefully that makes sense?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see how swinging would make a relationship stronger, in a way. Your partner is having sex with others but always wants to come back to you and you always have them back with excitement and love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I swing from one man to another for different experiences.
What was missing before I had them, when I was with my husband, was kissing, intimacy, passion and erotic sex. And anal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been very happily single for 25 years and have far too much going on in my life for that to change! But I don't fuck around either I have been lucky to form wonderful friendships with a few guys that are mutually beneficial and have a few booty calls!  |
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I wouldn't say anything is missing, I'm very happy with my life right now.
After half my life in a miserable relationship, I want to live!
I enjoy sex. I don't want to be in a 24/7 relationship.
I have several FB/FWBs that I see on a regular basis, they all tick different boxes, satisfy different needs that I don't think could happen with just one person.
I've also made amazing friends & gained an incredible social life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a thing.. we've not had a meet since March last year.
Just come back on for the first time in 6 month and not in a rush to fuck anyone.
But, the reason we "SWING" is because we are both sexually adventurous and want each other to experience all things in life.
And what better way to explore, than together?
Adam  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet  
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views "
I think it's deliberately worded that way to get more responses and stronger ones. Almost goading. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views
I think it's deliberately worded that way to get more responses and stronger ones. Almost goading. "
I'm sure she would not appreciate it if the shoe was on the other foot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views "
I read them as suggestions of what might be our situations. Putting forward some ideas.
I'll ask her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I wouldn't say anything is missing, I'm very happy with my life right now.
After half my life in a miserable relationship, I want to live!
I enjoy sex. I don't want to be in a 24/7 relationship.
I have several FB/FWBs that I see on a regular basis, they all tick different boxes, satisfy different needs that I don't think could happen with just one person.
I've also made amazing friends & gained an incredible social life.
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That's me too. More than half my life spent in an emotionless relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Addressing the last point: I don't constantly look for new partners. I keep my profile on here and other online places active to see if someone else interests me.
If I had to constantly find new men to fuck I would question myself. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views
I think it's deliberately worded that way to get more responses and stronger ones. Almost goading.
I'm sure she would not appreciate it if the shoe was on the other foot"
Well either answer the question or ignore the thread if you don't like it. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views. "
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me nothing is missing!
I have everything i want and i dont want or need a relationship!
My life is mine plus i have fwb and no commitment, no worrying about them, no compromises.. etc
Why would i change that  |
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Missing: Female friend with benefits for us.
Our relationship has got stronger through open and honest communication. Talking about all fantasies and how we want to play them out.
From a totally Vanilla relationship we now have had several swinging experiences, fem on fem play.
The openess has taken us to levels we never thought we could mentally handle, but because everything is communicated and not hidden from each other, it totally works. Im sure that this way more couples would have much more fun and also stay together.
Swinging is the spice if life... play on! |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views
I read them as suggestions of what might be our situations. Putting forward some ideas.
I'll ask her "
Well it's the urges of human nature really, the same urges that cause her to over eat are the ones that cause us to fuck too much. There's nothing magic about being in a good relationship that stops you wanting other people. Just like a good main course doesn't stop her wanting dessert. Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooooo it's a long list!
Morality
A sense of perspective
No patience
Commitment to anything
Too easily bored
Too easily thrilled
And last but not least I just dammed love excitement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
me and my wife have account together and I love watching her with someone else don't know why it I just a creep who know haha i just find it
a real big turn on for me |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing."
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no? |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no? "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree"
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Do you actually agree or are you just being controversial coz nobody agrees about anything on here you know  |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree.
Do you actually agree or are you just being controversial coz nobody agrees about anything on here you know "
Have you not taken your medication yet today. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree"
In that case, pretty pathetic really. I'm guessing she's blown her time on Facebook and the rest. All that desperate attention seeking gets tiresome. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree
In that case, pretty pathetic really. I'm guessing she's blown her time on Facebook and the rest. All that desperate attention seeking gets tiresome."
