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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no.  "
I'm single 100% and do not accommodate out of choice! It's perfectly acceptable for me to make that decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no.
I'm single 100% and do not accommodate out of choice! It's perfectly acceptable for me to make that decision. "
This and it should be equally acceptable for other people to also make that choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A) no, because my children live me
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B) no, because I live in shared accommodation
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C) no, because I don't feel comfortable having a stranger in my home...
there are so many genuine reasons! |
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By *MP3Man
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no.
I'm single 100% and do not accommodate out of choice! It's perfectly acceptable for me to make that decision.
This and it should be equally acceptable for other people to also make that choice. "
Absolutely, 100%  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no. "
You live in London, how many single people do you honestly know that can afford to live alone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says no, because I would never accommodate on a 1st meet or probably even a 2nd or 3rd. After a certain level of trust is gained though I'd be open to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually assume that when a guy says he can't accommodate then he has a partner. Could always accommodate at a hotel, wouldn't have to be his home but I think can't accommodate means can't stay out late or do full night meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually assume that when a guy says he can't accommodate then he has a partner. Could always accommodate at a hotel, wouldn't have to be his home but I think can't accommodate means can't stay out late or do full night meets. "
Surely this applies both ways as your profile says can't accommodate, so should guys assume the same of you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine says cannot accommodate because when it was set to can accommodate I had hundreds of messages from people who assumed they were invited over for some reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m definitely single, however just because I don’t accommodate doesn’t imply that I am not, I know all of my neighbours very well, some are also family! That’s my reason for not accommodating, nothing else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually assume that when a guy says he can't accommodate then he has a partner. Could always accommodate at a hotel, wouldn't have to be his home but I think can't accommodate means can't stay out late or do full night meets.
Surely this applies both ways as your profile says can't accommodate, so should guys assume the same of you? "
I assume when a female says can't accommodate it's because they have children at home. I know there are exceptions to the norm but when people split up the children usually reside with the mother.
Anybody that I was speaking to with a view to meeting would know that I'm child free every other weekend so if o wanted to I could stay out the night or have someone over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually assume that when a guy says he can't accommodate then he has a partner. Could always accommodate at a hotel, wouldn't have to be his home but I think can't accommodate means can't stay out late or do full night meets.
Surely this applies both ways as your profile says can't accommodate, so should guys assume the same of you?
I assume when a female says can't accommodate it's because they have children at home. I know there are exceptions to the norm but when people split up the children usually reside with the mother.
Anybody that I was speaking to with a view to meeting would know that I'm child free every other weekend so if o wanted to I could stay out the night or have someone over. "
That's fair enough, most cases the women do end up with the kids, but I'm sure there are quite a few single dads on here in the same situation or dads that fund their kids to a point they have to share accommodation. That said I'm sure there are also others that lie about such as a cover up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good debate, what we are finding isn't exactly the response that we are having difficulty with, its that once we ask if a guy can accommodate, contact usually finishes. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"My profile says no, because I would never accommodate on a 1st meet or probably even a 2nd or 3rd. After a certain level of trust is gained though I'd be open to it. "
Yep, this is me too.
I also prefer hotel meet initially, I don’t feel comfortable going to someone’s home straight off, I prefer neutral ground |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no.
I'm single 100% and do not accommodate out of choice! It's perfectly acceptable for me to make that decision. "
You're allowed not to, you're a woman. It's only single men who are required to accomodate. If they don't it's proof they're cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q : Are you definitely single?
A: Totally,100%
Q: Perfect, can you accommodate then?
A: Ermmmmmmmmm,no.
I'm single 100% and do not accommodate out of choice! It's perfectly acceptable for me to make that decision.
You're allowed not to, you're a woman. It's only single men who are required to accomodate. If they don't it's proof they're cheating."
i would agree with u but i say it unfair on most single men who are genuinely single  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually assume that when a guy says he can't accommodate then he has a partner. Could always accommodate at a hotel, wouldn't have to be his home but I think can't accommodate means can't stay out late or do full night meets.
Surely this applies both ways as your profile says can't accommodate, so should guys assume the same of you? "
Don't be silly, that would require people to be fair.
The bottom line is that no-one cares if a woman is cheating. "Single" woman are sufficiently scarce that no-one wants to look to closely. Single men are two-a-penny, so they can be discarded at will without diminishing the supply. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Good debate, what we are finding isn't exactly the response that we are having difficulty with, its that once we ask if a guy can accommodate, contact usually finishes."
Their profile should tell you if they can. Mine says can't accommodate and people ask anyway. I also end contact when that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good debate, what we are finding isn't exactly the response that we are having difficulty with, its that once we ask if a guy can accommodate, contact usually finishes.
Their profile should tell you if they can. Mine says can't accommodate and people ask anyway. I also end contact when that happens. "
can we just use a park bench ffs |
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