I need some help deciding on what to do.
So I dated a women for about four months at the end of last year beginning of this year. Really nice women but I decided she really wasn’t for me, and we split on good terms. We had a few fun evenings shortly after and that was it. Not long later she gets with another fella to which I was quite happy for her.
Roll forward to this weekend and she messaged me to say hi, things got flirty and she ends up saying she needs to see me and for us to have an evening like we use to have. I kind of laughed it off and left it at that. Today I receive another message telling me what she needs me to do to her with a picture. I point out that she has a fella and is she sure she wants to be doing this, her reply was that she’s never been more sure of anything before.
So do I
A, give her what she wants (we had some really good times )
B, stay well clear ( I don’t want to get caught up in a relationship break up)
What do you gentlemen and lovely ladies think.
Mr Bump.
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over a year ago
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Personally I'd stay well clear, even though you had some good times together you ended it for a reason. Also it's not fair on the other guy if he doesn't know about it and it could get messy for you all.  |
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over a year ago
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C of course. Is this even a question? I thought it was obvious A + B = C.
Where is the playa in you? A booty call is a booty call guy. Step up to the plate. You got a second innings. So play it cool, do option A followed very swiftly by option B, I mean 'very' swiftly. Don't hang about, and get the hell outta that mess. Just watch out that option 'A' don't come back round again and bite you on the ass son 
. . . By the way just in case some take it too seriously that was a joke. Option B every time. Got to have some respect for yourself. If you don't do that for yourself then nobody else will. |
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"The right answer is B
most men would pick A "
The right answer is his decision,
You could just meet for a coffee you don't have to have sex with her, A lot of people meet up with their x partner then after quickly realise why they split in the first place |
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over a year ago
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"Follow your instincts "
Use the force Luke. Yoda, is that you? Get yo motha fkn ass off the line.
This is a serious issue and we got to give the dude some good advice.
Yeah like the other dude said. follow your instincts, then nail your torpedo down her exhaust chute and then fly the fck outa there before she done go explode in yo face.
We should call this Team Talk Tuesday. All the dudes can gather round and help each other out with stuff like this. |
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