Ouch. I guess it's how each person sees it, I just view her as trying to get the discussion going.
I'm not buying or selling but maybe avoid her threads if you feel that way? There's often a pattern in the type she starts. |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree
In that case, pretty pathetic really. I'm guessing she's blown her time on Facebook and the rest. All that desperate attention seeking gets tiresome."
Not a happy little soul are you. Go breathe in the fresh air and let the sun into your life. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views "
Ah you see I don't think she has, she could be just opening a debate and we will get her views later ( or the punchline ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single, I can confidently say that I have nothing missing in my life. I've been married (more than once), children (who I have a great relationship with) and great friends and family. At some point in the future I MAY want companionship, but I'm enjoying the single life |
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I'm here because it's ok here to be upfront about not wanting a traditional relationship. I'm open to regular meets but not commitment or exclusivity and that's not particularly acceptable out in the 'real' world. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
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Do you swing with your partner to add something else to the mix and not to replace what you have.
Do you fuck strangers because you love the fact you don't have to listen to someone else snore or wash his dirty undies and you quite enjoy the sex
I balanced it for you....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined after about a year of post-break up. I’d been back dating for around 6 months, but had always wanted to experiment with a couple and explore my bi side. I figured that I needed to do it now and so I joined another site, had my first threesome, really enjoyed it and joined here.
It’s something that I’d like to take into a relationship with me at some point. |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
For us, it's not about what we're not getting from each other... it's about enjoying different experiences TOGETHER. Things that involve more than one on one, girly fun for Anita and generally just sexy fun with nice people. There is never a NEED, just a want.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
I wouldn’t mind a girlfriend to settle down with. But I’m happy single and don’t feel anything is missing from my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet "
I disagree
The OP posts interesting questions
No one is holding a gun to your head to answer them |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
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I disagree
The OP posts interesting questions
No one is holding a gun to your head to answer them "
I agree, people often have misconceptions about what other people. If you don't ask, then you'll never know any better.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn’t anything missing from our sex lite, we went a very long time with out inviting a lady into our bedroom, it just enhanced our sex life a bit, since we did it everything is the same as it was, would we like another lady? Yes we would but if it doesn’t happen our sex life will be as rampant as ever!
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no?
I agree.
Do you actually agree or are you just being controversial coz nobody agrees about anything on here you know
Have you not taken your medication yet today."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's missing?
One of my fucking socks, now where has the little bastard got to......... "
I found mine the other day. It was rolled in with another pair |
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"What's missing?
One of my fucking socks, now where has the little bastard got to.........
I found mine the other day. It was rolled in with another pair "
Oh crap, does that mean I have got to turn out the whole drawer and sort through all the old ones with holes in.......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I had a guy that absolutely adored me and never wanted anyone else but me. In return I would love him and fuss him, feed him and take him to theme parks, restaurants, cinemas, b&q and supermarkets and keep his balls empty and his arse hole pampered. |
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"A wake up bj alarm clock
I do that! I  sucking the dicks of sleeping men. "
but they all say that and wake up like the exorcist hahaha but if yoibare one of the very low percentage then you are a keeper for life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A wake up bj alarm clock
I do that! I sucking the dicks of sleeping men. but they all say that and wake up like the exorcist hahaha but if yoibare one of the very low percentage then you are a keeper for life"
No seriously, sleeping stuff is my thing. When a guy goes to sleep I put his body in the recovery position so I have good access to his arse hole and put his willy peek a boo through his thighs then I'm up his arse hole like a rat up a drainpipe. No joke. It's my thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll "
Hey, do you even know this woman? She's not a troll and has been here a long time with as much right to be here as anyone else. There's no malice in her bones so keep shit like that to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wish I had a guy that absolutely adored me and never wanted anyone else but me. In return I would love him and fuss him, feed him and take him to theme parks, restaurants, cinemas, b&q and supermarkets and keep his balls empty and his arse hole pampered. "
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Theme parks you say!!.
