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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
Do they? I don't think it's common for women to ask for bareback only on their profiles.
If they do, it's risky, but up to them and the men they meet I suppose. Doesn't affect me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Elephant in the room... bareback is fucking amazing.
Other Elephant in the room... std's aren't amazing.
Zebra in the room... get that fucking Zebra out of here! Can't you see there's already two bloody great big Elephants in here  
In short... I'd *love* to eventually, with someone I trust. But not until then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more? "
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more?
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent. "
I’ll see what I can do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more?
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent.
I’ll see what I can do "
Thank you! You are a true friend ! Remember my birthday is in three days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more?
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent.
I’ll see what I can do
Thank you! You are a true friend ! Remember my birthday is in three days "
Noted. Searches for Icelandic girls willing to give massage and suck cock for cash.. 817536853796 results.. success |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was only saying yesterday how I’d love to go back to being young and reckless and never using a condom. Now I’m older and wiser, but almost wish I wasn’t. No casual bareback for me, that’s reserved for my long term FB who plays safe with everyone else too (I hope! Do we ever know for sure?) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged "
As a bareback couple we are judged all the time but we are upfront and tell the truth of what we are and checked regularly,so it makes me mad when judged,the amount of guys who say "safe sex" on profile but beg us to meet for bareback fun as they love it is unbelievable so just because they say safe sex doesnt mean they are having it at least we are honest with what we do and leave you that choice to say yes or no |
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged
As a bareback couple we are judged all the time but we are upfront and tell the truth of what we are and checked regularly,so it makes me mad when judged,the amount of guys who say "safe sex" on profile but beg us to meet for bareback fun as they love it is unbelievable so just because they say safe sex doesnt mean they are having it at least we are honest with what we do and leave you that choice to say yes or no "
Well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, theirs a risk crossing the road the road ffs.
We play safe with swinging partners, but as were married we B.B. with each other.
We actually prefer B.B. to be honest however we haven’t got any long term swing partners who have been tested.
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged
As a bareback couple we are judged all the time but we are upfront and tell the truth of what we are and checked regularly,so it makes me mad when judged,the amount of guys who say "safe sex" on profile but beg us to meet for bareback fun as they love it is unbelievable so just because they say safe sex doesnt mean they are having it at least we are honest with what we do and leave you that choice to say yes or no "
We are a BB couple too and hate it when the bareback police get on their soapbox. Also as for the safe sex only but then want to bareback, they do my head in. We are consenting adults and know the risk. We know the risks so need them pointing out to us |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged
As a bareback couple we are judged all the time but we are upfront and tell the truth of what we are and checked regularly,so it makes me mad when judged,the amount of guys who say "safe sex" on profile but beg us to meet for bareback fun as they love it is unbelievable so just because they say safe sex doesnt mean they are having it at least we are honest with what we do and leave you that choice to say yes or no
We are a BB couple too and hate it when the bareback police get on their soapbox. Also as for the safe sex only but then want to bareback, they do my head in. We are consenting adults and know the risk. We know the risks so need them pointing out to us"
I admire your honesty... what you do is your business. Id ignore anyone judging you for it, at least you are honest about it. |
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
It's totally up to the individual to do what the hell they want without being judged
As a bareback couple we are judged all the time but we are upfront and tell the truth of what we are and checked regularly,so it makes me mad when judged,the amount of guys who say "safe sex" on profile but beg us to meet for bareback fun as they love it is unbelievable so just because they say safe sex doesnt mean they are having it at least we are honest with what we do and leave you that choice to say yes or no
We are a BB couple too and hate it when the bareback police get on their soapbox. Also as for the safe sex only but then want to bareback, they do my head in. We are consenting adults and know the risk. We know the risks so need them pointing out to us
I admire your honesty... what you do is your business. Id ignore anyone judging you for it, at least you are honest about it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you on about I still do it now haha only coz what one the monsters finds the pack and have to tell the they are special balloons and then show them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you on about I still do it now haha only coz what one the monsters finds the pack and have to tell the they are special balloons and then show them "
Have you not seen the size of my head?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha just looked at how i put that haha my bad but yea lube your head first haha"
Mate, that comment really didn't help
Good job I understand what you mean fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?"
