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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening |
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Hi,no we haven't encountered that problem ourselves. What I would suggest is that you mention it either straight away or in your profile so that you don't get too far down the line.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening "
It’s their loss if they don’t go with you
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening "
It's not something that would bother us, but ultimately if someone isn't attracted to you for any reason, then forget them and move on... you won't persuade them that they're wrong.
The smallest of details can be enough to make someone attractive or otherwise, so concentrate your energy on those who would not those who won't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have back and leg problem can hardly more somedays so on days i feel up to meeting i look for a meet i got chatting and got told who the fuck.want meet u ? U are no good to anyone fuck off .
People forget we are all differant people may have something wrong with them or not look like a film star but everyone has feelings
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening "
Do you want to meet somebody that would do that?
Im guessing not... just move on and forget them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have back and leg problem can hardly more somedays so on days i feel up to meeting i look for a meet i got chatting and got told who the fuck.want meet u ? U are no good to anyone fuck off .
People forget we are all differant people may have something wrong with them or not look like a film star but everyone has feelings
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Report abusive messages. Don't let it bother you- it would have been a dreadful meet if they talk to you like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What idiots! Ive met a guy with cerebal palsy in a wheelchair off here. Im also arranging to meet a guy in a wheelchair as he is paralysed from the waist down. Makes no difference to me. If theyre cute who cares |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a bit fuckin shite …. so big deal you're on sticks - what's the problem with that ? We (MY wife and I) met a couple and they gut was wearing a bag .. but it was no big deal
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening "
Sod em op....anyway look on the brightside, at least you got to the conversation stage. 90% of the guys on here don't even make it to first base. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening
Sod em op....anyway look on the brightside, at least you got to the conversation stage. 90% of the guys on here don't even make it to first base. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening
Sod em op....anyway look on the brightside, at least you got to the conversation stage. 90% of the guys on here don't even make it to first base. "
Here here, i keep sending messages and they just get bulk deleted like many others. So annoying |
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By *ewelsssWoman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I am a wheelchair user , and also use sticks never had a problem , always said from the start about my health , met my special person on site 4 years and never looked back , don't give up , x good luck x |
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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Firstly, as a disabled person myself confined to a wheelchair with Cerebral Palsy (but not like No Voice Man), yet I live alone.
On my profile I've always been upfront and try to explain what wrong and also add humour to the profile and to any messages I send. Sometimes it works other times, nothing but I carry on and keep trying.
Its difficult when you try to explain on a site like FAB how a disability affect you.
Lastly, I also think people are scared by things that they don't understand. I would say to the able-bodied is ask questions, don't be afraid disabled people will try to explain and sort things between you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm paralysed from the chest down and use a wheelchair full time. I decided it was best to mention that I'm a wheelchair user in my profile, and have a public pic of me in it.
I've been blocked a couple of times when they learnt I use a chair, but so what? Saves everyone time.
I myself would never meet a guy in a chair. I don't see anything wrong with that. It's a preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. So I'm disabled and in a wheelchair and thus is my second time that I have joined and still don't seem to get any verification and hardly ever get any replies to my messages. I've tried being totally honest on my profile and taken it off and then mentioned it only for pretty much the same thing happens. I really don't know what to do anymore and really starting to loose my mind and faith in this site. Please if anyone has any suggestions or can help please do. Thank you everyone. |
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"Hi everyone. So I'm disabled and in a wheelchair and thus is my second time that I have joined and still don't seem to get any verification and hardly ever get any replies to my messages. I've tried being totally honest on my profile and taken it off and then mentioned it only for pretty much the same thing happens. I really don't know what to do anymore and really starting to loose my mind and faith in this site. Please if anyone has any suggestions or can help please do. Thank you everyone. "
Hello mate. Unfortunately numbers are stacked against us single guys. Having a decent positive profile and some good pics is only half the battle.
It’s not an instant thing success on here. You have to remain upbeat and you will meet people.
There are plenty of people from similar threads who say they will meet disabled people but the laws of attraction apply so it’s up to you to market yourself.
Are you able to travel to clubs and socials because that’s another great way of meeting people and becoming known as a decent reliable chap?
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. So I'm disabled and in a wheelchair and thus is my second time that I have joined and still don't seem to get any verification and hardly ever get any replies to my messages. I've tried being totally honest on my profile and taken it off and then mentioned it only for pretty much the same thing happens. I really don't know what to do anymore and really starting to loose my mind and faith in this site. Please if anyone has any suggestions or can help please do. Thank you everyone. "
You have only been here a week though. Give it chance and your status is negative. That won’t help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening "
People like this aren't worth your time anyway mate. Don't let it deter you though, a lot of shallow and small minded people in the online world, but there are a few gems about, albeit few and far between.. |
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"As soon as I say I'm disabled on crutches for walking it's end of conversation and often blocked any one else have this problem it's so disheartening
People like this aren't worth your time anyway mate. Don't let it deter you though, a lot of shallow and small minded people in the online world, but there are a few gems about, albeit few and far between.. "
Comments like this annoy me!
My close friends come in all shapes, colours and sizes. My husband and partners have been diverse.
However, the people I find sexually attractive and want to fuck casually via Fab and the like are not!
This is fantasy, and for some, fat, old, short, black, bi, disabled etc are not it!
Doesn't make them shallow or those of us excluded from individual choices inferior in any way!
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