Alton towers does sound tempting but then you lost me with supermarkets and then got me back with empty balls before losing me by messing with my bum while I'm asleep |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll "
Oh my she's not a nasty little troll. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Oh my she's not a nasty little troll."
No she isn't. I think its an interesting post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
Her question contains her views
I think it's deliberately worded that way to get more responses and stronger ones. Almost goading.
I'm sure she would not appreciate it if the shoe was on the other foot"
Go on then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll "
Wow aren't you a little ray of sunshine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
For us, it's not about what we're not getting from each other... it's about enjoying different experiences TOGETHER. Things that involve more than one on one, girly fun for Anita and generally just sexy fun with nice people. There is never a NEED, just a want.
Cal"
I absolutely LOVE this! So many good posts that confirm it's not what's missing, it's what is added to a relationship or single sex life.
But this sums it up best for me. The 'want' - not the 'need'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Wow aren't you a little ray of sunshine. "
I don't always agree with you, but even though that was a trolling post, even I know you're not a troll. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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I'm not missing anything...
But I am lucky enough to be adding to a lovely couples relationship were they can be fully relaxed and open as know I'm never a threat to thier relationship and they can explore in safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I missing something... yes I probably have been missing something.... someone that gets me and knows what I like and want... and who can stimulate me physically and mentally.
For me personally it’s not about fuckin as many people as I can... maybe I’m looking for that person who ignites all the flames and passion and who leaves me wanting more... who has the same sexual thoughts and needs... for me sex only gets better and better the more you know someone... so you know that a certain touch or kiss or lick is just how they like it and will blow their mind...
As for swinging if I was with someone and it was mutually agreed that was what we wanted then again that’s a choice and decision made at that time but only if it suits both people.
Does that make me a bad person because I’ve fucked a few people while trying to find that spark and connection...? I don’t think so!!
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Hey, do you even know this woman? She's not a troll and has been here a long time with as much right to be here as anyone else. There's no malice in her bones so keep shit like that to yourself. "
No I don’t know the woman. I read her post an her profile. Seems I’ve put 2 an 2 together an come up with 25 lol
It’s the way the question was worded for me. It come across more malice than I think intended. I’m not the only one too take it that way. I’ve had many messages of bitter women on here. Read that an thought she was another one . |
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"Am I missing something... yes I probably have been missing something.... someone that gets me and knows what I like and want... and who can stimulate me physically and mentally.
For me personally it’s not about fuckin as many people as I can... maybe I’m looking for that person who ignites all the flames and passion and who leaves me wanting more... who has the same sexual thoughts and needs... for me sex only gets better and better the more you know someone... so you know that a certain touch or kiss or lick is just how they like it and will blow their mind...
As for swinging if I was with someone and it was mutually agreed that was what we wanted then again that’s a choice and decision made at that time but only if it suits both people.
Does that make me a bad person because I’ve fucked a few people while trying to find that spark and connection...? I don’t think so!!
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Why would you think any of that makes you a bad person? If someone thinks that then that's their issue not yours.
Yeah you get what I mean. All those things you're missing... and so gaining. |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Wow aren't you a little ray of sunshine. "
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Hey, do you even know this woman? She's not a troll and has been here a long time with as much right to be here as anyone else. There's no malice in her bones so keep shit like that to yourself.
No I don’t know the woman. I read her post an her profile. Seems I’ve put 2 an 2 together an come up with 25 lol
It’s the way the question was worded for me. It come across more malice than I think intended. I’m not the only one too take it that way. I’ve had many messages of bitter women on here. Read that an thought she was another one . "
Yeah I'm bitter, they'd sold out of sodding crumpets this morning.
I'm a miserable old cow, you guessed correctly. x |
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Sex isn't something that's missing from my life. It's pretty easy to get for most people.