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?"
Who has any right to tell her what to do? Look after your own sexual health and leave others to look after theirs.
The ones you need worry about are those 'playing safe' and using condoms but not for oral and never bothering with getting checked because they always use a condomfor vaginal and anal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides "
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
Who has any right to tell her what to do? Look after your own sexual health and leave others to look after theirs.
The ones you need worry about are those 'playing safe' and using condoms but not for oral and never bothering with getting checked because they always use a condomfor vaginal and anal. "
My comment was an open question and not something I necessarily think should or shouldn’t happen. You can stop being defensive now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?"
Totally agree, yes she should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab. "
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject "
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
I've only come across that on one female's profile. If they prefer it that way, it's their choice. The men who meet them know the score, before going in, if it's on their own profile. You can only be responsible for your own sexual health |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only ever fuck bareback, but I've only slept with 8 people in the last 17 years. After I've been sleeping with someone regularly and it ends I'll wait 3 months and have full std tests including blood and mouth swabs.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
I've only come across that on one female's profile. If they prefer it that way, it's their choice. The men who meet them know the score, before going in, if it's on their own profile. You can only be responsible for your own sexual health "
It’s the scale of it though. Reckless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while! "
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while!
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!! "
Oh come on, we all like to do that, right!?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while!
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!!
Oh come on, we all like to do that, right!?! "
Apparently so! Oh god here we go again talking about condoms on heads!! Back on subject...what was the subject again?? |
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At least we discuss / debate it here and list it in our profile.
In POF, from my experience last year. Second date where sex is pretty much guaranteed there was never any discussion m, bareback every time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while!
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!!
Oh come on, we all like to do that, right!?!
Apparently so! Oh god here we go again talking about condoms on heads!! Back on subject...what was the subject again?? "
The best way to do it is put a pop sock on your head and pull it up from the top. I promise you, it’s amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while!
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!!
Oh come on, we all like to do that, right!?!
Apparently so! Oh god here we go again talking about condoms on heads!! Back on subject...what was the subject again??
The best way to do it is put a pop sock on your head and pull it up from the top. I promise you, it’s amazing! "
Hmmm interesting, I think I'll need to be shown that method |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I think each to their own to a certain degree, I do wonder if those who bareback regularly and with a large number of people are actually causing more harm than they realise. One woman on Fab must have met hundreds of men for bareback only. Should someone doing it on this scale actually be told to stop!?
You can tell her to stop all you like, but whether she listens is totally her prerogative. It's an un-winnable debate as there will be valid views for and against on both sides
I wouldn’t tell anyone to stop, however, I think it raises lots of questions within a small community such as Fab.
It certainly does hence the copius amounts of threads started on the subject
I’m actually surprised that this is the first one I’ve seen for a little while!
The thing that makes us laugh us each thread is a carbon copy of the last as in comments, debates and insults! We normally try to steer clear but I got dragged into it by some fella who likes to put condoms over his head!! Madness!!
Oh come on, we all like to do that, right!?!
Apparently so! Oh god here we go again talking about condoms on heads!! Back on subject...what was the subject again??
The best way to do it is put a pop sock on your head and pull it up from the top. I promise you, it’s amazing!
Hmmm interesting, I think I'll need to be shown that method "
I’ll do pictures next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss...
I've only come across that on one female's profile. If they prefer it that way, it's their choice. The men who meet them know the score, before going in, if it's on their own profile. You can only be responsible for your own sexual health
It’s the scale of it though. Reckless."
I'm sure that there are quite a few who indulge in bareback but have safe sex only on their profiles. It only takes one infected with an STI to spread. Granted the behavior is reckless, but at least they are honest. Some would argue that having sex with multiple partners, even with condoms is also reckless. The only true safe sex is no sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In all my time swinging no one has once asked to verify that everyone is std free. It seems it's just assumed they are and that the whole idea of even mentioning the subject is just going to be a major buzz killer that brings the party to a halt.
