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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? "
You managed to arrange 4 meets within a fortnight? Are you some sort of swinging jedi? 
Jealousy is unattractive so forget them, report abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? "
Ahh the veri jealousy monster pops it head up...I’ve seen this happen quite a bit. General advise from my point of view is don’t arrange more than one meet in a week and if you do don’t show your veris until you’ve met with both
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? I hadn’t displayed it but they knew somehow? How is that possible?
Ahh the veri jealousy monster pops it head up...I’ve seen this happen quite a bit. General advise from my point of view is don’t arrange more than one meet in a week and if you do don’t show your veris until you’ve met with both
MrsK x"
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? "
Congratulations on getting so many meets arranged. If you want to publish your verifications then publish them but some people seem to think that you're promiscuous if you have more than one meet a month/year/millennia.
You could hide your friends list and verifications and release them slowly or just do your own thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct?
You managed to arrange 4 meets within a fortnight? Are you some sort of swinging jedi?
Jealousy is unattractive so forget them, report abuse. "
I was thinking the same thing myself!
4. In a week! For a single guy? Hmmmm
But yeah, the jealousy thing happens |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct?
Ahh the veri jealousy monster pops it head up...I’ve seen this happen quite a bit. General advise from my point of view is don’t arrange more than one meet in a week and if you do don’t show your veris until you’ve met with both
MrsK x"
This, I liked to store my veri's up. Then release them all at once to cause as much mayhem as possible |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct?
You managed to arrange 4 meets within a fortnight? Are you some sort of swinging jedi?
Jealousy is unattractive so forget them, report abuse.
I was thinking the same thing myself!
4. In a week! For a single guy? Hmmmm
But yeah, the jealousy thing happens "
So cynical |
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A few years ago there was a popular gentlemen on the forums. He must of had time of work and had met about 4 of the forum women in that time. They where all thinking they where his number 1 until he published his veris at the end of the week. It was hilerious. The hissing and snarling went on for months |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I deleted because I meant to say Site? But predict type punched in “sure” lol
I posted a verification then received 3 abusive messages from 3 different people which was definitely uncalled for just because I had arranged a meet with them for later in the week or next week? Am I missing a trick or code of conduct? "
You're not really missing anything OP. Some won't like you meeting others when you're arranging to meet them. They may see it as you multitasking and not giving then all your attention on a build up to a meet. They may be focusing primarily on you and be a little miffed about that. People use this site in different ways and you can't please everyone. I wouldn't be too concerned about displaying your veris. Not everyone will be annoyed, like those women were....Though I will say, abusive messages shouldn't be tolerated.
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I once had three social meets organised over a couple of weeks.
Went to the first one, got a verify and published it.
Got home to continue the conversation with the other two, only to find they'd both blocked me.
I later found out they were friends and neither of them liked the lady who'd given me the verification.
If it was a shag I'd kind of understood, but it was only a social.
Crazy........
Don't sweat it op......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Three were only socials and 1 proper meet organised.. I’m honestly not bragging especially as I have nothing to brag about.. it was just the reaction I had which made me open up this post. |
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Some people don't have many meets, so can get to want to feel as 'special' as each one is for them, which they can lose if they perceive they're like the next hole on the list. Insecurities, differing expectations and maybe jealous that they missed out earlier.
I'd be curious what the complainants said |
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