Mind-blowing sex is much harder to find and as a woman I suppose it was the hope of finding those sorts of experiences that brought me here. Not some lack of a partner.
That said I'll happily admit I'd love to find someone who loves me and only me, we are enough for each other and we live happily ever after. Intimacy, comfort, someone to face the world with, to laugh with and explore with. Sadly I don't see that ever happening. Nor would I ever expect or hope to find it here.
I do believe that at times I use casual sex purely as a way of getting some affection. I'm honest enough with myself on that so I don't get hurt. |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Hey, do you even know this woman? She's not a troll and has been here a long time with as much right to be here as anyone else. There's no malice in her bones so keep shit like that to yourself.
No I don’t know the woman. I read her post an her profile. Seems I’ve put 2 an 2 together an come up with 25 lol
It’s the way the question was worded for me. It come across more malice than I think intended. I’m not the only one too take it that way. I’ve had many messages of bitter women on here. Read that an thought she was another one . "
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Nothing is missing from my life. I enjoy the company of handsome, intelligent men and FAB suits my lifestyle that I’m able to chose when that is... a hectic work schedule prevents relationship at present and I quite enjoy my single girl lifestyle - bit of a social butterfly! |
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"Am I missing something... yes I probably have been missing something.... someone that gets me and knows what I like and want... and who can stimulate me physically and mentally.
For me personally it’s not about fuckin as many people as I can... maybe I’m looking for that person who ignites all the flames and passion and who leaves me wanting more... who has the same sexual thoughts and needs... for me sex only gets better and better the more you know someone... so you know that a certain touch or kiss or lick is just how they like it and will blow their mind...
As for swinging if I was with someone and it was mutually agreed that was what we wanted then again that’s a choice and decision made at that time but only if it suits both people.
Does that make me a bad person because I’ve fucked a few people while trying to find that spark and connection...? I don’t think so!!
Why would you think any of that makes you a bad person? If someone thinks that then that's their issue not yours.
Yeah you get what I mean. All those things you're missing... and so gaining. "
Exactly!!! And when you do find it... well it’s just boom!!!!!! |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
Why are you here? Do you think you are behaving respectful? Coming here with your judgmental attitude. What’s missing in your life that you sign up to a swingers site, not to swing. But just to be a nasty little troll
Hey, do you even know this woman? She's not a troll and has been here a long time with as much right to be here as anyone else. There's no malice in her bones so keep shit like that to yourself.
No I don’t know the woman. I read her post an her profile. Seems I’ve put 2 an 2 together an come up with 25 lol
It’s the way the question was worded for me. It come across more malice than I think intended. I’m not the only one too take it that way. I’ve had many messages of bitter women on here. Read that an thought she was another one .
Yeah I'm bitter, they'd sold out of sodding crumpets this morning.
I'm a miserable old cow, you guessed correctly. x "
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
We’ve pondered over this question many times over the seven years we have been swinging .
And the answer is that we are missing a hobby that ticks the boxes that swinging does .
We don’t need to do it , it’s just a habit that won’t go away . Hey ho ...... |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?"
A friend into the same things who is local adventurous and doesn’t want to settle down I can’t find her |
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What's missing: a fb partner who is so fantastically satisfying that I'd prefer more of them instead of more random partners.
I do like some variety, so the partner would probably be more suited if they would also share new partners with me. |
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When I initially joined fab, I was going through a very hard time in my life. It was a distraction from that. I used it as a tool to detach from my problems. So it wasn't that I was missing something per say. More that I was running away. Now things are a lot better, I rarely meet. |
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"When I initially joined fab, I was going through a very hard time in my life. It was a distraction from that. I used it as a tool to detach from my problems. So it wasn't that I was missing something per say. More that I was running away. Now things are a lot better, I rarely meet. "
this is exactly how I was feeling when I first joined fab my life had turned upside down and I needed something to focus on
I really meet either now |
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"Another post from a single that is better suited to mumsnet
She's asking a question, not airing her views.