Within reason that approach is ok in a safe sex situation. But it totally breaks down when it comes to bareback. Of course I need to ask that question. Of course! And of course I need to see convincing proof. Of course! That's just not being utterly insane. That's completely reasonable. Yet in the brief (and I must emphasise fruitless) exchanges I've had with bareback couples my asking for this has been taken as an affront. Is it really? Isn't it more of an affront to me that you're asking me to place my long term health in your hands based on blind trust of a complete stranger?! 
The upshot of it is always "well if that's your attitude you're not for us". So it seems the entire bareback scene is based on a no questions asked approach. Bareback itself may be risky. But add that immature approach to it and it's bloomin lunacy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It all depends on who you meet. To some extent, the phobia some single people have is reasonable. We only meet married couples like us or long term secure couples and we only have bareback sex. On the other hand, we stay well clear off bareback fanatics, gangbangers etc...
And its all good so far for all of us... |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
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Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference . |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference . "
As I have tried to illustrate in the last question, it isn’t about “choice and preference” if the action is about being socially responsible.
“Choice and preference” in this context is simply a cover for “unrestricted entitlement”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference .
As I have tried to illustrate in the last question, it isn’t about “choice and preference” if the action is about being socially responsible.
“Choice and preference” in this context is simply a cover for “unrestricted entitlement”."
I dont believe it is no. Its entirely possible for anyone with half a brain to be 'socially responsible' and still get to choose how they enjoy sex?
I find it bizarre a choice between two people would be classed as entitlement.
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference .
As I have tried to illustrate in the last question, it isn’t about “choice and preference” if the action is about being socially responsible.
“Choice and preference” in this context is simply a cover for “unrestricted entitlement”.
I dont believe it is no. Its entirely possible for anyone with half a brain to be 'socially responsible' and still get to choose how they enjoy sex?
I find it bizarre a choice between two people would be classed as entitlement.
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Oh my, we aren't talking about "a choice between two people" though are we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see the daily bareback thread is producing the same dogmatic entrenched positions it always does
Rather than imposing individual preferences or trying to enforce personal opinions on others perhaps it's simpler to just live your fab life the way it suits you and allow others the same courtesy....
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
Irresponsible; yes, rare; i would have thought so. I always make sure i'm well rubbered up. |
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference .
As I have tried to illustrate in the last question, it isn’t about “choice and preference” if the action is about being socially responsible.
“Choice and preference” in this context is simply a cover for “unrestricted entitlement”.
I dont believe it is no. Its entirely possible for anyone with half a brain to be 'socially responsible' and still get to choose how they enjoy sex?
I find it bizarre a choice between two people would be classed as entitlement.
Oh my, we aren't talking about "a choice between two people" though are we? "
Well then I admit I dont know what you mean . |
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
Nothing to discuss that hadn't been discussed a 100 times before on here. You either do or don't. I don't condemn or condone it but just accept people's choices. |
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"Don't you find Russian Roulette much more exciting and less painful
lets face it, it's over in seconds, none of this long lingering painful demise stuff .....  "
Ah the usual Russian Roulette post, wonder how long it would take! |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"I see the daily bareback thread is producing the same dogmatic entrenched positions it always does
Rather than imposing individual preferences or trying to enforce personal opinions on others perhaps it's simpler to just live your fab life the way it suits you and allow others the same courtesy....
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And acting in such a way which is known to spread diseases - potentially life -threatening - is not "enforcing personal opinions" ?
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
Cant comment on the first bit but not sure people bareback out of a lack of control. (Unless we're talking d*unken nightclub masses.) Choice and preference .
As I have tried to illustrate in the last question, it isn’t about “choice and preference” if the action is about being socially responsible.
“Choice and preference” in this context is simply a cover for “unrestricted entitlement”.
I dont believe it is no. Its entirely possible for anyone with half a brain to be 'socially responsible' and still get to choose how they enjoy sex?
I find it bizarre a choice between two people would be classed as entitlement.
Oh my, we aren't talking about "a choice between two people" though are we?
Well then I admit I dont know what you mean . "
Well to refresh your memory about the discussion in hand, the original post said "So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..".
