Ok, you’ve got a new message. What do you do next?
Wife clicks on the profile first before reading the message then looks at the photos then reads the profile then after all that reads the message!
Hubby reads the message then reads the profile then looks at the photos.
Surely the wife’s doing things the wrong way round?  |
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"Ok, you’ve got a new message. What do you do next?
Wife clicks on the profile first before reading the message then looks at the photos then reads the profile then after all that reads the message!
Hubby reads the message then reads the profile then looks at the photos.
Surely the wife’s doing things the wrong way round? "
Sorry I’d agree with the wife   |
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over a year ago
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I always check the profile first..
I go to height first..
If under 6ft i dismiss immediately
If over, i look at pics and read profile..
If there are no pics i dismiss
If no profile to read i dismiss
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"I always check the profile first..
I go to height first..
If under 6ft i dismiss immediately
If over, i look at pics and read profile..
If there are no pics i dismiss
If no profile to read i dismiss
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Similar to this but 5'10" is my minimum! |
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"I always check the profile first..
I go to height first..
If under 6ft i dismiss immediately
If over, i look at pics and read profile..
If there are no pics i dismiss
If no profile to read i dismiss
Similar to this but 5'10" is my minimum!"
5’10” and a half.....just saying  |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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Check the pictures (are they hot)
Check the profile (can they construct a sentence)
Check the height (no taller than 5'7)
Do they smoke (hopefully not)
Check the veri's (have they fucked any wrong'uns)
Read the message (have they read my profile)
Probably leave message as unread and wait a few days for them to forget they messaged before deleting it.
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"Message then pics then profile then back to pics ..then wake up after having a dream about receiving mail  "
Usually I go in this order - Profile, pictures, veris then message.
I may alter the stages but always go through all stages. Then I decide if I will reply and if yes how to respond.
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"Depends on my mood, I don't like routine  "
Agree with this as don't have such a structured and standardised methodical approach to such, no right or wrong way, what matters is if the person or people match what your looking for....but also
its difficult to really judge a book by its cover...sometimes dialogue is the only way forward. |
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I get a glimpse at the message - but don't frequently check my inbox, when there's so much to do in the forum
From the glimpse - which shows if it's a FAF of some type, or a non-FAF message - I visit the profile. Look at the photos and then read the profile. Pretty much the same as the op's partner. |
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I usually see what the preview bit says, then click on profile before reading message. As if I am see from their profile that they are not for me then nothing they say in the message will change that |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I look at the profile first....if it reads like I might like them I look at the pics....if it looks like I might like them I open the message - if the profile is a bit pants I don’t bother with the rest |
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"Check the pictures (are they hot)
Check the profile (can they construct a sentence)
Check the height (no taller than 5'7)
Do they smoke (hopefully not)
Check the veri's (have they fucked any wrong'uns)
Read the message (have they read my profile)
Probably leave message as unread and wait a few days for them to forget they messaged before deleting it.
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Balls, I fall at the first hurdle for Mr Moriarty  |
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