No. She's making a clear assumption that she believes 'something is missing' from couples' relationships if they swing.
I'd suggest she's being deliberately controversial in order to spark debate. This is what Steel Heels does, no? "
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
A friend into the same things who is local adventurous and doesn’t want to settle down I can’t find her "
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over a year ago
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You could say the same about people that have affairs behind their partners back.
We all need a hobby, this is consensual between two or more adults.
I admit I would Like a relationship but Relationship don't want me.
And even ADULTS are entitled to PLAYTIME once and a while it just there ain't the climbing frame available |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
We’ve pondered over this question many times over the seven years we have been swinging .
And the answer is that we are missing a hobby that ticks the boxes that swinging does .
We don’t need to do it , it’s just a habit that won’t go away . Hey ho ...... "
Motorbikes?
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"Sex isn't something that's missing from my life. It's pretty easy to get for most people.
Mind-blowing sex is much harder to find and as a woman I suppose it was the hope of finding those sorts of experiences that brought me here. Not some lack of a partner.
That said I'll happily admit I'd love to find someone who loves me and only me, we are enough for each other and we live happily ever after. Intimacy, comfort, someone to face the world with, to laugh with and explore with. Sadly I don't see that ever happening. Nor would I ever expect or hope to find it here.
I do believe that at times I use casual sex purely as a way of getting some affection. I'm honest enough with myself on that so I don't get hurt. "
No harm in wanting affection. Never say never... |
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"I'm sure I read somewhere that humans aren't naturally monogamous, that it is society and religion that has decreed that we should be."
Well I'm pretty non-conformist and despise any sort of organised religion and would be happy with just one woman to explore sensuality with... |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
We’ve pondered over this question many times over the seven years we have been swinging .
And the answer is that we are missing a hobby that ticks the boxes that swinging does .
We don’t need to do it , it’s just a habit that won’t go away . Hey ho ......
Motorbikes?
Do you want the habit to go away? "
Funnily enough we’ve thought motorbikes may give that adrenaline rush that swinging gives us . But with all the potholes on the roads and the temptation to go too fast it wouldn’t last long !
And no , I don’t think I do want the habit to go . I’ve given up smoking , eating crap food and work in the last 3 months , so I don’t want to give this up just yet |
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From a couples point of view (I had a husband once) I look at it the same as going to the cinema, or out to dinner. I would want my partner with me; having him there would make it much more enjoyable. |
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I’d reached the point that I no longer wanted the crap that goes with a relationship but I was missing men. I found a man but he wasn’t giving me what I needed. I found men that gave me what I needed. I found a man and a relationship, that was the end of Swinging as we don’t want to share. We’re not really swingers I guess |
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"Couples that 'swing' - what are you not getting from your partner that makes you need to fuck other people?
Singles that 'swing' from one stranger to the next - do you wish you had a partner so you didn't need to fuck around?
What is missing in your life that creates the need to constantly look for new people to fuck?
We’ve pondered over this question many times over the seven years we have been swinging .
And the answer is that we are missing a hobby that ticks the boxes that swinging does .
We don’t need to do it , it’s just a habit that won’t go away . Hey ho ......
Motorbikes?
Do you want the habit to go away?
Funnily enough we’ve thought motorbikes may give that adrenaline rush that swinging gives us . But with all the potholes on the roads and the temptation to go too fast it wouldn’t last long !
And no , I don’t think I do want the habit to go . I’ve given up smoking , eating crap food and work in the last 3 months , so I don’t want to give this up just yet "
Virtual reality motorbikes then. Get well soon. |
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We swing for each other nothing is missing in our life. I love to see dave play and enjoy himself. We had a meet last night that was a social. Back at there's it moved up a notch. I have a sore throat so didn't play i watched. And it was so good to see them all playing together. Dave wants to see me being taken by a man while he watches and he always smiles when thinking about it. We get so much pleasure from watching each other play it just adds to the love we feel for each other
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