So taken in the context that this is a swinging site, the point of which is to provide a platform for lots of people to meet lots of other strangers for recreational sex, it would seem that the discussion is around how risky is it to actively engage with random multiple sexual partners but not practice safe sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love bb. The way nature intended
So as HIV and STDs
You welcome "
Honestly mate, you're already a degenerate already being on this website as it. Stop with the purity test, oh I'm good Cuz I wear a Johnny. Oh good for you, but you're still a degenerate being on a sex website and forgoing a monogomous relationship.
Most people will look down on us.
Now come come here and suck my dick. No homo. |
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"Don't you find Russian Roulette much more exciting and less painful
lets face it, it's over in seconds, none of this long lingering painful demise stuff .....
Ah the usual Russian Roulette post, wonder how long it would take!"
Like the first one to mention Hitler in a political argument LOL |
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss.ur absolutly safe if u keep yer socks on! Lol but for me hell no!! With a trusted partner fire away x.."
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more?
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent. "
Seems quite specific but certainly do able. |
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
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It is very unlikely to become HIV infected (less than 0.01%) from straight bb sex with someone who is not in a high risk zone (iv drugs user, prostitute, etc). HPV is also the same and Herpes is visible to avoid when active and transmittable. For all the rest, if you’re unlucky, you can get treatment and its history in a week.
We never caught anything swinging bb within our “circle” |
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
It is very unlikely to become HIV infected (less than 0.01%) from straight bb sex with someone who is not in a high risk zone (iv drugs user, prostitute, etc). HPV is also the same and Herpes is visible to avoid when active and transmittable. For all the rest, if you’re unlucky, you can get treatment and its history in a week.
We never caught anything swinging bb within our “circle”"
I love how these topics go from ‘do you like bb’
To a full on education around sti transmission. |
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
It is very unlikely to become HIV infected (less than 0.01%) from straight bb sex with someone who is not in a high risk zone (iv drugs user, prostitute, etc). HPV is also the same and Herpes is visible to avoid when active and transmittable. For all the rest, if you’re unlucky, you can get treatment and its history in a week.
We never caught anything swinging bb within our “circle”
I love how these topics go from ‘do you like bb’
To a full on education around sti transmission. "
At the end of the day if you want to wrap yourself up in cling film its your choice and it doesnt affect me, same way my choices do not affect you.
Im not try to educate, google or the local nhs practise can do that |
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"So I would always use a condom. But a lot of women say bareback only. Is that a little irresponsible? Discuss..."
I’ve never seen a woman on here say bareback everyone I’ve seen is anti bareback,minus a few couples that is but as a rule 100 percent play safe and that’s the way it should be unless it’s your partner.Saying that it’s the choice of the people who do it just not for me!
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Couple of questions for the bbs who regularly have casual sex B.B. with strangers:
Have you ever caught an STD in your swinging career? If you did, would it make you stop barebacking with strangers?
If you were unfortunate to contract HIV/AIDS do you think you would a)stop and b) have any regrets ?
If you knew someone who contracted HIV/AIDS would that make you stop/have any regrets?
Here’s another question. Your car is probably capable of travelling at 100 mph. Would you ever consider driving st that speed down a busy high street say at school pick up time? Probably not. But is that due to self control or only the fact that it’s illegal?
It is very unlikely to become HIV infected (less than 0.01%) from straight bb sex with someone who is not in a high risk zone (iv drugs user, prostitute, etc). HPV is also the same and Herpes is visible to avoid when active and transmittable. For all the rest, if you’re unlucky, you can get treatment and its history in a week.
We never caught anything swinging bb within our “circle”
I love how these topics go from ‘do you like bb’
To a full on education around sti transmission.
At the end of the day if you want to wrap yourself up in cling film its your choice and it doesnt affect me, same way my choices do not affect you.
Im not try to educate, google or the local nhs practise can do that"
"it's your choice and doesn't affect me"
"same way my choices do not affect you."
Difficult to comprehend how anyone could believe that in any context, but there we are, it's in black and white.
An education, thank you. |
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"I love gangbang bareback!
With 5-6 ladies gangbanging you or more?
A little bit more as I want 4 ladies to massage my lovely feet, 2 to feed me with grapes, 1 to caress my hair, 2 to suck on my lovely penis and 2 shouting F&B you are the best with an icelandic accent. "
Don't forget me dripping lady lube into your chin afro |
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